indy All American 3624 Posts user info edit post |
(lol... sorry)
11/17/2010 8:12:23 AM |
ThePeter TWW CHAMPION 37709 Posts user info edit post |
Sounds like this guy is just metro 11/17/2010 8:33:19 AM |
GREEN JAY All American 14180 Posts user info edit post |
well, i'm guessing its more that catch22 feels a deep loathing of self and the fear and panic of being "trapped" in a body ve rejects more than the desire to wear sparkles and pantyhose. theres plenty of people who want to experiment with things traditionally associated with the other gender without rejecting their bodies. and i guess they would be the people indy is referring to in his post.
I mean, if you woke up with a minge tomorrow, you'd probably want your penis back. so what if all of the people around you experienced amnesia regarding your gender/genitalia and strictly only remembered you as a woman? if you can vividly imagine the panic you might feel in that stituation maybe you've finally got a glimmer of how OP probably feels. 11/17/2010 8:45:21 AM |
Joie begonias is my boo 22491 Posts user info edit post |
two things:
Quote : | "and it is rather offensive to combine the words "cut" and "off" in the presence of an MTF" |
que? i tend not to treat anyone who is transgender differently. (yes a have some transgender friends. 2 actually) this includes not saying common phrases. that seems to promote inequality.
and since it was on the last page:
Quote : | "not merely "girly" or "effeminate" but like being born with a cock and no boobs was a mistake" |
.....
Quote : | "Seems like to me, that social gender (not whether you consider yourself a girl or guy, but whether you are feminine or masculine) is completely separate from sexuality and biological sex.
Considering yourself to be a "guy" or a "girl" is arbitrary and (except for society) unnecessary. If one is masculine, one shouldn't assume that that has anything to do with identifying as a male. If one is feminine, one shouldn't assume that that has anything to do with identifying as a female.
For instance, an effeminate heterosexual male (identifies with feminine things, is effeminate, etc.) shouldn't have to feel that he needs to identify as a female. Why can't he just be an effeminate heterosexual male? (I know that society rejects that, but are we letting society call the shots?)
Why would he feel the need to join the [ultimately arbitrary] male-female dichotomy by becoming [closer to] a biological female? (By cutting off his dick.) Why not simply embrace one's actual gender, forgetting all expectations towards its relationship to biological sex?
I mean, we have tom-boys, and we don't expect them to be lesbian or to have penises... So why can't we have ladymen? (or something)... who dress like and do girly things, have sex with girls, but keep their dicks?
Why would someone need to have different genitalia? (If not for the arbitrary gender role pushed upon them by society)" |
11/17/2010 9:02:51 AM |
GGMon All American 6462 Posts user info edit post |
Yep - they are people, just like you and me 11/17/2010 9:10:24 AM |
Joie begonias is my boo 22491 Posts user info edit post |
they are. the only real difference is that they have a much bigger battle to fight than i do. not much different than a person who has hiv, or is very poor, or is a pregnant teen, or gay, or a mixed race individual. theyre all people.
please elaborate on how they are not people like you and me.
[Edited on November 17, 2010 at 9:18 AM. Reason : ....] 11/17/2010 9:16:03 AM |
lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
I admit that language was a bit too broad; I was referring to Calpernia Addams mentioning that most questions about her surgery included the words "cut" and "off"
also I think I shouldn't have used "merely"; in fact I agree wholeheartedly with what indy said, it was what I had referred to in some other thread when I called him a gentleman and a scholar: /message_topic.aspx?topic=587031&page=611/17/2010 9:18:25 AM |
Joie begonias is my boo 22491 Posts user info edit post |
i get really frustrated with stereotypes. really. 11/17/2010 9:20:15 AM |
GREEN JAY All American 14180 Posts user info edit post |
too bad there's no decent FTM surgery yet 11/17/2010 9:27:45 AM |
GGMon All American 6462 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "not much different than a person who has hiv, or is very poor, or is a pregnant teen, or gay, or a mixed race individual. theyre all people. " |
Most of these examples are created by poor life choices.
Catch 22 needs therapy, not a scalpel. This goes for all folks who choose to live a lifestyle that only 3 % of the worlds population engages in.11/17/2010 10:33:15 AM |
justinh524 Sprots Talk Mod 27863 Posts user info edit post |
i wish i had chosen to be a mixed race individual. 11/17/2010 10:48:20 AM |
GREEN JAY All American 14180 Posts user info edit post |
pretty sure GGMon is the poster child for "when therapy doesn't work" 11/17/2010 10:53:39 AM |
quagmire02 All American 44225 Posts user info edit post |
this thread is boring, now 11/17/2010 11:03:40 AM |
lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
Tomorrow is the 12th annual International Transgender Day of Remembrance; remember that in a nation where 1.6% have attempted suicide, 41% of trans people have: http://www.transgenderdor.org/ 11/19/2010 5:49:40 AM |
wdprice3 BinaryBuffonary 45912 Posts user info edit post |
In observance of National Tranny Day, tomorrow we shall all fap to tranny porn.] 11/19/2010 8:41:55 AM |
ALkatraz All American 11299 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "In observance of National Tranny Day, tomorrow we shall all fap to tranny porn." |
For great justice!11/19/2010 8:48:27 AM |
LRlilDaddy All American 6511 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "yes. i'm fully aware of all of these things and how much more difficult it might make life. but it's just something i have to do regardless. no one chooses to be this way. if they did, they'd be insane." |
i agree, you are insane11/19/2010 9:21:03 AM |
ImYoPusha All American 6249 Posts user info edit post |
So has this person been ridiculed enough to quit TWW yet?
Seems like 5 pages should have been enough time 11/19/2010 11:27:26 AM |
wolfpackgrrr All American 39759 Posts user info edit post |
So what did trans people do before the days of gender surgery? Move to a new town dressed as the opposite gender? 11/19/2010 11:36:58 AM |
LRlilDaddy All American 6511 Posts user info edit post |
killed themselves..... duh 11/19/2010 12:03:19 PM |
wolfpackgrrr All American 39759 Posts user info edit post |
Yeah, I'm sure some people did that. I'm seriously curious though, not trying to troll 11/19/2010 1:10:15 PM |
lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
lived in utter shame and sadness and isolation until they died, whether naturally or by their own hands 11/19/2010 1:32:25 PM |
Catch 22 Veteran 204 Posts user info edit post |
still here, don't worry 11/19/2010 4:36:42 PM |
Skack All American 31140 Posts user info edit post |
There was a tranny on my plane out of San Juan the other day. I probably wouldn't have noticed if she didn't have what was obviously a several day mustache. It was weird because I didn't see any beard, but then again everybody grows hair in different places and it might have been natural for her. When I saw that I checked for an adams apple to confirm. She stood out quite a bit though. Had she worn less provocative clothing I probably wouldn't have even taken a second glance and never noticed the stache or adams apple. 11/19/2010 5:13:59 PM |
indy All American 3624 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | ".....all folks who choose to live a lifestyle that only 3 % of the worlds population engages in....[needs therapy]" |
Whoa, what?
Transgender issues aside, what sense does that make?
Is that some kind of populist eugenics or something?
Why the holy fuck would people need therapy for practicing a lifestyle that only 1 out 30 people practice?
No, really. WTF?
(xenophobia much?)
[Edited on November 19, 2010 at 6:19 PM. Reason : ]11/19/2010 6:10:47 PM |
GGMon All American 6462 Posts user info edit post |
You show me a happy, well adjusted homo. 11/20/2010 2:26:29 PM |
indy All American 3624 Posts user info edit post |
^ Why don't you address my question^^
I'll repeat it for you...
Quote : | ".....all folks who choose to live a lifestyle that only 3 % of the worlds population engages in....[needs therapy]" |
Whoa, what?
Transgender issues aside, what sense does that make?
Is that some kind of populist eugenics or something?
Why the holy fuck would people need therapy for practicing a lifestyle that only 1 out 30 people practice?
No, really. WTF?
(xenophobia much?)11/20/2010 2:42:23 PM |
lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
^^Chris Colfer, who acts as a gay guy on Glee and is gay IRL
also Rachel Maddow 11/20/2010 3:45:52 PM |
Kris All American 36908 Posts user info edit post |
OP is a faggot 11/20/2010 4:50:53 PM |
lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
On this International Transgender Day of Remembrance, take a few minutes to learn about some trans people who were murdered in just the past year: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpvZG7OqtEs
11/20/2010 7:00:46 PM |
GGMon All American 6462 Posts user info edit post |
enjoy hell, sinners 11/21/2010 12:59:23 PM |
sumfoo1 soup du hier 41043 Posts user info edit post |
I'd like to get a boob put on my head.... then i can be like Can you look me in the eyes please!!! 11/21/2010 1:11:41 PM |
mkcarter PLAY SO HARD 4370 Posts user info edit post |
ggmon douchebag status confirmed. also, there is no hell. 11/21/2010 2:42:20 PM |
wdprice3 BinaryBuffonary 45912 Posts user info edit post |
4^. I came. 11/21/2010 2:42:52 PM |
GGMon All American 6462 Posts user info edit post |
still waiting to see what family member molested you. 11/22/2010 8:57:08 PM |
lewisje All American 9196 Posts user info edit post |
^still waiting to see what family members dropped you on your head as a baby 11/22/2010 8:58:21 PM |
Skack All American 31140 Posts user info edit post |
^^ That would imply cause and effect. Whether they are born this way or it is caused by something outside of their control you basically make yourself into a giant dick by condemning someone for something they didn't truly choose.
Unless, of course, you really want to bring "choice" into the matter by implying that they should rise above their molestation; something that you either have never experienced and therefore couldn't understand or something that you have chosen to rise above yourself. Tell us, which is it? 11/22/2010 9:06:16 PM |
GGMon All American 6462 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "^still waiting to see what family members dropped you on your head as a baby" |
OH SNAP11/23/2010 1:52:07 PM |
GREEN JAY All American 14180 Posts user info edit post |
you're surprised someone figured it out? 11/23/2010 1:54:31 PM |
indy All American 3624 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "ggmon douchebag status confirmed. also, there is no hell." |
I know, right?
Is this guy for real?
I mean, I'm still on the fence about the whole cutting it off thing, but GGmon is fucking nuts11/23/2010 1:58:11 PM |
GREEN JAY All American 14180 Posts user info edit post |
hell is other people 11/23/2010 2:02:37 PM |
Ragged All American 23473 Posts user info edit post |
So when are you going to kill yourself tranny? 11/23/2010 2:04:44 PM |
McDanger All American 18835 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "^still waiting to see what family members dropped you on your head as a baby" |
he comes from the ass end of the gene pool11/23/2010 2:04:58 PM |
GGMon All American 6462 Posts user info edit post |
Yes - I'm slow cause I don't support some chronically depressed individual cutting off his prick. 11/23/2010 3:41:02 PM |
Exiled Eyes up here ^^ 5918 Posts user info edit post |
^ You are an idiot 11/23/2010 4:02:08 PM |
OldBlueChair All American 5405 Posts user info edit post |
lol this whole thread. 11/23/2010 4:11:16 PM |
GREEN JAY All American 14180 Posts user info edit post |
other people's bodily autonomy upsets me greatly too. 11/23/2010 4:11:53 PM |
GGMon All American 6462 Posts user info edit post |
Hes destroying any HOPE of a normal / happy life, and you fucktards are congratulating him. Unreal. 11/23/2010 7:40:45 PM |
ncsuallday Sink the Flagship 9818 Posts user info edit post |
this thread is ridiculous 11/23/2010 7:43:04 PM |
LRlilDaddy All American 6511 Posts user info edit post |
i can't tell if these people are supporting tranny's, supporting their own insecurities, or just trolling.
i'm so confused 11/23/2010 8:03:36 PM |