Bullet All American 28415 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "He could have also said that he didn't want fat ugly chicks in the locker room." |
and that'd be an equally stupid thing to tweet, being (kinda) a representative of the university and the team.5/11/2011 11:56:10 AM |
adder All American 3901 Posts user info edit post |
I agree it was a stupid thing for a public figure to tweet however it shouldn't be. As I said before honesty is dead in america. Most people (if they were being honest) would agree with Leslie's sentiment of not really being comfortable sharing a locker room. 5/11/2011 12:01:22 PM |
BobbyDigital Thots and Prayers 41777 Posts user info edit post |
For those people that never got past that middle school mindset of being embarrassed to be naked around other males in a locker room, sure.
The rest of us became adults. 5/11/2011 12:03:18 PM |
Slave Famous Become Wrath 34079 Posts user info edit post |
Not afraid of naked guys.
Afraid of naked guys with boners. 5/11/2011 12:09:10 PM |
adder All American 3901 Posts user info edit post |
Ok I am going to restate Leslie's tweet and I want to see if this would concern you sensitive flowers as much:
Leslie: To be honest I am concerned with the idea of homosexuals in the locker room. Locker rooms are segregated by genders to avoid introducing sexual pressures/interests into the locker room. Isn't the introduction of homosexuals into the locker room doing just that? Maybe locker rooms should stop being segregated by genders? 5/11/2011 12:10:29 PM |
thegoodlife3 All American 39304 Posts user info edit post |
internet tuff guys outing themselves as uncomfortable with their own sexuality ITT 5/11/2011 12:20:08 PM |
Slave Famous Become Wrath 34079 Posts user info edit post |
Whatever man. I've been showering with dudes since I was fucking 10. 5/11/2011 12:23:28 PM |
Bullet All American 28415 Posts user info edit post |
^^^so it really sounds like you'd be fine with one our players tweeting about how he didn't like drinking from the same water fountain as his black teamate. Or didn't like being reffed by a jew. I mean, he's just being honest, and some people would agree with those opinions!
[Edited on May 11, 2011 at 12:27 PM. Reason : ] 5/11/2011 12:24:22 PM |
adder All American 3901 Posts user info edit post |
Just answer the questions I am posing: Locker rooms are segregated by gender? True or False They are segregated by gender to avoid introducing sexual tension? True or False The introduction of homosexuals into the locker room could introduce sexual tension? True or False
I don't see how introducing a homosexual into a locker room is any different than introducing a woman. So what if he has the same "tackle" as you.
I like how you try to introduce race to avoid the crux of the matter. Really shows your inability to address the point at hand.
[Edited on May 11, 2011 at 12:36 PM. Reason : asdfad] 5/11/2011 12:34:01 PM |
Bullet All American 28415 Posts user info edit post |
I may agree with you and him. Maybe.
But I'm looking at it from the perspective of it being stupid for him to tweet it. Bottom line. 5/11/2011 12:35:54 PM |
adder All American 3901 Posts user info edit post |
And I agree that it was a stupid thing to do however I also contend that the fact that it was a stupid thing to do is a sad commentary on the dishonesty of modern society. Everyone is so concerned with appearing PC instead of simply being honest. 5/11/2011 12:38:01 PM |
simonn best gottfriend 28968 Posts user info edit post |
jesus christ stop. 5/11/2011 12:39:26 PM |
Bullet All American 28415 Posts user info edit post |
^^see my example of blacks and jews. if a player doesn't like being around them, he should be free to tweet about it?
alright, i'm done. 5/11/2011 12:41:12 PM |
thegoodlife3 All American 39304 Posts user info edit post |
adder believes that a gay person has never set foot in a locker room before 5/11/2011 12:41:26 PM |
ThePeter TWW CHAMPION 37709 Posts user info edit post |
did we get a hitler referral yet? Because this issue is about stupid enough to warrant one 5/11/2011 12:47:12 PM |
justinh524 Sprots Talk Mod 27839 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I mean what if Scott Wood said I don't really like black dudes in my sociology class, Lorenzo Brown is too well-spoken to be black." |
this is like comparing apples to a flock of seagulls.5/11/2011 12:49:36 PM |
adder All American 3901 Posts user info edit post |
@bullet Jesus christ blacks and jews have nothing to do with it. LOCKER ROOMS ARE SEGREGATED BY GENDERS FOR A REASON. THEY ARE NOT SEGREGATED BY RACE/CREED (there is no reason to do this). For your ridiculous analogy to be at all applicable there would have to be a valid and accepted reason for locker rooms to be segregated by race/creed there is no valid reason therefore your analogy is MEANINGLESS. Just stop w/ it already.
@thegoodlife and no I don't believe that a gay person has never set foot in a locker room however I can understand not being comfortable with the idea. AGAIN LOCKER ROOMS ARE SEGREGATED BY GENDER BECAUSE OF THIS VERY ISSUE!!!!
[Edited on May 11, 2011 at 12:52 PM. Reason : asdf]
[Edited on May 11, 2011 at 12:55 PM. Reason : asdfdasf] 5/11/2011 12:52:22 PM |
j_sun All American 9198 Posts user info edit post |
lol gay only locker rooms
jim rainbow laws 5/11/2011 1:29:11 PM |
BanjoMan All American 9609 Posts user info edit post |
i am not a homophobe, but i prolly would have said this same shit when i was in highschool.
At some point, however, you mature enough to realize that being a little bit gay is natural, and that gays in the locker room is not a big issue.
[Edited on May 11, 2011 at 2:39 PM. Reason : hg] 5/11/2011 2:36:58 PM |
justinh524 Sprots Talk Mod 27839 Posts user info edit post |
what is "a little bit gay"? is that like just the tip? 5/11/2011 5:52:14 PM |
FatTony All American 1769 Posts user info edit post |
It means you take it, but you don't push back. 5/11/2011 6:36:15 PM |
ncsuapex SpaceForRent 37776 Posts user info edit post |
It's like being a little pregnant. 5/11/2011 6:42:38 PM |
BanjoMan All American 9609 Posts user info edit post |
In all honesty it means the occasional ass slap, suggestive flirting, and very fulfilling bear hugs. Most men in their adult life slip into this category of a little bit gay.
Basically shit that frat boys do, minus the hand jobs. 5/11/2011 6:43:35 PM |
adder All American 3901 Posts user info edit post |
Dude I think you are more than a "little bit gay" if you are finding gratification in ass slapping and very "fulfilling" bear hugs. 5/11/2011 8:04:57 PM |
simonn best gottfriend 28968 Posts user info edit post |
don't worry, homophobe adder is here to call you a fag. 5/11/2011 8:26:45 PM |
BanjoMan All American 9609 Posts user info edit post |
yeah, what the hell is up with that? 5/11/2011 8:28:41 PM |
stillrolling All American 1225 Posts user info edit post |
This thread is a little gay 5/11/2011 9:19:09 PM |
NyM410 J-E-T-S 50085 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Just answer the questions I am posing: Locker rooms are segregated by gender? True or False They are segregated by gender to avoid introducing sexual tension? True or False The introduction of homosexuals into the locker room could introduce sexual tension? True or False" |
Are you in favor of banning all female reporters from the locker room post games too? Just curious.5/11/2011 9:20:21 PM |
justinh524 Sprots Talk Mod 27839 Posts user info edit post |
I am. Women don't know anything about sports and shouldn't be allowed to report on them. They should be in the kitchen. 5/11/2011 9:24:52 PM |
ncsuapex SpaceForRent 37776 Posts user info edit post |
Women in the locker room post game is a terrible idea... Its ASKING for trouble. 5/11/2011 9:27:05 PM |
FatTony All American 1769 Posts user info edit post |
Are female reporters allowed in the showers? 5/11/2011 9:28:42 PM |
justinh524 Sprots Talk Mod 27839 Posts user info edit post |
only if they're smokin' hot 5/11/2011 9:30:53 PM |
ncsuapex SpaceForRent 37776 Posts user info edit post |
Only after everyone leaves and they want to be gangbanged. 5/11/2011 9:37:11 PM |
dmspack oh we back 25535 Posts user info edit post |
Didn't see this posted...but CJL tweeted this today around noon:
Quote : | "Wanna apologize for hurting or offending any 1 with my tweets yesterday." |
http://twitter.com/#!/ncsu_cleslie/status/68336839777464320
Followed by this:
Quote : | "Was watching espn show about it and didn't think before I tweeted. Meant no disrespect to any 1" |
http://twitter.com/#!/ncsu_cleslie/status/683371245035888645/11/2011 10:15:37 PM |
ncsuapex SpaceForRent 37776 Posts user info edit post |
Coach must have jumped his ass. 5/11/2011 10:17:04 PM |
simonn best gottfriend 28968 Posts user info edit post |
it's hard to write a sincere sounding apology in 140 character increments. 5/11/2011 10:21:18 PM |
MrLuvaLuva85 All American 4265 Posts user info edit post |
i think cjl seems like a good kid...this will blow over soon 5/12/2011 12:08:10 AM |
lion4russell All American 1588 Posts user info edit post |
this in combination with his poem has made me not care about how he looks apathetic on the court sometimes.
i like this kid. 5/12/2011 12:19:13 AM |
craptastic All American 6115 Posts user info edit post |
At least he didn't go full blown Tim Hardaway
Quote : | "I don't like gay people and I don't like to be around gay people. I am homophobic. I don't like it. It shouldn't be in the world or in the United States." |
5/12/2011 3:54:03 AM |
vinylbandit All American 48079 Posts user info edit post |
i've always wondered how many gays played on teams with tim hardaway, and what he'd say if he found out which ones they were
statistically speaking there had to be a handful ] 5/12/2011 4:48:07 AM |
adder All American 3901 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Are you in favor of banning all female reporters from the locker room post games too? Just curious." |
I mean presumably women reporters aren't going in and watching them dress and shower and shit like that. So no I don't really have a problem w. that.5/12/2011 6:56:36 AM |
wolfAApack All American 9980 Posts user info edit post |
twitter needs to go away 5/12/2011 8:15:26 AM |
CarZin patent pending 10527 Posts user info edit post |
I've been bothered by all this. I'm actually surprised no one outside of this forum (in the news) has articulated the fact that having a gay person in a female or male locker room would present some sexual tensions that were attempting to be avoided by having a women/men locker room setup.
CJ saying he doesnt want gays in his locker room is really no different than saying you dont want women in the men's locker room, or men in the women's. Gays think its different because they are looking for discrimination claims around every corner, but if they looked evenly shallowly at the intent of the locker room setup, they would realize CJ's comments are just a reflection of that reality.
Not his fault. I'm irritated at the administration for having any comment on this.
If our coach punishes him in any way for this, I'll never respect him again.
[Edited on May 12, 2011 at 9:43 AM. Reason : .] 5/12/2011 9:42:28 AM |
Ernie All American 45943 Posts user info edit post |
Only carzin could have made this discussion suck more 5/12/2011 9:55:12 AM |
Lokken All American 13361 Posts user info edit post |
Theres no discussion. He is a kid. He hasn't developed the 6th sense to know when saying what he actually thinks will create more annoyance than saying it is actually worth.
The problem is all the outlets for these kinds of 'mistakes' to be broadcast, and more importantly, all of the grown men and women that seem to follow them religiously and think they mean something. 5/12/2011 10:04:37 AM |
BanjoMan All American 9609 Posts user info edit post |
Just becasue an athlete is gay, it doesn't mean that he is gonna be eyeing you down in the lockerroom. It is completely diffferent from male female segregation.
Guys are disgusting, and this grosses the ladies out. hence, segregation in the showers. 5/12/2011 11:14:33 AM |
CarZin patent pending 10527 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Just becasue an athlete is gay, it doesn't mean that he is gonna be eyeing you down in the lockerroom" |
Just because you're a male, it doesnt mean you'll be eyeing down all the ladies undressing in the locker room.
How well do you think that logic would work? It doesnt.
Quote : | "It is completely diffferent from male female segregation." |
No, its not.
Am I suggesting that gay men go to the ladies locker room? No. Am I suggesting gay men can't use the men's locker room? No. But you can't ignore the potential for weirdness, and there is nothing wrong for feeling that way. It no more wrong than a woman being forced to undress in a locker room with men. They may not want to jump her bones, but I could completely understand why she wouldnt want that. I wouldn't be screaming gender discrimination against her either.
Bottom line: Was it a comment that he should have made given his situation? No. Do I think there is anything wrong or or intentionally discriminatory with his comments? No.
[Edited on May 12, 2011 at 11:51 AM. Reason : .]5/12/2011 11:39:54 AM |
spydyrwyr All American 3021 Posts user info edit post |
Let me preface this by saying that "I ain't no anti-gay," but I'm with CarZin on this one. It's exactly the same as a straight man in a women's locker room or a straight woman in a men's locker room.
You can't selectively argue for equal treatment. If the gay community is fighting for marriage on the grounds that love (and by extension, attraction) b/t two people of the same sex is equivalent to that of a man & woman, then you can't turn around and argue that a gay person should be treated exactly the same as a straight person in a same-sex locker room type environment without extending that argument to the straight equivalent.
You'd essentially be arguing that a gay dude checking out a naked dude is different from a straight guy checking out a naked female. That logic is in direct conflict with the continuing fight for legal and civil equality.
All that being said, while I empathize with CJL's position, his words and choice of forum were poorly chosen.
[Edited on May 12, 2011 at 11:57 AM. Reason : .] 5/12/2011 11:54:40 AM |
KyleAtState All American 1679 Posts user info edit post |
^^ and ^
yes
[Edited on May 12, 2011 at 11:56 AM. Reason : ] 5/12/2011 11:55:01 AM |
ThePeter TWW CHAMPION 37709 Posts user info edit post |
^^^, ^^, ^
and
Quote : | "Just becasue an athlete is gay, it doesn't mean that he is gonna be eyeing you down in the lockerroom. It is completely diffferent from male female segregation.
Guys are disgusting, and this grosses the ladies out. hence, segregation in the showers.
" |
has got to be some of the dumbest shit I've seen around here5/12/2011 12:38:13 PM |