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"but heck i married up so i hope its this good for her!"

ahaha, i hear that

2/2/2007 9:42:06 AM

Both names will be on the title. I told my buyer's agent and she doesn't think there will be a problem either...

I don't understand why you said:

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"yea good luck buying the house jointly without being married - talk about a PAIN"

Congrats OmarBadu.

2/2/2007 10:39:02 AM

tenants in common...BONG!

2/2/2007 12:04:56 PM

Just got the date confirmed. June 2nd in the house.

2/2/2007 12:36:29 PM

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"Married, love it, wouldn't recommend it for everyone. Marriage WILL NOT solve your problems. It WILL NOT necessarily make you closer to each other. Just like having a kid WILL NOT solve your problems, not will it necessarily fill any void except the void where a screaming baby is missing. It changes nothing and it changes everything at the same time. I love my husband, and getting married was one of THE best decisions I ever made. But holy crap, there's no reason to rush into it thinking it's going to make you closer. If you're both fighting and screaming before you get married, it'll be the same afterwards. I see far too many people getting married for the wrong reasons. But yes, if you get married for the right reasons it's awesome."

EXACTLY

Married 9 months, engaged for 1.5, dated 6 years before that (lived together for 4) to Drago41

Nothing should be rushed. I am so lucky to have the kind of love he gives me.

2/2/2007 10:47:20 PM

my situation has changed

2/3/2007 10:46:56 PM

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"my situation has changed"

You fag, asking her where she couldnt say no.

2/3/2007 11:39:00 PM

of course

2/4/2007 12:14:02 AM

At first I was like, is he proposing to the little girl then I saw who it was

2/4/2007 10:05:40 PM

holy shit stinger, that was you?!

[Edited on February 4, 2007 at 10:19 PM. Reason : congrats man]

2/4/2007 10:17:04 PM

thanks

2/4/2007 10:30:08 PM

What does Jami think of this?

2/6/2007 11:58:05 AM

married to scrager since june.

We closed on our house March 31st, and had *no* problems. On the documents it just had our names, with 'unmarried' beside them, and we had an extra document that granted ownership to the sole survivor (which is automatic if you are married, since your spouse gets everything unless the will specifies differently).

Once we were married, we paid $40 and had the documents changed to reflect the change in my name and our marital status.

just mention it to the lawyer you get to do the closing.

2/6/2007 3:37:29 PM

I'm getting married in a month! My fiance is finishing up school and looks as if I should be starting a job either right before we get married or right after. We have been together for 7.5 years. How easy is it to get a house on the first time home buyers' program type things when both people are working making at least 40k? I only have about 5k saved up but by may or june hopefully a little more like 10-12k.

2/6/2007 5:03:58 PM

You should be fine.

On a sidenote I talked to my lender today. He said he got an application where the guy has listed his assets as $25 in his savings account and $1.63 in his checking account.

2/6/2007 5:05:46 PM

And divorced?

Who all has already been thru the marriage circuit?

2/8/2007 1:44:09 PM

^^ You'll get a loan, but you'll get smoked with PMI.

It's an additional fee on your monthly mortgage payment that's only there because you're a first time home buyer & you're young. It's not chump change either. I think it stays for like 2 years unless you make huge overpayments & get some more equity in your crib.

Sucks


[Edited on February 8, 2007 at 1:52 PM. Reason : .]

2/8/2007 1:51:32 PM

if you have good credit, you can bypass the first time homebuyers program, and pay no PMI even with 100% financing.

2/8/2007 2:17:10 PM

yup, thats the route i took.

2/8/2007 2:17:28 PM

how good of credit?

2/8/2007 3:26:07 PM

was engaged- not anymore though.

2/10/2007 12:54:04 PM

married shmarried

2/10/2007 4:45:30 PM

I'd marry her if I could. Been together 3 years. She's cooking lunch for me naked

2/11/2007 11:11:14 AM