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pttyndal
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page 2 says let him hit it

1/2/2009 8:33:15 PM

0EPII1
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"Guys play mindgames, when he calls you you need to wait at least three days and then you should only text him with the words "Yo". See how long it takes him to reply, if he replies immediately he is desparate so you should run and run fast,"


Hey, thanks for telling us men this... so from now on, we know what you women are thinking, and so we will take our time to respond, even especially if we are desperate. Maybe you should have kept that a secret, you know.

1/2/2009 8:35:26 PM

Kiwi
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LOL

1/2/2009 8:36:44 PM

jetskipro
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as far as the difference in the level of complication between men and women goes:

men:


women:


if a guy likes a girl, he'll call her. no pointless "waiting" period so that he won't seem desperate. if he's generally interested, he'll most likely just call the next day. if the girl is generally interested, she should pick up the phone when he calls.

playing games is a complete waste of time, and a one-way ticket for any reasonable person to write you off and look for someone else who has their shit together.

1/2/2009 8:54:21 PM

twoozles
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I HATE GAMES

1/2/2009 8:56:45 PM

dyne
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"call him back. what did you expect him to do after you gave him your number?"

1/2/2009 8:57:05 PM

GrimReap3r
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"playing games is a complete waste of time, and a one-way ticket for any reasonable person to write you off and look for someone else who has their shit together.
"

1/2/2009 8:58:32 PM

dyne
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kiwi's just mad because no guys ever call her.

1/2/2009 8:59:47 PM

Kiwi
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LOL another good one!

1/2/2009 9:13:01 PM

Tiberius
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that's not true

guys call her names all the time

1/2/2009 9:17:24 PM

Kiwi
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just tdub guys who have never met me

1/2/2009 9:18:20 PM

Tiberius
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I met you once

you passed out in the yard, lol

1/2/2009 9:18:56 PM

Kiwi
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hmmmmm I wonder what time that was

you're gonna have to be more specific

[Edited on January 2, 2009 at 9:21 PM. Reason : lolol]

1/2/2009 9:21:19 PM

pttyndal
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damn. do you make it a habit of passing of passing out in peoples' yards? will they not let you in the house?

1/2/2009 9:23:59 PM

Kiwi
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HAHAHAHA


no

1/2/2009 9:24:58 PM

Tiberius
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it was someone's birthday party, maybe your ex's?

you got completely trashed and laid down in the yard, a couple of your friends carried you inside after a while I think

lol

[Edited on January 2, 2009 at 9:26 PM. Reason : I think elise was there too]

1/2/2009 9:25:02 PM

Kev4Pack
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Change your phone number!!! LOLOLOLOLOLOL

1/2/2009 9:27:14 PM

Kiwi
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haha awesome

1/2/2009 9:28:36 PM

ThePeter
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call him back and be all let's do lunch, k?

1/2/2009 9:29:03 PM

twoozles
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that could have easily been me doing something like that

1/2/2009 9:29:09 PM

Tiberius
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^^^ahaha according to elise's photo gallery, it was your 21st b/d, though I seem to have avoided the camera

[Edited on January 2, 2009 at 9:31 PM. Reason : ^]

1/2/2009 9:31:01 PM

Kiwi
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Ok yeah I passed out on the floor that time and puked red everclear on the carpet. Yeah that stain never came up.

1/2/2009 9:31:59 PM

GoldenGirl
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alright wait a day and then call him to see how he's doing etc. just like talking to a friend when you are about to hang up if he hasn't already, be like well if you get free time let me know we could grab dinner sometime.

don't play too many games.

1/2/2009 9:35:17 PM

pooljobs
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if you want it to work out you should see my thread

1/2/2009 9:37:51 PM

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dear aea,

you don't look like the type that would have trouble in this situation. actually you look like you'd be getting plenty of #'s but whatever. you should probably just call the dude. maybe something works out..probably it won't. either way it's better than nothing.

1/2/2009 9:39:45 PM

pooljobs
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you can call me and practice

(well after the football game)

1/2/2009 9:44:00 PM

aea
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thanks for the advice (to those who actually gave some)- I'll be calling him when I'm back from my run. Hopefully I don't make too much of an ass out of myself.

[Edited on January 3, 2009 at 8:07 AM. Reason : word]

1/3/2009 8:06:12 AM

wdprice3
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if a girl, that I just met, texted me 'yo' I would throw a fucking grammar book at her if I ever saw her again.

[Edited on January 3, 2009 at 10:20 AM. Reason : and I'd get a spelling checker for my self]

1/3/2009 10:20:30 AM

chocolatervh
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ugh, i hate when people wait forever to call me back. maybe its because i don't really call unless i actually deem it important. and since people carry their cellphones around with them and tend to get messages and check them fairly quickly... if i get a call back from a couple days ago i just let it go.

1/3/2009 10:35:03 AM

GREEN JAY
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yeah, really. if you find yourself saying "i am gonna play it cool and not call this person for x days" you should take that as a hint to yourself that you aren't that into them. people generally cant wait to call those they are truly interested in. example: guy aea met, called the next day.

1/3/2009 10:40:51 AM

DoeoJ
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yea, i try to get in touch with someone fairly quickly (like a day) after meeting them if i'm interested. no sense in letting anyone get the wrong impression.

and it's nice when girls take a bit of initiative now and then for us shy folks out there.

[Edited on January 3, 2009 at 10:48 AM. Reason : .]

1/3/2009 10:45:00 AM

theDuke866
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dude

all women have to do to get a guy is not stop him, and you're even screwing that up!

if you are intersted in him, call him! if not, call me, or call somebody, or sit at home and call nobody, but for the love of God, stop being so indecisive about something so simple!

1/3/2009 10:48:41 AM

GoldenGirl
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ya games are retarded. If I like someone I say call me or i text them etc. but I think i have a good douche meter so people i meet won't get my number if I feel like they are retards and will play games.

just my opinion each to his own.

1/3/2009 11:00:25 AM

dweedle
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get a little tipsy before you call, that way there won't be any awkward silent moments on the phone...

those are the worst

1/3/2009 11:05:18 AM

pawprint
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Is it just me or does there seem to be other motives behind this thread?...

It seems to me it's really: "I had a relationship end a little over a month ago and I want my ex who is on TWW to know that I am getting back into the game and that I am SO over him."

Some notes for you to take:
You're not over your ex.
Posting on TWW is the WORST(!) I mean THE WORST place to seek dating advice.
If you have to question it, don't do it.
You are very shocked about giving your number because you didn't really like him to begin with and now you feel guilty for leading him on. You even said the bartender introduced you, so that means he's not someone you hand picked for yourself. Don't settle.

I would call him back, explain I just got out of a relationship, and suggest hanging out as friends to get to know each other...and invite him to do some group activity. The guy probably won't go for it, and if he doesn't then you have your answer: you've given your number to a first class loser.

Any decent relationship I was ever in began with me or some guy giving/getting my number, calling, seeking the friendship route to see if they were just interested in sex...If they weren't, I either dated a cool guy or made a great friend.

1/3/2009 12:16:30 PM

drunknloaded
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haha this thread proves what i've known all along

1/3/2009 12:17:50 PM

GrimReap3r
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1/3/2009 12:19:10 PM

Atlas
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Good luck.

1/3/2009 3:28:58 PM

pttyndal
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reason #1million not to date a tdubber.

1/3/2009 3:31:40 PM

Kiwi
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haha pwnt

1/3/2009 4:15:33 PM

dyne
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"I would call him back, explain I just got out of a relationship, and suggest hanging out as friends to get to know each other...and invite him to do some group activity. The guy probably won't go for it, and if he doesn't then you have your answer: you've given your number to a first class loser."


i'd probably do this.. but don't mention "as friends" because guys dont really want to find some girl to be their best friend.. you can hang out "as friends" but don't mention it as some sort of endpoint that he will achieve.

yeah, if you are actually interested, invite him to some group hangout if you arent comfortable with 1v1 yet.

if you are really not interested in pursuing this romantically in the near future. don't bother calling him back and/or wasting his time.

1/3/2009 4:18:59 PM

arghx
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if you use the word 'friend' , and he has any sense, he will run far far away

1/3/2009 9:11:56 PM

BanjoMan
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"immediately he is desparate so you should run and run fast"


Fast responses mean interested, not desperate. Desperate is leaving long messages, stalking, or calling a lot.

1/3/2009 9:18:37 PM

OopsPowSrprs
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"It seems to me it's really: "I had a relationship end a little over a month ago and I want my ex who is on TWW to know that I am getting back into the game and that I am SO over him.""


Haha called out.

1/3/2009 10:34:13 PM

dwmcilmo
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"seeking the friendship route"

So how many boyfriends have you actually had fall for this bullshit? On a side note, are you a Mormon/Fundamentalist Christian or otherwise saving yourself for marriage?

1/3/2009 10:50:29 PM

ambrosia1231
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You didn't seem very socially inept when I met you

Call him.
Be yourself.

This is not hard.

1/3/2009 11:25:06 PM

pawprint
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So how many boyfriends have you actually had fall for this bullshit? On a side note, are you a Mormon/Fundamentalist Christian or otherwise saving yourself for marriage?"


ahahaha...pfft.

I didn't earn the nickname "serial dater" for nothing. You can pick on me all you want for not offering my vag out to every nondescript loser who gave me a second glance but I met a lot of guys, dated a lot of guys, and learned exactly what I wanted and didn't want in a relationship and I did it without fucking them.

I met a lot of people in college because of my job and if a guy asked for my number, I told him I was not interested in sex or a relationship but I'd love to get to know them. I never had one change their mind.

You males complain about how complicated females are and want us to give it to you straight. I don't see it as "bullshit" because it was the honest truth. I'm sorry you're used to girls who play around and pretend they like you when they don't or the ones who are drooling at the chance to have sex to validate themselves but that's just not me.

1/4/2009 12:15:49 AM

drunknloaded
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2 possible date ideas:

grab a couple veggie burgers

or

invite him to church with you

1/4/2009 12:19:18 AM

wolfpack2105
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see, this episode is easy. Girl gives guy number without guy asking, guy calls back = both are interested

now, the OPPOSITE, however, is hard to crack. If i asked a girl for her number, and she gave it to me....i have no clue whether shes doing it because shes interested in me and wants me to call or if she just wants to give it to me cuz she thinks i could be a good friend, or if she thinks that she just wants to get rid of me. fuck women

1/4/2009 12:26:43 AM

fleetwud
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Last sentence: the whole point.

1/4/2009 12:36:28 AM

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