it can be true. I know I'm like that. however, if you move in with someone, you're pretty much past that point. the whole "I have trouble letting people in" thing is usually a 2nd or 3rd month revelation. not a revalation that comes AFTER YOU MOVE IN WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER AFTER A YEAR OF DATING!!! Same thing with the trust issue. that's usually something that's settled long before now.


sounds to me like your boy is being a tool. you'd better find out why that tool is broken and go get a new one.


oh and uh Page 2

10/21/2007 9:24:48 PM

if

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"is very suspicious of people"

is true, then why would he agree to move in with her in the first place?

10/21/2007 9:25:06 PM

he wants someone to cook him dinner while he goes trolling around legends in those leather pants

10/21/2007 9:25:54 PM

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"the circumstances in which we got together to begin with will always leave me with a suspicion... He was with someone, and we flirted alot, and altho we didn't do anything physical, he didn't tell her about alot of what he did..."

10/21/2007 9:26:22 PM

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"wtf, you move in with a guy after 1 year of being together? Crazy much ?.... he probably let you move in because you pressed the issue and he didnt want to seem like the bad guy. Now you're cluttering his space. Its too soon. Move out and continue dating, when its time to get serious..... he'll let you know"

10/21/2007 9:27:12 PM

It means he's gay.

10/21/2007 9:27:18 PM

^^

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"your bf of one year who just moved in with you"

Fucking retard.

10/21/2007 9:28:18 PM

^ what she said.

[Edited on October 21, 2007 at 9:28 PM. Reason : ]

10/21/2007 9:28:30 PM

Yes.

10/21/2007 9:28:40 PM

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"it's been 2 weeks since we had sex and he hasn't seemed more affectionate or too perturbed that he hasn't had any... I guess he's fine with his hand and his terabite of pr0n."

And if that's the case, either he's a) getting it elsewhere or b) turned fruity.

10/21/2007 9:32:37 PM

he's probably using you. How much is he paying for rent?


and if you havent fucked in 2 weeks...... well, you're just lying to yourself if you dont think something going on.

10/21/2007 9:37:08 PM

He wants to fuck other chicks.

10/21/2007 9:37:18 PM

all very good points, and all I've considered before. He's only seriously dated one woman before.... and it was for 8 years, and then they got married, and then after 4 years, they had issues-- she wanted him to basically not go anywhere or do anything without her...but she didn't want to go anywhere or do anything with him.

So in all, he hasn't had much dating experience, altho he had sex with lots of women b4 his wife, he didnt date any.

And we hadn't had sex in 2 weeks because I only see him on the weekends, and one weekend he had really really bad headache, and the 2nd I was on my period

[Edited on October 21, 2007 at 9:40 PM. Reason : sdf]

10/21/2007 9:40:04 PM

that doesn't really mean a damn thing.

by what you've told us here, it pretty much is kinda obvious that ya'll are on the downward slide of breaking up.

seriously, not too many positives going on here. not with the shit your bringin.

10/21/2007 9:42:29 PM

He had a really bad headache? The entire weekend? Does he have a codename for his headaches...you?

10/21/2007 9:43:00 PM

well we had sex yesterday and he didnt protest

10/21/2007 9:44:40 PM

^^lol for real.

^probably just keeping the landlady happy. seriously, what guy complains about having sex? (unless he's doin it with a fat chick)

really though, ya'll got issues; and not the good kind

10/21/2007 9:44:51 PM

well [duh]

10/21/2007 9:45:37 PM

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"What does it mean when he says "I have a tough time letting people in"..."

That's when you say, "So do I, GTFO."

Srsly, you don't just come up with that after you've moved in with someone. And unless he had some serious life-changing trauma in October, that's a lame excuse for his behavior. If you're up for the drama then go for it. I'd pack his shit and change the locks.

10/21/2007 9:45:50 PM

damn right

10/21/2007 9:47:43 PM

Sounds like you're trying to convince yourself things aren't coming to end.

Or, you're fine with being taken advantage of, but don't want to admit to yourself that you're okay with that.

Whatever.

10/21/2007 9:49:15 PM

I BET SHE HAS DADDY ISSUES

10/21/2007 9:54:37 PM

10/21/2007 10:52:46 PM