let me change that word

instead of shy, let's say balanced, reserved or all around stable.

7/9/2008 12:06:30 AM

i thought i was seeing someone balanced and reserved right now

then it all came together and she's a pothead on the sneak

7/9/2008 12:12:24 AM

hahaha

more stories!

7/9/2008 12:12:44 AM

a broad that is a good judge of character

7/9/2008 12:12:54 AM

I wish I could find a pothead

Girl now is always bagging on me everytime I light up

like its a fucking crime or something

7/9/2008 12:14:44 AM

basically, in a nutshell, i want a girl who is normal

drop dead beautiful girls seem to be more trouble than they are worth, and (with a few exceptions) all know how hot they are and are accustomed to being treated a certain way because of it.

hook me up with a diamond in the rough

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 12:15 AM. Reason : not too rough]

7/9/2008 12:15:15 AM

i mean i think i was just blind to the fact thta I was actually dating someone who was a little older, reserved, didnt go out every single night, had a great professional job, respected career, kinda along the same line of music as i listen to, eclectic with her interior design, in to cooking, etc etc etc

turns out she was just another homemade soap usin' hippy who didnt go out every night to instead stay in, smoke up and read books or listen to jam bands.

hell she'd probably be a wookie if she wasn't in such a tight nit professional situation

i mean i dont know how i missed it for a few weeks, hell it wasn't till i was talking to lp78 that i realized her cat's name was "bud" and made the connection.

DURRR

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 12:18 AM. Reason : and she's never mentioned anything about it to me, so she's hiding it.. which was disturbing.]

7/9/2008 12:16:29 AM

so far i do not feel as though i have asked for anything too out of line

7/9/2008 12:16:53 AM

I know I am perfect gf material. my prob. is that I haven't found the perfect boyfriend material yet.

7/9/2008 12:17:12 AM

OHAI

7/9/2008 12:17:46 AM

^^^^ yikes sounds traumatic.

why don't you bring back a nice chinese woman

7/9/2008 12:19:38 AM

lol

7/9/2008 12:20:27 AM

it's weird

i think i'm in the black hole of attractive girls

hong kong was loaded

but this city, i've seen like... one.

you'd think with like 11 million people there'd be more.

7/9/2008 12:22:42 AM

imagine them in santa costumes?? mayyybe it would help ease the pain

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 12:23 AM. Reason : .]

7/9/2008 12:23:37 AM

i've noticed there are a large proportion of hot women in downtown raleigh

7/9/2008 12:24:02 AM

no shame in paying lolgrimshoes

I'm not gonna lie and say I didn't in Japan

7/9/2008 12:24:15 AM

now you've planned my afternoon!

7/9/2008 12:24:19 AM

aea

7/9/2008 12:26:29 AM

i think you already said this and you are just rubbing your relationship in our faces!!!!

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 12:27 AM. Reason : THINK about poor pilgrimshoes]

7/9/2008 12:27:09 AM

Quote :

"what do you want in an ideal girlfriend?"

My dick

7/9/2008 12:28:18 AM

7/9/2008 12:29:05 AM

Oh, and a healthy self-esteem. It goes along with being independent, but man, I'm not going to listen to 'OMGah! I'm SOOOOOOOO fat/ugly/stupid/what the hell is wrong with me!' all the time. I drive myself batty when I have those moments. I can tolerate the occasional girly moment in someone else, but to have it be the norm?

No fucking way.

7/9/2008 12:46:46 AM

Not that aea isn't perfect, but the perfect girlfriend would be:

Sexual
Outgoing
Good and likes to cook
Intelligent
Enjoys reading
Does not mind going ot the fridge for a beer
A little nerdy somewhere

In no particular order.

7/9/2008 12:46:54 AM

fuck as well as you talk

7/9/2008 1:42:08 AM

if i fucked as MUCH as i talked i'd be the best gf ever!

7/9/2008 5:25:34 AM

"How many men does it take to open a beer?

It should be open when she brings it to you."

Willingness to go to the fridge to get you a beer is key.

7/9/2008 5:32:11 AM

Quote :

"passionate about something on her own, whether that's volunteer work, a hobby, her job, education - something like that"

This here is important down the road - I'd like to know that a girlfriend can keep herself occupied/amused (lol, that sounds bad) when I'm off to work or god forbid doing something without involving her. Otherwise its like dating some subservient robot that doesn't have a thought or care that doesn't involve me. No thx to that. Be a damn individual and don't define yourself by a relationship.

7/9/2008 11:21:41 AM

who am i kidding...

i AM the ideal gf

7/9/2008 11:57:50 AM

penelope cruz.

7/9/2008 12:17:01 PM

Sadly I have all the good qualities, but I'm not skinny so they just all go out the window.

7/9/2008 12:59:22 PM

^

You're cool.

7/9/2008 1:04:50 PM

Quote :

"gah....no wonder i'm such a shitty gf"

i'm starting to think this about myself, thanks to this thread.

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 2:03 PM. Reason : this thread]

7/9/2008 2:02:56 PM

attractive
independent
self-sufficient
has her own friends
trusting
trustworthy
active lifestyle

7/9/2008 2:24:08 PM

listen as well as you talk, too

7/9/2008 2:35:58 PM

^i'm working on that one...i notice sometimes i get carried away in my conversations and dont give the other person a chance to respond before i go off on 3 other tangents

7/9/2008 2:37:00 PM

not call me 20 times a day
not want to talk to me on the phone for hours every night

7/9/2008 2:37:07 PM

as much as i love spending time with a significant other i really want one that doesn't mind if we go 1-2 days or even an entire weekend without seeing each other. Not so i'd be out cheating because i dont do that. But just so i can make plans off the cuff or spend a weekend with just the guys and not have to worry about her getting mad. or sometimes i just want a few days to do absolutely nothing...catch up on some sleep or just have some personal time. I want to be able to do that without explaining myself.


and honestly, that seems like a lot to ask for.


[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 2:50 PM. Reason : add]

7/9/2008 2:50:17 PM

Quote :

"i really want one that doesn't mind if we go 2-3 days or even an entire weekend without seeing each other"

why is this so hard?

7/9/2008 2:51:26 PM

^^how about one that you only see once every few months

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 2:52 PM. Reason : asdf]

7/9/2008 2:51:45 PM

^^^ I am the same exact way dude. sometimes I just want a few days to myself. sometimes it might just be only a night. it seems that women I have dated have such a hard time understanding that. they take it all personally like I don't want to hang out with them, but in reality it's just that I don't want to be around anyone.

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 2:52 PM. Reason : f]

7/9/2008 2:52:15 PM

yea sometimes its nice to have alone time for sure

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 2:54 PM. Reason : i still like to beat off every once in a while for the good ol days]

7/9/2008 2:54:04 PM

And the other thing that chicks don't realize is that I don't have to have a "reason" to want to be alone. They always try to look at it like there is a problem or something. There is no rhyme or reason to it, just sometimes i don't want to be around people.

7/9/2008 2:56:01 PM

shoot me a "thinking about you boo" text or a short AIM convo daily...

then getting some quality together time, sex or no sex, when we see each other...

and i'm happy!

7/9/2008 2:56:06 PM

Quote :

"Oh, and a healthy self-esteem. It goes along with being independent, but man, I'm not going to listen to 'OMGah! I'm SOOOOOOOO fat/ugly/stupid/what the hell is wrong with me!' all the time. I drive myself batty when I have those moments. I can tolerate the occasional girly moment in someone else, but to have it be the norm?"

I am totally feeling you on this one. WTF WOMAN? ARE YOU TRYING TO GET ME TO DUMP YOU?!

7/9/2008 2:58:27 PM

non-existent one?

7/9/2008 2:58:44 PM

Quote :

"And the other thing that chicks don't realize is that I don't have to have a "reason" to want to be alone. They always try to look at it like there is a problem or something. There is no rhyme or reason to it, just sometimes i don't want to be around people. "

hahaha totally and completely. Half the time i am extremely happy but all i really feel like doing that night is having a few beers, turning on some rock and playing call of duty into the late hours of the night or watching some movies on the couch. has nothing to do with you or "my feelings".

7/9/2008 3:11:02 PM

if you were a chick, we would totally be made for each other

7/9/2008 3:12:13 PM

i know an ideal boyfriend would enjoy shower sex

7/9/2008 3:12:26 PM

a prostitute you didnt have to pay.


none of this crazy, clingy, emotional bull shit

7/9/2008 3:12:52 PM

This thread reminds me of a quote that was on the bathroom wall in what used to be the comet:

Quote :

"No matter how cute, smart or funny she is, someone somewhere is tired of her shit"

With that said: an elegant sense of style
a trashmouth in bed
a British accent would be super
Self esteem

[Edited on July 9, 2008 at 3:15 PM. Reason : iPhone spelling]

7/9/2008 3:14:11 PM