AUSTIN 3:16 + 2

9/4/2013 2:56:32 PM

^^Excellent advice yo!

9/4/2013 4:35:26 PM

Thanks yo

I'm Krallum and I approved this message.

9/4/2013 4:38:59 PM

https://www.facebook.com/pages/NCSU-Confessions/222979711181632?hc_location=stream

I'm Krallum and I approved this message.

9/10/2013 10:21:18 AM

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"A girl I slept with a few weeks ago called me last night and insisted on meeting in person to tell me something. she wanted to meet last night but i said no, so we're meeting at 11:30am today during my lunch break. I'm a bit freaked out about this."

9/10/2013 12:57:32 PM

all I can hear is Maury saying "You ARE the father!" ^

9/10/2013 1:02:24 PM

Someone has herpes.

9/10/2013 1:06:19 PM

herp da derp

9/10/2013 1:10:12 PM

herp a lerp

freak wit da leak

bun in the oven

etc. etc.

9/10/2013 1:10:56 PM

Someone has herpes.

9/10/2013 1:11:30 PM

We'll need a report back on that, naturally.

Either you're infected or a soon-to-be father. Enjoy!

9/10/2013 1:40:17 PM

Bunch of pessimists.

Maybe she just thinks she Loves him.

9/10/2013 1:42:38 PM

Dang, I didn't expect to hear anything back today, but it looks like this guy's pretty responsible about updating his confessions:

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"She's pregnant. Wants to raise the child. Doesn't want anything from me; perfectly happy to have me sign my rights away with her lawyer."

9/10/2013 3:41:14 PM

^ good luck with that

9/10/2013 3:47:53 PM

Slept with once? No condom?

9/10/2013 3:49:49 PM

Yeah, I think there's some room to be a little skeptical about this woman's claim. Regardless, it's pretty exciting stuff, I reckon.

9/10/2013 4:04:08 PM

If she raw dogged it with you on a one-night-stand, it's pretty safe to assume she's done the same with several others as well.

1. The kid might not be yours.

2. Get yourself tested ASAP.

9/10/2013 4:08:01 PM

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"Regardless, it's pretty exciting stuff, I reckon."

exciting you say?

9/10/2013 4:38:17 PM

You're gonna hit that again, right? And now you don't have to worry about wearing the condom anymore anyways. Unless she caught something after you...

9/10/2013 5:22:16 PM

More deets for the curious:

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"Wasn't the first time I slept with the female in question, but we weren't (and aren't) dating. She confessed that she wasn't taking the pill at the same time every day (she only started taking it a few months ago) and she thinks that's why this happened. Sigh. I'm not at a point in my life when I want a child...with anyone. Not sure if I ever will either. So I really don't want to have any involvement (except some support for her early on when she has nobody else to really talk to)."

^^AHA, I'm tryna be cool and laid-back.

9/10/2013 5:36:04 PM

You did the deed and got your reward. Congrats, you are now a dad. If she really wants to let you sign your rights away and you wanna be another guy who bailed on his kid because he wanted to raw dog it then you should be pretty happy with how things turned out so get to signing.

9/10/2013 6:15:46 PM

Did the dude even pull out or was he all YOLO!!! up in that vag?

9/10/2013 7:51:44 PM

Quote :

"If she raw dogged it with you on a one-night-stand, it's pretty safe to assume she's done the same with several others as well. 1. The kid might not be yours. 2. Get yourself tested ASAP."

yep

9/10/2013 8:04:01 PM

this thread has sucked for a while...someone has to have done something recently

9/18/2013 2:58:46 PM

It's been awhile and it's the weekend, so I'll open this thread for confessions.

9/28/2013 8:19:26 PM

man...think really hard about if you want to skip out and not be a dad, whether or not you want to be with the mother. i have never regretted for one second staying in the picture for my daughter, nor have I ever regretted for one second that I ditched her mother (my only regret there is that I should have done it sooner).

9/28/2013 8:54:31 PM

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" For the first time in many years, I feel lonely and really unhappy about my social life. Which is weird because I'm not a super social person to begin with. I don't know how to deal with it."

I feel your pain. Without the long distance BFF relationship with Elise, I would be terribly lonely. That connection satisfies me emotionally. But socially... It's really difficult as an adult, much less a married adult with children, to make friends and build a social life that is satisfying. It was much easier as a student. Hell, it was easier just living in Raleigh where I was better equipped to network than I am here. I have made it manageable by taking classes at the gym and building a relationship with my personal trainer. It's artificial and the people I interact with aren't really my friends, but it keeps me busy enough and provides enough interaction for the illusion of a social life. I would love to have real local friends and a real social life, but I don't know how to go out there and make it happen... without being even creepier and more over bearing than I already am.

Come on, TWW. Help us out. How do you build a satisfying social life as an adult? Or deal with the loneliness?

9/28/2013 11:17:43 PM

I'm a very social, extroverted person, but now that almost everyone I know is all married 'n shit and never wanting to do anything, I don't know. I've been trying to crack the code for about 5 years since all my rowdy friends suddenly settledowned.

I mostly just have a lot of cars and guns and motorcycles and stereo equipment and guitars and SCUBA gear and skis to keep me occupied.

[Edited on September 28, 2013 at 11:22 PM. Reason : sold the jet ski because it sucked without anyone to ride with]

9/28/2013 11:21:28 PM

When my one good Durham friends just had his first kid I bluntly told my other Durham acquaintance we'd be hanging out more often from here on out.
I've heard good things about meetup too.

9/30/2013 11:14:05 AM

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"sold the jet ski because it sucked without anyone to ride with"

Kenny Powers laughs in your face

9/30/2013 11:33:57 AM

riding a PWC solo is dreadfully boring.

9/30/2013 11:48:04 AM

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" this is a long one...so brace yourself:I found out a couple weeks ago that my stepfather molested my sister when we were in high school (she's a few years older than me). It's a very complicated situation with so many variables that I didn't know what to do or how to handle it. I just knew that I was extremely angry (at stepfather) and sad (for my sister) at the same time. I don't know if I've been so overcome with emotion before...like not even after the death of my grandfather...who was like a father to me. I basically scream/cried in the parking lot of a grocery store for about 10 minutes that day...couldn't control it.Its impossible to make this long story short...but I'll try.Mom divorced biological father when I was 5...remarried to stepdad when I was 7. Stepdad was great and basically raised my sister and I (she's a few years older). I like my biological dad, but he just wasn't a great dad. Stepdad coached all of our teams, went to all of our events, and was overall just a really good dad. My sister was really attached to him because she really disliked our biological dad. They just didn't mix at all.Before I went to college my mom and stepdad split up. He was having a mid-life type crisis. My sister took it really hard...I just blocked it out and supported my mom. My stepdad remarried and had another kid. My sister was really pissed about the whole situation because she felt like he was abandoning her. I was a little pissed because I never got angry with him or fought with him like my sister did and was puzzled why he didn't seem to share his new life with us (we found out from other people that he got remarried AND was having another child). It was just a really bizarre situation IMO. But I was older and very busy with school and work and finally just said..."fuck it, I don't have time for this shit." I've barely had any contact with him over the past 8+ years with the exception of a birthday card or two. After trying really hard to maintain a relationship with him, my sister also gave up the last couple years.Fastforward to two weeks ago. My ex-step uncle (my stepdad's brother) gives me a call at my office. I hadn't talked to him in a few years, but we always got along and he's a good dude. Well he's giving me a sob story about how my stepdad's health is failing him. He's getting divorced and losing his business and is moving back in with his mom. I don't care too much for the guy, but I don't want him to suffer. So I shoot a text to my sister and ask her if she's talked to our stepdad recently or heard from Uncle *&%@. Then she calls me crying and tells me that our stepdad molested her in high school. She's tried to keep it from me, but she wanted me to know why she was no longer talking to him. I didn't really know how to react at the time. I kept my emotions in check at the time because I didn't want to freak her out (she was already crying) and I just didn't think it was something she wanted to talk about.I got off the phone and immediately called my mom to get the story. She told me she found out about it when they were getting divorced. It had happened a few years earlier than the divorce and my sister told my mom because she said she didn't want them getting back together. But she begged my mom not to do anything about it because she still loved him as a dad and didn't want to ruin things. And not that it matters (not to me)...but it wasn't a penetration molesting...more of a fondling.So that's when I lost it. Initial feelings had me driving to wherever my stepfather was and beating the shit out of him. After that it was just a combination of anger and grief. Fuck that guy...I could care less if he dies right now with absolutely nothing. My sister worshipped him and he did that to her. And my poor sister. I am as close as you can get to my mother and my sister after going through those two divorces...we | "

9/30/2013 8:09:05 PM

I'd be tempted to tell the uncle and shame the shit out of that bastard.

[Edited on September 30, 2013 at 8:19 PM. Reason : but, im not sure thats wise... maybe its best to let him be in his failing health. karma.]

9/30/2013 8:18:55 PM

His family is already suffering, possibly preparing for the loss of the stepfather. No need to let them know now, especially if he is dying. It would likely cause more harm to the living relatives than it would to the perpetrator.

9/30/2013 8:46:33 PM

I would leave it alone for the sake of the sister. She would have to deal with any fall out from outing the step father. I've seen it happen. The jerk gets off Scott free (he's dying after all) and she's seen as being dishonest or any number of things by his family or even some of her own family.

9/30/2013 8:53:28 PM

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" The only thing I did was call back the uncle and told him what I learned. It was another scream/cry session. But it was basically a "tell your shithead brother to completely forget he ever knew me or my sister." He was surprisingly understanding and remorseful. I got the feeling that I had just fucked up their relationship as well (he has two daughters himself).I think that's pretty much the end of it unless my stepdad turns up at some point...which I just can't imagine happening."

Added to previous confession.

10/1/2013 7:31:23 AM

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"I'm not at a point in my life when I want a child...with anyone. Not sure if I ever will either. So I really don't want to have any involvement "

youre a piece of shit, just so you know

hopefully the kid will cure cancer or something great, then you show up in hobo clothes asking for money, and the kid punches you in the face

10/1/2013 7:42:08 AM

I didn't want any kids either. Still don't want any more. I have never regretted staying actively involved with my daughter, though. Be careful; once you walk away, it will be very tough to get a re-do on that decision.

10/1/2013 9:00:35 AM

a whole month without confessions. anyone need to get anything off their chest?

11/1/2013 11:20:12 AM

Life must be dull for everyone.

But if not...

Confess to me!

11/8/2013 12:32:36 PM

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""I am Saurabh Garg.""

?....??

11/8/2013 1:12:48 PM

AHAHA

11/8/2013 1:27:02 PM

^^bahahah





[Edited on November 8, 2013 at 1:56 PM. Reason : -]

11/8/2013 1:38:45 PM

And here I thought he was deported to a country with no TWW access...don't worry, your secret is safe with me 'gargs

11/8/2013 1:42:12 PM

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"Got really drunk the Saturday before Halloween and wound up going home with this chick from the bar. I went at her hard, and she asked me to do things to her I've never heard come out of a woman's mouth outside of a porn. Once I finished she looked me dead in the eye and asked if she could peg me...I guess I was just still just that drunk, so I let her. And I liked it"

11/8/2013 2:57:36 PM

[Everything turned out better than expected]

11/8/2013 3:03:08 PM

oh my. what were your costumes so i complete this mental image

11/8/2013 3:05:43 PM

Ahahaha.

11/9/2013 8:19:47 AM

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" I went to a party last night and met this girl who was "really stressed out" from a bad day at work. After twenty minutes of conversation, we slipped away to an upstairs bathroom and alleviated some of that stress. All good. On parting she suggested that I hit her up on Facebook. Problem is, I don't know her name. :-/ "

Time to ask around. Unless you'd rather not know her name.

11/25/2013 5:50:14 PM

Anonymous bwning is pretty scandalous.

Can we just start confessing stuff to people without it being posted?

11/25/2013 7:03:51 PM