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iheartkisses
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True. I do need to be single in August. So I need a July bf.

7/8/2010 1:14:01 PM

jwolfpack02
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won't happen again...I got snipped 4 years ago

7/8/2010 1:14:20 PM

thumper
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"I do need to be single in August."


Explain.

7/8/2010 1:14:43 PM

iheartkisses
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You know why.

7/8/2010 1:15:32 PM

thumper
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Was I drunk when you told me this story? I got no idea what you're talking about.

7/8/2010 1:16:41 PM

iheartkisses
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I can't do you know what if I have a boyfriend.

7/8/2010 1:17:11 PM

thumper
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Oh snizzle snap.

7/8/2010 1:18:11 PM

pilgrimshoes
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my girl wont leave my vein cane alone

WAT I DO

7/8/2010 1:26:59 PM

jbrick83
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I honestly can't pick between two girls.

7/8/2010 1:29:18 PM

grimx
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I honestly can't pick between two gifs

7/8/2010 1:31:11 PM

thumper
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"my girl wont leave my vein cane alone

WAT I DO"


Tell her you have herpes. And the HIV.

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"I honestly can't pick between two girls."


Try to avoid both of them for a week. If that's not possible, at least 3 or 4 days. At the end of the "drought", you'll probably know who you miss more.

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"I honestly can't pick between two gifs"


So post them both!!!!

7/8/2010 1:34:37 PM

thumper
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All PMs will be answered in the order in which they are received.

Please standby, I've gotten quite the Inbox full.

7/8/2010 1:42:36 PM

wdprice3
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two pages already

7/8/2010 2:24:06 PM

thumper
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and an Inbox full

i'm a lean, mean, typing machine today

keep 'em coming!

7/8/2010 2:31:00 PM

pilgrimshoes
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oh i thought if someone pm'd you something you'd post it here with the advice

haha

why would i think such a thing

7/8/2010 2:32:15 PM

thumper
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so far, everything i've received has been requested to stay out of the thread

7/8/2010 2:33:03 PM

pttyndal
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That wasn't how I planned it. I wanted drama itt.

7/8/2010 2:34:04 PM

pilgrimshoes
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oic

thread slows to halt

7/8/2010 2:34:17 PM

mildew
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I think I am addicted to sex... but not having any....


7/8/2010 2:34:29 PM

wdprice3
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that would be cool. leave out names/handles.

post issue. post your advice.

7/8/2010 2:34:39 PM

thumper
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unfortunately, lots of people on teedub have issues with other people on teedub, and posting the PMs without names would probably still cause people to figure out who it is.

7/8/2010 2:35:45 PM

thumper
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permission received

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"I'm all the way on the other side of the world from a girl I love. I won't be able to be with her for 4 fucking years. I plan to travel to see her, but I won't be able to see her for at least another year.

We talk everyday on MSN and we call each other often. What am I to do to make me not miss her so damn much? "


There is absolutely nothing you can do, short of traveling to see her often, talking on the phone alot, emailing when you can, and doing everything possible to keep your relationship going. Four years is a long time, and I hope she's as committed to you as you seem to be to her.

7/8/2010 2:37:23 PM

wdprice3
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fine by me. makes it more interesting!

7/8/2010 2:37:28 PM

thumper
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i'd love to summarize each issue i've received in a sentence or two, but i don't think that's wise.

7/8/2010 2:38:49 PM

Doss2k
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I would like to volunteer as July bf kthx

7/8/2010 2:39:51 PM

thumper
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The doctor is OUT.

Back tonight!

7/8/2010 3:16:44 PM

BobbyDigital
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"but srsly. getting pregnant on "accident" to get married seems like the worst idea ever. do people who do this think this through?!"



I hear that Meredith girls are taught ways to get pregnant as a way of quickly getting married.

A few of my friends at state were victimized as such.

7/8/2010 3:27:59 PM

grimx
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that doesn't surprise me at all. i think girls from other colleges attended those classes online too

7/8/2010 3:29:13 PM

quagmire02
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"I hear that Meredith girls are taught ways to get pregnant as a way of quickly getting married.

A few of my friends at state were victimized as such."

like what? how were they victimized?

7/8/2010 3:31:41 PM

Skwinkle
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I would like to punch any woman who would ever even consider doing that in the ovaries.

7/8/2010 3:31:41 PM

pilgrimshoes
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the ole' keepangababy

7/8/2010 3:32:38 PM

Slave Famous
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We call that "pulling the goalie"

Some girls are real sneaky about it, and don't tell you for weeks

7/8/2010 3:34:40 PM

Slave Famous
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Christ, every post is a double these days

[Edited on July 8, 2010 at 3:35 PM. Reason : x]

7/8/2010 3:34:40 PM

BobCam
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I've got a buddy who just got married and a few of us found out that his wife has cheated on him with at least one guy. He has no idea, should we tell him or let him find out on his own?

7/8/2010 6:15:07 PM

merbig
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If it was me, I would want to be told so I could just get the marriage annulled and kick the bitch to the curb.

7/8/2010 6:17:43 PM

thumper
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"I've got a buddy who just got married and a few of us found out that his wife has cheated on him with at least one guy. He has no idea, should we tell him or let him find out on his own?"


Depends on a few things.

1) How good of friends are you? Were you in the wedding, or are you otherwise pretty close?
2) Do you know for a fact, or is it speculation? Do you have proof?

He will be more apt to believe you if you're close friends, and if you have proof it will further back up your claims. But be prepared for a little resentment and anger towards you for being the one who is, essentially, ruining his life.

That being said, I think you should tell him. If he finds out on his own and finds out you knew all along, it could ruin your friendship.

7/8/2010 6:18:47 PM

H8R
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Their marriage is none of your business. Keep it to yourself or you'll probably be minus 1 friend when he sides with her and they move far away from nosey motherfuckers.

People gotta make their own mistakes or they'll end up repeating them.

7/8/2010 6:23:22 PM

thumper
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I guess ignorance is bliss sometimes. *shrug*

7/8/2010 6:52:30 PM

eleusis
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I married a woman with horrible sandwich making abilities. What should I do?

7/8/2010 7:08:43 PM

thumper
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Eat more ribs, I hear she rocks the kitchen with those!

7/8/2010 7:11:25 PM

eleusis
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but I want a rib sandwich.

7/8/2010 7:11:55 PM

thumper
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Since when do you eat bread with any regularity?

Next time McD's brings back the McRib, I'll buy you two

7/8/2010 7:12:30 PM

Optimum
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lol @ this thread.

7/8/2010 7:12:47 PM

eleusis
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I wanted to put some beef ribs in between two slabs of babyback ribs and have a real rib sandwich.

7/8/2010 7:14:29 PM

merbig
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^ THIS!!!

7/8/2010 7:45:40 PM

chocolatervh
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gaaaaaaah dayum that sounds good.

7/8/2010 7:51:44 PM

BobCam
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"Their marriage is none of your business."
I don't buy it. If you know someone is getting fucked around on (and the evidence is more than circumstantial) then I feel like not letting him know is as big a betrayal.

She's pretty careless though. I mean, if we found out, it is only a matter of time before he finds out anyway.

7/8/2010 9:47:47 PM

khcadwal
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"People gotta make their own mistakes or they'll end up repeating them.
"


yea...if they KNOW about the mistakes. would you seriously let your friend lose 20+ years of his/her life to an cheating whore marriage that YOU knew about?

i'm taking out my pencil and paper and scratching your name off my friend's list right now

maybe you'll have one less friend but THEN they're making their own mistake. you gotta try after awhile if they don't know. damn. you are cold.

7/8/2010 9:50:10 PM

H8R
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^^you can not buy it all you want to, you're just being nosey. But I'm sure your relationship is perfect.

^ people need to worry about their own relationships. it's quite different if they come to you and ask for your advice. it's just not your place to interfere, it all I'm saying.. you can do what you like, but unsolicited advice is often not wanted or appreciated.

7/8/2010 9:59:25 PM

khcadwal
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thats true. but i'm also not going to let my friend waste years of their life. i mean i'd find a way to make it so they figured it out before i just said something. its different if its a one time thing but if this goes on for years and years and your friend has no clue you just sit back?

i feel like if its my friend it is slightly my business after awhile.

and i know the advice is unwelcome. been there before. but at least i tried. and we repaired our friendship later.

but if someone let this happen to me and KNEW about it you better believe i'd NEVER talk to them EVER again.

so if your friend is addicted to drugs, or anorexic or cutting themselves etc etc it isn't your business and you should just not be nosey?

[Edited on July 8, 2010 at 10:04 PM. Reason : .]

7/8/2010 10:01:23 PM

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