So, me and my guy broke up monday with the intention of trying to stay friends w/ benefits. Last night (wed) we both went to a restaurant w/ friends. I left early ~1030 and he asked if I wanted him to leave w/ me and so we could go have sex. The entire night he hasn't touched me or flirted or made any moves, just springs it on me as I'm about to leave. So since he hadn't even attempted to warm me up I just went home.
so I texted him around 1230 asking if he'd got home safe cause he'd been drinking and he said not home yet so I was like whatever, and went to bed. But then he texted me at 3am telling me he'd made it home. I asked him what kept him out so late (figuring some of our friends must have rolled into the restaurant later) and he told me that yes, some of our friends arrived, and he ended up taking one home with him and having sex with her.

So, I'm pissed off. I shouldn't be, but fuck you all, I am, and damnit, he spent the last 7 months telling me how in love he was with me when I'm just kinda meh about him-- I would have broken up with him months ago, but he's bipolar and when he's drunk and we fight he mentions how he'd like to throw himself under a train. And then we do finally break up and he's not even that upset AND he fucks the first girl he can.

Okay, so anyways, what I need advice on is this:

Should I tell him I slept with a guy on Tuesday night?

6/23/2011 10:25:18 PM

I'll sleep with your crazy ass if it will help your situation out

nutso

6/23/2011 10:27:43 PM

yeah, play games with the suicidal bipolar dude. that's a great, mature decision.


for all you know he was just telling you he fucked someone to get under your skin. texting him at 1230 was you playing games with him, not checking up on him.

your best play is to do nothing

6/23/2011 10:27:48 PM

I'd sleep with Emce

6/23/2011 10:28:23 PM

yeah dont be a dumb cunt

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 10:30 PM. Reason : haha post was at the OP, but it works for lunak's post too! ]

6/23/2011 10:29:40 PM

iop1

both your mental states appear to be too conflicted to make any kind of decision regarding each other that won't hurt the other. if you can't BOTH handle the friends/benefits choice without getting antsy about whatever the other person is doing, do yourselves both a favor and just go ahead and draw the relationship to a close. seriously, it'll be better for you both in the long run

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 10:32 PM. Reason : .]

6/23/2011 10:29:49 PM

C word really isn't necessary

6/23/2011 10:30:15 PM

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"yeah, play games with the suicidal bipolar dude. that's a great, mature decision."

and why are people so fucking sensitive about "the C word"

i mean, it is an awful word that i can't make myself say IRL

but still

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 10:31 PM. Reason : d]

6/23/2011 10:30:38 PM

This will end well.

6/23/2011 10:31:22 PM

He's just acting so blase about it, its making me even more mad. He said "it was just sex. I still love you deeply".

wut?

6/23/2011 10:31:49 PM

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"So, me and my guy broke up monday with the intention of trying to stay friends w/ benefits."

Stopped reading there.

6/23/2011 10:32:45 PM

what the fuck did you expect him to say

6/23/2011 10:33:05 PM

lunak, i made a , so you can tell it was the endearing form of cunt

6/23/2011 10:34:03 PM

in on page one. should have dumped him when you were meh and he was omgi<3u. leading guys on is fucking lame... even if they are psychotics.

6/23/2011 10:34:40 PM

talk about fat girls talking about sex all the time...

I'm AstralAdvent and i approved this message.

6/23/2011 10:35:26 PM

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 10:35 PM. Reason : -]

6/23/2011 10:35:26 PM

yeah dragging out the relationship didn't help anyone

6/23/2011 10:35:35 PM

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"and why are people so fucking sensitive about "the C word" i mean, it is an awful word that i can't make myself say IRL but still"

HAHAHAHAAHAHAHA

6/23/2011 10:35:42 PM

I am ball-less when it comes to break ups This is why I dont like serious dating-- I tend to do whats best for them and not me. Doormat much??

blah

6/23/2011 10:35:48 PM

6/23/2011 10:36:29 PM

~let it all out~

I'm AstralAdvent and i approved this message.

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 10:36 PM. Reason : ^talk about good timing]

6/23/2011 10:36:31 PM

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"yeah, play games with the suicidal bipolar dude. that's a great, mature decision. for all you know he was just telling you he fucked someone to get under your skin. texting him at 1230 was you playing games with him, not checking up on him."

6/23/2011 10:40:36 PM

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"Should I tell him I slept with a guy on Tuesday night? "

Wanna sleep with a guy tonight?





















jk

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 10:44 PM. Reason : -]

6/23/2011 10:44:14 PM

i pm'ed a caricature of my dick already, thus calling "dibs"

6/23/2011 10:45:22 PM

6/23/2011 10:52:37 PM

classy.

6/23/2011 10:54:56 PM

observing the three posts by ALkatraz in this thread i have determined he is the guy in the story

that's pretty fucked up

she's trying to push him over the edge y'all

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 10:55 PM. Reason : y]

6/23/2011 10:55:21 PM

A caricature penis lol

6/23/2011 10:55:30 PM

he sent it to me too

he def exaggerated its features

6/23/2011 10:56:19 PM

DUH THATS WHAT A CARICATURE IS

DO YOU REALLY THINK MY DICK LIKES GOING CANOEING?

6/23/2011 10:57:34 PM

sounds like you both deserved each other

oh and iop1

6/23/2011 10:58:16 PM

i think your dick's creepy smile was the most unsettling part

i was unphased by the canoe

6/23/2011 10:58:49 PM

just go sleep with more guys

you appear to have a nice enough chest to not have a problem finding someone else to fuck

that'll teach him

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 11:01 PM. Reason : you two can turn it into a contest!]

6/23/2011 11:00:44 PM

You broke up, move on. Also guys CAN have sex without having feelings for one another. Hell most guys mentally bang about 200 chicks a day, probably while you're bitch ass is nagging and he's checking out chicks over your shoulder. Quit being a tard.

6/23/2011 11:04:00 PM

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"DUH THATS WHAT A CARICATURE IS DO YOU REALLY THINK MY DICK LIKES GOING CANOEING?"

Bwahahahaha!! Love it

6/23/2011 11:09:34 PM

fuck that dude. don't speak to him ever again. seriously.

6/23/2011 11:11:43 PM

cut your ties.

6/23/2011 11:15:29 PM

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"You broke up, move on. Also guys CAN have sex without having feelings for one another. Hell most guys mentally bang about 200 chicks a day, probably while you're bitch ass is nagging and he's checking out chicks over your shoulder. Quit being a tard."

6/23/2011 11:17:13 PM

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"so I texted him around 1230 asking if he'd got home safe cause he'd been drinking"

You're a great friend. You let your drunken friend drive his ass home and endanger himself and everyone else, but at least you have the courtesy to make sure he can do it again next week...

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"and he ended up taking one home with him and having sex with her. So, I'm pissed off. I shouldn't be, but fuck you all, I am"

Next weekend, don't blow the opportunity for dick.

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"but he's bipolar and when he's drunk and we fight he mentions how he'd like to throw himself under a train. And then we do finally break up and he's not even that upset AND he fucks the first girl he can. "

He played you.

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"Should I tell him I slept with a guy on Tuesday night? "

What? Grow the fuck up. What do you seriously plan on accomplishing? Are you just trying to make him jealous out of some sick twisted revenge plot in your head to get back at him because he boned someone else and you're not supposed to care. Get over yourself. You're broken up. Move on and shut up, it looks like has.

And God damn, you said you didn't even love him, yet you're acting like some immature bitch who's just trying to tug his dick around to get it back with you. You can't eat your cake an have it too. You're either broken up and he can fuck who he likes (including you if you so desire), or you're together and he should only be fucking you. You can't break up and expect him to keep his dick to himself.

6/23/2011 11:17:27 PM

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"DO YOU REALLY THINK MY DICK LIKES GOING CANOEING?"

LOL

And, I tend to agree with this:

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"for all you know he was just telling you he fucked someone to get under your skin. texting him at 1230 was you playing games with him, not checking up on him."

6/23/2011 11:18:31 PM

I never understood the big deal surrounding C U Next Tuesday (but I also think it's a funny word)


I think I would be more offended by someone calling me a slut

6/23/2011 11:18:44 PM

What the fuck is all this "C-Word" bullshit on the Internet?

Just say cunt. The bitch is acting like a cunt.

6/23/2011 11:20:23 PM

there is of course the possibility that he lied about the other girl to, very effectively I might add, get a rise out of you since you didn't take him up on the dicking

6/23/2011 11:21:24 PM

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"Should I tell him I slept with a guy on Tuesday night? "

no, you should actually sleep with a guy

oh yeah, and pretend like you don't care.

[Edited on June 23, 2011 at 11:24 PM. Reason : \/ probably not]

6/23/2011 11:22:22 PM

do guys lie about having sex very much? (is that a dumb question?)

6/23/2011 11:22:23 PM

shouldn't friends with benefits imply that he should be able to fuck other people?

6/23/2011 11:24:42 PM

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"observing the three posts by ALkatraz in this thread i have determined he is the guy in the story"

After reviewing my three posts, I, too, conclude that they're very weird.

6/23/2011 11:30:45 PM

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"do guys lie about having sex very much? (is that a dumb question?)"

welcome to the internet lolz

6/23/2011 11:30:48 PM

What he did was assholish, you didn't deserve that....but at the same time you set your self up hun.

6/23/2011 11:35:35 PM

Set em up

6/23/2011 11:36:49 PM