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5/22/2013 10:36:06 PM

i guess it depends on the type of relationship you have with your SO, and what your SO thinks about it.

5/22/2013 10:37:11 PM

Who did qntmfred kiss????

5/22/2013 10:38:24 PM

not if its a chick, punchmonk

btw, worthless without pics

5/22/2013 10:39:05 PM

5/22/2013 10:39:23 PM

uh........there better be some sitcom-level extenuating circumstances.

[Edited on May 22, 2013 at 10:39 PM. Reason : iop1]

5/22/2013 10:39:30 PM

Only if your SO would be pissed off if they found out about it

5/22/2013 10:40:23 PM

Obviously if you're kissing a family member, or platonically kissing a dear friend, that's kosher. But other than that, I'm inclined to say, unequivocally, "Yes."

5/22/2013 10:42:37 PM

yes, don't be a slut

5/22/2013 10:43:35 PM

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2329133/Marriage-business-kissing-Mindy-Kaling-OK-lock-lips-saying-I-do.html

5/22/2013 10:44:23 PM

just cause punchmonk is eating some chick out while fred hits it from the back doesnt mean she's cheating

5/22/2013 10:44:39 PM

How can you call the person a significant other if they don't care that you're intimate with someone else?

Hell, many girls I know think hanging out with another girl alone is borderline cheating.

5/22/2013 10:45:25 PM

I guess her logic could be applied to just about anything.


i should be able to fuck other people. It's just an enjoyable thing that I do.... Doesn't mean that I don't love my wife, or that I do love this other person...

5/22/2013 10:47:36 PM

^ and some people do feel that way.

I am sure others believe that is cheating even if the couple is all for it. I think as long as you're both in agreement and honest about it then it's not cheating, because to me cheating implies dishonesty.

5/22/2013 10:58:09 PM

I have previously been led to believe my peehole would be superglued shut, immediately prior to being forced to drink a gallon of water if I am caught cheating.













Sorry skwinkle

5/22/2013 11:00:47 PM

If you wouldn't do it in front of your SO or wouldn't tell them about it, then yes?

5/22/2013 11:37:58 PM

My theory on this stuff is if you don't want your SO to know about it, then it's safe to say it should be considered cheating

[Edited on May 22, 2013 at 11:46 PM. Reason : guess I should've read the last post before posting]

5/22/2013 11:46:19 PM

I wouldn't want my SO to know that I forgot to separate the delicates in the wash. Is that cheating?!

5/22/2013 11:56:10 PM

If you equate kissing with doing laundry, then sure I guess?

5/22/2013 11:58:29 PM

Of course I do

Especially when I'm washing intimates.

5/23/2013 12:10:46 AM

Touche, salesman.

5/23/2013 12:23:37 AM

Quote :

"Hell, many girls I know think hanging out with another girl alone is borderline cheating."

I'm that girl.

My friend is in a long distane relationship right now with a guy who moved to the U.K for a job for at least the next 3 years. This 25 yr old guy comes along and is completely smitten by her. It was texting everyday and first and then she confests to me that she really likes him. This entire time she still has her wedding ring on, and I am just stumped as to why this 25yr hasn't figured it out yet. She does have several jewelry rings on other fingers, but I don't think he is that fucking stupid. She is 200% sure he doesn't think he is married. It's been 2 months now and still hasn't told him she is married.

He plays the role of her husband. Taking her out to dinner, movies..whatever. Tells her how beautiful she is, etc. She won't let him fuck her though. And I don't think she would lie to me about that.

To me, this is still cheating. And more than just "hanging out".

5/23/2013 12:31:18 AM

Hey guess who's getting suspended

5/23/2013 12:41:16 AM

[Edited on May 23, 2013 at 1:01 AM. Reason : might be reading]

5/23/2013 12:41:38 AM

WINNER WINNER CHICKEN DINNER

5/23/2013 12:42:03 AM

lol at a THREE YEAR long distance relationship having a chance of working

maybe if you're like 60 years old, not 25

5/23/2013 12:42:38 AM

You obviously have never met Kip

Peace out

^holy shit i thought you quit

[Edited on May 23, 2013 at 12:50 AM. Reason : dang.com]

5/23/2013 12:47:48 AM

Quote :

"lol at a THREE YEAR long distance relationship having a chance of working maybe if you're like 60 years old, not 25"

Well I'm angry at her because he has only been away for like 4 months!!!! But she was already flirting with dudes the first month. I would take her to my gym and she would wear gloves to hide her wedding ring, she refuses to take it off. But at the same time, she keeps telling me, " he is my best friend, I love him."

You are weak and insecure, and he deserves so much better.

My friendship with her is strained right now and I don't know what to do. I wish I can tell him, but I won't. I'll just let her lose everything herself. She is already digging her own grave.

5/23/2013 12:58:02 AM

the one long distance relationship i was in, in college no less, where there is 18-22 year old pussy/dick all over the place, lasted about a month

due to that experience, if i was in a relationship and had to go overseas to work for 3 years, i'd call it off

if i was married in that situation, she'd be coming with me, or i would take a different job state-side

5/23/2013 1:05:49 AM

yeah I think the marriage was a stupid decision. probably rushed and didn't think it through very well.

5/23/2013 1:08:17 AM

[probably]

5/23/2013 1:17:12 AM

In my relationship, yes. I don't want to share him and he doesn't want to share me. Actually, I had a dream that a hot guy was hitting on me and I told him to fuck off. Can't even cheat in my dreams.

5/23/2013 1:37:44 AM

is this why i have admin powers now

5/23/2013 2:37:50 AM

Most guys can't stop at kissing. Lips wet? Dick wet!

5/23/2013 7:06:12 AM

i imagine the average person would be upset if their SO kissed someone else

it depends on your relationship, of course, but i would not want my wife to kiss anyone else and i imagine she feels the same about me kissing someone that isn't her

5/23/2013 7:15:55 AM

i kissed qntmfred

5/23/2013 7:42:19 AM

^^^^^They have to die in the dream first, and you're all sad. Then hot dude shows up at the funeral to console you, and it's like WAT?!?

5/23/2013 7:50:30 AM

i swear punchmonk has made this thread before

5/23/2013 8:09:58 AM

I'm Krallum and I approved this message.

5/23/2013 8:16:06 AM

Quote :

"Well I'm angry at her because he has only been away for like 4 months!!!! But she was already flirting with dudes the first month."

if you don't think the hubby is getting his dick wet in some British chick then you might be surprised!

5/23/2013 8:16:12 AM

normally i would say yes but since reading a lot of threads on this same topic and meeting people who have different relationships i guess i'm more inclined to say:

Quote :

"i guess it depends on the type of relationship you have with your SO, and what your SO thinks about it."

for the record though, it isn't cool with me at all

[Edited on May 23, 2013 at 8:45 AM. Reason : ]

5/23/2013 8:40:29 AM

Punchmonk, just because you're a good kisser and I really dig you, i'm not going to.leave my wife. I thought we were clear about that.

5/23/2013 9:05:31 AM

^^ So you're saying that time we made out meant nothing to you?

5/23/2013 9:07:24 AM

5/23/2013 9:16:05 AM

does this include internet kisses?

5/23/2013 9:16:45 AM

Depends on the type of kiss. My GF has several friends that give me a peck on the lips to say hello/goodbye. And my GF gives a few of my friends a peck on the lips to say hello/goodbye. Anything more than that would cross the line, especially if it's going on without your SO's knowledge.

At the end of the day, doing anything with a member of the opposite sex behind your SO's back is cheating to some degree, regardless of the act.

[Edited on May 23, 2013 at 9:34 AM. Reason : a]

5/23/2013 9:32:18 AM

Pecks on the lips? I'm not a prude...but I think a peck on the cheek is good enough. I do have a good number of gay friends that I don't mind them giving my fiancee a peck on the lips...but I think that's the limit.

5/23/2013 9:34:54 AM

Quote :

"Pecks on the lips? I'm not a prude...but I think a peck on the cheek is good enough."

5/23/2013 9:36:23 AM

I guess it's ok with us because we have a very tight group of friends. We are pretty much like family, so we don't even think anything of it.

Now if she was kissing everyone she meets, I'd have a problem with that.

5/23/2013 9:40:50 AM

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NGpvxicYDFI

5/23/2013 9:41:35 AM