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"Having missed the ride, she ended up surprising me at the place i mentioned i was going to eat. After calmly explaining why it upset me she apologized and I never brought the subject up again, instead I just let it fester inside me slowly contributing towards my growing distrust of women until i was ready to spend days analyzing what most people wouldn't even consider any kind of serious relationship"

[Edited on December 11, 2014 at 8:56 AM. Reason : .]

12/11/2014 8:56:08 AM

^lol

TWW is such a great place to vent! Seriously did help me put things in perspective and I feel better haha.

I suppose my point was that her annoyances like making me miss something I really wanted to do (there are actually a few examples of stuff like this). I didn't make a big deal over, saying nothing, or simply mentioning it calmly that it bothered me and moving on. On the other hand me calling her annoying (when she was really pressing me on purpose) and making the grave mistake of correcting her in front of a friends turned into a days long drama trip that she would keep a tally on.

[Edited on December 11, 2014 at 9:10 AM. Reason : a]

12/11/2014 9:08:42 AM

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"She ended up taking so long to leave just tinkering around the apartment "

Dude this is every woman I've ever met. I live with my GF and we NEVER get anywhere on time because of this. It used to drive me batshit, now I just lie to her and say things are 30-45 mins earlier than they really are.

12/11/2014 9:24:33 AM

^^ Or, just maybe, she was annoyed at your not-so-great traits and you both didn't know how to deal with it, and you took it out of each other, quickly falling into a spiral of keeping tabs on each other's failures in order to make sure you can win the next argument. Then she realized it, and broke up with you in a fairly pleasant way, stating the above (aka clashing personalities).

OR you know... she was just a crazy whore using you for your dominant male penis, until she could find the next puppet boyfriend to buy her drinks and flake out on.

12/11/2014 9:30:58 AM

What was the question?

12/11/2014 9:33:56 AM

If the rest of him is any indicator there's nothing dominant about his penis.

12/11/2014 9:35:00 AM

Dominant penis locks a woman down. OP has that 190 proof beta penis, while his ex girlfriend has a vice grip vagina.

12/11/2014 9:37:20 AM

OP sounds like a spoiled brat that is use to always doing what he wants to do. This chick might not be perfect, but she's not too far off from the average woman. You are going to have to sacrifice and compromise a little bit to make any decent relationship work.

12/11/2014 9:41:48 AM

solid last minute entry into the thread of the year competition

12/11/2014 9:52:46 AM

Oh man I tried to start reading this thread, but it became too many words.

I need some cliffs notes

12/11/2014 10:00:18 AM

OP met a woman, OP and woman entered relationship (OP said yes so he could bed her), OP told woman she was annoying on more than one occasion, woman dumped OP to go back with EX, OP is crushed because she was the best he's ever bedded.

Women can ya'll explain the going back with EX's thing?

12/11/2014 10:32:59 AM

OP also struggles with basic grammar

12/11/2014 10:45:55 AM

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""Having missed the ride, she ended up surprising me at the place i mentioned i was going to eat"

so...you wanted to take her to dinner and then on the group bike ride. but you ended up having to miss both and then had to go to dinner alone?

12/11/2014 11:00:52 AM

so much great content in this thread

12/11/2014 11:05:08 AM

You might be with a mail-order bride if:

* 60% or more of all money spent on your bar tabs each time you go out occurs when you are not present

* She takes mysterious "calls from her ex" and listens to what he tells her to do

* She takes pride in her knowledge of the US but isn't from here

* You aware of a prior marriage and divorce "for green card purposes only"


All of these things are present in this factual scenario.

12/11/2014 11:08:42 AM

OP I think you dodged a bullet.

12/11/2014 11:11:58 AM

Sounds like she did too.

12/11/2014 11:25:36 AM

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"you wanted to take her to dinner and then on the group bike ride. but you ended up having to miss both and then had to go to dinner alone?"

It sounds like they had plans together, then when she couldn't make it in time to get a bite, he bailed on their existing plans saying "I'll hang out with you tomorrow," and then got upset when she showed up. Kinda fucked up IMO. He shouldn't have cancelled their plans to begin with, and getting pissy when she didn't abide by his edict that the plans are were off is messed up too.

12/11/2014 11:30:56 AM

there is no chance that HUR was calm and polite about hanging out tomorrow and all of the chance that HUR was a whiny bitch about it and said something like "fine, then I'm just going to go" and pouted off in some kind of bitch-ass passive aggressive play to make her cater to him. It even sounds like she fell for it, she made it to dinner, but that wasn't good enough because she didn't capitulate enough to his pouting.

12/11/2014 11:51:22 AM

id like to know what her first name is, HUR

12/11/2014 12:17:15 PM

Thread is worthless without pics.

12/11/2014 12:19:17 PM

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"This girl sounds like an idiot. But you're also a racist dickbag, so you should have lowered your standards and not called her out about the New England shit."

And further revealed just how much of a human toilet he is. HUR you're literally a monster of a human being. I feel gross just reading your snot-dripping drivel.

12/11/2014 12:21:42 PM

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"sounds like they had plans together, then when she couldn't make it in time to get a bite, he bailed on their existing plans saying "I'll hang out with you tomorrow," and then got upset when she showed up"

They were actually plans I had with my friends, she had just gotten a bike so i invited her to come along thinking she'd like to ride her new bike and enjoy hanging out. I actually thought it was really sweet that she showed up to apologize for making me miss my event.

12/11/2014 1:00:25 PM

How long did she know about the plans?

12/11/2014 1:05:57 PM

Sunday

12/11/2014 1:06:47 PM

does this girl have any documented medical issues

12/11/2014 1:15:08 PM

Have you tried calling her in the middle of the night? You may be able to squeeze a booty call or two out of her before she completely moves on.

12/11/2014 1:16:34 PM

answer me this.. did you meet on tinder? i just need to know who to swipe left to.

12/11/2014 1:27:42 PM

OP are you ready to bring the girl into this thread a la jerry springer?

12/11/2014 1:28:01 PM

Where are the pictures?

12/11/2014 1:31:33 PM

So after 4 weeks of no contact, this girl texts me last night wishing me belated birthday and apologizing for breaking up with me and the way she acted in November. Apparently her last two boyfriends cheated on her and she "freaked out" as things moved "so fast" with us. Supposedly the "ex-boyfriend" thing was to push me away to not pursue her after we broke up.

What you guys thing, should i pursue or throw this one back in the ocean?

12/30/2014 10:54:41 AM

They only care when you don't care.

as soon as you start caring again, she will just do the same shit. Keep her as a bitch in your harem but do not make her a significant other.

12/30/2014 10:59:22 AM

Wish her luck going forward, but let her know you don't have any interest in pursuing anything with her.

She's too crazy to keep on the side, and I don't think you're equipped to handle side-pieces anyway.

12/30/2014 11:11:15 AM

It is amazing how well-qualified and experienced everyone on TWW is at handling both crazy people and relationship problems.

Hmmmm

12/30/2014 11:12:30 AM

I think you should pursue. Things will totally be different this time and her explanation seems believable and 100% sincere.

12/30/2014 11:23:03 AM

plus it will keep this thread relevant to our interests. pursue her for TWW's enjoyment. fall back in love. this will surely work.

12/30/2014 11:36:18 AM

How much work is it gonna be to re-bed this object?

12/30/2014 11:45:04 AM

pursue and update itt.

12/30/2014 11:45:44 AM

Dude she did the classic single for Christmas move that dudes have been pulling for years. Bwn her, and move on before valentines.

12/30/2014 12:02:57 PM

yep, even though you are not in dating season, you avoided the holidays with her. Pursue her again (with minimal effort) and break it off by February 1st.

12/30/2014 12:14:41 PM

I don't think we can make a good judgement call unless there's some pics.

12/30/2014 12:23:48 PM

dating season

12/30/2014 1:21:41 PM

hahaha this is a pretty awesome thread.

Agreed pursue for our entertainment.

12/30/2014 1:55:07 PM

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"How much work is it gonna be to re-bed this object?"

12/30/2014 2:10:51 PM

The reason men never commit is because women are starting to act like major hos.
For every bitch crying that she can't get engaged, I would refer her to a time in her life when she acted just like this cunt who is torturing OP.

When girls are back and forth between guys you're better off without them. They are trying to auction the pussy to the highest bidder who will wine & dine them the most.

Don't be a player, be a market maker. Make the bitches come to you, don't play their games.

12/30/2014 2:14:06 PM

Is there a way to filter out stategrad100 posts? I feel my brain cells crying out for mercy every time I process one of his posts.

12/30/2014 2:28:13 PM

Generally speaking, haters generally hate.

12/30/2014 2:36:44 PM

I think stategrad100 speaks truth

12/31/2014 7:18:48 PM

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" They only care when you don't care. as soon as you start caring again, she will just do the same shit."

I'm no expert on women/relationships, but this sounds about right to me.

12/31/2014 7:24:10 PM

HUR many of us have had women who wanted to get back together later. It's never a good idea. Just move forward and find someone who treats you with respect, can handle getting pissed off or annoyed without running for the hills, and who you don't walk on eggshells around.

Honestly, when I first started reading your post, I thought she might have some of the symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder, but there's not enough information and I don't think she was that bad.

1/3/2015 2:46:04 AM