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"Obviously not that well if you're back already."

11/1/2010 11:14:27 PM

^^^ haha

this wasn't a decision that I arrived at after too many months in the suck...it's something I've been consistently settled on for years (which for me, is astounding)...the idea to take a trip like that is the only thing that hit me during deployment.




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11/1/2010 11:15:37 PM

Duke...you need to do the "unintended" full frontal after-shower nudity shot...ya know, where you walk out of the bathroom like you didn't know she was there.

Profit.

11/1/2010 11:23:54 PM

Men.

11/1/2010 11:26:13 PM

Yeah, we're pretty much a bunch of goddamn bastards and creeps. I'm okay with that.

11/1/2010 11:28:29 PM

^^, ^^^


http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=flesh%20helicopter&defid=3122464

11/1/2010 11:31:53 PM

haha

11/1/2010 11:33:08 PM

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"I'm taking a 2 week vacation to Peru later this month with a girl I met 4-5 years ago. We spent just a few days in each others' company back then, and another day or two later on when I flew out to CA (in flight school training, not commercially for the purpose of visiting her) where she lived at the time. I haven't actually seen her in a few years, but we've kept in touch electronically. "

You bang yet?

11/2/2010 8:44:28 AM

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"I'm taking a 2 week vacation to Peru later this month with a girl I met 4-5 years ago. We spent just a few days in each others' company back then, and another day or two later on when I flew out to CA (in flight school training, not commercially for the purpose of visiting her) where she lived at the time. I haven't actually seen her in a few years, but we've kept in touch electronically."

you bang yet?

11/2/2010 9:16:22 AM

personally, the "is this something other than friendship" question would need to be answered BEFORE i'd take a trip out of the country with said person

that said, everyone is different...i, for one, would address it early in the trip to establish boundaries, but i'm sure there's something to be said for letting it progress as it will

11/2/2010 9:17:44 AM

She will fuck you. Unless she has given some signals yall are just friends she knows there is expectation of sex if you are spending a week together traveling, it does not matter who is paying.

Unless she is psycho, which you have not necessarily spent enough time with her to determine yet.

11/2/2010 9:54:37 AM

if she says "no", then just introduce her to surprise sex.

11/2/2010 10:07:33 AM

Man, fuck you guys.

11/2/2010 11:21:59 AM

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"^This is why unmarried girls shouldn't venture into the Engagement Rings thread. They only end up with rings on the brain"

lolol, the troll gets trolled.

11/2/2010 1:15:10 PM

I just hope he's already banged her. If not...this is a risky move just to get some ass.

11/2/2010 1:34:15 PM

I hope she hasn't gotten fat.

11/2/2010 1:35:59 PM

macchu pichu is cool either way

11/2/2010 1:39:23 PM

^^^ I have not banged her. It's not really about "getting some ass", either. I have that on-call here in NC if I want it. I really want to see where things go with this chick. If nothing comes of it or if I were to somehow change my mind, then whatever, but at least I'll have my question answered.

^^ Nah, she's big into triathlons, distance running, and Crossfit. She's in incredible shape.

^ Exactly. Worst case, I have a good time seeing Machu Picchu and the Amazon--which I wouldn't have gone to otherwise, as I don't really have anyone else suitable to go with...and I won't have any more "what ifs" or woulda/shoulda/couldas hanging over me.

11/2/2010 10:34:26 PM

so I too have a question. I met a guy on halloween. we hit it off. exchanged numbers blah blah blah. He called the other day and basically i told him my schedule is kinda tight and i never really knew when i'd be free so he said he'd catch up with me later about it.

turns out I'm free tonight. It's not too forward of me to ask him out right? I don't really date or anything so I'm kind just bullshitting it as I go.

k thx

11/3/2010 9:15:08 AM

I think asking guys out shows confidence and they like it. It always worked well for me at least.

11/3/2010 9:16:43 AM

^^ Yes you should call him back and ask him out, especially after you just blew him off.

However, it's sort of shitty to call day of to ask about a date.

11/3/2010 9:17:47 AM

Plus the "I don't know when I'm free" thing is a line a lot of girls use when they aren't interested. So it's good to show you are.

11/3/2010 9:17:54 AM

I didn't blow him off? He asked when I would be free to go out and I told him I didn't know.

11/3/2010 9:20:12 AM

Some guys think that is a nice way of saying "fuck off"

11/3/2010 9:22:29 AM

Ask him if he's free. What's the worst that could happen?

11/3/2010 9:23:09 AM

I mean yea thats all i was going to do. but apparently I'm some kind of giant douchebag for asking him the day of.

great

11/3/2010 9:24:56 AM

lol, I mean he could already have plans, but it doesn't hurt to ask.

11/3/2010 9:27:55 AM

No you're not. Rules like that are stupid. It's not rude. If you ask him in the morning and give him a few hours notice, then it at least means you were thinking ahead.

I don't like when I get asked out for a movie that starts in an hour, because it means they weren't thinking of me until the last minute. But I still appreciate the thought.

Do it!

11/3/2010 9:30:24 AM

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"basically i told him my schedule is kinda tight and i never really knew when i'd be free "

I would see that as getting blown off, and wouldn't really have any thoughts or expectations about seeing you again.

11/3/2010 9:31:33 AM

If he's busy, he'll want to reschedule, if not, then you've got yourself a date. Case closed. I don't see why this guy would need more than a day to decide. I'm sure it's a casual date, no?

Really? Call me crazy, but I would take that as it is considering that she is in school.

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11/3/2010 9:33:23 AM

yea. we just met a few days ago it was just going to be dinner.

11/3/2010 9:34:57 AM

Wadhead1 is out of his fuckin' gourd. There's nothing wrong with asking someone out on a date for that same evening. Jesus.

11/3/2010 9:35:06 AM

^

It's just a date, not a shuttle lift off. Or is it???



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11/3/2010 9:37:22 AM

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"I have not banged her. It's not really about "getting some ass", either. I have that on-call here in NC if I want it. I really want to see where things go with this chick. If nothing comes of it or if I were to somehow change my mind, then whatever, but at least I'll have my question answered."

I guess I just see going on a vacation like that with someone you either aren't in a relationship with or haven't had sex with could be extremely awkward. Those are vacations you go on with family or close [same-sex] friends.

You guys are going to get a little intoxicated at some point, you're going to make a move, possibly get turned down, then the rest of the vacation is just going to be weird.

You say, "well if it doesn't work out between us, then at least I'm on an awesome vacation!! woot!" But if things don't go the way you want them to with her, then it's going to affect your vacation.

11/3/2010 9:41:26 AM

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"It's just a date, not a shuttle lift off. Or is it???"

Brown chicken brown cow!

Seriously. Call him. And report back to us.

11/3/2010 9:50:37 AM

date. tonight. 10pm.

and according to chatterbox I am supposed to blow him before and after dinner.

11/3/2010 9:51:18 AM

i mean, it's just common courtesy!

11/3/2010 9:55:52 AM

^

11/3/2010 9:56:45 AM

I thought that since you asked him on a date he is suppose to blow you?

11/3/2010 9:57:25 AM

Only if she pays.

Where are y'all going?

11/3/2010 9:58:11 AM

LOL

11/3/2010 10:00:47 AM

we're just grabbing some sushi at sushi blues. I heart crunchy rolls.

11/3/2010 10:00:50 AM

I've only ever been asked out by a girl once and it was an awesome feeling.

11/3/2010 10:02:00 AM

Yeah, you waited until day of to make plans to go out. Its common courtesy to blow him.

11/3/2010 10:05:14 AM

I'll keep that in mind thanks Peter

11/3/2010 10:10:27 AM

So, now that we're on the topic of initiating things when dating someone, I have a bit of a predicament:

I dated a guy about a year-and-a-half ago. We'd go on dates. Kiss. Never anything more than that physically. However, since he was my next door neighbor, we decided to keep it slow. And neither of us were really in a good place to date due to our travel schedules (he was filming a documentary). And we decided to just be friends since we were neighbors.

Fast forward to a couple of months ago. Said guy starts asking me out again. He has taken me to dinner or to the movies about once a week for the past two months. However, he hasn't tried anything physically. Not even a kiss. He never lets me pay for anything ... so I'm kind of confused. Why is he taking me on dates if he doesn't want to even kiss me? I really like him! And he knows this.

11/3/2010 10:12:02 AM

^This wasn't the one that you thought was gay was it?

And do you guys drink alcohol on the dates?? Its basically impossible for me not to make a move if I've been on a date and had a couple drinks in me. Its pretty much proper date etiquette in my book.

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11/3/2010 10:13:29 AM

kiss him first? I do that a lot actually.

but I am a kiss whore

11/3/2010 10:14:47 AM

Totally kiss him first. With a username like yours, you pretty much have to.

11/3/2010 10:16:38 AM

Haha no! Oddly enough, that guy is currently dating another NCSU grad in Orlando ... does anyone here remember Leanne, the cute cocktail waitress who worked at Sammy's around 2004/2005? She was friends with a lot of the Theta Chi folks.

Anyway, this is the documentary director/producer who lived next door to me.

^ & ^^ Why is he not making a move though? Not that he has to, but why would he not at least try by now?

[Edited on November 3, 2010 at 10:17 AM. Reason : d]

11/3/2010 10:16:48 AM