"not pregnant" - greatest feeling ever or greatest feeling ever (tww parents need not respond )

^^^ i like them! you should get brown AND black if you can. i have brown and black but truthfully i wear the brown a lot more. so if you can only get one i'd get brown

@ NCSUWOFLY - those packing cubes look awesome. i'm going to vietnam and hong kong in jan. in vietnam it is supposed to be in the 80s but in hong kong it can be more like in the 50s or 60s so i'm going to have to pack a bunch of stuff - the cubes seem like they will help.

^ ummm i mean i dunno. how long have you been seeing him? i mean i don't think it would insult him. maybe you could trade off who pays for drinks or like if he pays for dinner you can get the drinks?

[Edited on December 20, 2009 at 4:40 PM. Reason : .]

12/20/2009 4:39:40 PM

Quote :

"okay girls....what would a guy think if I offered to pay for my own drinks when we went out on a date...the last date we went on he spent a lot of money on drinks for me and I don't want him to think that I'm just gonna let him spend money on me like that...but i also don't want him to be insulted if I try to pay for them either..."

not a girl. but seems like this could have a male perspective.

just explain that he spent a lot on you last time and you want to pay for drinks and that should be fine. if you just offer to pay with no explanation or just saying you just want to with no reason, it may confuse the guy.

12/20/2009 4:55:47 PM

that sounds like a great idea....thank you!

12/20/2009 5:07:59 PM

uh oh, did you have a scare, khcadwal ?

12/20/2009 5:34:30 PM

yes it was horrible!

missed period. NEVER happened before and i'm on BC. i dunno. maybe it was just stress?

12/20/2009 5:36:50 PM

yikes! i'm super diligent about my bc, but i always worry something will happen.


it mostly freaks me out when it changes days or shortens from one month to the next.

12/20/2009 6:01:58 PM

i once "missed a period" while i was on BC and thought it was because of stress. I was in a breakup, had a car accident, in finals


i was wrong

[Edited on December 20, 2009 at 6:23 PM. Reason : worst feeling evAr]

12/20/2009 6:22:56 PM

so, what was it??

12/20/2009 6:25:55 PM

i have never had a pregnancy scare. thank god

12/20/2009 6:39:26 PM

sawahash, you can suggest to help pay for some of the drinks but normally i would wait 2 times before offering to pay. like if you let him pay, thank him and say, "next time its on me" or "how about you come over one night next week and i cook us a nice dinner as a thank you."

[Edited on December 20, 2009 at 6:58 PM. Reason : damn]

12/20/2009 6:54:05 PM

ive missed my period three times.

two of those times was just one missed period and then i started it the next time like nothing was wrong...i dunno.


the third time i didn't have it for 9 months
(it was when i was hardcore running...funny time frame though)

12/20/2009 6:55:31 PM

yeah, i'd go months without it before i started bc


that is a strange time frame, though

12/20/2009 7:05:45 PM

i've never missed a period but i have had times when i've been so stressed that i've gotten it multiple times in a month

[Edited on December 20, 2009 at 7:06 PM. Reason : ]

12/20/2009 7:06:37 PM

I always offer to pay on the second date. I mean I doubt a guy is gonna be like "What a bitch, offering to pay for stuff."

12/20/2009 7:09:08 PM

i don't offer to pay for stuff until i'm genuinely interested. the first few dates i don't even pretend like i'm going to pay.

12/20/2009 7:10:51 PM

like i said, you can offer to pay but if he insists then offer to cook a nice dinner for him.

12/20/2009 7:10:56 PM

I always offer to pay just as a litmus test.

If he gets excited and really, really wants to split, then I assume he's just not that into me.

12/20/2009 7:11:47 PM

Quote :

"begonias belks has colored tights in regular and tall sizes. my friend tiffany is 5'10 and she told me she has to shop for tights at belk otherwise the crotch doesnt fit right. "

went to belk

found colored tights

EXCEPT THERE WAS NO RED... EVERY COLOR BUT RED

12/20/2009 8:48:57 PM

daaaaaamn! did you try Macys?

or try http://www.lulus.com

12/20/2009 8:55:00 PM

I've had a few "oh I'm a few days late" scares, but I've only had one really big scare.

I even went to the OBGYN for a blood test b/c I was so sure I was pregnant, as was Justin. Came back negative (whew!). Two days later I got my period.

a week later I was laid off! Yay for not being pregnant!

12/20/2009 8:57:54 PM

I wanted them for today, but ended up wearing something else anyway. When I told the bf about my red tight idea, he was all

12/20/2009 8:57:57 PM

pssshhhhhht what do (straight) boys know?

12/20/2009 9:00:12 PM

^^^ see i'm still kind of scared even though i took a pregnancy test. only time i've ever taken one. obvi it said negative but still...where is my period! i used to be SUPER irregular before BC but NEVER straight up missed one. even if they are light on BC they still come.

i guess i'll just chalk it up to stress or something but...i think the blood test would make me feel more confident. i'm going to end up like one of those bitches on i didn't know i was pregnant thats like "but the pregnancy test was negative." but they probably like peed on it wrong or something. i know it sounds stupid but now i kind of understand how they feel! i peed on one wrong and got an error message. maybe i'm just retarded

speaking of retarded that made the situation worse because i've been drinking etc and not only did i not want a baby i didn't want a fetal alcohol baby doped up on prozac either.

see - i'm still stressed over it. this is probably too personal but are you guys ^^^ thinking about having kids soon? don't answer if you don't want to obviously i was jw since you are recently married if you were the go straight to kids kind of couple or the wait awhile kind (if you had your choice i mean, clearly accidents happen )

[Edited on December 20, 2009 at 9:10 PM. Reason : .]

12/20/2009 9:09:39 PM

S T O P W O R R Y I N G

if you're pregnant I'll just invite you over, we'll get drunk, I'll pick a fight and push you down the stairs

problem solved, fun had

12/20/2009 9:12:55 PM

^ lol i like that plan!

(i'm also going to hell, sweeeet! partyyyy!)

12/20/2009 9:13:38 PM

yeah worrying will only make it worse. those over the counter pregnancy tests are pretty close to accurate. my friend just announced she was pregnant and when she thought she was, she took 4 tests and they all said "pregnant." false negatives are pretty hard to come by.

12/20/2009 9:14:19 PM

plus you just had exams and the stress from that could throw your cycle off

12/20/2009 9:16:27 PM

these were just delivered!! they are so hot!!

12/21/2009 12:43:02 PM

ooooo, I like those out of all the ones you have posted lately. gg

12/21/2009 12:43:31 PM

Where to get my hair cut today?

Design Gallery is closed on Mondays; Brandi no longer works at Alter Ego.

<$60 including tip.

[Edited on December 21, 2009 at 12:49 PM. Reason : dfg]

12/21/2009 12:48:39 PM

kinda hard to be pregnant when you dont have sex.

12/21/2009 1:45:23 PM

^^hairdos on glenwood, ask for jill

or mitchell's training academy, it's like 12 bucks

[Edited on December 21, 2009 at 3:31 PM. Reason : they're supervised ]

12/21/2009 3:31:09 PM

Paul mitchell school and aveda institute are GREAT for cheap, good cuts. I only do Aveda.

12/21/2009 3:39:15 PM

If you guys take your pregnancy tests when you first wake up in the morning, you're less likely to get a false negative because your urine will be more concentrated.

12/21/2009 3:39:20 PM

^
and if you go to hair school, only go to aveda

12/21/2009 4:02:47 PM

Most def. I went to Paul Mitchell's academy, and was satisfied considering what I paid, but Aveda is hands down way better. I get a better cut at Aveda for $12 than I do at a salon for 5 times the price.

And Aveda products rock!

12/21/2009 4:10:25 PM

at the thrift store I tried on this totally 80s dress as a joke, and it turns out it looks great!

so I bought it to wear at New Years

12/21/2009 4:25:51 PM

You should save it for halloween

and go as Jessie Spano

12/21/2009 4:26:20 PM

I need some of those white pumps

you know the ones I mean

12/21/2009 4:28:11 PM

12/21/2009 4:28:43 PM

12/21/2009 6:52:10 PM

^^^ actually you should just wear black socks & Reeboks. Fuck with everybody.

12/21/2009 7:59:47 PM

Quote :

"kinda hard to be pregnant when you dont have sex. "

i'm confused by this. maybe it wasn't directed at me.

i hope the one i took wasn't a false negative. 3 come in a pack. one said negative, the other i peed on wrong, and the third one i saved for a later date (like maybe next week. just to double check).

i also work at a baby store which makes me even more paranoid - i have seen some nasty ass kids (not like dirty, though i've seen those too, but some little devils. plus they smell )

12/21/2009 8:34:44 PM

fyi - the body shop @ 4 seasons in greensboro is going out of business in 3 days. everything in the store is 50% off! i just got about $70 worth of make up for $30

12/21/2009 8:38:05 PM

dont worry kadwackle, even if you are, like 30% of pregnancies miscarry in the first trimester

12/21/2009 8:42:15 PM

Quote :

"I need some of those white pumps you know the ones I mean "

NO NO NO NO NOOOOOOOOOO

white shoes are NEVER OK. ever. EVARRRR.

/snob

12/21/2009 8:51:02 PM

^ white sandals during the summer are just fine

12/21/2009 8:58:10 PM

ehhhh...

I'm just dat 190% against white shoes.

12/21/2009 9:00:18 PM

even as a bride?

'cause that's white shoe city

12/21/2009 9:01:42 PM

I dunno about white with that dress, that would be like HEY 80'S I would try to match with one of the colors in the dress... A pretty pinkish or a black with a pretty shiny detail...

Just my opinion.

12/21/2009 9:01:53 PM