So I am attending a wedding this weekend of a friend of mine that I play softball with. This will be the second marriage for both the bride and groom. One is early 40's and the other mid-late 30's. They have a nice house, a couple older children, and do not have any sort of registry or real "need" for typical wedding gifts. That being said, should I still bring a gift of some sort? I was thinking perhaps a gift card to a nice restaurant in lieu of cash or something like that. Thoughts?

10/8/2014 10:09:13 AM

10/8/2014 10:12:21 AM

buy them something interesting

10/8/2014 10:17:00 AM

write a check.

gift cards get lost all the damn time.

[Edited on October 8, 2014 at 10:32 AM. Reason : or just write the words " gift card" on a 50]

10/8/2014 10:32:18 AM

Do they have a registry? Just get something middle-of-the-road from the list.

10/8/2014 10:33:57 AM

Money is always appreciated.

10/8/2014 10:35:57 AM

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" and do not have any sort of registry or real "need" for typical wedding gifts"

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" and do not have any sort of registry or real "need" for typical wedding gifts"

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" and do not have any sort of registry or real "need" for typical wedding gifts"

10/8/2014 10:48:52 AM

give them the gift of your presence at their wedding.

10/8/2014 10:54:51 AM

just write the words " gift card" on a 100

10/8/2014 11:44:59 AM

just write the words $100 GIFT on a card

10/8/2014 11:46:48 AM

just write the word CARD on a $100 gift

10/8/2014 11:55:50 AM

Somehow missed that.

Gift card to a favorite restaurant is fine. I honestly feel like people on their second marriages shouldn't expect wedding gifts. They can combine the "halves" of what they got from their first wedding.

10/8/2014 12:01:34 PM

just write the word "$100" on a playing card

10/8/2014 12:25:56 PM