when i click threads it never shows up as a view ... maybe im a ghost

4/18/2008 12:18:29 AM

where are all my navy people at. i have questions.

took a bath. gave myself a pep talk. oh we back.

4/18/2008 12:38:54 AM

^here

4/18/2008 1:00:17 AM

i'm bored. where is everyone

4/18/2008 2:14:19 AM

haha ima miss this place, random girls just walked up being like were gonna pass out here, were too drunk to drive (even though they drove here)

4/18/2008 2:39:41 AM

Those koreans make everything look so damn easy.
(Take that comment however you will.)

4/18/2008 2:56:00 AM

whether to confront a certain *issue* or just leave it alone and see what happens



that and GD i'm tired! so i'm going to bed

4/18/2008 3:07:34 AM

when my cat poops it literally smells up my entire condo. ughhh.

4/18/2008 3:18:57 AM

my eyes are all dried out.

i'm tired.

my back hurts.

i hate my life.

4/18/2008 4:42:14 AM

Quote :

"haha ima miss this place, random girls just walked up being like were gonna pass out here, were too drunk to drive (even though they drove here) "

when did you move back to Avent Ferry...hahaha

4/18/2008 6:45:35 AM

wow.. that was a great 2.2 seconds of sleep I got last night

4/18/2008 7:00:18 AM

napping until 10. and i'm napping in a pile of papers.

4/18/2008 7:50:01 AM

Quote :

"haha ima miss this place, random girls just walked up being like were gonna pass out here, were too drunk to drive (even though they drove here)"

...this place... i must learn where it is

[Edited on April 18, 2008 at 7:55 AM. Reason : damn i suck at typing this morning]

4/18/2008 7:50:50 AM

^fraternity house maybe. even though i doubt saps would be at the tke house.

[Edited on April 18, 2008 at 7:53 AM. Reason : either that or his old house... i dunno]

4/18/2008 7:52:40 AM

hahaha...it sounds just like his old house...

but apparently the house he is living in now is a make-shift brothel as well

4/18/2008 8:02:48 AM

sounds like good times

4/18/2008 8:26:09 AM

for somebody that hated me so much and for so long....

he sure does call a lot

4/18/2008 8:30:35 AM

I apologize

4/18/2008 8:34:05 AM

it's ok...

it just took you a while to realize just how awesome i really am

4/18/2008 8:41:58 AM

i lost my flash drive

4/18/2008 8:42:37 AM

that sucks

4/18/2008 8:45:08 AM

I didn't stop for breakfast because I was running late Now my belly is sad.

4/18/2008 8:55:59 AM

allergies are kicking ass into next week

4/18/2008 9:23:28 AM

yeah, my allergies have been kicking my ass the past two days

4/18/2008 9:27:21 AM

yeah i'm cancelling my 9:30 appointment... better call that in

4/18/2008 9:28:14 AM

this is some really shitty nail polish...

no wonder it was on sale

4/18/2008 9:32:38 AM

why the hell am I needing so much sleep all of a sudden

4/18/2008 9:45:46 AM

fuck

so much to do!

4/18/2008 10:12:32 AM

my problem: i was at the apartment of the guy i'm seeing the other night and i was in the bathroom changing clothes (it was after work) and i noticed in the trash can (i wasn't being sketchy or anything, it was fucking hot pink) that there was some "feminine trash" (wrappers and shit) that were def not mine...and i know he just emptied the trash a few days before when i was there

so i texted him yesterday and asked if he'd been hanging out with his ex (b/c i know they still talk sometimes) and he said they'd talked but not hung out...

so now what? do i just ignore it or do i let it bother me b/c that means he's had some girl over and he's not tellin me??

4/18/2008 10:18:30 AM

his sister?

4/18/2008 10:19:15 AM

wtf


yes you let it bother you


seriously if you turn a blind eye to that shit, you deserve whats coming.

4/18/2008 10:19:24 AM

yeh either it's his sister or mom, or you are getting played my good friend. good luck

4/18/2008 10:20:24 AM

not sister or mom...they live in a different city...


i just don't want to be "that girl" that flips out over everything (we've only been dating a month and a half or so) and i guess i'm afraid that i'm too on edge b/c my last bf cheated on me repeatedly so...

4/18/2008 10:24:01 AM

arg, I dont feel like being here today

but only 3.5 days of work left before a sweet 13 days off

4/18/2008 10:24:15 AM

have some self respect

you'd rather be "that girl who flips out at everything" than "that girl who's completely oblivious to her cheating BF"


i mean, really... flipping out because he didn't call you, or was late... thats a little crazy... but flipping out because you found TAMPON WRAPPERS IN HIS TRASH CAN... probably ok!

4/18/2008 10:26:18 AM

^

4/18/2008 10:26:45 AM

good call...

i think he knows something's up though...i never heard from him yesterday after ho told me they hadn't hung out

4/18/2008 10:27:34 AM

well...are you just seeing him or is he your bf?

because if you're just dating and not exclusive you really don't have a right to bitch...

you can be mad if you want...because...well...we're girls and that's how we are...

but if you aren't exclusive then bringing it up will just make you look like jealous, insecure, distrusting, assuming, bitchy, and just generally nuts...

even if you are all those things...you have to keep that shit to yourself and deal with it...

i would have a conversation to establish the depth of the relationship before hand...then go from there..

if he is your bf that's a little different...i mean...he's not your husband so you still don't technically have a right to bitch...but you definitely have a right to be concerned if there is a future in it...



and being oblivious and being rational are two totally different animals...

just because you choose not to make a fucking scene over it and accuse him of something doesn't make you oblivious...

there are much better ways of handling situations like these that help you keep your self respect as well as the respect of others....

[Edited on April 18, 2008 at 10:30 AM. Reason : asdf]

4/18/2008 10:27:54 AM

i saw livinprf's avon ad yesterday on my phone, since i don't have ad block on my phone hahahaha

4/18/2008 10:29:37 AM

we've had that convo, and if he's hangin out with another girl and hiding it from me, i have a right to be upset. married or not, cheating is fucked up. and even if they just hung out, hiding it is just sketchy

4/18/2008 10:30:32 AM

you are dating The Judge

4/18/2008 10:32:31 AM

hahahahahahahah NO

[Edited on April 18, 2008 at 10:35 AM. Reason : he doesn't go to state, never went to state, and isn't/hasn't been on tww that i'm aware of]

4/18/2008 10:33:02 AM

well that's why i said that...

if you are exclusive then, by all means, be concerned...and confront him with your concerns...and if he's lying about then fuck him in general...

i can handle being cheated on a lot better than i can handle being blatantly lied to...

but, for the love of God, don't accuse him of something without a strong argument

4/18/2008 10:35:50 AM

you can blame a 'single' guy for getting a piece here and there. i good Rat has more than one hole to run to

[Edited on April 18, 2008 at 10:37 AM. Reason : sdf]

4/18/2008 10:37:41 AM

my conversation with him would go like this: "so.. do you use tampons on a regular basis or is this something im going to have to get used to"

either he flips out at this point and starts getting defensive (that means he's banging another chick)

or he keeps his cool completely and gives a pretty damn good reason (that means there's only about a 70% chance he is banging another chick)

4/18/2008 10:37:46 AM

^^^yeah, i wouldn't...

the reason i even asked about his ex is b/c her new myspace pic (it's an older pic, but she just made it her main pic) is the two of them. he claims that after he ended things with her she decided she wanted to get serious with him (she didn't before) so now...they were still talking when he and i started talking and i know he took all her shit back to her b/c i had to confront him before about her stuff being over (this was just after we started dating though), but idk if she knows he's dating me now...and i know they text each other a lot, which i'm fine with as long as that's all

idk. i'm just apprehensive about the whole thing. i guess i just wanted an opinion as to whether it was me just being irrational b/c i've been hurt before or if i was right to be sketched out




[Edited on April 18, 2008 at 10:43 AM. Reason : i suck]

4/18/2008 10:39:11 AM

Quote :

"or he keeps his cool completely and gives a pretty damn good reason (that means there's only about a 70% chance he is banging another chick)"

99% os statistics are 100% bullshit, especially when you just pull figures out of your ass like its all good

4/18/2008 10:39:26 AM

after further review

there is indisputable evidence on the field that he is cheating on you. 1/2 the distance to the goal line. automatic 1st down.

and please place 10 seconds on the game clock.

4/18/2008 10:42:06 AM

find a new guy.

there's way too many out there to deal with that kinda shit.

4/18/2008 10:43:56 AM

i shoulda started my own thread, haha

4/18/2008 10:44:45 AM