yeah back in my younger days, i was all about trying to last a long time.

These days ~10 minutes or so of foreplay + 5-10 minutes for my wife and I to both get off is about the only way we're going to have time for sex.

jobs and kids, mang

2/19/2014 12:01:16 PM

LMAO at jbrick83 using the "current" modifier to describe his wife.

Haha. Gonna start trying to slip that in to conversation in front of girls I date. "So, my current gf and I..."

2/19/2014 12:49:10 PM

^^+1 Parent sex. It's efficient.

2/19/2014 12:52:49 PM

^^ Nothing is forever!

2/19/2014 1:14:55 PM

can't believe I read the word 'fingering'

2/19/2014 1:33:29 PM

Quote :

"I think 15 minutes or so is pretty normal."

i call bullshit...i'd even go so far as to say that there's something wrong if it takes 15 minutes of constant and uninterrupted fucking before you can get off

besides, who wants to stay in the same position, doing the same thing, for 15 minutes? that's boring as shit

and so if you're saying 15 minutes including changes in position, some choking, etc i agree that it's reasonable because it breaks up the rhythm...but that's not saying you "last" 15 minutes

okay, flame away

2/19/2014 1:46:07 PM

I can't believe I'm going to say this, but I'm with quagmire.

If I were giving a guy a purposeful hand job for 15 minutes straight... typically, most guys do not last that long unless they've got a problem. And I don't know that I'd want to be purposefully and constantly bwned for 15 minutes straight. Now hopefully, most of us don't have sex like that. We break it up with oral and foreplay and change positions, etc.

2/19/2014 1:53:57 PM

Hmm... all combined my wife and I usually are at it for 30 minutes to an hour, with the coition itself going for 15-30 minutes or so, changing position at about 5 minute intervals. I feel like 5 minutes or less wouldn't be satisfying even if we both got off.

But I guess if you both are satisfied that is all that really matters.

2/19/2014 1:54:12 PM

Do you use like a Fucking flow chart or something? Who regiments that shit?

2/19/2014 1:57:45 PM

all i know is doggy style makes me get off with a quickness. i love it, but it's the guaranteed position to make me finish

2/19/2014 1:58:31 PM

so a couple weeks ago just for fun i wanted to see how many calories i could burn in 15 of hard pounding doggy style. i didn't last all 15, but i burned 172 calories in just over 12 minutes. i gotta say it was pretty intense. that's more calories/min then i burn when doing HIIT. the pictures are pretty funny do...i'm completely naked except for a HR monitor and sweat bands on my head and wrists....hahahaha.

2/19/2014 2:03:54 PM

And as to fingering a girl, I've found that most guys start out a little ham handed at it. The best guys I've been with were guys who had been in extremely long term relationships with a woman and had intimate working knowledge of women. They knew better than to just uhm "jump into it." Some guys definitely rub and touch too hard or don't make sure that there's enough lubrication to spread around. BUT all girls are different. Some women cannot stand direct touch on their clit and others prefer it. There's no set rule, but I think it's better to go in softly and work up to things instead of just git r done because then you're probably going to fail. I'm more likely to get off from fingering/manual stimulation than intercourse, oral, or anything else. That's just where it's at for me, so it's disappointing when a guy is really clumsy and rough at it.

[Edited on February 19, 2014 at 2:05 PM. Reason : ^LOL <3]

2/19/2014 2:04:51 PM

The key with the girl on top is to alternate control. Ride me for a while, then relax and let me pump. Its important for the girl to be leaning forward; too many like to sit straight up, which doesn't yield itself to the proper angle for maximum penetration. Its by far my favorite position to finish in, especially if you know what you're doing and flex your kegels at the moment of release.

Besides cowgirl, my other two favorites are prone, when you lay flat on your stomach with your legs spread slightly, and I mount you from behind. You push back when I push in, and I can whisper disgusting shit in your ear during. The other is the standing fuck, when you wrap your legs around me and I hold you up by your thighs. Alternatively, I can position against a wall or some piece of furniture and really go to town.

2/19/2014 2:09:37 PM

every now and then a thread comes along that gets TWW fired up again. This could be one of those threads.




^agreed on all. I like the occasional reverse cowgirl if the girl knows what she's doing. Also a bonus if she as a nice ass and well kept ass.

2/19/2014 2:14:54 PM

Pics illustrate better

2/19/2014 2:20:02 PM

Reverse cow is risky unless you're super magnum steel hard, which no one is 100 percent of the time. You try it with just an 85-90 percent bone, and you risk her slamming down the wrong way and putting you out of commission for the rest of the night.

There is something indescribably hot, however, in that position when she has the kind of pussy that 'hugs' your cock to the point where you can see her lips suctioning up and down with every stroke. Feels like a vise grip and usually triggers a geyser.

2/19/2014 2:21:50 PM

that's exactly right. and if she has any type of rhythm, watching her move her hips up and down. it's hypnotic.

2/19/2014 2:29:35 PM

also, with reverse cowgirl when she starts grinding back and forth you slide in and out and it feels good. when she is facing you on top, she starts grinding back and forth and you slowly lose your erection from the pain and she jams herself into your now bruised pelvis while your penis sees no motion.

2/19/2014 2:33:39 PM

I like massaging her bags of sand.

2/19/2014 2:36:43 PM

I think most guys at least attempt to go for longer than they could. I may go for 10 minutes but lets face it if I wanted to I could be done in 1 haha. I have found the best plan is to make sure I get her off first then I can pretty much do whatever I want and if I am quick about it she doesnt really care.

2/19/2014 3:08:10 PM

this thread is not relevant to my interests.

2/19/2014 4:19:37 PM

just pop one of these a few hours before and turn into enzyte Bob

2/19/2014 4:34:39 PM

does that shit really work?

2/20/2014 8:58:17 AM

Based on it being labeled a "herbal dietary supplement", no.

2/20/2014 9:03:39 AM

^they're all labeled that way. the FDA doesn't approve this shit.

2/20/2014 9:19:05 AM

yeah i thought it seemed wacky.

so how safe is it to take something like Viagra if you are a healthy male? I don't have ED on the regular and if i do it's liquor induced, but I have had moments of stage fright in a group setting. it would be nice to take something and be all large and in charge instead of like a kid in a candy store with diabetes.

2/20/2014 9:28:42 AM

I'm not saying I am God's gift to women, but reading this thread has made me feel a lot better about myself.

2/20/2014 9:30:41 AM

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"^they're all labeled that way. the FDA doesn't approve this shit."

Yeah, that's the idea. If they were FDA approved, they'd have to prove their pill does what it says it does [like viagra].

If you label it a herbal dietary supplement, you can make whatever claim you want to make, without needing any scientific backup.

2/20/2014 10:16:54 AM

Quote :

"but I have had moments of stage fright in a group setting."

2/20/2014 11:02:25 AM

Reading Wolf Web sex threads is like hearing a bunch of your lame co-workers talking about watching The Wire for the first time.

2/20/2014 11:07:02 AM

Come on guy, we're in our 30s

2/20/2014 11:16:48 AM

And many have kids already.

2/20/2014 11:26:13 AM

due to having sex

2/20/2014 11:36:44 AM

So let's fuck harder!

2/20/2014 12:40:13 PM

doggy style is the best .


but I know that in missionary if you hold up the girl's legs at a 90 degreee angle so that she is in an-L shape, ohhh man that is very fun

2/20/2014 12:54:41 PM

dont listen to Skwinkle. Do listen to pretty much everyone else. TALK to your girl.

Will it be a little awkward to be asking questions constantly during sex? Sure it will be, but you aren't going to be doing it every time. And you're in a committed relationship, so there's plenty of opportunities. Spending a few sessions of "body lessons" with your GF, so she can point how how/where/why she likes what she does is time well spent. And most, if not all, women will appreciate that you're interested in understanding them more.

One of the easiest ways to go about it is to have her use your hands to stimulate herself. It'll let you get a sense of the motions, pressure and technique she likes. When putting a finger in, the gspot is back and up. Making this http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m97fsaG8gR1r77cy1o1_500.gif motion will usually tap the spot pretty well.

I would start with the fingering lessons and use those to inform you for Oral. When giving oral just remember you can use your tongue in a lot of different ways. The best instructions I ever got for how to use my tongue were to "draw the alphabet" around her clit. So you're not always drumming it directly, but rather using a "random" pattern to stimulate on and around it.

You can also suck on it

For the time you can last, if you want to last longer in the short term, get yourself off 4-6 hours before. You'll still have a great time, but it will reduce your sensitivity a little. I can come in a couple of minutes if I want to, or keep going until my junk is raw. Learn your triggers (positions, speed, etc) and use it to your advantage.

2/20/2014 1:47:27 PM

Quote :

"if you hold up the girl's legs at a 90 degreee angle so that she is in an-L shape, ohhh man that is very fun "

i love feeling the girl's legs wrapped around me while i'm pumping

2/20/2014 1:53:26 PM

I am kinda with skwinkle on this one, talking about it is fine usually but not during. I try this and most of the time am just told to shut up and get down to business she doesnt want me asking questions at that time haha. The most important thing is just to pay attention to subtle non verbal signals. If she is enjoying what you are doing you should get some non verbal feedback that is fairly obvious.

2/20/2014 1:54:12 PM

When I have really intense orgasms, I don't make any noise, but there are other obvious things like grasping the sheets. After having sex with the same person over and over, you learn their tendencies and when they are enjoying it or not. I can't orgasm as well on top because my body tenses up and gives out before I reach full climax. I'd rather be on bottom so I can relax and not have to focus as much on not falling over. That's not to say I don't enjoy the position, it's just not my favorite.

2/20/2014 2:55:56 PM

^

2/20/2014 2:58:56 PM

2/20/2014 3:04:40 PM

Quote :

"I can't orgasm as well on top because my body tenses up and gives out before I reach full climax. I'd rather be on bottom so I can relax and not have to focus as much on not falling over. That's not to say I don't enjoy the position, it's just not my favorite."

+1

2/20/2014 3:40:18 PM

^^ i'd be interested in knowing what they're actually measuring...time to men's ejaculation or female orgasm? or overall time to achieve both?

2/20/2014 3:54:02 PM

Are you serious?

2/20/2014 4:03:26 PM

http://www.uproxx.com/up/2014/02/map-sex-time-states/^

[Edited on February 20, 2014 at 4:06 PM. Reason : .]

2/20/2014 4:05:52 PM

2/20/2014 5:22:37 PM

It takes the longest in Utah because of all the wives

2/20/2014 7:20:47 PM

Why do people last longer in SC than NC?

2/20/2014 7:59:30 PM

Nerve used data compiled by the Spreadsheets App, which “uses your phone’s accelerometer and speakers to provide statistical feedback about your duration, thrusts, and decibel peak.” So we’re not talking pinpoint accuracy here. The data comes solely from people who have the app installed/running on their phones. And even those willing participants might not produce accurate data if they don’t moan/gyrate enough for the app’s liking.

2/20/2014 8:27:35 PM

yeah i think it said it had ~10,000 users. so i mean, it's basically worthless

2/20/2014 9:20:17 PM