wolfpackgrrr All American 39759 Posts user info edit post |
Personally I think this chick is jumping to some crazy conclusions. A kid using your breasts as a drum set is not the same as sexually fondling someone. Knowing the way my preschool aged cousins are with their mom's breasts, I have a feeling this guy was not engaging in sexual foreplay with his mom at a young age.
Quote : | "Dear Prudence, My mom let me and my brother breast-feed until we were each about 5 years old. She let us touch and play with her breasts for years after that. She never told us what sex was, and later when I found out, I felt revulsion at the memories of how I touched, and wanted to touch, my own mother. Now I'm 18, a senior in high school, and I have a little sister who’s 9 years old. Mom breast-fed her until really late, and now my sister feels my mother's breasts the way my brother and I did. My sister is my mom's last child, and my mother persists in treating her as a baby. My mother refuses to consider she could be encouraging inappropriate impulses in my sister. When I tell my mother that I'm grossed out and that my sister's too old for this, she won't listen. But I don't want my sister to have the same revulsion at her own memories and confused feelings that I suffered. I'm so disgusted it's keeping me up at night. What should I do? —No More Mother Love" |
Quote : | "Dear No More, I hope you missed the newsstands last week and didn’t see the cover of Time featuring a young mother with an almost 4-year-old latched to her breast. That picture would have given you some traumatic flashbacks. I’m not insinuating that women who breast-feed their children past toddlerhood are doing something wrong. It’s your description of the postweaning, clearly sexual breast fondling that is alarming. Your mother sounds like a sexual predator disguising herself as the ultimate attachment parent. Because there are so many more male molesters, it’s easier for sick women to get away with it. Being an earth mother is the perfect ruse that allows your mother to use her own children to gratify her disturbed impulses. It’s awful to look back on your childhood with shame, but it’s a good thing that you feel revulsion for what happened to you. It shows you are able to distinguish appropriate boundaries, see how you were manipulated, and mourn for your childhood. You don’t mention a father (or fathers), so I’ll assume he is not in the picture to provide help. As painful as it is to contemplate turning your mother in to the authorities, for the sake of your sister, that’s what’s you should do. But it would be best if you had some adult support in taking that step, which will be a life-changer for everyone in your family, perhaps in the most positive way if you mother gets some help. You could go directly to Child Protective Services, but as an interim step consider making an appointment to talk to your sister’s pediatrician, who perhaps is still your doctor, too. You might be more comfortable talking first to a professional who is familiar with your family. The pediatrician will be a mandated reporter, which means she or he will be required to forward any suspicion of abuse. You should continue your healing with a therapist who specializes in sexual mistreatment. This should help you feel comfortable with the normal sexual impulses your mother cruelly exploited. —Prudie" |
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TreeTwista10 minisoldr 148871 Posts user info edit post |

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BigMan157 no u 103356 Posts user info edit post |
i didn't read any of that, even considering the word breasts was in the title 5/18/2012 11:43:42 AM
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MisterGreen All American 4328 Posts user info edit post |
THAT....is a lot of words. 5/18/2012 11:47:15 AM
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Kurtis636 All American 14984 Posts user info edit post |
Yeah, your mom let me play with her breasts for years too. 5/18/2012 11:50:04 AM
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quagmire02 All American 44225 Posts user info edit post |

5/18/2012 11:56:01 AM
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wolfpackgrrr All American 39759 Posts user info edit post |
I highlighted the important parts  5/18/2012 12:01:11 PM
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Fareako Shitter Pilot 10238 Posts user info edit post |
I didn't realize this was a ThePeter thread. 5/18/2012 12:10:43 PM
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settledown Suspended 11583 Posts user info edit post |
consistently one of the worst posters on TWW 5/18/2012 12:13:51 PM
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GeniuSxBoY Suspended 16786 Posts user info edit post |

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AndyMac All American 31924 Posts user info edit post |
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DivaBaby19 Davidbaby19 45208 Posts user info edit post |
did not read 6/6/2012 10:39:26 PM
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BobbyDigital Thots and Prayers 41777 Posts user info edit post |
did not fap 6/6/2012 10:56:36 PM
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