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1/6/2013 11:00:53 PM

Being on the other side of the coming break-up isn't much better. It's like kicking to reach the surface of the water even though there's a cinderblock tied to your waste.

1/6/2013 11:54:19 PM

^ Boom. Poetic.

1/6/2013 11:56:24 PM

1/6/2013 11:56:51 PM

don't worry, you'll find another guy

raleigh's full of teh gheys

1/6/2013 11:58:13 PM

^^^^You tie cinderblocks to your poop? Gross.

1/7/2013 12:08:38 AM

Zing

1/7/2013 8:19:02 AM

In a few weeks you will be like..."why didn't I do that sooner?"
I never regretted leaving my long relationship after I did it. It really sucked and was a pretty stressful time... but no regrets.

1/7/2013 9:13:50 AM

the best way to get over one is to get under another

gym, hangout with friends, immerse yourself in work and GO OUT... start meeting chicks

heck, go on a free dating website and just spam all the hot chicks... might be the last thng you want to do right now, but it'll definitely help you get back in the game faster


I lived with the bf and we broke up in April. I created a dating profile that night and started dating again within a couple of days. It feels weird, but the sooner you start, the easier it gets.

[Edited on January 7, 2013 at 9:17 AM. Reason : d]

1/7/2013 9:16:17 AM

i guess it's time to get on facebook and start poking chicks.

1/7/2013 9:35:37 AM

lol.

(facepalm)

1/7/2013 9:43:57 AM

Looking forward to that first poke

1/7/2013 9:46:53 AM

That's the thing I love about DivaBaby, she's so subtle. Sexy

1/7/2013 9:55:58 AM

The longest relationship I was ever in lasted 2-1/2 years. In the last 6 months of it I experienced a lot of the feelings described in the first post. I knew it wasn't working but I couldn't bear to break her heart. It took a good friend a long time to convince me that breaking up was the right thing to do, much to her frustration. That was well over a year ago and while it hurt like hell for a few weeks I still do not regret it. I know it was the right thing to do.

Time heals all wounds. We move on at our own pace, but we all move on.

1/7/2013 9:56:05 AM

it's threads like these, where face really shines

1/7/2013 10:01:52 AM

1/7/2013 10:10:43 AM

damn you John Mayer for sounding so good this morning.

1/7/2013 10:35:11 AM

Waiting on the world to change...

1/7/2013 10:36:31 AM

Get ahold of yourself.

1/7/2013 10:47:56 AM

I feel like threads like these should always come with details.

1/7/2013 10:50:05 AM

lol, that was my breakup album for the last LTR that ended back in college. Don't think i can reuse that one. oh well.

1/7/2013 10:50:58 AM

1/7/2013 10:52:15 AM

the only way you can resolve this is if you go pick up and bang a cashier at Wendys

1/7/2013 10:55:49 AM

they say she's retarded, but them titties ain't retarded

1/7/2013 10:56:42 AM

going out and fucking some random ho aint gonna make you feel better dude. working on your new self will. figure out who the fuck you are without her. accept your weaknesses whatever they may be and better yourself. be selfish. spend time with people youve missed out on because of her. thats the only way to beat the sadness.

1/7/2013 10:56:48 AM

Thanks pilgrim. I think that thread I linked from 2006 is some of my best work in the ten years I've contributed to this forum.

I hate seeing one particular username in that thread though. One of my only regrets in dealing with females was letting that one get away.

1/7/2013 10:59:31 AM

^^thanks bro. solid words there.

1/7/2013 11:11:06 AM

Jay might be on point...but that shit doesn't belong in chit chat

BANG ALL THE WOMEN...starting with me

1/7/2013 11:14:07 AM

I agree with jaymcnasty

1/7/2013 11:14:31 AM

best way to get over a broken heart is to get under DivaBaby19

1/7/2013 11:17:42 AM

You know what doesnt help? Posting about it on TWW.

1/7/2013 11:19:20 AM

so Jeepin, does this mean you are accepting applications?

1/7/2013 11:19:27 AM

I am not reading this thread unless I see some revenge pics posted.

1/7/2013 11:20:56 AM

All of the "go find yourself" blah blah bullshit is nice and all...but I really think the key is to make sure that there is absolutely not one scintilla of thought in your head that you will ever get back together with this girl.

Even you hang on to even the slightest possibilty of being with her again...then you'll never get better. You're going to be sad and shit regardless...just make sure you have a clean break.

1/7/2013 11:22:54 AM

sure, why not? haha. i am now accepting applications. Single, white male, in the Charlotte metro area. willing to travel if the opportunity is right.

1/7/2013 11:23:10 AM

come to Raleigh! We got a spare bedroom with your name all over it (but by the looks of this thread you probably have a few bedroom options)

1/7/2013 11:23:32 AM

1/7/2013 11:27:19 AM

jbrick83 yeah, and i think that is the case here. i knew, in my head, that this wasn't a girl i could marry and be happy with for the rest of my life. Maybe, if we lived in a bubble where it was just the two of us sure. but there were life goals we spoke about when things first got serious that we were no closer to achieving over two years later. it was still "her friends" and "my friends" and other things like that. is she one of my best friends, absolutely. but as someone told me earlier i need to find someone who can fulfill all of those things and not just part of them to be truly happy. and i think i've realized that.

plus she was anti blowjobs and I vow to never get into a relationship with someone like that ever again.

1/7/2013 11:29:16 AM

Well...looks like Jeepin' and I are dating now

[Edited on January 7, 2013 at 11:36 AM. Reason : also LOL @ Klaty derping all over herself in that pic...makes me laugh every time]

1/7/2013 11:31:22 AM

i banged girls, dated an 18 year old, and had very whoreish activity going on in my life. i didnt become happy until i stopped being a slut, worked on my own life, and learned how to be myself again. once i was me, nothing could stop me, and it does make you stronger. for me i just imagined her getting nailed by some other dude until it didnt bother me in the slightest. you gotta find what works for you.

Quote :

"plus she was anti blowjobs and I vow to never get into a relationship with someone like that ever again"

that definitely helps.

[Edited on January 7, 2013 at 11:41 AM. Reason : .]

1/7/2013 11:38:08 AM

Quote :

". but there were life goals we spoke about when things first got serious that we were no closer to achieving over two years later."

my two cents here is if you put off living your life waiting for X to happen, life may not happen. While that's always not the case, I'm seeing it now with someone and I truly hate to think/see that they missed out because of some goal they were trying to achieve first.

Also...to get over you gotta get under divababy. I think she is also down with bjs.

1/7/2013 11:50:07 AM

I love y'all

1/7/2013 11:59:21 AM

hahaha, I am going to start using the phrase "get under _______ " as a result of this thread

1/7/2013 12:00:58 PM

Was she suppose to go to Brewvival with you? Now's the chance to slay some Charleston ladies!

1/7/2013 12:29:35 PM

My last break up was easy. I knew something was up and I caught her cheating on me. Then I told her to fuck off. 6 weeks later: it's like I never met her. Or more like she was never born... actually more like she died in a horrible accident before I met her. Probably something with fire or a shark or something.

1/7/2013 12:32:11 PM

^^ haha yes! But she was also my free place to stay. So now I need a plus one and lodging. Pwnt.

1/7/2013 12:33:47 PM

Sorry to hear this man

1/7/2013 12:45:31 PM

what is going on in here

1/7/2013 12:53:37 PM

I certainly know the feeling(s).

1/7/2013 12:59:24 PM

i'm actually feeling pretty good today. Glad i came to work instead of just sitting around by myself with my own thoughts. but I haven't been back home yet since i walked out yesterday afternoon. so who knows what i'll walk into tonight.

1/7/2013 1:50:49 PM