djeternal Bee Hugger 62661 Posts user info edit post |
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gk2004 All American 6237 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "you can't make a ho a housewife
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8/27/2008 2:11:05 PM
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slackerb All American 5093 Posts user info edit post |
Haha, I remember when I was young and clueless about women and relationships and sex 8/27/2008 2:20:47 PM
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ncsu_angel All American 1998 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "OMG I am so in love with this girl." |
Quote : | "I fucking hate her so much..." |
it doesn't seem like it would be healthy for you to get involved with this girl. It's making you crazy, and when that happens you have to evaluate things. You should never let someone have that much control over your emotions. It's a recipe for disaster and heartache. I've given this same speech to many friends and no one ever listens. I think you're already a lost cause so the only real advice I have is to be safe (get yourselves tested) and try not to fall too hard. 8/27/2008 2:41:32 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
Actually, I have very easy access to communication with her and we have a decent number of friends in common and I've only talked to her twice since school has started. The night she drove me back when I was drunk (that was only because I had an 8:05 the next day and everyone else was staying out later) and then once just to see what she thought of a class because we're in different sections of the same class. I haven't even really been thinking about her hardly because there's so many other hot girls on campus. 8/27/2008 4:12:09 PM
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slackerb All American 5093 Posts user info edit post |
Yet you are SOOOOOOO in love with her.
Sorry, you're prally a decent guy, you just sound like an immature douche kid. And really, I blame myself for being surprised.
Someone needs to post that chart about problems and bitches. 8/27/2008 5:27:52 PM
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redwop All American 1027 Posts user info edit post |
You got it bad for this chic, but she obviously does not know what she wants or she is not ready emotionally to get into something that is more than just physical. You might just keep her at a distance emotionally, still talk to her, but just don't get your hopes up. 8/27/2008 5:41:06 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
I'm really not sweating it right now. When I'm not drunk around her it's really not bad.
And I am an immature douche kid. 8/27/2008 6:27:47 PM
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alibaby All American 8217 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I bet 3.2 seconds after hitting it you'll realize what you've really felt this entire time." |
lol.
[Edited on August 27, 2008 at 6:43 PM. Reason : ] 8/27/2008 6:33:34 PM
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Jrb599 All American 8846 Posts user info edit post |
IMStoned420 how about you man the fuck up and ignore the bitch you whipped pussy.
[Edited on August 27, 2008 at 6:59 PM. Reason : ] 8/27/2008 6:59:11 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
I love you Jrb599 8/27/2008 10:28:01 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
I sent that bitch a smiley. Resistance is futile. 9/22/2008 6:04:42 AM
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Jrb599 All American 8846 Posts user info edit post |
you're pathetic. 9/22/2008 7:14:53 AM
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paerabol All American 17118 Posts user info edit post |
holy shit.
reading the OP was like reading, word for word, a story I would have written about a girl I was wrapped up in my first two years of college. literally, that was insane. the only thing different is mine's not bi (in the true sense) and she's never had an STD that I know of, but who knows. But yeah, everything else is the same, all the way down to leaving town and coming back later on.
being that I'm well over her now, we're REALLY good friends, and I'm probably the perfect person to give you spot-on advice, I still don't have any real pointers for you. At one point I had simply had enough of the (sometimes physically) sickening rollercoaster of elation and heartache, the shit completely hit and destroyed the fan, I swore her off and started dating someone more down to earth that really appreciated me for me. That was invaluable in helping me learn the difference between obsessive infatuation and a deeper love, and once I had chilled out on her we settled into an amazing friendship that I wouldn't change for a thousand klondike bars.
::shrug:: best of luck man
[Edited on September 22, 2008 at 7:39 AM. Reason : sdfa] 9/22/2008 7:34:46 AM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
Yeah, I'm kind of moving all my chips into the middle just to see what she's looking for. If it doesn't work out then I'm just gonna give up on it. 9/22/2008 9:25:24 AM
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vonjordan3 AIR 43669 Posts user info edit post |
she never gave it up...that means you are not on her list and will never be important to her 9/22/2008 10:05:41 AM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
Thank you yes. You understand this girl much better than I ever possibly could. 9/22/2008 10:09:45 AM
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vonjordan3 AIR 43669 Posts user info edit post |
My advice would have been to fuck her but now she has an STD so there is no point, if you were important to her you would have been together, has nothing to do with knowing her 9/22/2008 10:43:23 AM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
Thanks guy 9/22/2008 3:38:06 PM
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IRSeriousCat All American 6092 Posts user info edit post |
Do you want some real advice? Its like this:
Theres an invention called a condom out there and if you want to fuck her, then fuck her. i promise you once you've shot your load you'll no longer feel so compelled to be in this girls life. some women guys really do pine for but most times when guys are pining for a girl they are really trying to get some validation for the hours they wasted giving her his undivided attention and priceless hours spent either hanging out with her or dreaming about it.
accept that there is no relationship that could reasonably occur between the two of you because shes clearly a psychotic bitch and you obviously have your own man-boy-bitch issues (not making a judgment against you, as we all have had them and they can reoccur in even the most resolved of men.
If you want to fuck her then go ahead and do so because it will assist in your ability to withdraw (no pun) and emotionally detach yourself from her. I'd just let her go because fucking her will probably only further bring the crazy out of the bitch. 9/22/2008 4:51:55 PM
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Walls1441 All American 10000 Posts user info edit post |
could we at least get a pic? you can fuzz out the face if you want.
I'm walls1441 and i approved this message. 9/22/2008 4:55:45 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |

I know a lot of you think I'm just infatuated with her, but all I can say is you don't know how I feel. I'm old enough to know the difference and what I'm feeling doesn't feel like infatuation.
[Edited on September 22, 2008 at 5:08 PM. Reason : ]
9/22/2008 5:07:29 PM
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quietly All American 17821 Posts user info edit post |
Didn't read any other replies, but she just wants to make sure she has someone to hang out with when she gets here.
She would have replied to the heart-felt or serious message you left her instead of the impersonal text message if she wanted to be more than just friends! 9/22/2008 5:12:42 PM
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Walls1441 All American 10000 Posts user info edit post |
damn i was kinda hoping you'd post her face. body isn't that important
I'm walls1441 and i approved this message. 9/22/2008 5:12:50 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
Her face isn't busted either.
^^ Where were you 2 months ago?
[Edited on September 22, 2008 at 5:13 PM. Reason : ] 9/22/2008 5:13:37 PM
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csharp_live Suspended 829 Posts user info edit post |
i can't understand why men make such a big deal out of shit like that.
just text her and see if she wants to go rawr dawg with you.
if she says no, oh well. you move on. but if she says yes, you'll be nailing some of the best tits of your life. 9/22/2008 5:14:00 PM
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quietly All American 17821 Posts user info edit post |
^^I don't really visit this site that much anymore!
Curiosity and boredom brought me back here today... 9/22/2008 5:15:15 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
That's basically what I'm working on right now. I waited it out awhile and then saw her this weekend so I'm seeing what's up now. 9/22/2008 5:15:17 PM
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Walls1441 All American 10000 Posts user info edit post |
if she's not still obviously psycho just hang out with her and cop get a feel for her again. otherwise just move on. having an STD isn't the worst thing in the world (unless by std you mean aids). If you care about her enough you can get over the fact that she may have slept with some other dude (unless she was cheating on you back then) i don't remember i read the OP like 2 months ago.
I'm walls1441 and i approved this message. 9/22/2008 5:16:30 PM
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pttyndal WINGS!!!!! 35217 Posts user info edit post |
hit it 9/22/2008 5:17:47 PM
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csharp_live Suspended 829 Posts user info edit post |
roar dawg it
it's just skin 9/22/2008 5:22:17 PM
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Bolt All American 981 Posts user info edit post |
run for the hills man. she's nutso. 9/22/2008 5:31:24 PM
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SaabTurbo All American 25459 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I've heard she has gotten an STD in the past year" |
9/22/2008 5:38:02 PM
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redwop All American 1027 Posts user info edit post |
Based on the information you have posted so far, I would say you are setting yourself for a hard fall. Dude, just forget about her. 9/22/2008 5:42:03 PM
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Walls1441 All American 10000 Posts user info edit post |
if you're going to pass let me get those digits tho. this is a blind date that can't go too badly.
I'm walls1441 and i approved this message. 9/22/2008 5:42:36 PM
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kiljadn All American 44691 Posts user info edit post |
I was like "Wow, nice, maybe he should hit that" until I saw the Marlboro Lights in her purse
cut that bitch loose, dude. 9/22/2008 6:53:11 PM
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Seotaji All American 34244 Posts user info edit post |
^
haha me too. 9/22/2008 6:58:18 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
This wouldn't be nearly as hard if I wasn't extremely attracted to her as a person. Fuck me for being a decent human being  9/22/2008 8:05:48 PM
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kiljadn All American 44691 Posts user info edit post |
Dude.....
it's just pussy.
For God's sake. 9/22/2008 8:12:03 PM
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H8R wear sumthin tight 60155 Posts user info edit post |
you see, that's where youre wrong
you aren't a descent human being
you just want to fuck her
so keep telling yourself that, k 9/22/2008 8:22:36 PM
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IMStoned420 All American 15485 Posts user info edit post |
Yeah, thanks for telling me how I feel.
Yall don't know shit about me but I like how all the dudes in here try to act like they're all badass for calling me a pussy. Like it's the coolest fucking thing in the world to not give a fuck about people. 9/22/2008 8:28:35 PM
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BoBo All American 3093 Posts user info edit post |
IMStoned420 - 7/28/2008 11:34:53 AM:
Quote : | "Help me with my stupid whore ..." |
IMStoned420 - 8/22/2008 12:23:10 AM:
Quote : | "But I really honestly love her and she seems to have her head straight after a year of realizing how bad life sucks away from college. I'm serious. She doesn't seem like the same immature bitch at all." |
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bitchplease All American 613 Posts user info edit post |
don't deal with stupid whores. 9/22/2008 9:31:36 PM
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tromboner950 All American 9667 Posts user info edit post |


[Edited on September 22, 2008 at 9:33 PM. Reason : .]
9/22/2008 9:31:56 PM
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susie Q All American 5927 Posts user info edit post |
She just wants to get laid.
That's why she went crazy on you the first time when she figured out you were falling for her.
That's why she ignored your message but still contacted you when she knew she could see you again.
If you can eff her without having feelings (and contracting an STD), then do it.
If you can't, don't. 9/22/2008 9:45:10 PM
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BoBo All American 3093 Posts user info edit post |
(I just can't stop myself ... from re-reading this from page 1.) 9/22/2008 9:48:47 PM
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susie Q All American 5927 Posts user info edit post |
Seriously, take my advice. I'm a woman and I have pulled that nonsense on many women. 9/22/2008 9:53:23 PM
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H8R wear sumthin tight 60155 Posts user info edit post |

9/22/2008 9:57:43 PM
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csharp_live Suspended 829 Posts user info edit post |
rawr dawg 9/22/2008 11:33:12 PM
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rwoody Save TWW 38079 Posts user info edit post |
set em up
[Edited on September 23, 2008 at 12:03 AM. Reason : a] 9/23/2008 12:01:28 AM
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