i used to think i wanted a dumb subservient broad like eightysix, but unmotivated people bore me quickly

1/2/2008 8:50:17 PM

lol. who said i was dumb or unmotivated?

1/2/2008 8:51:12 PM

I think he did.

1/2/2008 8:51:42 PM

Quote :

"Don't some girls happily do this sort of thing for free?"

i think i love you vix

1/2/2008 8:53:21 PM

i pretty much said that exact same thing about 5-6 posts before her.

1/2/2008 8:56:31 PM

but vix's awesomeness extends far beyond this thread; your awesomeness hasn't been established yet

1/2/2008 8:58:33 PM

can we get a muzzle for this girl, shes giving women everywhere a bad name

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 9:01 PM. Reason : i kid i kid....kind of ]

1/2/2008 8:59:39 PM

you should be the last person to say im giving women everywhere a bad name. lol


wow.

1/2/2008 9:02:17 PM

uh oh... i <3 this thread but not for the dating advice...

1/2/2008 9:11:21 PM

Quote :

"don't look at me as a gold digger, i make up for what he doesn't let me pay for in BIG ways. but at the same time, i appreciate and respect him for letting me be and treating me like a lady. "

I've had that once.....I paid for everything for the gal. Was engaged, and she made up in big ways.

Then I just realized she was an expensive whore.

I'm not mixing apples and oranges here hon am I?

1/2/2008 9:19:15 PM

maybe if by BIG ways you mean in the bedroom.

in Big ways i mean, i run his company for nothing. I manage his websites, do all his sponsorship meetings, travel arrangements, build is portfolio, and ultimately manage his career and hobby.

if all i did was give him goodies - yeah, ultimately id be a really expensive whore.

1/2/2008 9:22:54 PM

So you do all that and consider yourself inferior to him? Doesn't add up...

1/2/2008 9:24:13 PM

That would make you his secretary in corporate / political logic.

1/2/2008 9:24:53 PM

^^ but seriously, did you think it would?

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 9:26 PM. Reason : ds]

1/2/2008 9:26:04 PM

No

1/2/2008 9:28:40 PM

i mean seriously you guys are this interested in someones personal life? Whats it matter?

we've been together for a year, known each other much longer than that - It works out, we're happy, we love and care for each other very much and have had a ball reading this and laughing together.

I'm happy, he's happy - and all of our friends and family approve of and encourage our relationship. Thats more then anyone can ever ask for.

1/2/2008 9:31:26 PM

i am messed up in the head

1/2/2008 9:33:10 PM

must be obvious day at camp stupid

1/2/2008 9:33:56 PM

lol

1/2/2008 9:34:23 PM

Agreed, you should be happy and make what you can of it. My wife and I are about as oddball as you can get. But to try and rant on tradition, and then spout off that you do everything up to wiping your husbands crack after he poops, does not show that you live the perfect life, or the best dating advice is to let your husband walk all over you?

Want the best dating advice? Don't take dating advice. Find someone that makes you laugh and is your best friend, and go with the flow. Don't listen to the horseshit that others will throw at you about how things are suppose to be one way or another in dating someone.

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 9:40 PM. Reason : I break thread...ROCKING]

1/2/2008 9:34:39 PM

I concede this thread to Monkeychow

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 9:38 PM. Reason : edit]

1/2/2008 9:38:39 PM

lol. theres no point.

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 9:52 PM. Reason : lol]

1/2/2008 9:46:51 PM

yawn^

1/2/2008 9:48:29 PM

For such a great life, you just spent a good amount of time trying to defend it :-p

Now be the good woman and go finish filing the bullshit under the folder marked B.

1/2/2008 9:50:55 PM

lol. we've been sitting here together all night laughing at this whole thing.

i'm not defending anything.

1/2/2008 9:52:34 PM

you will be replaced in time

1/2/2008 9:54:59 PM

replaced? how so?

1/2/2008 9:55:38 PM

Oh common.....can't retract your argument now......you're acting like he told you to shut the hell up. Now how lady like is that?

1/2/2008 9:55:46 PM

Quote :

"replaced? how so?"

Contact jessiejepp.

1/2/2008 9:56:44 PM

eh. i know when its time to just appreciate what I've got and not worry about what anyone on the internet has to say about it.

1/2/2008 9:57:08 PM

if you mean, he'll find another woman and ditch me.

thats not going to happen - he's chosen me for life bitches.

1/2/2008 9:58:37 PM

that's cause he doesn't know how to do his own taxes apparently.

1/2/2008 9:59:36 PM

.....you believed him when he told you that....and you dont like sex.....we will see who is right

1/2/2008 9:59:52 PM

I thought we were talking about your status as e-girl of the moment.

I don't know shit about your relationship irl.



[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 10:02 PM. Reason : .]

1/2/2008 10:01:05 PM

sex is a private matter.

i have more then enough reason to believe hes planning on staying around.

1/2/2008 10:02:10 PM

Quote :

"sex is a private matter."

You are on the internet. Do you have any earthly fucking idea what it's used for?

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 10:06 PM. Reason : .]

1/2/2008 10:06:05 PM

your relationship makes me sick

you're weak and subservient

I find that to be despicable

1/2/2008 10:06:33 PM

lol.

to each their own opinion right?

you can come to mooresville any day or even tune into speed on certain days and see my relationship live and in action - and make an honest judgment of that if you'd like.

1/2/2008 10:07:58 PM

Please to change your life for Snewf.

1/2/2008 10:08:08 PM

Quote :

"I've never paid for a damn thing with the guy I'm with now, let alone a lousy drink. I was with him for 8 months before this and i know for a fact he is for sure sticking around. and theres a big difference between offering to pay for a check every once in a while, and buying a guy a drink. I've offered many times, and always have gotten the same line. . "id be embarrassed as a man to be seen in public with you paying our check.""

I have a tendancy, in general, to grab checks, and refuse to give them back, lol - not every time of course, but i try to keep things relatively even with what we're both spending on the other.
and my boyfriend is in his last year of college, so hes a little more strapped for cash than i am, so i def dont try to take advantage of his natural inclination to pick up checks

Quote :

" don't consider myself equal to a man in any case. i work with men all day, and there is no way shape or form i consider myself equal to any of them in any form. im inferior to my significant other, i know my place and im okay with that. in fact, i love it. I see no problem serving a man or being "barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen.""

has anyone determined if this is actually a girl, and isnt an alias? i'm really hoping its a guy and/or an alias someone is using to rile people up, because otherwise.... jesus fucking christ
i mean, god, it sounds like this chick has some big issues with self-worth

Quote :

"There is no possible way i could consider myself equal to someone who has dedicated so much of their ENTIRE life to a career and has so much to prove it."

you don't have to think that you're their equal in accomplishments, but jesus, have a little self-respect. cause either you're really overestimating this guy, or hes either got self-worth issues (like you) (i mean, if hes with a girl who is basically worthless in comparison...) or he has low standards.
or hell, maybe i'm underestimating him. maybe he KNOWS that hes vastly superior to you, and hes happy with all the attention you lavish on him because you can't believe your good/dumb luck

Quote :

" I understand why YOU would want to be with him. But if he considers you to be inferior to him overall, why would he want to be with you? Why would any human being want to be in a relationship with someone they considered inferior to themselves?"

SERIOUSLY!




i mean, theres a difference between wanting to be a stay-at-home mom/wife/gf/whatever and being happy that your husband/bf/whatever can support you, and thinking that you are inferior to your SO

1/2/2008 10:10:00 PM

look I'm not judging your relationship

I'm judging you

1/2/2008 10:10:16 PM

oh, please please please tell me that THIS is your guy:

1/2/2008 10:11:03 PM

I dunno

he LOOKS like he's worth more than her

1/2/2008 10:12:19 PM

thanks for the summary rjrgrl, i didn't really know what was going on and didn't feel like fishing through the last 4 pages to figure it out haha

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 10:13 PM. Reason : adsf]

1/2/2008 10:12:34 PM

rogergrl is the best

1/2/2008 10:14:07 PM

for like the 90th and last time. i completely worded that entire thing wrong. Its not that i consider myself "inferior" to him, or that he does to me in ANY way.
Its more, hes more accomplished than me and i look up to that a lot. There is no way shape or form i could ever put myself in what he goes through day in and day out on some days - just NO way. And i look up to that kind of strength and dedication. Its not really "inferior" its more - i don't know whats a
good word to use.


No, that is not my significant other, thats my best friend drew.

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 10:14 PM. Reason : ..]

1/2/2008 10:14:12 PM

i mean, i know that I'd totally wanna be with a guy whos chubby, starting to bald, unattractive, and looks like hes at least 30 (and not in a good way!)

1/2/2008 10:14:34 PM

i'd definitely say over 30

1/2/2008 10:15:13 PM

I don't remember her asking any of you to live by her standards.

[Edited on January 2, 2008 at 10:17 PM. Reason : .]

1/2/2008 10:15:50 PM

wait, so you're in awe of his accomplishments, and he turns left for a living?

sweet.

1/2/2008 10:16:11 PM