Sucks ass...

11/9/2006 12:30:10 AM

its never a right time to say good bye but you know you gotta go your seperate ways you know its hardd but you gotta do it you gotta make the best move cuz if you dont your gonna start hatin you and its never a right time right time to say good bye

11/9/2006 12:31:35 AM

inevitably, people will give you shit about complaining about it(this is TWW).... but it truly does suck........ best of luck dude

11/9/2006 12:32:36 AM

I want to just call her up and say that I love her all the time, but if you're single, thats called stalking...

11/9/2006 12:32:52 AM

^^thanks

The worst part is that I turn on the tv so I can just forget about it for a while and there are all the holiday commercials with the married couples and happy singalong shit Son of a bitch I'm turning Emo. Fuckin A.

[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 12:37 AM. Reason : .]

11/9/2006 12:33:33 AM

i hear ya man, im goin through the same damn thing and theres nothin i can do to fix it, just sucks after all this time all i got was its not gonna work out, i thought i deserved alittle more than that. good luck man

11/9/2006 12:36:29 AM

Sorry, dude... It is rough... Hope things get better for you soon...

11/9/2006 12:37:22 AM

we dated 6 years

and thanks for the support guys, it does help.

[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 12:38 AM. Reason : .]

11/9/2006 12:37:59 AM

damn, ya got me by a few years

11/9/2006 12:38:43 AM

Why did you break up?

11/9/2006 12:40:20 AM

shes an engineering student with like 2 jobs

I think I could have been more affectionate though. I think I was a little too much of a hard ass. alot of it is probably my fault

[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 12:41 AM. Reason : .]

11/9/2006 12:40:53 AM

who broke up with who? i called my girl one day to go out to dinner and all she said was that it wasnt goin to work out after 2 years. I know it was my fault, i worked alot, but i never even saw it coming, i guess the one positive is, ive lost 10 lbs b/c of it

11/9/2006 12:45:34 AM

it only sucks for about 2 weeks

until you meet someone else

11/9/2006 12:45:49 AM

^^kinda ended up like that although she said she'd been feeling weird about it for a couple of weeks. I don't know. I still love her, thats all.

[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 12:46 AM. Reason : .]

11/9/2006 12:46:46 AM

i feel ya, im the same exact way, i've done everything i can think of to try and save it, but now she wont even talk to me

11/9/2006 12:47:43 AM

yea, I'm going to try and see how it goes.

[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 12:48 AM. Reason : .]

11/9/2006 12:47:44 AM

6 years = half my heart. I mean i've been through alot of shit. Military, lost my dad at 18, farm, etc...but this is the first time i've cried in 10 years

I'm going to sleep it off now. gnite/thanks

[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 12:49 AM. Reason : .]

11/9/2006 12:49:26 AM

good luck with that, hopefully itll turn out alot better for you than it did for me

11/9/2006 12:50:19 AM

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that'll sum up everything that tww has to say

11/9/2006 12:52:29 AM

been there, still hurts, still sucks. i know how ya feel

11/9/2006 12:54:54 AM

best thing for real is to let it all out.

every tear is a memory, so get em all out while u still can...and its still possible to get her back if u want her back, its her choice it seems pretty much, but maybe after 6 years its time for something new...people change, lives change...

its inevitable, death and taxes man, death and taxes...but best of luck to u.

11/9/2006 1:00:28 AM

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"it only sucks for about 2 weeks until you meet someone else"

I know you're trying to cheer him up, but thats the biggest load of BS I've ever heard.

11/9/2006 1:01:28 AM

the truth is that you wont feel better until you let yourself feel better

thats on your own terms

and after 6 years, its going to take awhile

take your time but try to work toward a new life

when you think you're ready to put it all behind you, you will

give yourself time to cry and be sad but eventually you won't cry anymore

everyday you're closer to the end of feeling like you are now

11/9/2006 1:14:22 AM

...is hard to do...

11/9/2006 1:27:39 AM

Get yourself shitfaced. Mope around for a couple of days.

...

Then get your ass in gear and start looking through the meat market.

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"we dated 6 years"

Damn, man. that sucks. (That you broke up after so long, not that you spent six years with the person.)

11/9/2006 1:35:16 AM

nothing a few beers wouldn't fix.


temporarily at least.

11/9/2006 1:50:32 AM

good luck. take your time, don't do anything before you really think about it.

11/9/2006 3:22:57 AM

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"she said she'd been feeling weird about it for a couple of weeks"

she was fucking someone else behind your back for some time now and developed more feelings for that guy than you, so now she felt weird being with you

shit happens, go out with your buddies, get some fresh coug, and dont listen to music or watch movies you watched with her... give it time

11/9/2006 4:07:24 AM

don't try to reconciliate with her. in fact, don't even communicate with her until you've gotten over her. if i were you, i'd delete her cell phone #, email, AIM name, whatever. don't talk to her at all, not for a few months anyway. you'll need some space to get used to being single again.

11/9/2006 6:35:17 AM

that sucks dude, i'm sorry


Thats weird though to just in a couple of weeks decide a 6 yr relationship is over out of the blue, and not warn you. Take the other fellows advice, dont talk to her right now.
I had a 3yr one but it ended rockily (not saying that wasn't in part my fault), and it was kinda obvious something had to either change or end.

11/9/2006 6:56:54 AM

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"I want to just call her up and say that I love her all the time, but if you're single, thats called stalking..."

You don't need to be single for that to still be creepy.

Seriously though, the worst thing you can do is wallow in this. You're not going to get over it any time soon, but it does get better. Get out, find your friends, get a hobby. If you have to cry, do it, and then get out. Keep moving forward.

[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 7:02 AM. Reason : .]

11/9/2006 7:00:41 AM

Break-ups suck so much more for guys usually because they have to make a conscious decision to start dating again. Women are approached consistently and it makes it easier I think.

Good luck!

11/9/2006 7:10:43 AM

^very true

11/9/2006 7:12:42 AM

Meh, being single isn't that bad either, I saved so much time and MONEY - now that Im dating a new chick I spend $texas every freaking night. Singularity has its benefits. Plus, it's nice not to have someone judging me and bitching at me for drinking, golfing, picking friends>her, etc.

Moving to a new town is a great way to help this solution too, btw.

[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 7:47 AM. Reason : ]

11/9/2006 7:46:26 AM

You know, I'd second that. A change of scenery could be good if you've been in this for 6 years with her. Move to a bigger city, perhaps.

11/9/2006 9:38:55 AM

drugs will numb the pain.

11/9/2006 9:39:33 AM

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"every tear is a memory"

Now that is some gay shit right there.

In all seriousness....go get some new poon tang. It wasn't until I went through a few new girls that it made me say to myself, "this girl wasn't the end all be all." Just don't jump into another relationship.

And do all that shit they tell you to do. I already went to the gym on a regular basis, so I couldn't really do that. But I pretty much did stuff with my friends whenever possible. Played a lot more raquetball and basketball...went out more to watch games and have a few beers. It's common sense stuff...but its hard to do when all you want to do is mope around.

11/9/2006 9:40:57 AM

I know of 2 different 5 year relationships that ended yesterday

must be that time of year

11/9/2006 9:45:41 AM

All breakups are for the best.

11/9/2006 10:48:25 AM

at least you will not have to buy her a Christmas present

11/9/2006 10:50:23 AM

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SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOMMMMMMMMMMMMMEEEEETIIIIIIIIIIIIIMEEEEEEES!

11/9/2006 10:54:09 AM

BLAME IT ON THE RAINNNNNNNNNN

11/9/2006 11:01:03 AM

oh well, my coworkers are awesome as hell. I actually slept pretty well last night except for the dream bubble of her with some dude i know...fuck it though, I'm CrazyWade

Its time to man up like a mofo.

11/9/2006 11:20:00 AM

^But its good to here things are at the beginning of the path to getting better.

11/9/2006 11:27:55 AM

So you fucked the black chick yet? Get you some pitty pussy dawg.

11/9/2006 11:29:05 AM

^nah, I was kind of messing around in that thread. I can't have sex with someone just like that. I'm going to refrain from sex until marriage...

yea, i was thinking about it this morning. I have a life to live. I can't dwell on something that I have no control over. That just makes me a dweller and I hate dwelling. I hate being depressed. I'm going to go to the bathroom and flex in the mirror...



[Edited on November 9, 2006 at 11:32 AM. Reason : .]

11/9/2006 11:30:33 AM

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"I can't dwell on something that I have no control over."

excellent point, sound like you are on the right track...

11/9/2006 11:40:05 AM

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"I actually slept pretty well last night except for the dream bubble of her with some dude i know."

office space. ummm yeah... right there, yeah...

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"excellent point, sound like you are on the right track..."

i know he's just saying that for now, but in about 2 mins he'll think about her again and get depressed.
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it gets less and less sad each time. you just have to move on through.

11/9/2006 11:49:39 AM

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"I'm going to refrain from sex until marriage..."

Thats your first problem.

11/9/2006 11:52:56 AM

breaking up is haaaaaaaaaard to dooooooooo

11/9/2006 12:01:07 PM