else's computer....especially the chick you're seeing.

He will be receiving an email from himself shortly...let's call him "John"

Dear John,
I know you think that dropping loads into various women is a sign of true manhood, but perhaps you should consider quality over quantity. You should also consider a penis enlargement and perhaps a razor or two. Oh, and your head skills could use some work, I could suggest a book written by a phillipino chick that I know.

Good luck in the future!
Love,
John


Seriously dude...I don't really mind you discussing our sex life with your friends and referring to a night with me as 'dropping two loads' but when you're dropping those loads into more than just me, you should probably be a little more careful about where you check your email...because now you won't be dropping any of your loads anywhere near me. wtf

11/30/2009 2:08:24 AM

uh oh

11/30/2009 2:09:40 AM

damn. fuck that shit.

11/30/2009 2:13:51 AM

Maybe you shouldn't be a snoop?

11/30/2009 2:14:27 AM

its not really snooping if it is YOUR computer

i mean if someone leaves their gmail up and you just see something suspicious are you not supposed to look??

whenever my bf leaves his facebook logged in on my computer it takes me a few seconds to figure it out. cause i start looking at people's status updates and i'm like "who the f are these people"

then i realize it isn't mine!

11/30/2009 2:15:29 AM

Ahh, the old "crack on his penis size and sexual abilities now that I'm bitter and scorned" card. Sad. It sucks that you have been cheated on, but try not to be such a cliche, m2c.

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 2:16 AM. Reason : ]

11/30/2009 2:15:54 AM

i hate to agree with Kurtis, but simply breaking up with him and never telling him why would probably work wonders

11/30/2009 2:19:19 AM

m2c i'm going to still feel sorry for you no matter how many people jump on the "get over it" bandwagon

11/30/2009 2:20:27 AM

well yeah, fucker shouldn't have left his email open....I mean really, I was asleep next to him when he picked up my computer to check his email. Technically he never asked if he could use it...and then to know that just 20 minutes later that jerk was dropping another load into me??? Just sort of stings. We aren't exclusive so he didn't do anything actually wrong. But after reading about how he described a date of ours to his friend, 'she took me out to sushi and then I dropped two loads' is a tad fucked up considering he was doing his laundry in a number of other washing machines.....

11/30/2009 2:20:45 AM

Quote :

"We aren't exclusive so he didn't do anything actually wrong"

i dunno dude. i want to be on your side, cause it totally sucks but...you weren't exclusive and he is a male.

what did you expect?! i mean if you weren't exclusive.

11/30/2009 2:22:15 AM

Just FYI, I'm totally co-opting the term "dropping a load into" to describe fucking.

11/30/2009 2:22:54 AM

If it was understood to not be exclusive then really the only cause you have to be upset is that he used a crude term to describe banging you.

11/30/2009 2:24:29 AM

H8R and Kurtis....I more or less wanted to reference things he had written in other emails, one including his encounter with a phillipino woman who read a book on sucking dick apparently. But not the phillipino with a kid, the other one.....mind you this all takes place within a couple months.

I'm going to sleep on this before I send it because I know right now I'm pissed....but his best friend is the son of one of my mom's best friend's so I need to be careful. Even though it was him who this emails were exchanged with...and it was him who set us up..... wtf

thank you Luna

11/30/2009 2:25:10 AM

especially if you weren't exclusive...

m2c, you know better than that

11/30/2009 2:25:13 AM

I don't have a problem with how he describes banging me. I didn't think we were 'making love' but he was always trying to get me to do it without a condom and seemed disturbed at my reasoning why I wouldn't... I do have a problem with the fact that he describes sex with me the same way as sex with some random philipino chick. The fucker could have at least used a different term

^I know......he didn't do anything wrong....I guess I just thought he thought it was more serious

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 2:29 AM. Reason : ]

11/30/2009 2:28:12 AM

i've unfortunately come to learn that guys see relationships and sex wildly different from women in general - and it's hard to come to terms with.

11/30/2009 2:30:07 AM

11/30/2009 2:34:43 AM

I honestly have no problem with the dropping loads description. A while back I asked him to tell me what he had said to his friends about a certain evening and he told me and I it actually was a bit of a turn on....it's that clearly, getting sex whenever he wants it from ME isn't enough.....and that he describes these other chicks, as being 'whores' or 'random' is the shitty part

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 2:38 AM. Reason : he didn't use the 'dropping loads' term....it was something else...]

11/30/2009 2:37:20 AM

11/30/2009 2:40:00 AM

so.. you're not exclusive and you're ok with him saying dropping a load in you.


and you're pissed ?


lol.... are you fucking serious.


you're acting like a dumb slut. Shut the fuck up and know what you are.... .nothing else.

11/30/2009 2:40:45 AM

well you were conceived by your father dropping loads into your mother so how one describes it doesn't change what it is.


I could call it fucking too...does that make it any different?

11/30/2009 2:46:19 AM

you're basically saying you're mad because he mentioned other girls... when you're not exclusive.


and then youre saying you're mad because he described you in some other way " dropping loads into "... but you say you're ok with that



what the fuck are pissed about. you're just someone he's fucking... and you knew that.


Get over yourself. Realize you're just a cum dumpster and nothing else.

And dont even say you arent... because you're ok with it. Unless you're delusional and think you're something else.


Seriously... stop lying to yourself.

11/30/2009 2:48:28 AM

mytwoloads

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 2:50 AM. Reason : fuck]

11/30/2009 2:50:16 AM

^^I'm certainly not about to get into an argument with someone like you. Good day sir!\

^hah......oh wait

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 2:50 AM. Reason : ]

11/30/2009 2:50:29 AM

GUESS THAT PUSSY AIN'T PREMIUM.

Quote :

"THAT UNLEADED PUSSY"

11/30/2009 2:50:30 AM

Only if you got all bent out of shape.

So, let me see if I've got this straight. What you're upset about is that you thought even though you weren't exclusive you thought it would be soon, but now that you've seen it in writing you realize that you are just another one of the "randoms" or "whores" that he drops loads into and you're going to get all pissy about it.

Either tell him you no longer want to continue your present arrangement, or don't mention it. I don't think getting pissy about about reading an email describing a situation you were well aware of is going to do any good for anyone.

11/30/2009 2:50:48 AM

I'm sorry m2c. His loss tho, right! Go find a decent man. They do exist, I promise.

11/30/2009 2:52:40 AM

Hey M2C... you're hot enough to fuck but not date.


let me dump some loads into you.

lol

^ decent man.. ?... are you fucking serious. She doesnt want a decent man...and if she says she does she's fucking lying to your face.

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 2:58 AM. Reason : x]

11/30/2009 2:53:51 AM

^^^In all reality I think I'm more pissed at myself for thinking that he thought it was more serious than I did. I'm not really sure what I'm most pissed about and I realize that I'm probably being irrational right now....but I haven't sent this and may decide in the morning that it would be stupid to do so. Perhaps I should use this as a 'I think we should have that talk' now moment. Because if he says he doesn't want to be serious then at least I'll know that I asked the question before anyone actually did anything wrong.....I don't know. This is what I was looking for...you guys talking this out with me

^^Few and far between but I know they're out there....they just seem to be taken

^um. no

11/30/2009 2:57:19 AM

He sounds like a dick.

DO NOT DATE!

Unless you like dating dicks because you're scared of a nice guy that you could actually have a serious relationship with.

11/30/2009 2:59:23 AM

Oh, don't worry, "the talk" will not result in a relationship in this particular case, for several reasons that I won't go into now because I'm going the fuck to bed.

11/30/2009 3:01:16 AM

good luck sloot.

11/30/2009 3:02:39 AM

^^^

^^oh I know it won't...but then I don't have to feel guilty for bringing up 'the talk' too early because clearly, it was always going to be too early...

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 3:03 AM. Reason : ]

11/30/2009 3:03:16 AM

I never really understood open relationships once you've started having sex with a guy. I guess I'm a prude that way.

11/30/2009 3:03:49 AM

11/30/2009 3:14:00 AM

Quote :

"droppin fuckin loads"

11/30/2009 7:19:31 AM

DO NOT send that email. Just be the bigger person. You're an adult, right? A simple, "I'm just not that into you," will suffice.

Don't even waste time thinking about it.

11/30/2009 7:26:53 AM

Just because he left his email open doesn't make it okay to snoop through and open them all. Even if it is on your computer.

And if you say you aren't exclusive, then what is the problem? You can't get upset about him fucking other girls if that's the case. He is allowed. If you want o warrant getting pissed about him fucking other girls besides you, put a ring on it. No one did anything wrong aside from a little male jackassery on his part and some sneaky snooping on m2c's part.

11/30/2009 7:32:09 AM

11/30/2009 7:36:20 AM

i agree. if someone leaves their myspace/facebook/email up on YOUR computer it's fair game. especially if it's your significant other.

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 7:38 AM. Reason : ]

11/30/2009 7:38:32 AM

i call taking a shit dropping a load, so he is shitting on you

11/30/2009 7:38:58 AM

...or IN her.

11/30/2009 7:40:28 AM

Maybe him dropping loads was actually referring to pooping.

11/30/2009 7:41:04 AM

Quote :

"phillipino"

it's filipino

Quote :

"And if you say you aren't exclusive, then what is the problem? You can't get upset about him fucking other girls if that's the case. He is allowed."

agreed...it makes you a slut, which is cool if that's what you want to do, but sluts have absolutely NO right to complain about their fuckbuddies sleeping with other people

Quote :

"i agree. if someone leaves their myspace/facebook/email up on YOUR computer it's fair game."

yes and no...if you happen to see something that's on the screen because they left it open, that's fair game since you didn't actively look for anything...if you start digging looking for anything, that's just rude

that said, if i saw something that looked suspicious, i'd probably click on it or investigate it (read the email, facebook message, whatever)...but snooping without cause is uncalled for

[Edited on November 30, 2009 at 7:49 AM. Reason : .]

11/30/2009 7:45:44 AM

Quote :

"it makes you a slut"

do what

11/30/2009 8:04:37 AM

can we get an update on the leg status over there? it has been some time

I'm AstralAdvent and i approved this message.

11/30/2009 8:05:52 AM

they're wrapped around the neck of some other dumbass now

11/30/2009 8:10:02 AM

Quote :

"do what"

Quote :

"Slut or slattern is a pejorative term for a person who is deemed sexually promiscuous."

IMO, a person who sleeps around without any intention of monogamy, who also doesn't "have a problem with how he describes banging me" is a bit on the slutty side

i'm just confused as to how she thinks she has any reason to get pissy about him sleeping with someone else when it's obvious that she knows they're not exclusive

he sounds like a real winner...mytwocents has always come across as a dumb bitch, and this does nothing but reinforce the idea

*shrug*

11/30/2009 8:28:42 AM

Doesn't she have a her own blog about her promiscuous exploits?

Hi pot, I'm a kettle.

11/30/2009 8:30:41 AM

^ it might be on here...i can't spend more than 30 seconds on the site without becoming overwhelmed with the extreme level of suck, so i don't know where it would be

http://thespinzone.com/

11/30/2009 8:33:28 AM