So why is that I've been fucking the same dude for months now....been naked in front on him plenty of times, but now that we're going on vacation and I'm going to be in a bikini, I'm all self-conscious This lead to a discussion with some friends about how it's easier to be naked (when having sex for instance) vs being in a bikini at the beach.

plz to opine

4/14/2010 12:00:22 AM

Because you are comfortable attention whoring in front of him and the internet but not complete strangers in real life?

4/14/2010 12:02:08 AM

duh. hundreds of ppl will be looking at your body and judging it instead of just one. and hes gonna know if his opinion of your looks is accurate or not from the looks on everyones faces.

4/14/2010 12:02:36 AM

^^nah....that doesn't make sense. I mean if I was fine in a bikini in front of other people and not fine being naked then I could see that making sense....but not here...

^sounds plausible. Also, sounds scary

[Edited on April 14, 2010 at 12:04 AM. Reason : ]

4/14/2010 12:03:47 AM

cuz when youre naked he's paying more attention to the fun parts. bikini covers the fun parts, so he's gonna pay more attention to everything else. at least that's what i do.

4/14/2010 12:03:55 AM

I misread this as baking naked is easier than baking in a bikini. my subconscious mind must have determined that regardless of what you're wearing, you should be in the kitchen.

4/14/2010 12:04:16 AM

for me, it's the light.

i've been with my husband for 8 years. and i still feel weirded out doing it in broad day light. and when you're naked and bwning, you have less time for examination.

4/14/2010 12:04:20 AM

^^trust me....you don't want me anywhere near the kitchen. I burn water. True story.

^yeah that sounds very plausible too....the light does scare me sometimes.

4/14/2010 12:05:56 AM

Maybe because the bikini straps pull against your body forming 'shapes' in your body that aren't there when you are naked.

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4/14/2010 12:06:31 AM

^SHIT JUST GOT REAL

4/14/2010 12:07:24 AM

when you're getting laid you're happy and don't really care because you're getting laid

when you're not getting laid you're not happy and really care about shit because you're not getting laid

4/14/2010 12:07:25 AM

i get over this by just being completely disgusting and never leaving my house

4/14/2010 12:07:55 AM

sunlight is totally not as forgiving as florescent lights.

4/14/2010 12:08:38 AM

what beach? There is probably going to be stiff competition, you better worry!!!

4/14/2010 12:08:45 AM

Well I'm currently on a crash diet. This will surely end well.

4/14/2010 12:09:05 AM

what a shitty attn whoring thread

4/14/2010 12:09:07 AM

The key variable is the population that sees you naked vs. in a bikini. You could always just go to a nude beach or buy a premium bikini. Problem solved!

4/14/2010 12:12:36 AM

Quote :

"^SHIT JUST GOT REAL"

there is some sense to be made from that

4/14/2010 12:12:40 AM

OBC GETS NAKED IN RIVAL THREAD EXXXPOSED???

4/14/2010 12:17:10 AM

I have the perfect Tdub solution.
You should post pictures of yourself both naked, and in a bikini, and we will determine where the flaws are.....

4/14/2010 12:41:08 AM

You would rather him look at your boobs then your busted face?

4/14/2010 1:00:54 AM

^^wins

4/14/2010 1:01:53 AM

In the end, it is due to you being a silly woman. You are willing to get naked with him, but not be in a bikini around him. You either A) value the opinions of people that you are not fucking more than the person you are fucking... or B) think he will find you less attractive in a bikini than he does when you are naked. Either way, you are overthinking this grossly and need to just learn to be comfortable with who you are.

If he is willing to stop fucking you because of the way you look in a bikini as opposed to completely naked, then he has his own issues that really warrant no concern as far as your body self-image goes.

Get over it, wear the bikini, fuck him on vacation, and move the fuck on with your life.

4/14/2010 2:04:50 AM

/thread

4/14/2010 2:07:29 AM

Epilogue: Pics, please!

4/14/2010 2:09:36 AM

Stop being fucking creepy.

4/14/2010 2:10:46 AM

4/14/2010 2:11:08 AM

wanting to see naked girls isnt that creepy

4/14/2010 2:28:26 AM

yeah but asking said girls for siad pictures without them offering anything of the sort is.

4/14/2010 2:40:59 AM

The Internet is serious business.

4/14/2010 2:47:09 AM

nobody wants to see spontaneous's ween anyway

4/14/2010 2:47:56 AM

It's true. I'm disappointed most of the time.

4/14/2010 2:52:23 AM

4/14/2010 3:01:29 AM

Quote :

"Maybe because the bikini straps pull against your body forming 'shapes' in your body that aren't there when you are naked. ( ( ( vs. | | |"

....common sense from my boyfriend. i'm impressed.

i do have to agree with Golovko though because i was thinking the same thing while reading this thread until i got to his post. it's like putting on underwear that's too tight or "dents in," .....you might be the only one who sees it but it can still make you feel uncomfortable or a bit self conscious.

plus i think the whole stigma that people put out there about "getting your perfect bikini body." behind closed doors, the only person you have left to judge you is yourself.

[Edited on April 14, 2010 at 8:07 AM. Reason : i can't spell]

4/14/2010 8:06:47 AM

Seeing as you are in good shape and look tall and thin, you are being neurotic. Your body looks fine, you are insecure for no reason at all and need to get over it.

If you are more comfortable being naked with him than being in a bikini on the beach, go to the beach naked. He'll enjoy it and everyone will too, unless you become really fat or old.

4/14/2010 8:30:04 AM

I don't wanna be that guy, but she's had that picture on here for many moons. She could be fat as hell by now.

4/14/2010 8:34:25 AM

Go to a nude beach. Problem solved.

4/14/2010 8:38:58 AM

does m2c have a boyface?

4/14/2010 8:40:54 AM

Like you unscramble the JPEG and it's Randy Johnson underneath.

4/14/2010 8:47:14 AM

how about because when your fucking your moving around and into eachother, the lights may be dim, whatever and hes not staring at your body. At the beach your laying on the sand or he is seeing you from afar walking towards him

4/14/2010 8:49:18 AM

4/14/2010 9:01:09 AM

WINNER

4/14/2010 9:01:20 AM

m2c is a first-ballot HOF'er

must be nice to know that you're the best southpaw in the live ball era

4/14/2010 9:05:35 AM

bikini = in public

sex = just him

how fucking hard is this?

4/14/2010 9:15:58 AM

Quote :

"^^nah....that doesn't make sense. ^sounds plausible."

They said the same goddamned thing.

4/14/2010 9:17:40 AM

I have to agree with the OP here

I'd rather be naked than in a bikini any day of the week

4/14/2010 9:25:27 AM

Yeah, Slave... you seem more like a one-piece guy to me.

Also, I want it to be known that ncstatetke asked me before posting if I thought Randy Johnson was the best lefty pitcher ever, to which I countered with Sandy Koufax despite overall wins.

[Edited on April 14, 2010 at 9:28 AM. Reason : x]

4/14/2010 9:27:41 AM

You're both wrong

Its Lefty Grove

4/14/2010 9:34:00 AM

Quote :

"Yeah, Slave... you seem more like a one-piece guy to me."

gold

4/14/2010 9:37:18 AM

We'll keep this on topic for now.

[Edited on April 14, 2010 at 9:38 AM. Reason : edited]

4/14/2010 9:38:22 AM