Open to confession btw.

12/23/2012 5:37:08 PM

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""Not so much of a confession as a "troubled thought"...but it could spark some decent discussion. Anyways... I consistently worry about the possibility of me committing adultery in the future. I'm on the fast track for marriage and I'm completely in love with my significant other. We've been together for a while and I haven't come close to cheating on her. I've done some harmless flirting...but that's about it. My worry comes from the fact that I consistently have vagina in my face. No, I'm not an ob-gyn...but I live in a city that is swarming with beautiful women. I've had tons of great luck in this city (pre-current relationship, of course) and the opportunities do not seem to be waning as I get older. I love women, I love sex, I love (loved?) having sex with different women. Can I withstand it for the rest of my life? Obviously, the main reason I haven't cheated so far is because I love my significant other, I do not want to ruin our relationship, and I wouldn't want to hurt her. Barring us falling out of love (which I hope never happens), I worry that I'll get to a point where I think I can get away with it and not feel guilty enough about it where it will kill me on the inside. It almost makes me want to move to a small town where I don't have to worry about too many other women. Sure, there are a few hotties in every town...but bigger cities offer more temptations. I think that the less beautiful women I see on a daily basis...the less I think about it. I really do my best to not put myself in precarious situations (which I think is 90% of the journey to cheating). So hopefully I can keep this up and my desire to sleep with other women will also go down with old age. Its just a little frustrating to be tempted on such a consistent basis. That's all..." "

This is why I fear commitment

12/23/2012 6:06:26 PM

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"my girlfriend has now officially ruined halloween, thanksgiving, the birth of my nephew, and my nieces birthday with bullshit "your family hates me" drama that isn't, in any way, true. she complains to all of her friends about my family as well, so all of them take shots at my family as well. she's very VERY close to ruining my christmas with these antics. i may be single by new years. and that scares me, because this is a 3 year relationship on life support, and i'm really, REALLY bad at being single"

12/24/2012 11:32:03 AM

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"and i'm really, REALLY bad at being single"

That's pathetic on a lot of levels, but more to the point, you have to ask yourself which one you're better at; being miserable or being single. If you're better at being miserable, then by all means stay in this relationship on life support with someone so self centered they ruin any family function by making it about them, even when it's a fucking birth. If you're just scared of being single, because really that's what you mean when you say you're bad at being single maybe it's time to overcome that fear and practice being single for a while.

12/24/2012 11:38:15 AM

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" I hooked up with one of my best friends last night. she has a boyfriend she isn't happy with. not sure what's going to happen next, but I do have feelings for her, and I'm pretty sure she has feelings for me. "

12/24/2012 11:49:17 AM

you pretty much fucked up that friendship

congrats, dumbass

12/24/2012 12:02:24 PM

^

12/24/2012 12:06:23 PM

^^Not really -- she is the one that fucked it up, man.

12/24/2012 12:08:44 PM

Really....

your logic is flawed.

12/24/2012 12:18:15 PM

They both fucked up.

12/24/2012 12:24:50 PM

I've been able to hook up with friends before, but never did it when they were in a relationship. amd given what I've gone through in the recent past, I'm glad I've never been that guy, and will never put myself into that position

12/24/2012 1:15:17 PM

I've done that before, it never ends in a stable relationship.

12/24/2012 1:17:21 PM

worst type of drama is relationship holiday drama. congrats, you fucked up

12/24/2012 2:47:09 PM

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"I generally like the idea of the TWW Secret Santa, and was very pleased with my gift, but I doubt I'll participate again. There were too many people involved who I probably couldn't bring myself to spend money on ever."

12/25/2012 12:03:39 AM

Ah, but you could buy 20 dollars worth of spiders or collect a a jar of boogers to send those people instead.

12/25/2012 12:05:41 AM

sounds like they shouldn't sign up

12/25/2012 12:08:47 AM

I enjoy the TWW SS program.

Allows me to do something nice for people I'll never meet in real life.

12/25/2012 12:58:25 AM

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"I'm in bed, sleepy, and would like to masturbate. However, I've been painting all day so I have small patches of paint stuck to my fingers and I am grossed out by the idea of getting little bits of paint in my vagina. I'm really weirded out about it but to indifferent to go get up and scrub my hands."

12/25/2012 11:24:15 PM

is it wrong that I've read through tww enough to know ^ that was about

12/26/2012 12:13:38 AM

in my opinion Jen should get up and wash her hands

12/26/2012 12:17:48 AM

lol

12/26/2012 12:19:44 AM

Perhaps I did...

12/26/2012 12:22:44 AM

There's probably plenty people around with clean hands...

12/26/2012 12:23:01 AM

sounds like she needed diva's secret santa giver

12/26/2012 1:27:57 AM

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"I wouldn't mind being Jen's fuck buddy, but it's been a long time since I have hung out with her- I imagine she is still cool"

12/26/2012 8:49:11 AM

This is not the thread I thought it was

[Edited on December 26, 2012 at 12:23 PM. Reason : ]

12/26/2012 12:15:08 PM

wrong thread?

12/26/2012 12:16:50 PM

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"sounds like she needed diva's secret santa giver "

and what a wonderful gift it has been

12/26/2012 12:53:41 PM

Anyone need to unburden themselves after the holidays?

12/27/2012 8:31:19 AM

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"I just dropped well over a grand at a strip club... and it was one of the best times of my life. Let me state that 1) I'm not a lonely guy and 2) I'm not really a strip club guy. I go to clubs maybe a few times per year when I'm bored, horny, stupid, and have cash to burn, but never this kind of cash (normally <$150, including drinks). I've never fallen into the trap of thinking a dancer is "real" or into you, etc. I know it's all a game/business. As much as I've been in these clubs, I've always seen through the fakery and taken that for what it's worth - a hot piece of ass shaking right in my face and enjoyed it. However, this time, this time seemed real, not too real, just real. Either she was the best damn actor I've ever encountered or she was really that "real". We spent 5 hours together, maybe 1.5 hours talking, eating, and drinking, and three hours in various locations - champagne room, private dance rooms, and to top off the night, and hour in the executive suite... just the two of us... her own stage, her own pole, and a nice couch for dancing and touching. I've never really had afterthoughts of a dancer until now; so I guess this is how sugardaddies start for strippers Good news is that we're hours apart so I won't become the fool that falls into the sugardaddy trap; bad news, is that I'll likely never see her again, and yeh, it would be worth my time and money (some money) just to hang with her... one of the most down to earth, easy to talk to, interesting girls I've met.... as T-Pain once so brilliantly said, I'm in love with a stripper."

1/8/2013 9:54:01 AM

I got that same confession but forgot to post it. Guess that guy got fed up and confessed to you instead lol

1/8/2013 9:55:16 AM

way to try and throw us off the trail of thinking it's you

we see right through that now

1/8/2013 9:58:14 AM

I once gave a stripper in Prague a back massage during our champagne room time (I know...not how it's suppose to work )...and she asked for me email address when we were done.

I was slightly drunk and in love at the time...but I don't think I ever got that email.

1/8/2013 10:15:13 AM

^^^lol Meg

1/8/2013 10:18:38 AM

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"I have an e-crush on MinkaGrl01. I like her nerdiness."

1/15/2013 4:55:40 PM

confess

1/15/2013 6:04:39 PM

confessed.

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"My bf got sick while we were visiting his friends over the weekend. He stayed in bed at their house while we all party-hopped in their limo. At 3 am, we end up at an all-nude strip club. I got a very hands-on lap dance by this hot little stripper chick. We get home at 5 am and I crawl into bed with him, smelling of strippers and strip club crud. Around noon the next day, I realized I still hadn't showered. And my hands were all over that chick. He's still sick. Hope it's not my fault! "

1/16/2013 8:56:41 AM

Me and punchmonk's last confessor should start a MinkaGrl01 fan club.

1/16/2013 9:07:33 AM

That is a pretty cool, Wraith.

1/16/2013 3:38:30 PM

I would join that fan club.

also, open to confessions

1/16/2013 3:43:31 PM

also, I got a confession!

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"After struggling with ADD symptoms my entire life (nearly 30 years), I finally saw a doc and got diagnosed yesterday. Started my meds today and have never felt so at ease/calm. I wish I had done this years ago. "

1/16/2013 4:05:38 PM

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"i too, have an e-crush on Minka!"

It is Minka day.

1/16/2013 4:06:52 PM

lol. Where were these people when I was single??

1/16/2013 9:49:15 PM

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"i too, have an e-crush on Minka!"

1/16/2013 9:50:21 PM

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"I had surgery this past weekend... in the groin area. The nurses & I were having a good ole time right as I was going into the OR, cutting jokes about their coworkers and making me laff as the drugs were kicking in. The big nurse lady mentioned 'shaving' at some point before I faded off... (I keep it trimmed, btw) ...I wake up with a neat, 6" x 10" rectangle shaved from my right quad, and my stomach is shaved from pube-line all the way up to my pecs.... the incision was right at my normal trim line. I think someone was playing a joke on me "

1/16/2013 9:52:07 PM

^ probably had to stick ultrasound or some other measurement equipment there.

1/16/2013 10:33:58 PM

^^^^Where were you when I was single?

[Edited on January 16, 2013 at 10:50 PM. Reason : ]

1/16/2013 10:49:48 PM

awww snap

1/17/2013 7:55:18 AM

I would like a confession this AM.

1/17/2013 7:58:53 AM

Got one:

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"I lost a very serious significant other think my dating life is over then months later, for no reason, I start having ex's show up out of the woodwork- now my cock couldn't be hotter... to them, their friends, and because of the increased confidence, random chicks... what the hell, where was all this months ago? "

1/18/2013 7:34:35 AM