and spent a few days with her but it was a big group.

we had some good conversation and i guess once the beers got flowing we hit it off fastforward we're making out passionately on the dancefloor. it went on a long time i mean like hours.

i took her over to a table and we continued. i was drink as hell by then its like 3 am and what happened didn't really hit me until like a week later as pieces slowly came back.

basically i tried to go down her pants a few times and after the first time she took my hand out after like 5 minutes but the 2nd time she got pissed and was like CHILL THE FUCK OUT and left with some other guy. her and this other guy mysteriously checked out at like 6am and

i had an awkward breakfast with her friends from chapel hill (who were not the night type) and pretended i didn't really know her that well or where she might be. (i didn't want to be like o shes missing because she thought i was going to rape her so hooked up with some random dude

fastforward to now we got tagged in a common photo so should i add her?

[Edited on April 4, 2013 at 1:38 AM. Reason : isn't it likely that she remembers our good days and doesn't even remember the drunken night?]

4/4/2013 1:34:32 AM

no

4/4/2013 1:36:34 AM

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"spent a few days with her but "

Did you now...

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"i was drink as hell "

Were you now...

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"fastforward to now we got tagged in a common photo so should i add her"

WTF is this shit? Move on.

[Edited on April 4, 2013 at 1:40 AM. Reason : .]

4/4/2013 1:38:06 AM

did they find her body yet?

4/4/2013 1:39:13 AM

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"we're making out passionately on the dancefloor. it went on a long time i mean like hours. "

No good, breh. If you're making out continuously for more than 5-10 minutes, and it's not progressing , you're not getting laid.

[Edited on April 4, 2013 at 6:20 AM. Reason : ]

4/4/2013 6:20:23 AM

Reasons to add her
-she lives in chapel hill and we could meet up
- we had great times together before that point
- shes really cute

Reasons to not add her
-this incident
- shes a tarheel fan
- this happened out of the country and she was in tourist yolo mode.

4/4/2013 10:21:36 AM

You live in Seattle. How the fuck does her living in chapel hill help your odds of meeting up.

4/4/2013 10:22:53 AM

CHILL THE FUCK OUT, I'm leaving with someone else.

oh, by the way, friend me on fb!

4/4/2013 10:25:32 AM

if shes feeling you, shell add you. i know your inner creep is telling you to add her and try to rekindle things, but as of now she basically played you for someone else. if you add her, you lose all hope, if you dont, theres the chance that she adds you and wants to rekindle something. either way you have about a 90 percent chance of never connecting with her again.

4/4/2013 10:26:33 AM

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"CHILL THE FUCK OUT, I'm leaving with someone else. oh, by the way, friend me on fb! "

4/4/2013 10:27:10 AM

it was a one night stand, i'd say leave it otherwise you'll come off as one of those clingy types.

4/4/2013 10:28:24 AM

I'm sorry this is all I can think about

Her name is Rio and she dances on the sand

4/4/2013 10:29:55 AM

4/4/2013 10:31:05 AM

can someone link me to the video that the GIF sweden posted originated from

4/4/2013 10:41:23 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zLVl75okyPY

4/4/2013 10:46:54 AM

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"she got pissed and was like CHILL THE FUCK OUT and left with some other guy."

If that was your last interaction with her I'm going to go with no. The add button works both ways and she'd let you know if she wanted to be friends.

4/4/2013 10:48:05 AM

DO THE JANE FONDA

4/4/2013 10:50:22 AM

Oh man that video is awesome.

But also, you could send a nice message with an apology, but not sure how you'd go about that without sounding too creepy

4/4/2013 10:52:12 AM

Pics or it didn't happen. You can't say you don't have a pic of her

4/4/2013 10:53:19 AM

Skack knows what's up

4/4/2013 10:53:35 AM

4/4/2013 10:55:21 AM

Just add her. What's the worst she will do, ignore it?

4/4/2013 11:02:15 AM

Mickey Avalon has got me loling

4/4/2013 11:03:04 AM

4/4/2013 11:04:45 AM

Message her then add

[Edited on April 4, 2013 at 12:17 PM. Reason : We are going to need pics of this chick too]

4/4/2013 12:16:54 PM

is this thread not about Afroman lyrics?

4/4/2013 12:26:54 PM

call her, but make sure you sketch out your gameplan first

4/4/2013 12:49:03 PM

if he tries to msg or add her, you know that chick is gonna be all like

4/4/2013 12:52:17 PM

Is this a serious thread? I feel like no.

4/4/2013 1:17:46 PM

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" in rio"

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"making out passionately on the dancefloor"

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"i was drink as hell by then its like 3 am"

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"basically i tried to go down her pants a few times "

sounds like you were on The E Man

4/4/2013 1:25:10 PM

DUMBASS

CHAPEL HILL IS NOT IN RIO

4/4/2013 1:27:19 PM

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"Is this a serious thread?"

I'm thinking yes.

4/4/2013 1:28:59 PM

my guess is she was looking to hook up in Rio, you fucked it up, the guy who eventually swooped in for the kill doesn't even talk to her, and you look like a bitch

4/4/2013 1:33:49 PM

Should have caveman'd her while you had the chance, OP.

4/4/2013 1:35:27 PM

Can we get some pics of this girl?

4/4/2013 1:36:01 PM

guys, this is a The E Man thread guys

4/4/2013 1:39:37 PM

When I want to add her, I'm mainly thinking about the times we spent on day trips and not any of that night good or bad.

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"You live in Seattle. How the fuck does her living in chapel hill help your odds of meeting up."

I have all my family there so visit a lot.

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"If that was your last interaction with her I'm going to go with no. The add button works both ways and she'd let you know if she wanted to be frieds."

I'm taking into account how drunk we were at the time though and considering it took me about a week to figure out what had happened, she probably doesn't remember anything after the table. Her friends were talking really bad about her the next morning over all of this. If I was her, I'd be too ashamed to reach out first towards someone who probably thinks im a whore. How else do girls reflect after having nights like this?

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"my guess is she was looking to hook up in Rio, you fucked it up, the guy who eventually swooped in for the kill doesn't even talk to her, and you look like a bitch"

I'm not a baller unless im traveling but is this sort of activity common?

4/4/2013 8:27:09 PM

licky, licky; sucky, sucky

4/4/2013 9:35:30 PM

If it was me I would add her if it was up to me

4/4/2013 9:43:26 PM

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"I'm taking into account how drunk we were at the time though and considering it took me about a week to figure out what had happened, she probably doesn't remember anything after the table. Her friends were talking really bad about her the next morning over all of this. If I was her, I'd be too ashamed to reach out first towards someone who probably thinks im a whore. How else do girls reflect after having nights like this?"

I'm sure she remembers something and it's probably the point when she told you to CHILL THE FUCK OUT. If there were any blanks to fill there's a decent enough chance she filled them with bad things and decided you were out to rape her or some shit. Just let it go.

But hey, if it's that important to you just click the add button and see what happens. You don't need T-Dub to convince you to do what you already want to do.

[Edited on April 5, 2013 at 9:20 AM. Reason : l]

4/5/2013 9:19:15 AM