http://www.rhrealitycheck.org/blog/2008/07/15/get-real-the-great-noorgasmfromintercourse-conundrum

This read is kind of disturbing to me. Granted she did not say where her 70% study comes from but I was just going to poll our little TWW community of ladies.

11/28/2011 9:40:01 PM

Not a lady, but why is it disturbing? This is pretty common knowledge, no?

[Edited on November 28, 2011 at 9:42 PM. Reason : x]

11/28/2011 9:41:15 PM

Any female that replies "no" to this thread, has clearly not slept with me

11/28/2011 9:42:15 PM

This thread is going to hit 10 pages by tomorrow. My gf does about %50 of the time.

11/28/2011 9:42:16 PM

I didn't know a large majority of women don't orgasm with just intercourse. I guess I am just really surprised and not necessarily disturbed.

11/28/2011 9:42:55 PM

itt qntmfred logs in as punchmonk.

11/28/2011 9:43:53 PM

Any female that replies "no" to this thread, has clearly slept with me

11/28/2011 9:44:01 PM

TWW is full of don juan's who hit the g spot every time, but in the real world it's not really exactly a big secret that a lot of girls don't orgasm from JUST intercourse.

11/28/2011 9:44:10 PM

^^^^and you are currently marinating kid 3, correct?

[Edited on November 28, 2011 at 9:45 PM. Reason : a]

11/28/2011 9:44:13 PM

i read the bold stuff in the article.

what did i miss that was important?

I know some girls who def don't have the problem though.

11/28/2011 9:44:37 PM

Quote :

"in the real world it's not really exactly a big secret that a lot of girls don't orgasm from JUST intercourse."

11/28/2011 9:44:51 PM

No way that number is correct

11/28/2011 9:44:56 PM

sometimes I do, sometimes I do but it takes a while, and sometimes I don't

11/28/2011 9:45:00 PM

well, I honestly don't know much about sex at all and more prudish than most, I would say. I just don't know things.

11/28/2011 9:45:05 PM

Quote :

"But overall, if and when women want to reach orgasm when intercourse is involved, they're going to have to be doing something else WITH intercourse to get there -- such as manual clitoral stimulation"

Important. So if you rub it during, you don't count.

11/28/2011 9:45:23 PM

^^this is funny because you are like a pro at baby making

11/28/2011 9:45:59 PM

it sounds like that article is written for people who don't know to use the clit.

Not to say that's the one and only thing to do, as it says, they need to take whatever makes them orgasm when masturbating and get it during sex.

BONUS

11/28/2011 9:46:19 PM

I can attest that the difference b/w 30+ yo women and 20yo women is amazing

11/28/2011 9:47:17 PM

^^^ what I was getting at with my previous post

[Edited on November 28, 2011 at 9:47 PM. Reason : a]

11/28/2011 9:47:22 PM

I have had at most 5 orgasms without any extra clitoral stimulation. I have also had surgery to remove polyps in my cervix and vagina, and have lots of scar tissue.

11/28/2011 9:47:56 PM

now THAT turned me on

11/28/2011 9:48:31 PM

11/28/2011 9:48:57 PM

Quote :

"it sounds like that article is written for people who don't know to use the clit."

It sounds like an article that is saying JUST FROM INTERCOURSE and specifically mentioned NOT using direct stimulation on the clit...

(though I didn't read it all, so maybe I'm wrong?)

11/28/2011 9:49:12 PM

Quote :

"I can attest that the difference b/w 30+ yo women and 20yo women is amazing"

Well, according to the chart, we need to be looking into the 40-50 age group female tennis competitions

Quote :

"It sounds like an article that is saying JUST FROM INTERCOURSE and specifically mentioned NOT using direct stimulation on the clit..."

wtf, yes, that's what I was saying. I think.

The article almost presupposes that the both the reading audience and the people who sent them the mail

a) don't use the clit during sex
b) apparently either the woman doesn't say what she wants or if she does they don't do anything about it

[Edited on November 28, 2011 at 9:51 PM. Reason : ]

11/28/2011 9:49:44 PM

yeah this statistic is not surprising

11/28/2011 9:49:58 PM

^hey buddy I need to get off too k

11/28/2011 9:50:17 PM

iop1....

11/28/2011 9:52:03 PM

Quote :

"wtf, yes, that's what I was saying. I think."

LOL, I'm a retard. I just figured you were saying that sarcastically like, "hey maybe these morons should......"

11/28/2011 9:53:11 PM

i usually don't have a problem with it - kind of depends on whether or not he knows what he's doing though

11/28/2011 9:53:58 PM

That's why I'm a pro at eating box.

11/28/2011 9:54:00 PM

being a vegan. I don't participate in sexual intercourse. But from what I hear, the orgasms means that they have demons in them that need to be released.

11/28/2011 9:54:45 PM

NO

but that's only because I have yet to bone DJE

11/28/2011 9:54:59 PM

NyM likes to fuck em real slow from the back while whispering David Wright's home/road splits in her ear

11/28/2011 9:55:09 PM

I'd say I climax vaginally most of time when I have intercourse.....but typically that's after foreplay where I have already gotten at least one orgasm

11/28/2011 9:55:36 PM

^^LOLOLOL

and I meant to say Not all the time...not just a NO

11/28/2011 9:56:22 PM

just so it's clear, this is talking about straight fucking with no clitoral stimulation

that 70% probably drops to 10-15% if the partner is allowed to use all the tools at his/her disposal

11/28/2011 9:56:24 PM

It depends, but other stimulation goes a long way

11/28/2011 9:56:39 PM

If it doesn't work just do whatever it takes to get the job done, problem solved.

11/28/2011 9:57:12 PM

Quote :

"Making it a goal to reach intercourse through orgasm alone not only isn't a realistic goal, it's probably going to keep you from having sex you really enjoy. "

wat

11/28/2011 9:57:55 PM

losthokie is one of like three, maybe four people in this thread to actually understand what the article is saying.

[Edited on November 28, 2011 at 9:58 PM. Reason : ^ lol, that hurts my head]

11/28/2011 9:57:59 PM

Women, really, you do need to speak up during sex.

Srsly some women just won't speak up even when being asked over and over again what they're thinking and what they want. It's not a goddam game show with me as the host. And then I stop doing something and she's like "you had me going and you had to stop!" Christ, it's your fucking fault for sitting there like you're bored

11/28/2011 9:58:25 PM

i love you NyM

11/28/2011 9:58:35 PM

Quote :

"Making it a goal to reach intercourse through orgasm alone not only isn't a realistic goal, it's probably going to keep you from having sex you really enjoy. "

wat


the writer didn't proof read
at all

[Edited on November 28, 2011 at 10:00 PM. Reason : .]

11/28/2011 9:59:12 PM

TLDR

11/28/2011 10:00:45 PM

Quote :

"reach intercourse through orgasm alone"

lol

11/28/2011 10:00:54 PM

Making it a goal to reach intercourse through orgasm alone isn't a realistic goal.

11/28/2011 10:01:12 PM

Yes women speak up you aren't gonna hurt my feelings if you point me in the right direction if you want something.

11/28/2011 10:01:16 PM

Quote :

"Again, for most women, making it a goal to reach orgasm during intercourse is a bit like making it a goal to find that elusive pot of gold held by a cute little leprechaun at the end of the rainbow."

LOL

11/28/2011 10:02:08 PM

Quote :

"reach intercourse through orgasm alone"

hahahahahahah

I do talk during sex so that is prob how the goal is achieved (with a lot of ear kissing).

11/28/2011 10:02:44 PM

Quote :

"I'd say I climax vaginally most of time when I have intercourse.....but typically that's after foreplay where I have already gotten at least one orgasm"

Then for the sake of this article that doesn't count. This is talking wham bam thank you mam orgasm.

From what I understood it at least...

[Edited on November 28, 2011 at 10:04 PM. Reason : ]

11/28/2011 10:02:55 PM