JeffreyBSG All American 10165 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Only downside she has six kids and just got divorced." |
One kid is a deal-breaker for me. Six kids is so much overkill that it's funny.]5/14/2013 1:08:29 PM |
dropdeadkate nerdlord 11725 Posts user info edit post |
officially took down my account
and imo match isn't worth the money at all 5/14/2013 1:19:24 PM |
TKE-Teg All American 43412 Posts user info edit post |
does this mean I can't stalk you anymore? 5/14/2013 1:28:28 PM |
dropdeadkate nerdlord 11725 Posts user info edit post |
not on okc haha
we will always have tww 5/14/2013 1:28:53 PM |
TKE-Teg All American 43412 Posts user info edit post |
5/14/2013 1:38:05 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
i haven't taken it this slow dating someone in a long time. i don't know if that is a good or bad thing. 5/14/2013 1:48:32 PM |
TKE-Teg All American 43412 Posts user info edit post |
I think you're thinking too hard about it.
that's what people always tell me...that I over analyze it 5/14/2013 2:16:41 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
at first i thought i was...wondering if taking it slow meant i wasn't really as interested in her as i wanted to be. stuff like that.
but i think it's just that this one is starting off in a different but good way. it's not like ones in the past where i've felt like i've had to spend all my time with the girl in the beginning stages. that usually ends up with a rush to the finish line and a pretty quick fade out after that. i actually like this better. 5/14/2013 2:36:32 PM |
Ken All American 608 Posts user info edit post |
For match, yeah looking for at least medium term relationships now. I can't do the casual, and I have a really hard time pretending to be interested in something or someone I'm not. 5/14/2013 3:15:15 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
medium term...that's a new one.
eh give it a shot. you can create a profile for free. do that and see if there is anyone on there you would consider sending a message to. if there are multiple, pay up and give it a shot. 5/14/2013 3:19:58 PM |
DivaBaby19 Davidbaby19 45208 Posts user info edit post |
I'd take it slow seeing that you didn't take much time between the ole girl moving out and this new one 5/14/2013 3:23:27 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
yeah, that's another thing in the back of my head too. i was talking to someone about that who brought that point and i was saying that yeah, it's only been shy of six months since that relationship ended. But honestly, i was mentally checked out of it months before. So maybe it's not as quick a "rebound" as it seems. but the only that matters to most people is when it "officially" ended. 5/14/2013 3:27:00 PM |
Ken All American 608 Posts user info edit post |
^^ haha. Well i've only had < 6 month relationships and more less then that. I'll give it a shot again.. I like the way okc breaks apart profiles a bit more, makes skimming a lot easier. 5/14/2013 3:27:11 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
you could search on match and see if the girl is on OKC too. 5/14/2013 3:34:52 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
Never been a fan of trying to determine the pace of a relationship in terms of, "we've been hanging out too much, I need to scale it back."
If you want to hang out with someone, then hang out with them. It doesn't matter if you've hung out with them 5 nights in a row...if you want to do something with them again the next night...then fucking do it. If you'd rather hang out with a buddy and watch a game, then do that. I think you start fucking up when you try and set boundaries.
Take caution for the big things like moving in together and engagements....but don't hold back just because you think its the right thing to do. 5/14/2013 3:36:58 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
thankfully i don't think this girl will require a 10 page thread to decide if it's a good idea to start a relationship with or not
that's already a bonus 5/14/2013 3:41:10 PM |
JT3bucky All American 23258 Posts user info edit post |
^^bingo
when you start placing barriers on it as far as when to hang out...you're screwing up the flow.
go with it...roll with it. 5/14/2013 3:49:40 PM |
Krallum 56A0D3 15294 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I'm just a sexy skeleton babe lookin for a guy who is... big-boned... if u get my meaning. If you're into BONING people with your BIG BONE... get in touch w/me... definitely in touch... (if u dont get me when i say bone... dont even bother with me... intalectuals only)" |
I'm Krallum and I approved this message.5/14/2013 5:35:13 PM |
gunzz IS NÚMERO UNO 68205 Posts user info edit post |
5/14/2013 5:37:39 PM |
Krallum 56A0D3 15294 Posts user info edit post |
I'm Krallum and I approved this message
[Edited on May 15, 2013 at 10:42 AM. Reason : trololololol] 5/15/2013 10:34:12 AM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Only downside she has six kids and just got divorced. " |
holy shit. on several levels.
it is going to take a VERY special type of guy, a very specific type, to walk into a relationship with a woman with six kids. I hope she has her search broadened to "the entire US", because that is not going to be an easy find.
also, I'm really curious how/why this divorce went down. I'd love to know at what point their relationship went sour, and if they kept having kids after realizing that.
my boyfriend has two kids, and watching him and his ex juggle them and navigate co-parenting issues for just the two of them is insane. I can't imagine what that would look like with SIX. I think after #3 you should just resign yourself to the next 18 years together, regardless of the climate of your marriage (unless there is abuse or something of the sort).5/15/2013 1:48:13 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
^You being so defensive in this topic:
message_topic.aspx?topic=630661
...makes so much more sense now:
Quote : | "my boyfriend has two kids, and watching him and his ex juggle them and navigate co-parenting issues for just the two of them is insane." |
kudos on your boyfriend being a winemaker... 5/15/2013 2:01:11 PM |
Krallum 56A0D3 15294 Posts user info edit post |
called the fuck out
l o l
I'm Krallum and I approved this message. 5/15/2013 2:02:20 PM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
but yes, kudos to me. he makes some delicious wine, of which he keeps me well-stocked.
[Edited on May 15, 2013 at 2:06 PM. Reason : oh, nevermind. ] 5/15/2013 2:04:33 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
does he smash your grapes? 5/15/2013 2:07:33 PM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
yes, with his toes. just like on I Love Lucy 5/15/2013 2:11:54 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
Just spent a few entertaining moments perusing back through that thread. I probably would have cut slappy1 a lot more slack had I known she was boning the married dude in that thread. And lol at this:
Quote : | "but I know this man VERY well" |
oh do you? 5/15/2013 2:48:11 PM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
for what it's worth, they had been physically and legally separated for months before we got together. CA is a no-fault state and no, I had nothing to do with the demise of their marriage. 5/15/2013 2:51:47 PM |
Krallum 56A0D3 15294 Posts user info edit post |
Cool. None of us asked about that part, but thanks for letting us know
I'm Krallum and I approved this message. 5/15/2013 2:52:33 PM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
you're very welcome 5/15/2013 2:54:24 PM |
Krallum 56A0D3 15294 Posts user info edit post |
np. lets get a look at that swimsuit
I'm Krallum and I approved this message. 5/15/2013 2:54:49 PM |
TKE-Teg All American 43412 Posts user info edit post |
you hear that sound
that's us judging you 5/15/2013 2:55:20 PM |
wdprice3 BinaryBuffonary 45912 Posts user info edit post |
What is this, shaggy hour? Sure it was you. 5/15/2013 2:56:15 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
slappy1 probably looks pretty damn good in that bathing suit. Winemakers can usually bang whatever the fuck they want...which is probably what caused that dude's divorce.
How often would, "You want to come out and see my winery?", not end up in at least a blow job within the hour? Not often.
Gotta be at least an 8 to to make a winemaker settle down. 5/15/2013 2:57:39 PM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
lol -wtf 5/15/2013 2:59:25 PM |
TKE-Teg All American 43412 Posts user info edit post |
^^ironclad 5/15/2013 3:00:45 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
Shouldn't be any confusion. My statement is pretty spot-on. It works in reverse as well. I'd probably bang a 6...maybe even a 5 if she had her own winery (decent...not Duplin, NC winery). But it would have to be an ugly 5...not a fat 5...I'm still not down with round. 5/15/2013 3:02:43 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
i hope all wine makers aren't as sappy and hapless as that tool Ben from the Bachelor. but even he had 10s wanting to fuck him.
jbrick bringing the sound logic ITT today. ] 5/15/2013 3:16:04 PM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
^^I just thought it was hilarious. I actually may have chortled.
and I sent that to him (because of the funny) and his response: "Well, that person clearly hasn't seen/met many winemakers... most are 50-60 year old men and not very attractive"
(mine not included ) 5/15/2013 3:22:11 PM |
BridgetSPK #1 Sir Purr Fan 31378 Posts user info edit post |
I like that he fancies himself at least an 8 and too good for Duplin wines.
That's awesome. 5/15/2013 3:23:12 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35774 Posts user info edit post |
at one point those winemakers were 20-30. 5/15/2013 3:25:03 PM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
yeah, working in the tasting room at a 5,000 case/year winery. not a "head winemaker". 5/15/2013 3:36:53 PM |
Krallum 56A0D3 15294 Posts user info edit post |
So... Any of you on okcupid?
I'm Krallum and I approved this message. 5/15/2013 3:40:19 PM |
jbrick83 All American 23447 Posts user info edit post |
I've dated a few wine reps who were always having to host wine makers and winery owners...even the 50 and 60 year old creepsters crushed it. It's pretty much on par with being a professional athlete (again...we're not talking Duplin wineries here...that would be like being the back-up catcher for the Durham Bulls). 5/15/2013 4:14:09 PM |
BridgetSPK #1 Sir Purr Fan 31378 Posts user info edit post |
http://www.milb.com/milb/stats/stats.jsp?pos=C&sid=milb&t=p_pbp&pid=465698 5/15/2013 4:29:44 PM |
slappy1 All American 2303 Posts user info edit post |
plz list salary 5/15/2013 4:34:18 PM |
BridgetSPK #1 Sir Purr Fan 31378 Posts user info edit post |
Very, very low, but you could easily live on love with Juanqui! 5/15/2013 4:40:47 PM |
JayMCnasty All American 14180 Posts user info edit post |
just got the Tinder app on my phone. this shit is gold 5/17/2013 2:23:32 PM |
beatsunc All American 10749 Posts user info edit post |
^not on android. wtf 5/17/2013 4:09:15 PM |
Bweez All American 10849 Posts user info edit post |
what is it
it sounds like mybestface basically 5/17/2013 5:22:03 PM |