Bf forgot my bday this week and ive mentioned it or he has asked 4 times in the last month. NO text, no phone call, no im. Excusable or not?

1/31/2007 3:04:35 PM

drop the zero and get with the hero

1/31/2007 3:06:27 PM

post pics and i will make the decision based on your appearance

1/31/2007 3:06:33 PM

He might be building it up. But we need pics to make a better judgement.

1/31/2007 3:07:21 PM

go have sex with a friend of his, then when you get back to the house he'll have a surprise party waiting

1/31/2007 3:07:43 PM

He's bangin someone else and this is his way of getting you to break it off.

1/31/2007 3:07:51 PM

Pretty sure I'm always the one of the only posters who is optimistic and believes in people.

1/31/2007 3:09:01 PM

yeah thats pretty much inexcusable

1/31/2007 3:09:46 PM

IM ASKING IF IT IS EXCUSABLE OR NOT! IM NOT ASKING WHY

1/31/2007 3:10:01 PM

ARGUMENTS FOR INEXCUSABLE OR EXCUSABLE?

1/31/2007 3:10:48 PM

No it's not.


drop the zero and get with the hero
He's bangin someone else and this is his way of getting you to break it off.

1/31/2007 3:11:09 PM

you dont seem that pissed so its excusable. Call him out on it and be like fuck off.

1/31/2007 3:12:34 PM

LOL

1/31/2007 3:13:16 PM

how long have you been together is the most important questions here

1/31/2007 3:13:56 PM

Is your birthday today? If yes, then somewhat excusable cause he might be setting something up.

Birthday already pass? If yes, then not excusable. Maybe he died though.

1/31/2007 3:14:04 PM

I am pissed about it, the one thought i do have is i told him we were celebrating this weekend, so maybe he thought that is when you say happy bday.......on the weekend??? I dont know

1/31/2007 3:14:20 PM

you should post naked pictures of yourself on here to get back at him. THAT WILL SHOW HIM!!

1/31/2007 3:19:52 PM

if he forgot because he doesn't care, it's not excusable.

if he had a braindead thing going on today and forgot, it's excusable.

People make too big of a deal about their birthdays anyway.

1/31/2007 3:21:24 PM

been together 11/2 years

1/31/2007 3:22:33 PM

11/2 = 5 1/2

1/31/2007 3:23:42 PM

eh, if you've been together for 5.5 years, and he forgot, then somethings wrong.

1/31/2007 3:23:57 PM

1 year and a 1/2

1/31/2007 3:24:32 PM

It's excusable. Shit, I'm still not sure what day my brother's birthday is and I've known him for 21 years.

1/31/2007 3:25:04 PM

yeah, definitely fuck one of his friends. that'll show him

[Edited on January 31, 2007 at 3:25 PM. Reason : INEXCUSABLE]

1/31/2007 3:25:21 PM

Unless he planned a secret vacation/surprise party for this weekend.

1/31/2007 3:26:23 PM

dont ya think he still would have said hey happy bday on my actual birthday?

1/31/2007 3:26:55 PM

maybe he did forget.

but really, what's the big deal?

other than the fact that it's a big deal whenever it happens on TV.

1/31/2007 3:28:50 PM

If he's been very busy lately then i suppose it is.

If he's a dumb college kid with no real responsibility besides video games and school then just move on.

1/31/2007 3:30:11 PM

if you've been together since you were 17, it won't last anyway

1/31/2007 3:32:55 PM

damn.... he wouldn't want to be my man



[Edited on January 31, 2007 at 3:39 PM. Reason : yah year and a half! FUCK him! totally not OK]

1/31/2007 3:38:03 PM

Quote :

"NO text, no phone call, no im"

So you don't actually physically see your bf?

Is he a chatroom bf or something????

1/31/2007 3:38:25 PM

a year and a half
lol what would you do to him?

1/31/2007 3:38:30 PM

not put out until his birthday

1/31/2007 3:40:39 PM

Quote :

"Is he a chatroom bf or something????"

1/31/2007 3:41:35 PM

no he was out of town this week

1/31/2007 3:42:10 PM

my fiancee didn't get me anything for my birthday so stfu.

1/31/2007 3:42:25 PM

depends on how much time has passed since your bday
on your bday = very caring, you're the most important thing in his life
next day = forgive him if he was busy and simply forgot but still remembered the next day
> next day = inexcusable, jokingly remind him say "oh yeah it was my bday 2 days ago", then put the ball in his court

if he provides a slick response, dump him, cuz he's probably slick in other ways
if he provides a lame response, dump him, cuz he ain't very smart

so either way dump him > next day LOL

1/31/2007 3:48:49 PM

...why the hell wouldn't it be excusable?

1/31/2007 3:50:05 PM

lol i like that

1/31/2007 3:50:08 PM

depends on how much time has passed since your bday
on your bday = very caring, you're the most important thing in his life
next day = forgive him if he was busy and simply forgot but still remembered the next day
> next day = inexcusable, jokingly remind him say "oh yeah it was my bday 2 days ago", then put the ball in his court

if he provides a slick response, dump him, cuz he's probably slick in other ways
if he provides a lame response, dump him, cuz he ain't very smart

so either way dump him > next day LOL

1/31/2007 3:51:16 PM

Highschool relationships don't last anyway.

1/31/2007 3:53:50 PM

So how many PMs have you gotten since you started this thread?

1/31/2007 3:54:02 PM

it all depends on if you are hot or not

if you are not hot, its excusable b/c you might not get any dick for a while unless its TWW dick

if you are hot, its not excusable and you get my dick

1/31/2007 3:54:25 PM

pm me your number and I'll tell you happy birthday And pm me his number and I'll tell him to fuck off.

1/31/2007 3:56:36 PM

It is definitely excusable i mean dang, i dont know what the date of the day is half the time, let alone whose birthday is on that day, give the guy a break

1/31/2007 4:14:29 PM

that is pretty fucked up

wait until the end of the day

1/31/2007 4:18:13 PM

I'll help ya get over it, hit me up

1/31/2007 4:20:42 PM

thanks for the reminder. my moms birthday is sunday.


seroously, some people just suck with dates and remembering shit like that. i'm one of those

1/31/2007 4:26:55 PM

while it's an awful thing to do, it's an excusable thing. i mean shit, i've forgotten my MOTHER'S birthday...that was a SERIOUS mistake. she still takes me out to lunch

you can be angry for a bit, but then forgive him and move on after you've talked to him about it.

[Edited on January 31, 2007 at 4:31 PM. Reason : ]

1/31/2007 4:29:44 PM

i don't know my dad's birthday...it's January something (i know mom's only because it's 11/11 and the day after USMC Birthday, which is always a big celebration)

I have no idea what ANY of my grandparents' birthdays are--even what months they're in (and I'm close to all of them).

i don't remember my girlfriend's birthday. it's early to mid December.

Hell, I have to stop and think about how old I am sometimes.



I would say that it's a pretty inconsequential thing, really. At the very least, there are bigger things to worry about. If he's good to go in general, I wouldn't sweat forgetting your birthday at all. Don't miss the forest for the trees.

1/31/2007 4:33:56 PM