sounds fishy

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 12:29 AM. Reason : 182]

5/5/2011 12:29:24 AM

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"Cheaters do fucking suck. I just found out that my coworker is bwning my other coworker. They are both married. I'm pretty close to one of them but I'm not really sure how I feel about being her friend knowing she's the kind of person who could do that. I'm torn between feeling like it's not my business what she chooses to do in her marriage and not wanting to be close to someone who would hurt the person they're supposed to love most that way. Maybe that was more of a rant than a confession. Whoops. "

5/5/2011 12:31:33 AM

^I wouldn't intervene, but I wouldn't be cool with them anymore either. Keep it strictly business.

5/5/2011 12:33:41 AM

I will not tell you who sent that confession!

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"you are a terrible human being. "

Thanks for judging me because someone else is cheating. Awesome.

5/5/2011 12:37:26 AM

someone is taking the confessions thread a little too personal

5/5/2011 12:39:13 AM

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"You are in fact an awesomely wonderful human being! Don't listen to the last confessor. "

that's one vote for, and one against. now I'm neutral.


awww someone is mad

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"if this ever happens to you, i hope someone has the guts to tell you. please don't PM me after this. "

in case you delete your pm, since you didn't want me to send one to begin with, I am copying it here.

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"would you want to find out your wife was cheating on you via a random person on a public message board? would you want everyone and their brother to know that your wife was a whore and she was fucking your best friend at a party you probably threw for her? I certainly wouldn't want to find out that way. if the person was someone I knew I would find a private place and time to tell them about the situation, but this is just some random dude from the internet. it is not my place to call him out, especially on a public message board."

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 12:53 AM. Reason : sigh]

5/5/2011 12:40:23 AM

haha i think i know who that someone is

5/5/2011 12:42:09 AM

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"I don't know if I want to get married."

5/5/2011 12:45:06 AM

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"I didn't understand what a shim was from the McDonalds thread was till it was explained as shemale. Bored, I googled images of shemales. I was shocked by how womanly many were and how wierd it was for there to be boobs and dick. Then I thought, Geez, Why aren't shims ruling the world? I mean they have boobies AND dicks. Can you have more power than that?"

5/5/2011 6:32:19 AM

HAHAHA

5/5/2011 6:37:05 AM

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"you are a terrible human being."

my goodness, this is ridiculous shit

a. you were given this cheating-confession in confidence, and it would be very immoral to reveal the identity of its author to anyone
b. how the fuck is it your place to police somebody else's life based on a random confession they sent you on TWW? if they had confessed to a murder or rape or something that would be different, but this is just cheating, which, while awful, is not against the law and is in fact condoned by many people. it is obviously not your business, responsibility or place to act on this shit

5/5/2011 8:06:34 AM

^ self-exposed?

Seriously though...cheaters suck. I know from personal experience

5/5/2011 8:11:20 AM

^
haha...I can assure that I even if I were shameless/scummy enough to fuck a friend's wife, I have not the balls and charm to do so

5/5/2011 8:15:08 AM

of course she shouldn't divulge who sent the confession

5/5/2011 10:08:33 AM

these last two pages have brought the lols, keep it up!

5/5/2011 10:14:36 AM

The cheating shock is foolish. 50% of all married people have at least one affair. It may "suck" but its the norm.

5/5/2011 10:27:50 AM

Just because it's the norm doesn't mean it's right..

5/5/2011 10:29:00 AM

didn;t say it was right - but it is how the real world works. everybody cheats.

Also - the whole jerking off in the panties thing seems fake.

5/5/2011 10:32:27 AM

"And yet, according to the Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy, approximately 50 percent married women and 60 percent of married men will have an extramarital affair at some time in their marriage. And since it is unlikely that the people having affairs are married to each other in every case, the current statistics on the percentage of married couples who cheat on each other means that someone is having an affair in nearly 80 percent of marriages."

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 10:33 AM. Reason : ]

5/5/2011 10:32:51 AM

No, not everyone cheats.

^ that's sad.

5/5/2011 10:34:30 AM

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"No, not everyone cheats."

5/5/2011 10:34:54 AM

not everyone

but most do

5/5/2011 10:35:43 AM

over half the population cheats. your have a 50 / 50 chance your man will cheat on you.

Not saying its right - but when you work 8 to 10 hours under high stress - office bwning happens.

5/5/2011 10:36:35 AM

fuck that. if i was married to someone and i found out he cheated, i'd drop his ass like a bad habit.

** disclaimer: if we had kids that would complicate things though :-/

5/5/2011 10:38:06 AM

^ ditto.


And current conversations is making me like this thread less...



MOAR CONFESSIONS!!!!

Send me one

5/5/2011 10:38:55 AM

I'm sure most people would drop the cheater.

Not even the discussion being had.

5/5/2011 10:42:08 AM

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"fuck that. if i was married to someone and i found out he cheated, i'd drop his ass like a bad habit."

ALL woman say this - yet so few follow thru.

5/5/2011 10:43:04 AM

^ i'll go ahead and say i don't know that i would...


i tend to be very forgiving.


it all depends on the circumstances.

5/5/2011 10:51:30 AM

good for you, nice to admit you would be open.

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 10:54 AM. Reason : ff]

5/5/2011 10:54:10 AM

Pull a Kobe and buy me a yellow diamond, I'll forgive ya too.

5/5/2011 10:55:26 AM

well, i will never ever ever say that i think its justifiable, but depending on certain things i think it can be forgivable.


we are all human

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 10:56 AM. Reason : ^hell yes ]

5/5/2011 10:56:23 AM

1/10 women are smart enough to get out of a relationship after getting dogged out. Women please get smarter.

5/5/2011 11:00:50 AM

tsk tsk jesus.


arent you supposed to preach about forgiveness?

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 11:02 AM. Reason : i've used that word THREE times. im gonna start saying im a pushover. ]

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 11:02 AM. Reason : and PS im talking about cheating....not year long affairs and the like!!! letthatbeknown ]

5/5/2011 11:01:44 AM

cheating is not a black and white issue.

5/5/2011 11:03:24 AM

Yes, I support forgiveness but I hate watching a woman stay in a bad relationship because she is "forgiving". Trust is the #1 thing in a relationship. Without it what do you have?

5/5/2011 11:04:50 AM

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"My house is so dirty, I am ashamed that Merry Maids has to see the state it is in to clean it."

5/5/2011 11:06:43 AM

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"Trust is the #1 thing in a relationship"

i agree 110%

but some of us (read:me ) tend to be more trusting than others.

i am not saying this is a good thing, as a matter of fact this can probably be written off as a flaw.

5/5/2011 11:06:57 AM

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"I'm jealous your last confession can afford Merry Maids. "

no shit me too!

5/5/2011 11:09:37 AM

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"Not saying its right - but when you work 8 to 10 hours under high stress - office bwning happens"

Good thing my fiance' is an engineer and is therefore less likely to be around females

But for real, I wanted to say not everyone cheats because some of us don't like even being remotely put into that group. I don't really even like the phrase "shit happens," because I just can't think of a time where I would actually forgive the person. But, I also witnessed my parents' marriage fall apart due to cheating (and a few other things, but cheating was a big factor). So maybe I'm jaded, I don't know.

I just feel like if you have the balls to cheat, you should have the balls to get out of the relationship first.

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 11:33 AM. Reason : .]

5/5/2011 11:32:58 AM

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"First off, I want to tell you thank you for keeping our exchange confidential. Secondly, to all of those who are giving you a hard time they should lay off because its not your choice that is being made. There is no need for them to project their anger towards me on you. Lastly, I understand that I have abused a great deal of trust on many sides. I have a friend who trusts me dearly and a wife who cares a great deal about me. Even though this may be hard to imagine, just because I have started down this path doesn't mean I don't care a great deal about my wife or about my friend. Life isn't black and white and, quite frankly, if getting what I need from another person keeps me completely fulfilled and active in an otherwise perfect marriage then I don't see the harm. I agree, people risk being hurt on both sides. But that is the risk that I'm going to take. You don't have to live my life, so don't concern yourselves too much with it. "

new confession!

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"I have the hugest crush on the wife of one of my best friends. I'd never do anything with her but man she's like the perfect chick. She's hot, smart, funny, nerdy, and she's a great cook. And while I'd never do anything with her, I can't help but do an internal fistpump when I'm hanging out over there late and she's gotten ready for bed and comes out in tiny short shorts and an almost see through t-shirt with no bra. We were actually all friends before either of them got married so she's not really just a friend's wife but also a good friend also. "

5/5/2011 11:59:29 AM

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"Good thing my fiance' is an engineer and is therefore less likely to be around females"

I'll keep tabs on him, as he just started here.

TWW got each other's backs.

5/5/2011 12:02:05 PM

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"Life isn't black and white and, quite frankly, if getting what I need from another person keeps me completely fulfilled and active in an otherwise perfect marriage then I don't see the harm. I agree, people risk being hurt on both sides. But that is the risk that I'm going to take."

Honestly, that makes no sense to me. You don't see the harm, yet you follow up that statement with an acknowledgement that people can be hurt. If you know people can be hurt, how can you say you don't see the harm?

I will never understand cheating.

I am completely aware that some people can't be with just one person and just aren't made for monogamy. But at least be open about it! For example, ambrosia and zorthage had probably the best marriage I have ever seen (or at least one of them), and it was probably because they were so honest and open with their relationship. To me, that isn't cheating, but is something they agreed upon and was best for their marriage - and it worked. But to go into a relationship and sleep with someone else without both of your s.o.'s knowing is so wrong and very deceitful.

[Edited on May 5, 2011 at 12:06 PM. Reason : ^ hahahaha I appreciate it ]

5/5/2011 12:06:13 PM

I'm not sure thumper's husband would agree with that.

5/5/2011 12:06:39 PM

hahahahahaha OH SHIT

5/5/2011 12:07:18 PM

EPIC DIVABABY burn.

5/5/2011 12:20:47 PM

I hate that i don't know the backstory to that

5/5/2011 12:21:41 PM

ummmmm I agree with sam 100% (and there was a whole thread on this at some point)

If you love someone enough to vow to spend the rest of your life with them, then you should love and respect them enough to end the marriage before cheating. If you are unsatisfied, find yourself considering straying (not fantasizing, but actually thinking of how and when to do it), then your marriage is probably over anyway. Be fair to the other person and just end it.

5/5/2011 12:37:23 PM

^^

5/5/2011 12:42:51 PM

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"If you love someone enough to vow to spend the rest of your life with them, then you should love and respect them enough to end the marriage before cheating. If you are unsatisfied, find yourself considering straying (not fantasizing, but actually thinking of how and when to do it), then your marriage is probably over anyway. Be fair to the other person and just end it."

Save this, and see if you still agree after 10 years of marriage. You might, but you might have a different view.

5/5/2011 12:53:24 PM

Well then what's the fucking point? You can reproduce without getting married (hell you can reproduce without a man period). You can sleep with multiple partners and it's socially acceptable. Women can get great jobs and make great money now, so we don't need a man to be the bread winner. So why the fuck get married if you don't intend on placing a value on spending your life one person and only one person? You can have everything else you could possibly want outside of marriage.....so why do it? Because you WANT to make that ultimate sacrifice. You WANT to pledge yourself, through thick and thin, through sickness and health, and all other vows to be with that one person and only that one person. Not because you HAVE to. And, if after 10 years of marriage I, or my husband, no longer feel that way, then the "marriage" is probably over. I know I could probably forgive a cheat. But I also know I could never forget it. And as much as I would want to trust that person again, I don't think I ever could. So as much as I may try, the relationship would fester and eventually end anyways. But I also realize not everyone thinks like me. Thankfully, my fiance agrees with me on these aspects and we have an agreement that if either of us ever does get to that point, we will talk to the other and at least give them the option to opt out. It's only fair in our eyes.




To each their own.

5/5/2011 1:04:03 PM