0EPII1 All American 42556 Posts user info edit post |
wdprice3 says "PIITB"
[Edited on December 16, 2015 at 10:42 AM. Reason : PII2TB] 12/16/2015 10:38:03 AM |
Noen All American 31346 Posts user info edit post |
In theory you can keep both relationships. What your wife doesn't know won't hurt her.
Except she will know, I can almost guarantee she already knows you're up to something if she isn't fully aware of your cheating. When you're living with another person for a long period of time, whether roommates, friends or spouse, you can tell when behaviors, attitude and routines change even slightly.
You're kidding yourself if you think you will be able to keep your family in the dark.
Tell your wife about your side dick. Best chance is she will find him attractive too and you can swing openly. Worst case is she will leave you (which she will anyway) but at least your kids may not resent you forever. 12/16/2015 10:50:41 AM |
0EPII1 All American 42556 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Worst case is she will leave you for him" |
12/16/2015 11:04:23 AM |
0EPII1 All American 42556 Posts user info edit post |
I have it on good authority that this is Scud1's wife and mistress
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3404554/Don-t-mess-man-Shocking-moment-scorned-wife-beats-husband-s-alleged-mistress-throwing-BRIDGE.html
Quote : | "Clip shows furious wife viciously attacking her husband's alleged mistress The scorned woman then drags her shrieking love rival along the pavement She is joined by a friend, who helps throw the alleged mistress of a bridge [into a river] " |
Gotta watch the video!
So Scud1, what the POA now? Did you end up in the river too? Wifey is built like a tank!
1/19/2016 4:51:37 AM |
Exiled Eyes up here ^^ 5918 Posts user info edit post |
l.o.l. 1/19/2016 9:01:02 AM |
JLCayton All American 2715 Posts user info edit post |
how does this happen "by accident" online, if not on a dating site?
was playing on Xbox Live together just that much fun?
This thread is bizarre 1/21/2016 7:06:16 PM |
skokiaan All American 26447 Posts user info edit post |
Cheaters almost certainly make their normal home life sound worse than it really is to justify their actions. Beware of that if you are trying to make some life-changing decision and hope she comes along.
However, if you can keep it secret, you technically can do -- but as Noen said, even small changes in routines are very, very noticeable. 1/22/2016 2:11:59 AM |
Scud1 Veteran 409 Posts user info edit post |
Update
I told my wife about the affair and she promptly divorced me 6/27/2018 3:25:46 PM |
dtownral Suspended 26632 Posts user info edit post |
quality thread revive 6/27/2018 3:28:42 PM |
0EPII1 All American 42556 Posts user info edit post |
^^ It has been 2.5 years since your thread... you can't just update it like that, that's bullshit.
When did you tell your wife? When did she divorce you? What's your status been since the divorce? Still with the other person or not? Did the other person divorce their spouse? If yes, did you get married to the other person or not? If the other person is still married, are you still having an affair with them?
And you never told us if it was/is a man or a woman.
Care to clarify?
[Edited on June 27, 2018 at 3:35 PM. Reason : ^ not that ass] 6/27/2018 3:35:24 PM |
Scud1 Veteran 409 Posts user info edit post |
When did you tell your wife? October 17 - Affair ended early 17 When did she divorce you? last month What's your status been since the divorce? single Still with the other person or not? No Did the other person divorce their spouse? No If yes, did you get married to the other person or not? No If the other person is still married, are you still having an affair with them? No 6/27/2018 3:42:42 PM |
0EPII1 All American 42556 Posts user info edit post |
Thanks.
Quote : | "And you never told us if it was/is a man or a woman." |
Quote : | "And you never told us if it was/is a man or a woman." |
Quote : | "And you never told us if it was/is a man or a woman." |
6/27/2018 3:47:47 PM |
Scud1 Veteran 409 Posts user info edit post |
Woman 6/27/2018 3:57:44 PM |
0EPII1 All American 42556 Posts user info edit post |
Did her husband ever find out about the affair?
Sorry your marriage is over... but that's the risk you take when you have an affair.
You said the affair ended early 2017, but you told her late 2017.
Why did you put an end to the affair? Whatever the reason, your wife was not ready to forgive you? Did you want to stay together with your wife or did you want the divorce?
[Edited on June 27, 2018 at 4:05 PM. Reason : ] 6/27/2018 4:04:43 PM |
Scud1 Veteran 409 Posts user info edit post |
Did her husband ever find out about the affair? Yes
Sorry your marriage is over... but that's the risk you take when you have an affair. Very True
You said the affair ended early 2017, but you told her late 2017.
Why did you put an end to the affair? multiple reasons, main reason we tried to just be friends Whatever the reason, your wife was not ready to forgive you? She was not and has told me she would never forgive me. Told her about the affair because I needed to come clean and be honest with her, I couldn't live with myself anymore Did you want to stay together with your wife or did you want the divorce? I wanted to save my marriage, I tried everything I could 6/27/2018 4:21:39 PM |
PaulISdead All American 8835 Posts user info edit post |
Did you meet her on tww on-line? 6/27/2018 4:35:03 PM |
darkone (\/) (;,,,;) (\/) 11611 Posts user info edit post |
^^ Did you try not fucking other people? 6/27/2018 5:17:38 PM |
PaulISdead All American 8835 Posts user info edit post |
6/27/2018 7:31:23 PM |
Scud1 Veteran 409 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "^^ Did you try not fucking other people?" |
I did try, I couldn't resist her and she was more than willing6/28/2018 4:14:45 PM |
rjrumfel All American 23066 Posts user info edit post |
There probably anything that we can say that hasn't already gone through this guy's head. The children are the biggest victims here. 6/28/2018 9:49:34 PM |
MrGreen All American 2281 Posts user info edit post |
i did not expect what i found when i clicked on scud’s photo gallery 6/28/2018 11:35:54 PM |
0EPII1 All American 42556 Posts user info edit post |
I have found exclusive footage of Scud1's wife going total nutso bananas after finding him with his mistress in public!
https://www.facebook.com/KalamLohMa3na/videos/2040567369295714 7/4/2018 12:54:45 AM |
EMCE balls deep 89856 Posts user info edit post |
eh...
I bet he and his wife still bwned several more times, and then she gradually decided that she would like to end their relationship. Then they probably bwned some more. 7/4/2018 1:26:42 PM |