He's quickly approaching couch territory tonight

4/27/2012 7:46:45 PM

so you're saying I have a shot?

4/27/2012 7:49:17 PM

^

4/27/2012 7:52:41 PM

If he's not careful possibly

And he just came in the room to dig himself into a deeper hole so...........

4/27/2012 7:55:49 PM

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"And he just came in the room to dig himself into a deeper hole"

Sounds like he's doing all right to me.

[Edited on April 27, 2012 at 7:58 PM. Reason : where's the problem? ]

4/27/2012 7:58:11 PM

tell us more about your relationship troubles.

tww is here to help.

4/27/2012 8:09:53 PM

lol it's totally fucking dumb and wouldn't make sense if I explained it. Long story short he still needs to learn that sometimes it's just better to say, "I'm sorry," and leave it be than try to explain to me why he decided to act like an ass.

4/27/2012 8:18:31 PM

her SO is actually a dog, in the dog house, digging holes and stuff

4/27/2012 8:18:58 PM

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4/27/2012 8:20:18 PM

^^ I've been found out

4/27/2012 8:23:15 PM

gettin the drama on tdub will make it end faster, surely.


be the bigger woman. accept his apology, ignore when he's putting his foot in his mouth and remember that there'll always be something to make you even madder later on.

4/27/2012 8:51:50 PM

I am perpetually glad I don't have one

4/27/2012 9:05:35 PM

this thread is sure to help things

fuck Japan

4/27/2012 9:11:53 PM

^^having sexual relations would surely impede your quest for 100k

4/27/2012 10:43:21 PM

I'm not particularly sure what the point of this thread is. You know that I read TDub and had to realize that I would see this thread.

Well congratulations on doing something you said you'd never do: air our dirty laundry out in public.

Well, let's air some fucking dirty laundry.

_______________________________________________________________________

Events as I saw them: (Set for TWW)

We're in the kitchen, I'm going to make some fried rice with the rice you brought home. I start cooking the oil and garlic, throw in the rice and immediately start realizing the error that I could ever fry rice in a non-nonstick pan. In the middle of realizing I'm turning some OK rice into a glutinous ball of crap, you ask me if I was putting any vegetables in, I answer no. You recommend a bag of frozen peas, to which I (some begrudingly because I'm in the middle of trying to salvage this rice) grab the bag out of the freezer, throw some peas into the colander and turn the hot water on.
Realizing that I can't cook the rice and defrost those peas at once, I ask you to come up and help. Now all the fucking rice is sticking to the pan and I'm having to fight it.

You then ask: "Is that enough?"

I reply: "I need them fully defrost, I need them hot" -Here's where it gets murky, you say I said this and was "giving you lip." I don't deny that I had a tone in my voice, as stated before I was in the middle of fucking up some rice and not happy with myself.

You clarify: "No, is that enough peas, as in quantity?"

I realize: "Yeah, that's fine." - I've now realized the original gist of your question and in my mind the situation is over, we misunderstood each other at once, and now we're back on the same page.

At this point you hand me the colander, I dump the peas in and go back to trying to salvage the rice. You take the bag of the rest of frozen peas and while walking behind me say something to the effect of "Well, you didn't have to say it with a tone."

Mind you this is 30-45 seconds post misunderstanding. I've already well moved on from the whole thing, shelving it as a misunderstanding.

I feel backstabbed...literally, you said it behind my back, not to my face. I had no idea it was coming and felt that it was a completely un-called for thing to say.

I lost my temper and yelled at you in your face "I DIDN'T MEAN IT THAT WAY."

That was wrong and I admit it. I shouldn't have yelled at you and have already tried to apologize for this. Again, see it in writing. I am sorry.

You throw the bag of peas at me and run out of the room.
___________________________________________________________________________

So there you go TDub, that is as unadulterated as I can get it. There's the first bit of dirty laundry, here's the next:

My thoughts:

I felt completely betrayed with the comment about "saying it with a tone." What I thought was simple misunderstanding was instantly escalated with a comment I feel was undeserved and unfair.

I came into the room where wolfpackgrrr was hiding out from me and told her that if I had meant to say it with a tone, I would have been using a tone long before the misunderstanding and long after it.

Me losing my temper was wrong.

___________________________________________________________

So there you go Tdub, a drama bomb over some dumbfuck peas and rice.

I'm not interested in judgement or anyone's opinions. I just thought that if we're going to air out laundry, to make sure it's fully aired out.

When my wife reads this in the morning, I want her to know that I love her very much and that I don't want to continue this fight tomorrow.

4/27/2012 11:34:01 PM

shit just got real

[Edited on April 27, 2012 at 11:36 PM. Reason : i think. i didn't actually read wallotext. my suggestion - go fuck and make up]

4/27/2012 11:36:07 PM

haha relationships are dumb

4/27/2012 11:36:20 PM

drama llama!

4/27/2012 11:37:06 PM

whenever me and my lady fight, I like to spell it out on the internet


LOL NOPE

relationships are dumb

4/27/2012 11:39:20 PM

If you don't want to continue it tomorrow, you might consider making some changes to your post

4/27/2012 11:43:14 PM

I too hate being told i'm saying something with a tone, especially in my own damn house. also, i'm sure me and the sleep king have had the same argument both ways like 3 times at least. sorry hope you guise haven't moved on to throwing frying pans/burning the house down.

4/27/2012 11:44:10 PM

LOLs for ^^

Quote :

"I'm not particularly sure what the point of this thread is. You know that I read TDub and had to realize that I would see this thread. Well congratulations on doing something you said you'd never do: air our dirty laundry out in public. Well, let's air some fucking dirty laundry. _______________________________________________________________________ Events as I saw them: (Set for TWW) We're in the kitchen, I'm going to make some fried rice with the rice you brought home. I start cooking the oil and garlic, throw in the rice and immediately start realizing the error that I could ever fry rice in a non-nonstick pan. In the middle of realizing I'm turning some OK rice into a glutinous ball of crap, you ask me if I was putting any vegetables in, I answer no. You recommend a bag of frozen peas, to which I (some begrudingly because I'm in the middle of trying to salvage this rice) grab the bag out of the freezer, throw some peas into the colander and turn the hot water on. Realizing that I can't cook the rice and defrost those peas at once, I ask you to come up and help. Now all the fucking rice is sticking to the pan and I'm having to fight it. You then ask: "Is that enough?" I reply: "I need them fully defrost, I need them hot" -Here's where it gets murky, you say I said this and was "giving you lip." I don't deny that I had a tone in my voice, as stated before I was in the middle of fucking up some rice and not happy with myself. You clarify: "No, is that enough peas, as in quantity?" I realize: "Yeah, that's fine." - I've now realized the original gist of your question and in my mind the situation is over, we misunderstood each other at once, and now we're back on the same page. At this point you hand me the colander, I dump the peas in and go back to trying to salvage the rice. You take the bag of the rest of frozen peas and while walking behind me say something to the effect of "Well, you didn't have to say it with a tone." Mind you this is 30-45 seconds post misunderstanding. I've already well moved on from the whole thing, shelving it as a misunderstanding. I feel backstabbed...literally, you said it behind my back, not to my face. I had no idea it was coming and felt that it was a completely un-called for thing to say. I lost my temper and yelled at you in your face "I DIDN'T MEAN IT THAT WAY." That was wrong and I admit it. I shouldn't have yelled at you and have already tried to apologize for this. Again, see it in writing. I am sorry. You throw the bag of peas at me and run out of the room. ___________________________________________________________________________ So there you go TDub, that is as unadulterated as I can get it. There's the first bit of dirty laundry, here's the next: My thoughts: I felt completely betrayed with the comment about "saying it with a tone." What I thought was simple misunderstanding was instantly escalated with a comment I feel was undeserved and unfair. I came into the room where wolfpackgrrr was hiding out from me and told her that if I had meant to say it with a tone, I would have been using a tone long before the misunderstanding and long after it. Me losing my temper was wrong. ___________________________________________________________ So there you go Tdub, a drama bomb over some dumbfuck peas and rice. I'm not interested in judgement or anyone's opinions. I just thought that if we're going to air out laundry, to make sure it's fully aired out. When my wife reads this in the morning, I want her to know that I love her very much and that I don't want to continue this fight tomorrow."

[Edited on April 27, 2012 at 11:45 PM. Reason : carat]

4/27/2012 11:44:51 PM

you should just bang her sister, that'll teach that uppity bitch

4/27/2012 11:46:59 PM

this cunt is ready to start fuckin other dudes over some peas and a tone

4/27/2012 11:53:01 PM

Sounds like she's in the wrong for being a bitch. Should have just let shit go. Should have just let this go. But nope. You go posting shit on the Internet.

I don't know why women can't let shit go... They just have to get the last word in all the fucking time, just to piss you off. My GF does it to me, my mother does it to my father. It's like if you're frustrated, instead of just trying to make it better, they just want to piss you off even more, then call you an ass for doing so.

4/27/2012 11:53:32 PM

and then go on the internet and tell dudes she may want to fuck them if her husband doesnt come correct, fucking whores

4/27/2012 11:55:49 PM

tww serious business.gif

4/27/2012 11:59:41 PM

Quote :

"I don't know why women can't let shit go..."

bitchez love drama

4/28/2012 12:00:52 AM

wolfpackgrrr:



occamsrezr

[Edited on April 28, 2012 at 12:12 AM. Reason : ]

4/28/2012 12:03:19 AM

god, I LOVE that dog

4/28/2012 12:04:09 AM

Just send her a pic of a mutilated cat

Bitches hate mutilated cats

4/28/2012 12:06:52 AM

lol, she's the one airing dirty laundry?

[Edited on April 28, 2012 at 12:09 AM. Reason : .]

4/28/2012 12:09:13 AM

^^and then forward them to me for my spank bank

[Edited on April 28, 2012 at 12:09 AM. Reason : f]

4/28/2012 12:09:16 AM

4/28/2012 12:19:42 AM

this did not go the way I expected it when it was two posts in...

4/28/2012 12:28:37 AM

can't wait to view this thread tomorrow. adieu, t-dub.

4/28/2012 12:29:13 AM

Hey, wolfpackgrrrr! Bwn?!!

4/28/2012 12:35:56 AM

Step one, you say we need some peas
He fries you say "Is that enough?"
He answers impolitely back at you
You get offended right on through
Some sort of ball of crap to your right
As he goes left and you stay right
Between the lines of fear and blame
You begin to wonder why you offered peas

Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life

Let him know that's not what you meant
'Cause after all it's not what you meant
Try to slip peas into the pan
Without getting mad again
Lay down a list of how much peas
The things you've told him the rice needs
And pray to God he hears you
And I pray to God he hears you


Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life

As he begins to raise his voice
You murmur yours and grant him one last choice
Drive until you lose the road
Or make a thread on the Wolf Web
He will do one of two things
He will air out everything
Or he'll just comment in your thread
And you'll begin to wonder what you read

Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend
Somewhere along in the bitterness
And I would have stayed up with you all night
Had I known how to save a life

How to save a life
How to save a life

4/28/2012 1:07:38 AM

my SO is an old school Tdubber

but when we have conflicts we are blunt about it

"Shut your fucking mouth."

that's a favorite

"I'm not listening because I don't give a shit."


while this might seem harsh the truth is so much more liberating than pretending

4/28/2012 1:12:45 AM

Quote :

"I feel backstabbed...literally, you said it behind my back, not to my face. I had no idea it was coming and felt that it was a completely un-called for thing to say."

Grow some balls. BTW, she also had no idea that it was coming (your tone). Plus, your tone was un-called for. She asked you a question and you answered with a tone. It must have taken her by surprise, especially if she didn't know you were fighting with rice.

Quote :

"I don't deny that I had a tone in my voice"

Did you say sorry for the tone? Learn to apologize. You were salvaging rice you fucked up... that's not her fault or doing. Same as taking a tone with X because you are angry at Y.

Quote :

""I DIDN'T MEAN IT THAT WAY.""

Yeah, you should have said that (without yelling) when it happened, not after she "backstabbed" you. Had you apologized at the right time, there wouldn't have been any backstabbing. Haha, backstabbed

4/28/2012 5:39:58 AM

Sounds like both of you need to grow the fuck up

4/28/2012 6:28:28 AM

Sounds like the two of you need to just hug kiss it out

4/28/2012 6:53:48 AM

Quote :

"Where did I go wrong, I lost a friend Somewhere along in the bitterness And I would have stayed up with you all night Had I known how to save a life the rice"

4/28/2012 7:50:17 AM

Quote :

"SAVE THE RICE"

4/28/2012 7:52:11 AM

^ in order to do that, he had to

Quote :

"FIGHT THE RICE"

4/28/2012 8:06:38 AM

And this is why spouses shouldn't share a message board.

Oh and you should both get the sand out of your vagina. If this is the kind of stuff you fight over, you're not go ing to make it.

4/28/2012 8:16:59 AM

maybe this is just how they argue in Japan

4/28/2012 8:19:38 AM

silly fight is silly. i know I've had a similar fight before though. I hope you kiss and make up this morning if you didn't already last night

4/28/2012 8:19:57 AM

1.) your fight is dumb...i say this from the point of view of someone who has (and will in the future) get into equally dumb fights
2.) you shouldn't go to bed angry...seriously
3.) i have come to believe that, as a general rule, men will get snappy/snarky more readily than women (and then forget it) and women will take it personally and hold onto it

4/28/2012 8:47:01 AM

IT'S OK TDUB.

WE'RE COOL, WE FIST BUMPED.

THANKS FOR ALL OF THE SHITTY ADVICE TDUB.

IN THANKS HERES SPIDERS

4/28/2012 8:52:33 AM