do you find that your feelings for this girl stops you from wanting to have a "more than just sex" relationship with other girls?


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9/26/2011 2:00:26 PM

You're obsessing over one chick. This is the road to disaster, my friend.

9/26/2011 2:00:38 PM

I say go for it! Make sure to call up one of those TV shows that does white trash shit, I'd love to see the drama unfold. Pissed off cop ex-bf coming back for revenge. Girl getting "out into the world for the first time" becomes the latest ho bag clubbing it up and slobbing knob like it's free ice cream. You trying to be the loving, understanding, pitied boyfriend who just wants a nice dame to come home to, but you started this mess and can't figure it out. Damn, this may even be a 4-5 season tv drama series.

[Edited on September 26, 2011 at 2:06 PM. Reason : .]

9/26/2011 2:05:47 PM

you are too good for this girl, whoever she is

9/27/2011 4:41:47 PM

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"you are too good for this girl, whoever she is"

9/27/2011 5:14:49 PM

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"PS: A girl that will cheat for you, will cheat on you."

9/27/2011 5:24:20 PM

Dump the chick, date the cop. He sounds dreamy.

9/28/2011 6:42:30 AM

this thread just might be the greatest collection of sound advice in one place. read them all.

and i seriously ended up lolling at this:

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"I say go for it! Make sure to call up one of those TV shows that does white trash shit, I'd love to see the drama unfold. Pissed off cop ex-bf coming back for revenge. Girl getting "out into the world for the first time" becomes the latest ho bag clubbing it up and slobbing knob like it's free ice cream. You trying to be the loving, understanding, pitied boyfriend who just wants a nice dame to come home to, but you started this mess and can't figure it out. Damn, this may even be a 4-5 season tv drama series."

and btw, not that it matters, but just thought i would point it out:

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"If she can't handle male attention and remain faithful to you when you're 2 hours away, she definitely won't be able to if you're 2,000 6,000 miles away."

9/28/2011 7:36:43 AM

Best solution to this problem....

get her pregnant. Establish that permanent bond that will never allow her to be away from you. Sure, even with the baby she might bang the cop again while you're overseas. But at some point you guys will probably be together and raise your "keep a hoe baby" as a family.

9/28/2011 8:16:27 AM

challenge the cop to a duel and have her be the ringside girl [/thread]

10/1/2011 1:43:09 AM

I didn't read all the responses (too lazy) but here's my two cents.

My husband and I were both dating someone else when we officially met. We had reasons to contact each other because of work (probably just making excuses) but we would talk online and call each other randomly. Conversations got more serious and break ups starting happening. We scheduled our first date and I was blown over. There was just something about him (sappy, hard to explain, often wonder where that feeling went now).

After several dates (about a months worth of time) he decides he wants to try again with his ex. They had apparently also been talking and seeing each other during the month we were. She lived about 5 minutes from his house, I lived an hour away.

I was absolutely devastated. I can still remember the sinking feeling when finding it all out. I hated him. What he had done felt so sneaky, conniving, etc. I deleted his phone numbers, email, facebook, basically all contacts.

Unfortunately work would still put us in close proximity ever so often.

Flash forward to a year later. I am dating a guy in his last year of pharmacy school at USC. He finds out, gets jealous, and reaches out. Pulls the would you give me a second chance card. I hesitated for the longest time. I was still hurt and bitter from the previous year.

But there was just something about him that I could not shake. He was constantly a thought in my mind. It drove me crazy.

He proved that the ex was out of the picture and 9 months later we actually got married (insane yes) and three years later we have a baby.

I have no reason not to trust him now. I know the cliche "once a cheater, always a cheater" and will admit that early on in our relationship there were definitely some trust obstacles to overcome. If this girl is someone that you just can't move past then maybe there is a reason to it. But don't lower yourself to being her back-up play toy. Make her move on from lame ass cop. If she won't the she isn't worth your time. If she will, then still make her prove her fidelity.

10/1/2011 3:11:07 AM

What a wonderful white trash fairytale romance!

10/1/2011 8:21:27 AM

lol

10/1/2011 11:26:39 AM

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"But there was just something about him that I could not shake. He was constantly a thought in my mind. It drove me crazy."

This makes me laugh. This is going to be the end of your marriage, too. Some random dude is going to walk into your life and "there was just something about him that I could not shake. " so you divorced your husband and married this other guy.

10/1/2011 11:31:05 AM

sjgr!

10/1/2011 12:52:39 PM

She's got two idiots dangling on a string

10/1/2011 10:50:12 PM

This thread reminds me of something that really pisses me off:

If someone you have a crush on is in a relationship - regardless of how much you may like them - respect their relationship and their significant other and leave them the fuck alone.

/rant

10/2/2011 11:27:02 AM

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"A girl that will cheat for you, will cheat on you."

Really, this is all that matters. Don't waste your time. Just because you haven't felt a connection like that with another woman yet does NOT mean you won't in the future. Move on.

10/2/2011 11:59:38 AM

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"She's got two idiots dangling on a string"

10/2/2011 1:19:12 PM

solution 1) Tell her you love hanging out with her and would like more but until she's ready (aka gets rid of bf), you and she can only be friends, and only if she's willing to stand up to her bf for you 'cause you don't want no drama.

solution 2) Get her to convince her cop bf that she needs some space til Feb --then you and she can hook up till you leave, she can go back to her bf for 6 months if she wants to or will maybe have realized by then how much she didn't want to be with him, and you both can have time to reflect as to whether you both want to get back together after.

solution 3) Group sex. Cause she just wants what every girl wants-- dp.


[Edited on October 3, 2011 at 12:02 AM. Reason : cause I can]

10/2/2011 11:59:06 PM

Isn't there some old yarn about putting pussy on a pedestal or something, that describes this situation?

10/3/2011 12:54:48 AM

the last fucking thing you want to do is try to be this girl's friend..
you are asking for drama just knowing she's with a cop (you care way too much about this dude also)

cut all ties

chick's like this are a dime a dozen, and you've got a dollar


move the fuck on.

10/3/2011 1:31:58 AM

she's gonna dump you both for a firefighter

10/3/2011 3:46:30 AM

if she's having trouble with a long distance relationship, imagine what's gonna happen when you get deployed. this will not end well. maybe you can reconnect later in life but the outlook does not look good

10/3/2011 6:34:49 AM