Somewhere in the past year or so I started coming on to my S.O. in my sleep often resulting in intercourse. Does anyone else have this "problem"? I'm not complaining, I am aware of it the next day but it's always a tad hazy. She is usually awake reading or so for an hour after I fall asleep, I haven't ruled out her starting it but I am pretty sure it's initiated by me.

11/23/2010 11:33:19 PM

I am asleep, fucker

11/23/2010 11:34:36 PM

my husband is not a sleep fucker. every time i try to touch him when he's asleep he rolls away or slaps me

11/23/2010 11:37:01 PM

but sleep fucking is great!!!!!

it's like I had a dreammmm......wait!!!....that was real.

11/23/2010 11:53:32 PM

that's kinda creepy

11/23/2010 11:57:01 PM

i passed out in a supposed friends bed once after too much alcohol and drugz and woke up to some sleep fucking. we won't friendz no mo after that

11/23/2010 11:58:29 PM

^ now that is scary

and not cool at all, to said friend to do that.

11/23/2010 11:59:58 PM

The thread is about sleepfucking, not rape.

11/24/2010 12:03:22 AM

it's a fine line

11/24/2010 12:04:49 AM

happened to me before...pretty awesome dream...oh wait what...that's not a dream...sweet

11/24/2010 12:05:16 AM

I'm afraid if I were sleeping next to a stranger it would be rape

11/24/2010 12:39:54 AM

come sleep next to me boo

11/24/2010 12:49:45 AM

11/24/2010 12:55:53 AM

As a kid I used to have a reoccurring dream of my step-dad getting me to slide a banana in and out of my mouth.

11/24/2010 12:57:47 AM

http://www.sleepassault.com

11/24/2010 3:01:54 AM

I have this "problem". I find it to happen more often if I have sex/fool around before going to bed and don't get off.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sleep_sex

Quote :

"Sleep sex or sexsomnia is a form of non-rapid eye movement (NREM) parasomnia (similar to sleepwalking) that causes people to engage in sexual acts such as masturbation, fondling, sexual intercourse and sexual assault or rape while they are asleep. The proposed medical diagnosis is NREM Arousal Parasomnia - Sexual Behaviour in Sleep, and is considered to be a distinct variant of sleepwalking (ICSD 2). There are often unpleasant consequences associated with sleep sex and it has been used as a criminal defense in rape cases.[1] Other negative effects include feelings of shame and embarrassment and also can cause relationship issue and stress.[2] Those who suffer from sexsomnia have confusional arousals and rarely remember the event. People who have a history of doing other sleep activities such as sleepwalking or sleep talking are more likely to exhibit sexsomnia episodes. Factors that may increase episodes of sleep sex are alcohol, sleep deprivation or even sleep apnea and other sleep disruptions.[3] Sexsomnia episodes could be triggered by the contact with bed partner.[4] In some cases sexualised movements during sleep could be caused by sleep related epilepsy which results in sexual arousal, thrusting and orgasms. Simple sexualised movements could be also associated with REM sleep disorders. If rape has been committed, it can be psychologically and physically devastating to the individual."

11/24/2010 10:18:14 AM

Yeah. Actually, mine is more like a very-bottom-of-consciousness kind of thing, probably because I'm such a horny bastard. Lots of times I ain't quite sure about what I'm doing until I'm fully aroused and ready to go, and then, if she's willing and things get going, all of a sudden I find myself awake and goin' down to pound town.

Never was a problem until my last longterm relationship, and then it became one part of our demise. But then she was a dead fish with not much sex drive. In retrospect, I'm absolutely glad she broke off the engagement and I ended up leaving about 6 months later. That happened almost exactly one year ago. She ended up being one of the worst relationships I'd ever had, and far from memorable.

The last one had NO problem with it, and was always ready to go. Middle of the night all the time. That one started getting sort of stressful because we never got any sleep when we stayed together. Or if we did, it was interrupted by unconscious fooling around that developed in to very conscious marathon sex.

11/24/2010 10:38:36 AM