Do you guys get much flak from black women when you date outside of your race?


Also, lol I can only think of about 7 heterosexual black males on TWW. I should have just emailed them.

2/4/2011 6:02:23 PM

Black women give the best flak

2/4/2011 6:06:07 PM

My question to black women is: Why are you taking relationship advice from Steve Harvey?

2/4/2011 6:07:09 PM

Im not a noob if that's what you mean.

2/4/2011 6:08:43 PM

I can only think of about 2 black women that post here

Snewf, I'm afraid we've missed our target audience

2/4/2011 6:09:19 PM

I used to piss off my mom when she'd say "When you get married your wife won't put up with that mess" and I'd say "I'm sure some white girl will."

2/4/2011 6:09:27 PM

I once saw an inter-racial couple and I gave them a very stern look. I think they learned their lesson and they will be going to heaven now.

[Edited on February 4, 2011 at 6:10 PM. Reason : separate heavens, of course]

2/4/2011 6:09:39 PM

Last time I hung out with my friend Lena, she told me "...i don't care what you do...as long as you don't date a white girl"

I wanted to shit in her mouth

2/4/2011 6:12:19 PM

But how did you feel about what she said?

2/4/2011 6:13:31 PM

I felt that she was wrong.

And told her ill date whomever I choose.

2/4/2011 6:16:30 PM

2/4/2011 6:19:09 PM

I can understand why it pisses off black females. They feel like all of the decent black males want to date outside of their race like it is some status symbol. They are left with the blue collars or ex cons (no harm intended, just talking about $).

I don't understand why a black dude would want to date a white chick anyways; Usually she is just in it for the money and prolly has a racist daddy.

Anyways, lots of generalizations here, but this just means more black chicks for me

[Edited on February 4, 2011 at 6:21 PM. Reason : #]

2/4/2011 6:19:51 PM

2/4/2011 6:22:20 PM

They should learn to be polite about it and not say anything even though they think its wrong and just say its wrong to their friends when you are gone



... like white people do

2/4/2011 6:24:24 PM

As I sit in ruby tuesdays, pretending not to notice the old lady sitting next to me at the bar looking at my phone, I now regret clicking on this thread in public.

2/4/2011 6:25:42 PM

in before the gay porn

2/4/2011 6:26:24 PM

damn racists

black women can be attractive, too

2/4/2011 6:28:12 PM

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"Last time I hung out with my friend Lena, she told me "...i don't care what you do...as long as you don't date a white girl""

Lena has ruined our chance at lurve

2/4/2011 6:37:53 PM

According to Save the Last Dance: Yes.

2/4/2011 7:03:34 PM

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"My question to black women is: Why are you taking relationship advice from Steve Harvey?"

Dude, no one should listen to Steve Harvey for shit. I 10000000% agree.


Basically, I quit dating or even generally associating with black women a long time ago because of the shit you get for being attracted to someone of another race, and I'm only half black. So these black women were telling me I could only date black women, even though I'm half white, and I'm the PRODUCT of an interracial relationship.


Right. Tell me that my parents, who raised me to be tolerant and accepting of everyone, were wrong. That's a surefire way to get your point across.

2/4/2011 7:24:02 PM

The fact that interracial relationships are still taboo in this country annoys the fuck out of me. Well the fact that there are still people who are racist annoys the fuck out of me too. This isn't the fucking dark ages.

[Edited on February 4, 2011 at 7:43 PM. Reason : no pun intended]

2/4/2011 7:43:17 PM

well it stems from the fact that if you look at the marriage stats, black women and asian men are the ones being screwed, they might have to start marrying each other

2/4/2011 7:47:30 PM

^ftw

2/4/2011 9:06:11 PM

wow, there are a lot more black males on TWW than I had previously thought ಠ_ಠ

2/4/2011 9:07:06 PM

I can honestly say that I don't think I've ever seen a black woman/asian man couple IRL

2/4/2011 9:18:57 PM

I can speak on this.


Nope. Most of her best friends are black chicks.

seriously though, i think we've moved beyond that nonsense for the most part, most people agree that you need to be happy and that aint race specific

i never once was afraid to bring any kinda female to my momma, or my cousins or my aunts...but they ignorant they gave me shit about it for a few seconds lol


^^^^i dont think IR relationships are taboo no one really bats an eye at it, its only taboo if im jealous that that white boy over there landed that bad ass sista...lol

thats partly serious...but in a joking way

[Edited on February 4, 2011 at 9:21 PM. Reason : sx]

2/4/2011 9:19:21 PM

constantly

2/4/2011 9:26:31 PM

nicklepickle can relate

2/4/2011 9:27:32 PM

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"my momma, or my cousins or my aunts"

in your situation (you being the guy), I would think the hate comes more from the other fish in the sea, not so much your family

2/4/2011 9:30:32 PM

I hate that black men are stealing all of the white women.

I also hate that white men are stealing all of the white women.

I also hate that they steal women of other races as well.

2/4/2011 9:32:20 PM

Lena is a racist fuckstick

2/4/2011 9:32:37 PM

Steve Harvey makes me so angry.

I can't believe I ever thought Mr. Hightower was a cool dude.

2/4/2011 9:32:45 PM

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"in your situation (you being the guy), I would think the hate comes more from the other fish in the sea, not so much your family "

the other fish in the sea are just jealous that they're being deprived from that big black bait.

[Edited on February 4, 2011 at 9:34 PM. Reason : .]

2/4/2011 9:33:22 PM

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"I wanted to shit in her mouth"

that is so gross but it made me laugh uncontrollably!

2/4/2011 9:36:24 PM

that's what I do

2/4/2011 9:37:34 PM

EMCE. Might I suggest http://www.blackpeoplemeet.com ?

2/4/2011 9:39:02 PM

how do you feel about white men stealing some of the black women? My brother stole one and married her.

2/4/2011 9:39:28 PM

JUNGLE FEVER

2/4/2011 9:40:17 PM

I still don't know how one steals a woman


like... did your brother put her in his pocket, and casually shuffle his way out of the black woman outlet store?

2/4/2011 9:46:12 PM

she is rather petite. hmmmm...let me check my sources.

Sources say no, there is no such thing as a black woman outlet store, JEFF.

2/4/2011 9:51:01 PM

2/4/2011 9:56:13 PM

Chris Rock thinks the root problem is that black women (in general) are not attracted to white men--unless they are rich/famous, or maybe models.

2/4/2011 10:30:01 PM

^Generally people are attracted to others of the same race more than people from other races.

Quote :

"I can understand why it pisses off black females. They feel like all of the decent black males want to date outside of their race like it is some status symbol. They are left with the blue collars or ex cons (no harm intended, just talking about $)."

Worse than that, men who aren't black are less likely to be attracted to them: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/
It is a bit better for black lesbians: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/same-sex-data-race-reply/
Then again the numbers may not make it seem that way: For every 2 blacks in this country, there are about 14 non-blacks, and about 11 of them are non-Hispanic white.

2/5/2011 12:05:49 AM

I often find the sisters ain't got they minds right and their view of success is different than mine


Plus most times their attitudes are piss poor

I keep em at arms length and no closer cuz they are good friends but not so great partners



[Edited on February 5, 2011 at 12:11 AM. Reason : D]

2/5/2011 12:10:18 AM

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"lol I can only think of about 7 heterosexual black males on TWW"

how about brothers on the DL

[Edited on February 5, 2011 at 12:17 AM. Reason : or black faggots

2/5/2011 12:16:27 AM

There's a shitload of dl brothas round here my girl tells me how they hit on her gay friend when they go to gay bars

He'll while the gay dude lived here he'd point the niggas out that he fucked and I'd be like "u gotta be bullshittin dude HIM!?"

It's wild they are dudes I'd probably cross to the other side of the street for you really couldn't pick em out

2/5/2011 12:26:41 AM

BTW when I made that edit I was referring to a different class of black men, those who not only have sex with other men but also identify as something other than straight: http://straightguise.com/

2/5/2011 1:00:02 AM

In other words black faggots

2/5/2011 1:02:23 AM

The point, however, is that a man isn't gay or bi just because he has sex with another man; he has to be attracted to more than just their dongs or the prospect of anal or getting sucked or jerked off.

Therefore "brothers on the DL" is not a subset of "black faggots"

2/5/2011 1:07:01 AM

blaggots

2/5/2011 1:15:02 AM