so u fuck all the guys you date?

10/8/2009 11:17:16 AM

who doesn't ?

10/8/2009 11:17:49 AM

^^ Hell no. I'm rarely attracted to men. Therefore, I tend to stay action-free.

[Edited on October 8, 2009 at 11:19 AM. Reason : .]

10/8/2009 11:18:51 AM

damn

10/8/2009 11:19:11 AM

10/8/2009 11:20:52 AM

lots of lies....in this thread

10/8/2009 11:21:12 AM

rarely attracted to men or rarely find a guy ur attracted to


one sounds like ur into girls

10/8/2009 11:21:13 AM

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"Hell no. I'm rarely attracted to men. Therefore, I tend to stay action-free."

10/8/2009 11:21:39 AM

I find women much more physically attractive than men. But it's hard to find a hot chick who thinks and acts like a dude.

I do have the hots for a guy at the moment.

10/8/2009 11:25:54 AM

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"Getting a masters or phd doesn't make you smarter It means you had the means for higher education, but plenty of dumbasses have advanced degrees There's a lot of high paying jobs where anything above a bachelor's would be frivolous"

no, it doesn't make you smarter, but it means you're pretty smart, and it means you have some ambitions, and for people in the science field, it means your ambitions are not entirely money related but that you'll probably make a steady paycheck.

10/8/2009 11:27:09 AM

So we're all fucking scientists now ?

I don't even think I know any scientists

10/8/2009 11:28:10 AM

hi, im dave

<----scientist

10/8/2009 11:33:31 AM

^ Hi dave. Thanks for the churrascaria dinner btw

10/8/2009 11:34:42 AM

welcome


that was a fun night


btw if any tdubbers look like an elf and is into bondage u should probably call this girl

10/8/2009 11:39:18 AM

Why do I always date lesbians in denial?

10/8/2009 11:41:21 AM

elf??

10/8/2009 11:54:58 AM

i dont understand people who search for relationships.

its like i have to try and remain single...and it never works.

made it all of a month this time.

10/8/2009 11:57:29 AM

Some of us are awkward. It must be awesome being the shit, though.

10/8/2009 11:58:51 AM

HERE COME'S THE DICK SWINGING

HAI GUYS IM ON THE INTERNET, WAVIN' MY MACHISMO DONG AROUND

10/8/2009 11:58:51 AM

Some of us gotta pay to play. Must be awesome being the shit tho.

10/8/2009 12:00:46 PM

lots of lies....in this thread

10/8/2009 12:02:39 PM

but getting back to the original post i'd say ya go for it, match.com can be fun if you are willing to meet people


basically from when i started i've met a lot of girls and gotten mixed results, sometimes i liked them, sometimes they liked me, sometimes we liked each other. Unfortunately nothing ever worked out, idk. Kinda sucks but I wouldn't ever say i'd rather not have met any of them.


Very first girl I met was easily 40lbs more than any of her pics and those pics are STILL up on her profile this was a year and a half ago. I was pissed that she would lie like that, anyways her username is like Jen101a or something like that if you come across her don't fucking bother.


dated 2 girls for ~month or two. Both blond, i liked them both but for some reason or another became somewhat disinterested. Kinda sucked i ended it but i just had no desire to date them anymore. First one was very smart and nice and would make a perfect wife but was also boring and i wasn't that attracted to, 2nd one was fun and cool but divorced and kinda crazy and i was feeling really rushed into things and got scared and backed off.


went on a bunch of dates, even w/girls that were really hot like i shouldn't have ever been seeing them, that was cool.



I'm gonna be honest though, i've been on that site for a year now and recently has been a horrible dry spell. I just have no interest really in contacting or meeting any girls on there. It starts to get really old cause they are always asking you the same basic questions over and over again and as much as I enjoy talking about myself that shit is tiring sometimes.


I've been talking to a couple girls recently and will probably ask both of them out, but idk if it'll work out unless i'm really into them, just cause my drive won't be as strong and if you dont' act interested/motivated it's probably going to make me look boring.


I think i'm gonna take a break for a while and just focus on School/Gym/NFL and just do my own thing.


sadly when i was in high school i thought for sure i'd be married by 26...lol that ship has sailed.

10/8/2009 12:06:43 PM

it is pretty sweet being me, i wont lie

10/8/2009 12:07:03 PM

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"i thought for sure i'd be married by 26"

dodged a bullet there

10/8/2009 12:09:41 PM

lol, maybe



i wanted to be married so i could travel the world with my wife for a couple years and have fun and still have kids before i turn 30


now im 27, in grad school still, no gf, so ya that probably won't happen.


My sister is 35 and not married, no bf, not really interested, doesn't want kids. Kinda bad omens for me

10/8/2009 12:14:35 PM

^ your sister a lesbo or something?

10/8/2009 12:35:54 PM

More like a cougar.

10/8/2009 12:38:28 PM

no, but she's really overweight



also just too picky and refuses to settle

[Edited on October 8, 2009 at 12:56 PM. Reason : ba-dum]

10/8/2009 12:55:44 PM

i think the key is to have it just be an option. since i've been single again i threw up my info and a couple pics on there and have literally been innundated with contact from women. maybe it doesnt work that way for everybody, but its like, i dont simply date through match...but if a girl who contacted me catches my eye, it's not a bad thing to be like "yo lets get a drink?".

its not like i cant also go out and meet girls on my own and some of them are crazy, but some of them are actually fun and it just expands your social circle. i think it works better in a huge metropolitan area full of single people. In my opinion, DC is perfect for this, probably better than NYC simply because it's more transitory in nature, everyone is from somewhere else and can always expand their new DC network of people they know.

i understand some people dont have the same successes but for me, it's just been like fast food, you just kind of see if there's something you like, hook it up, and keep it movin. could have just as easily probably met them out somewhere, but maybe not because i tend to keep a pattern to where i go out and frequent as far as bars go.

10/8/2009 1:13:28 PM

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"no, but she's really overweight also just too picky and refuses to settle"

probably a problem

10/8/2009 1:17:51 PM

I need a really pretty face

10/8/2009 1:18:49 PM

Real life dating and pick up > Internet dating and pick up.

A lot of people turn to internet dating and pick up in order to avoid social risk and rejection.

Doing so prevents very constructive social experiences.

Please tell me something more exhilarating than forcing the gumption to talk to a stranger, face to face, while risking your ego.

While there are benefits to internet dating, the costs can easily outweigh them.

10/8/2009 1:24:24 PM

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"Getting a masters or phd doesn't make you smarter It means you had the means for higher education, but plenty of dumbasses have advanced degrees There's a lot of high paying jobs where anything above a bachelor's would be frivolous"

QFT.

There are a lot of idiots in this world that think as soon as they receive their Masters degree they are suddenly a different person. Both of my parents are PhD's and neither one of them thinks that they are better than everyone else. Kids nowadays are so shallow and superficial they will never be happy.

^^
I used to think a pretty face was my #1 priority, I was wrong, tis dat bubble butt.

Quote :

"You're more than a foot taller than me -.o"

I like small girls, you can just pick them up and carry them around.

[Edited on October 8, 2009 at 1:32 PM. Reason : -]

10/8/2009 1:27:55 PM

^^ completely agree

but you get laid more if you diversify yo bonds, n word

[Edited on October 8, 2009 at 1:29 PM. Reason : .]

10/8/2009 1:28:52 PM

^ I'm surprised you're on match, as you're fairly bold IRL.

But it's definitely fun to double or triple your prospects via online dating.

10/8/2009 1:31:12 PM

Quote :

"I used to think a pretty face was my #1 priority, I was wrong, tis dat bubble butt. "

aha

you get for that

10/8/2009 1:33:09 PM

Quote :

"Getting a masters or phd doesn't make you smarter It means you had the means for higher education, but plenty of dumbasses have advanced degrees There's a lot of high paying jobs where anything above a bachelor's would be frivolous"

some of this is true, but in the case of my friend she wasn't looking for someone with a higher degree for the $$ (she certainly didn't get her PhD to bring in the big bucks, she's now a chemistry professor) -- but she was looking for someone in a similar place in life since she was in her late-20s and had been in school for awhile and was in a transition job at the time, a little different than the guy who has been working for 6-8 yrs out of college and is basically settled down minus the girlfriend/wife

personally, i didn't agree with her and don't think a higher degree would be a requirement for me but a bachelors probably would -- if that makes me shallow and superficial, i'm ok with that

10/8/2009 1:37:55 PM

There is nothing wrong with wanting your partner to have a college education. It's when you draw a line in the sand, because of an advanced degree, which is by no means a determinate of how smart you are, that is idiotic. This reminds me of SAT scores. One of my best friends scored an impressive 1580/1600 on the SAT, and now he works at a pizza place, attempted to finish his degree, but failed. On paper, and in theory, many people thought he was one of the smartest kids in our class. However, in practice, he's an idiot. Another one of my friends scored a shitty 970 on the SAT. On paper, many people thought he was simply dumb, but he's turned into a real winner. He earned a degree from NCSU after transfering from Wake Tech, and now he works at SAS institute. He got there with passion, determination, perseverance, and character. Anyway, it's not what you have on paper that matters, what really determines a person's character are the hurdles they overcame, and what they did AFTER college. Besides, a lot of people that continue their education are doing it out of fear of the real world. Expect to meet a lot of pansies.

[Edited on October 8, 2009 at 2:05 PM. Reason : -]

10/8/2009 1:42:48 PM

ideal girl for me


i like kinda short, kinda petite, like 5'3"-5'7"
college grad
im most attracted to brunettes, longer straight hair
doesn't get seasick
not a picky eater
likes to travel
drinks beer, wine, and liquor
not the crazy jealous type
comes from a big family
doesn't get mad if i don't immediately text/call her back cause im busy doin shit.
likes to cuddle

10/8/2009 2:05:36 PM

lucy, i found a guy for you!!!

10/8/2009 2:06:47 PM

Ideal girl for me:

1. I can relate to her and enjoy spending time with her.
2. I enjoy fucking her.


We're talking about people for christ's sake. It's like the internet has turned dating into used car shopping.

10/8/2009 2:15:43 PM

^haha, right on.

10/8/2009 2:17:27 PM

it's the internet


i do what i want

10/8/2009 2:18:42 PM

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"It's like the internet has turned dating into used car shopping."

Duh, a woman has to be selective. You wanna make sure you look good riding it!

Ba-dum-bum.

10/8/2009 2:18:47 PM

I want a feisty girl who will kick my ass on occasion. Where would I find that?

10/8/2009 2:21:09 PM

Ooh! Do tell, jaime. who?

10/8/2009 2:22:38 PM

aha, this guy:

dharney

Quote :

"ideal girl for me i like kinda short, kinda petite, like 5'3"-5'7" college grad im most attracted to brunettes, longer straight hair doesn't get seasick not a picky eater likes to travel drinks beer, wine, and liquor not the crazy jealous type comes from a big family doesn't get mad if i don't immediately text/call her back cause im busy doin shit. likes to cuddle "

10/8/2009 2:31:40 PM

my favorite thing is the girls who are interested in girls from 3'0 to 8'0.

so willing to try anything.

10/8/2009 2:32:14 PM

ok now i feel kinda dumb for posting that

10/8/2009 2:37:11 PM

don't feel dumb
you know what you want

and knowing is half the battle

it just seems to me that lucy fits your description sooooo i was trying to do a little hooking up

10/8/2009 2:39:22 PM