Quote :

"Maybe he's just not sexually dominant. Lots of gays guys are like that nowadays. "

1/27/2010 2:23:15 AM

^ Ignorant

1/27/2010 2:24:05 AM

Dear BetterOffDead: no sex has occurred after almost 2 months of nice dinners, excursions, beach trips, etc.

Additional fun stats:
Listens to techno/trance religiously
Shops @ Ikea at least once a week
Loves going to wine bars
Does yoga
Buys me cute outfits
Considers Drew Barrymore attractive

1/27/2010 5:52:41 AM

drew barrymore is not ugly

1/27/2010 5:54:00 AM

drew barrymore is not ugly

1/27/2010 5:54:39 AM

He considers her extremely attractive. I don't think she's ugly, but I don't consider her the be super hot.

1/27/2010 5:56:47 AM

i'm sure some guys think rosie o'donnell is hot too.

1/27/2010 5:58:19 AM

Lies

1/27/2010 6:00:51 AM

just touch his penis. that should give you a hint

1/27/2010 6:01:12 AM

But now I'm afraid to do that. What if it was in a guy's butt?

Also, if I have sex with a man who has sex with other men, then the blood center may turn me away as a donor.

1/27/2010 6:03:39 AM

you said he's divorced? it's possible he's nervous as hell. just escalate shit a little bit.

1/27/2010 6:05:56 AM

Separated and getting divorced

I got him in the hot tub Sunday night and there was absolutely no attempt to try anything. I'm not as fit as I used to be, so maybe he just wasn't feeling it. Or he's not into "my type."

1/27/2010 6:10:39 AM

what was that first book you read this year?



k



he wants to be your girl friend. if he does ever make a move, you should be like WTF?

too many signs point to ~. it'd be different if you'd only spent time together a couple of times and were seperated by 700 miles...

2 months is not the weird part here.. just sayin.

WEIRDO


ps

1/27/2010 6:32:36 AM

suck his dick and report back

1/27/2010 6:52:43 AM

Post pics.


Also, why are you dating a guy with a tribal tramp stamp?

1/27/2010 7:00:31 AM

lucy, he's gay.



he's probably just pretending BECAUSE he has a kid and he doesn't want to traumatize them

1/27/2010 7:48:59 AM

ask him what his opinion of Will and Grace is

[Edited on January 27, 2010 at 8:01 AM. Reason : and/or American Idol]

1/27/2010 8:00:42 AM

Quote :

"Or he's not into "my type.""

this.

either that or he's super super metro and the being in a divorce thing has him weirded out

although i'm going with ~

1/27/2010 8:08:23 AM

drew barrymore is not ugly

1/27/2010 9:01:13 AM

She's cute to me sometimes and then just weird-looking at others:

Example:



VS

1/27/2010 9:16:41 AM

as if i wasnt clear enough on the page 1

this guy is either super gay, or super sketch, either way, not someone to bang

just use him for cute outfits so you have something to wear on our dates DUH

1/27/2010 9:22:34 AM

Prediction: His first move to start something sexual will be clumsy. She will either laugh and not be in the mood, or go through with it and it will be terrible. Subsequent dates will be rife with awkwardness. The relationship ends.

1/27/2010 9:41:49 AM

sounds to me he just doesnt know what the fuck is going on in his life and is taking things to extremes b/c he doesnt know what else to do.

how recent was his divorce?

dude may just need time to find himself again.

let the outliers settle out.

1/27/2010 9:42:53 AM

What the fuck does it mean when someone says they "need to find themselves"? Someone explain this to me.

1/27/2010 9:44:30 AM

get him an "old guys rule" retro T shirt

and tickets to a Rod Stewart show

and send him on his ~ ass way

[Edited on January 27, 2010 at 9:45 AM. Reason : ^ it's like when ppl get in a relationship and forget all about all of their friends..]

1/27/2010 9:44:44 AM

lucyinthesky, your man is a cake boy. He's a disco-dancing, Oscar Wilde reading, Streisand ticket holding, friend of Dorothy. Know what I'm saying?

1/27/2010 9:48:12 AM

I wonder how I should end things? It's not like I can just say, "I think you're gay. Goodbye."

1/27/2010 11:37:24 AM

^^ fuck yes.

1/27/2010 11:38:29 AM

Quote :

"get him an "old guys rule" retro T shirt and tickets to a Rod Stewart show and send him on his ~ ass way"

Quote :

"what was that first book you read this year? k he wants to be your girl friend."

[Edited on January 27, 2010 at 11:40 AM. Reason : f]

1/27/2010 11:38:48 AM

He's not old though. He's only 33.

Oooh. I should give him a copy of "He's Just Not That Into You".

[Edited on January 27, 2010 at 11:40 AM. Reason : .]

1/27/2010 11:40:17 AM

Ask him for advice on another guy you're trying to date.

He'll figure it out then.

1/27/2010 11:40:31 AM

show up to your next date with another guy.

he'll get the hint.

just make sure he's not ~ so you don't have to go home alone.

1/27/2010 11:41:57 AM

buy him assless chaps when he buys you a cute outfit

then yell that he's trying to change you

1/27/2010 11:47:30 AM

run off crying anytime he comes around

1/27/2010 11:47:54 AM

tell him you need space




without him in it.

1/27/2010 11:50:21 AM

aahahaha


H8R PWNZ ~'S, but not in a hate-crime sorta way

1/27/2010 11:51:49 AM

I'll tell him I'm trying to lose weight.

Like, 160 pounds.

1/27/2010 11:52:04 AM

the tramp stamp is creepy, but not necessarily gay

the jeans are gay, but everyone has a little gay in them

but add in the techno, and you've got a bullpen ace for the other team

1/27/2010 11:53:52 AM

160 lbs? DEF ~

1/27/2010 11:54:12 AM

Quote :

"I'll tell him I'm trying to lose weight. Like, 160 pounds."

haha, i like it!

1/27/2010 11:54:32 AM

Actually, he only weighs about 140.

How about...

"It's not you...
...it's your boyfriend."

1/27/2010 11:55:21 AM

Quote :

"And calls at leats 3 times per day. Just to chat."

does it start with, "OH.MY.GOD....GIRL. let me tell you what this girl was wearing in the elevator at work.....last season's Prada skirt. canyoubelieveit?????"

or does it start with, "HEY GIRL HAAAAYYYYYYYYY"

1/27/2010 11:57:11 AM

^ Usually something along the lines of "HAY HAY HAY Sweetheart."



[Edited on January 27, 2010 at 11:57 AM. Reason : .]

1/27/2010 11:57:11 AM

Quote :

"How about... "It's not you... ...it's your boyfriend.""

reminds me of that scene in legally blond in the courtroom and the gay cabana boy


[Edited on January 27, 2010 at 11:57 AM. Reason : .]

1/27/2010 11:57:16 AM

buy him a liberace cd to play in his bmw z3

1/27/2010 11:58:14 AM

The dude like the CACK

1/27/2010 11:58:56 AM

it sounds like he doesnt know how to date. i guess its possible with him being married and just now separated, he forgot what its like to actually "date" someone.

1/27/2010 12:01:30 PM

^ doesnt really explain pink underwear and a tramp stamp

1/27/2010 12:01:51 PM

tell him you don't think he's ready..

for this jelly

1/27/2010 12:04:25 PM

^

1/27/2010 12:04:45 PM