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Fareako
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"The ultimate "fuck you", would be to somehow get through to the end of the lease, and have the landlord's not renew hers and renew yours instead..."


ThePeter and I have done this before. To two roommates. We simply talked to our roommates to try and reason with them about what they were doing that was fucking up our place and when that didn't work we talked to the landlord and asked him to not renew the lease. We had already found two new tenants to replace them, which definitely helped our case.

[Edited on December 15, 2010 at 10:34 AM. Reason : past-tense. 2]

12/15/2010 10:27:47 AM

AstralEngine
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Please allow me to be the voice or reason:

I seriously doubt you never watch the tv (you mentioned wanting to watch the Obama speech). As a result, you should pay a share of the cable bill.


You should also man the fuck up and tell that bitch where to shove her dvd collection next time you want to use the tv. And you should choke her ass for smashing your rear view mirrors.

12/15/2010 10:36:16 AM

jethromoore
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"You, sir, might be slightly mentally handicapped."


You sir, may be projecting your own shortcomings to e-strangers.

12/15/2010 10:38:56 AM

HUR
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"This individual is a Long Island brat"


It's a Jersey Thing

12/15/2010 10:46:00 AM

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12/15/2010 10:52:22 AM

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12/15/2010 11:23:29 AM

AntiMnifesto
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Wait, you're a dude? Oh.

After filing the police report and canceling the cable, you need to fix this situation permanently by not living with
girls again that you're not in a serious relationship with. My roommate drama levels dropped to practically
nil when I moved in with 3 guys. They are usually level headed, clean when I ask them to, and don't do passive
aggressive bullshit.

12/15/2010 11:48:30 AM

jbrick83
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"by not living with
girls again that you're not in a serious relationship with. My roommate drama levels dropped to practically
nil when I moved in with 3 guys."


Meh, I've had equal problems with girls than guys.

And in GENERAL, girls clean a lot better than boys. Not to say that I haven't been around some disgusting girl roommates...on average, guys will let bathrooms and kitchens get much nastier than girls were.

12/15/2010 11:50:27 AM

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"Also, who's TV is it in the living room?"


It belongs to the third roommate, despite her never watching it.

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"If you really and truly believe that you are in the right when she starts yelling at you then you have to keep your cool. You can't escalate a shouting match with a woman by yelling back, it never works."


The first fight we had was a yelling match, then the couple of times after that I kept my cool completely. I told her I really wish we could find a way to fix our problems and be friends. This threw her over the deep end. She started shouting, I kept talking softly and using kind words, and she just got more and more pissed off until she trampled into her room and slammed the door. It gave me a moment of joy that I was able to get to her like that, but it didn't help anything.

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"The ultimate "fuck you", would be to somehow get through to the end of the lease, and have the landlord's not renew hers and renew yours instead"


I've already been thinking about this. I have people I know I want to live with next year but it depends in which part of town they want to be. If we decide to keep this place, I'll have no problem getting rid of this girl (the landlord even told me how much he can't stand her).

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"My roommate drama levels dropped to practically nil when I moved in with 3 guys"


I lived with 2 girls the last year I was in Raleigh and did fine. The difference is they were two of my closest friends and these two were craigslist finds (I didn't know anyone before moving here)

12/15/2010 11:59:15 AM

nutsmackr
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grow a sac

12/15/2010 12:44:36 PM

TerdFerguson
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for some reason, I always get a kick out of bad roommate threads. I've had some bad ones, but threads like these just let me know that it can always be worse, I guess.

anyways, good luck bdmazur

12/15/2010 1:16:00 PM

SmoothTalker
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Another alternative would be to just cancel the cable service and then act like you don't know what happened. I'd imagine she'd try to get you to call them up... at which point you make up some lie that they won't let you re-open an acct b/c of bad credit. This makes you the victim... the cable company the scape goat and forces her to put the acct in her name, at which point you can mention you don't want cable anyway.

I know this is a "bitch" solution but it doesn't sound like you are going to try any of the direct approaches.

12/15/2010 2:55:57 PM

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"for some reason, I always get a kick out of bad roommate threads."


hahaha yeah this one and the one where the crazy dude had a hole drilled in the bathroom wall so he could spy on people.

12/15/2010 3:18:04 PM

pttyndal
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haha. I thought I remembered seeing a general roommate thread and was going to read it for the lolz. Well apparently not but I came across this gem message_topic.aspx?topic=559780

12/15/2010 3:27:49 PM

ThePeter
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"Hey look, another thread where bdmazur acts like a pussy and completely lacks normal social skills.

3/1/2009 1:04:19 PM"


hahahaha

12/15/2010 3:33:57 PM

pttyndal
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and lol @ the roommate

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Bdmazur is an idiot. I am his roommate. He comes in at 4am in the morning and the dog is in a crate? omg wow....I'm sleeping and he must be crated because I cannot watch him. If mazur would have been here at all during the day he would have realized that the puppy was out the entire day and we actually took him out to petsmart and friend's places. It's also funny how he tried to tell me the crate was to big. It's a medium crate actually too large for the puppy. But according to the expert Ben it is way to small. He also gave me advice to let him chew on people and let him know how hard to do so, but any book/video/trainer says to stop him from chewing on people as puppy. So for an avid dog lover he knows very little about dogs. I would LOVE for him to call the shelter, "Hi the dog is crated at 4am and its whining when I came in", the response they would give him would be absolutely hilarious.
Read a book, watch a dvd on puppies, or talk to a trainer before you start running your mouth about shit that you really have no clue on what you are talking about."

12/15/2010 3:36:45 PM

wolfpackgrrr
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lol nm clicked on the thread.

This just confirms what I said on page 1

[Edited on December 15, 2010 at 3:40 PM. Reason : s]

12/15/2010 3:40:19 PM

pttyndal
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and damn, where is the jersey86 thread

[Edited on December 15, 2010 at 3:48 PM. Reason : found it. message_topic.aspx?topic=586831&page=5#14275770]

12/15/2010 3:47:48 PM

wolfpackgrrr
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I don't understand why he didn't call the airline, cancel the ticket, and get a voucher for future travel...

12/15/2010 4:06:14 PM

pttyndal
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but then there would be no entertainment value

12/15/2010 4:24:30 PM

wolfpackgrrr
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True

12/15/2010 4:25:59 PM

aea
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""This individual is a Long Island brat"


It's a Jersey Thing"


since when is LI in Jersey?

12/15/2010 4:45:15 PM

walkmanfades
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Everyone in north Jersey is from LI.

12/15/2010 4:51:47 PM

aea
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Not I...

12/15/2010 4:59:52 PM

ThePeter
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"I don't understand why he didn't call the airline, cancel the ticket, and get a voucher for future travel..."


i believe you can't change the name on the ticket; its what I ran into (and probably posted about)

12/15/2010 5:00:28 PM

twoozles
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Talk to her about it. If she is not in agreement with you, tell her you're going to cancel it in your name & do it, switch to a different internet provider, and tell her she can get cable in her name.

Done.

12/15/2010 6:19:53 PM

lewisje
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lol why did people think bdmazur was a woman

12/15/2010 7:50:41 PM

Samwise16
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^ Because he's acting like one.

Actually, no, that's an insult to us females. I know many girls (myself included) who have handled bad roommate situations in a more productive and drama-free way than he has....

12/15/2010 8:22:16 PM

lewisje
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"that's an insult to us females"
indeed

12/15/2010 8:31:31 PM

toyotafj40s
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To the OP. Put the pussy back. It's For women to wear not men

12/15/2010 11:31:42 PM

erice85
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i find it highly unlikely you guys never watch TV

if you made her pay for cable herself..if i were her, i'd damn sure reverse jew charge your ass for even taking a peak at the tv


grow a pair

[Edited on December 16, 2010 at 12:08 AM. Reason : ,]

12/16/2010 12:07:43 AM

AntiMnifesto
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I agree with Samwise, it's an insult to those of us with vag.

The last time I lived with girls was about 4 years ago, and we had the whole Internet vs. Netflix debate over email. I got tired of this and just had the cable guy come out and run a new line to our house in my name. They started using the Internet and paid me. Done. Needless to say that was 6 total drama-filled months of my life. So no more living with girls.

12/16/2010 10:33:35 AM

bdmazur
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" who have handled bad roommate situations in a more productive and drama-free way than he has...."


I'm not causing any drama, I'm just trying to figure out how to do this in a way that would keep her from causing more drama.

12/16/2010 6:39:54 PM

merbig
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Cancel it and ignore her.

12/16/2010 6:43:49 PM

G.O.D
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I just still can't understand why her daddy can't pay for it????

12/16/2010 8:21:05 PM

jcgolden
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introduce TV girl to the wonders of reading: or maybe how to has Justin.tv livestream and ustream, hulu, etc. tv on teh interwebs. or get her a boyfriend.

12/16/2010 9:20:01 PM

NCSUWolfy
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lol my roommate is such a NUT

she came in tonight, told me she has pms, opened a christmas card and burst into tears

edit: now she came and sat down on the couch with me and started showing me some pictures in some textbook she is studying (grad student) meanwhile leaving all her groceries out (including ice cream) for at least 30min while she came and chattered/cried etc on the couch with me

shes a good roommate in every other way but she is a nutty nutty nut nut

[Edited on December 17, 2010 at 12:02 AM. Reason : kjsdkfj]

12/16/2010 11:51:30 PM

iheartkisses
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^ AHAHAHA PMS makes some folks cray cray! Perhaps she should change her birth control.

12/17/2010 8:40:46 AM

Str8BacardiL
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lotta words itt

12/17/2010 11:14:10 AM

wolfpackgrrr
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^^^

12/17/2010 11:45:45 AM

pttyndal
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"BITCHES

BE

CRAZY"

12/17/2010 11:47:30 AM

dannydigtl
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Do you live in Allston? B line?

LOL.

12/17/2010 3:13:48 PM

walkmanfades
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Is B line the one that stops every 50 feet on the way out to BC?

12/17/2010 3:26:34 PM

bdmazur
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Chestnut Hill Ave in Brighton, the B is closest but its just a 5 minute walk to Cleveland Circle (C) and Reservoir (D)

12/17/2010 3:36:39 PM

dannydigtl
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cool, i live on Beacon St. in between the C and D, but my gf lives on Comm Ave. and when we take the B line its a freaking disaster.

[Edited on December 17, 2010 at 3:54 PM. Reason : fdff]

12/17/2010 3:54:13 PM

Wordsworth
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so have you done this yet? Hurry up and post results.

12/17/2010 3:58:16 PM

dharney
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you can always vote her off at the next tribal council meeting

12/17/2010 11:25:44 PM

erice85
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yeah did you get your balls back yet?

12/17/2010 11:56:40 PM

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And once again, a wolfshit thread in which the victim gets abused and insulted beyond imagination. Who knew? Bdmazur, I am not sure how familiar you are with the epicenter of trolling that is the wolfweb, but let me clarify: this is where losers with no adult responsibilities or social skills go to assault others and attempt to stroke their own egos, and it is the last place to go to find reason, temperance, or any of the qualities that would distinguish a human from a lower animal in the latter stages of rabid aggression. I wish you luck and a peaceful resolution to a bad situation until you can find a better living arrangement, and am amazed by your restraint given the level of trolling that has gone on in this thread.

12/18/2010 4:50:54 PM

Ernie
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webtime is a faggot

12/18/2010 5:04:53 PM

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