The new girl is probably a thousand times better in the sack then you...

[Edited on June 12, 2011 at 7:04 PM. Reason : w]

6/12/2011 7:02:21 PM

I like fat girls that look all doughy and also doey-eyed

You know those are the ones who grab their ankles and moan on command

6/12/2011 7:05:02 PM

6/12/2011 7:06:24 PM

baaahahahaa ^^

anywho, idk why it matters Golden, be who you are do what you love and a man who doesnt want/appreciate it isnt worth your time. wish him happiness and you go find yourself some.

i'm sure you, as i have and many many other girls out there, have dated a range of 'looking' guys, some 6's and some 10's right? they all probably had something great about them but didn't last for whatever reason. it's just as much 'not about looks' for girls as it is for guys, or at least it'd be nice if more people thought that way.

i spent a long long time wondering why by ex's new flames were hideous/bitchy/crazy/etc. and what was wrong with me to make them pick these new girls over myself and then i realized i was missing the point completely. i wanted someone who wanted me back and he didn't anymore so it was time to move on.

good luck girl!

6/12/2011 8:09:13 PM

^ going off that last part...

I'd be willing to be money that for many of these situations, a third party perspective would say the girls are about equal in the looks department. But when you are dumped or just end a relationship, you're probably more likely to bash the other person's significant other to make yourself feel better.

6/12/2011 8:11:10 PM

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"But when you are dumped or just end a relationship, you're probably more likely to bash the other person's significant other to make yourself feel better."

OR you're like me and you have friends that say it to you

that helps too

6/12/2011 8:13:18 PM

everyone... EVERYONE is guilty of criticizing their ex's choices post-breakup

and if you're doing it to make yourself feel better, dont.

do something, anything else. that negativity just comes back to hurt you.

6/12/2011 8:14:38 PM

^^ haha that always seems to happen. But then they also start listing all the reasons your previous boyfriend was a douche ... which, while helpful to get over it, is kind of like, it would have been cool if you'd pointed out I was dating a jackass a little earlier ...

6/12/2011 8:15:29 PM

i totally criticize my ex's choices.

the only thing they all had in common is me

6/12/2011 8:15:41 PM

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"like, it would have been cool if you'd pointed out I was dating a jackass a little earlier ..."

i had that with a guy that i dated for FOUR YEARS afterwards - my entire family and all my friends were like, yea we weren't ever sure why you were with him

fucking tell me that before i waste four years of my life people.

6/12/2011 8:16:55 PM

Amen to that. My high school boyfriend dumped me and basically my entire family (and a good portion of my friends) informed me later that they were very happy about it. THANKS PEOPLE

6/12/2011 8:17:45 PM

My previous lady friend was very attractive, mentally stable, and all around a good person. I broke up with her because the sex was not good and I was too lazy to make the drive into the city. Was this a mistake? Probably.

My latest lady friend is not nearly as attractive body wise (cute face which means the body could have better potential one day), has huge breast which I was excited about until I unsheathed them, and has a shady ass past. Was this a mistake? Oh yeah.

In conclusion, GoldenGirl, you probably are terrible at pleasing your man, also you probably have some body abnormality that secretly turns him off, like huge big toes.

6/12/2011 9:53:49 PM

huge boobs are usually really disappointing when the bra comes off

6/12/2011 10:05:07 PM

how so?

6/12/2011 10:16:21 PM

often have some stretch marks, or are saggy, and don't look good when the bra isn't giving them shape. plus huge tits are too often paired with large nipples or gross blue veins.

perky > huge

6/12/2011 10:20:21 PM

^amen brother. I think 32Cs are the perfect size.


[Edited on June 12, 2011 at 10:31 PM. Reason : details]

6/12/2011 10:29:23 PM

GoldenGirl, can you elaborate on how the relationship progressed from beginning to end? I refuse to believe you are terrible at pleasing a guy. I need to hear more about what kind of guy this guy was.

6/12/2011 10:35:17 PM

tell him what his cock looked like

6/12/2011 10:36:54 PM

I concur, perky boobs is better than big. I dated a chick that had DD's, but were a bit floppy and it annoyed me when she was laying on her back, her tits were on her sides.

6/12/2011 10:39:05 PM

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"often have some stretch marks, or are saggy, and don't look good when the bra isn't giving them shape. plus huge tits are too often paired with large nipples or gross blue veins. "

true.

6/12/2011 10:42:01 PM

and they're usually paired with boob sweat (during the summer)

but there is a benefit to having bigger boobs -- if they hurt you, some insurance companies will pay for the reduction and I think you get a breast lift thrown in

[Edited on June 12, 2011 at 10:43 PM. Reason : .]

6/12/2011 10:42:59 PM

^

6/12/2011 10:43:59 PM

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"I dated a chick that had DD's, but were a bit floppy and it annoyed me when she was laying on her back, her tits were on her sides."

I fail to see how that's a bad thing

6/13/2011 1:14:20 AM

my lady friend has dd's, but they are 30dd so they are pretty perky. she has a terrible time finding bras though, often has to go with 32.

6/13/2011 8:25:03 AM

Yeah, op is probably lazy/boring in the sack.

6/13/2011 8:34:48 AM

It's ok my track record has been that most girls I date end up marrying the next guy they meet, but I'm ok with that. I seem to recall some movie about that and the guy ended up with Jessica Alba so I'm just killing time

6/13/2011 8:52:58 AM

I really don't see why this thread needs to continue. GoldenGirl had answers provided at the very beginning. Definitely a combination of the girls not being as uglier/chubbier as she and her friends think, due to the jealousy factor, and that these girls are just generally better people than her friends.

Not hard to believe the latter, since GoldenGirl and her friends appear to be the type of people who spend countless hours perusing facebook only to discuss how fat and unattractive the girlfriends of their exes are.

6/13/2011 9:23:24 AM

this isn't 100% true for me, but similar:

after I've dated a guy, the next girl he dates is always short/petite (which is my total opposite)

6/13/2011 11:03:20 AM

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"she should feel better, not worse."

Agreed. If he is with a chick that isn't as attractive as you, then you should feel good about it. Nothing makes me feel better than seeing an ex with an ugly/fat dude.

6/13/2011 11:09:05 AM

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"i had that with a guy that i dated for FOUR YEARS afterwards - my entire family and all my friends were like, yea we weren't ever sure why you were with him fucking tell me that before i waste four years of my life people. "

Fuck that, I tell people straight up if their SO is a douche/cunt.

Fortunately my friends have a track record of dating people I accept for them...well, except one certain stubborn friend >_>

[Edited on June 13, 2011 at 11:10 AM. Reason : ]

6/13/2011 11:09:53 AM

It's Aaron, isn't it? I knew you were just letting him keep me around for the cookies.

6/13/2011 11:14:47 AM

ah shit I've been found out

6/13/2011 11:16:35 AM

... its always aaron..

6/13/2011 11:17:05 AM

^^lol my family & friends were the same way. Except my bff HATED him and rejoiced when I told her we broke up. I knew she didn't like him but my family all faked it and I was like WTF WHYYYYYYYYYY DIDNT YOU TELL MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE???

6/13/2011 11:17:49 AM

I have had the same situation with only 1 of my exes. My family and friends all loved the rest of them. To the point that when we broke up people would say "So what did you do to fuck this one up?"

6/13/2011 11:21:39 AM

yeah honestly i don't care what my family things of my girlfriends

6/13/2011 11:26:10 AM

Rebound desperation. Even believed "upgrades" actually aren't.

6/16/2011 11:36:57 PM

OP is a cunt /thread

6/16/2011 11:39:06 PM

^^^

I guess you must not be very close with or care much about your family.

6/16/2011 11:49:23 PM

No he is living for himself. The way I see it my family has and has lived their own life. I'll date/marry and fuck whomever I want. My family knows to stay out my personal life.

6/16/2011 11:50:33 PM

gotta love that "me" centered life.

Go America.

6/17/2011 10:30:43 AM

^i imagine its not only america that thinks that way.

6/17/2011 10:38:11 AM

definitely not, but "Go Western World" doesn't work well as a cliched exclamation.

6/17/2011 10:42:11 AM

we are the forerunners of me

I'm AstralAdvent and i approved this message.

6/17/2011 10:42:22 AM

but isn't the UK in the eastern hemisphere?

i imagine they would fall in the same category.


maybe it should be
"Go developed countries"
??


but then again isn't ear stretching in african tribes just to prove that you are powerful and wealthy?
isn't that a little selfish?



maybe it should be "Go Human Race"

[Edited on June 17, 2011 at 10:46 AM. Reason : sfdsf]

6/17/2011 10:43:34 AM

I don't think these problems have hit the East Coast yet.

6/17/2011 10:51:50 AM

UK and the rest of Europe fall under the "western world", a term that is entirely unrelated to western hemisphere.

6/17/2011 10:54:02 AM

yeah

i always thought it was a western hemisphere thing that was misused.

6/17/2011 11:21:45 AM

ahhh not just about me like i said. ok here is an example.

besides this person having knowing the man in question was cheating on her with my friend...

my friend to the left...



and now her ex boy friend and his new girl ( the one that he cheated with and new gf)



this is just one example....
this to me would be a downgrade. and no i don't spend hours over this it was just something i notice recently more and more as friends go through more and more breakups.

6/17/2011 11:50:33 AM

why do you worry about other people's lives so much.

6/17/2011 11:52:51 AM