^Invest away. Just wait for the stock market crash. At least a guy who spends his money on cars, etc etc will always be able to see his money. I can't say the same about people who invest.

Now back to this head getting business.

[Edited on May 12, 2011 at 7:29 PM. Reason : .]

5/12/2011 7:28:57 PM

I like how one simple statement can completely derail a thread.

5/12/2011 7:35:13 PM

inorite

Men going raw with random women.
Closet gays.

[Edited on May 12, 2011 at 8:02 PM. Reason : ]

5/12/2011 7:37:42 PM

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"girls that don't give head."

bmel can I get you to give my girlfriend a pep-talk?

5/12/2011 10:11:59 PM

Coming into this late...from page 1

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"women who breast feed in public and also breast feed their child past the point of speech."

You do realize WHO recommends all children be breastfed until age 2, right? Just because western culture has sexualized breasts and nipples doesn't mean that hungry babies should have to deal with your hang ups. I'm not arguing about the modesty part but if a baby's hungry, they eat.

5/13/2011 12:47:02 AM

^ a blanket isn't too much to ask for, especially when I'm eating in front of you and your exposed titty.

And id be glad to give your girlfriend a wake up call, Netstorm

5/13/2011 12:59:55 AM

AWKWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARD!!!

5/13/2011 1:00:43 AM

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""I am shocked at the number of dudes I know who have admitted to paying for sex.""

All men pay for sex...


whether it's money or dignity. lol

5/13/2011 2:43:52 AM

^^^ If it bothers you so much, next time you see a woman breastfeeding at a restaurant, just put a blanket over your head instead and try to eat. Problem solved!

5/13/2011 7:10:40 AM

^yeah really. I don't see how women can hate on breastfeeding in public... maybe I'm more tolerant of it because I had to take a class that was 1/2 semester about breastfeeding and why it's awesome

plus getting to whip out a tit in public is one of the major joys of motherhood

5/13/2011 7:20:26 AM

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"a blanket isn't too much to ask for, especially when I'm eating in front of you and your exposed titty."

I'd like to see you enjoy your food being hot and sweaty under a blanket



Side note: When I was in elementary school my 1st grade teacher had a baby. One weekend my mom and I were at Macy's when we ran into her breastfeeding out there in the open on a display couch. I was shocked and had so many questions. But my mom took me aside and answered them all in very good ways and ever since then I've thought it was just natural.


It shocks me when other women are "put off" or embarrassed about boobies and think they are only for sexual purposes. We should be helping our sisters out when they are trying to raise a family not forcing them to be ashamed and hide under blankets.

5/13/2011 7:21:35 AM

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"Guys that feel compelled to describe the physical attributes of women in the vicinity. Yes, that lady does have a nice ass/rack/etc. I assure you that I noticed without your help. Now shut the fuck up so that she or her friends don't hear you being creepy about it."

This...a simple discreet head nod in a girls direction should be sufficient.

5/13/2011 8:50:42 AM

I will respond since it was my statement that was quoted.

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"Just because western culture has sexualized breasts and nipples doesn't mean that hungry babies should have to deal with your hang ups. I'm not arguing about the modesty part but if a baby's hungry, they eat."

Ok...for the record I do live in a western country where there are perverts who appreciate a good breastfeeding in public. If I lived somewhere else where the body wasn't so sexualized maybe it would not be such an issue for me, true. That is prob where the shock comes from and also being that I am one of those old maid modest people. Not a fan of whipping my boob out for everyone to see. Hence again the shock.

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"^^^ If it bothers you so much, next time you see a woman breastfeeding at a restaurant, just put a blanket over your head instead and try to eat. Problem solved!"

That is just a ridiculous and immature comment. I hope you teach your children to honor and respect other people's wishes as well and life is not all about "you" all the time. If you want someone to breastfeed, why is it so hard for you to compromise and put a blanket over you. You, too, live in this western society, I assume.

Breastfeeding is the best thing for your baby and I am an advocate. I will try to keep my milk supply up enough this time that Orion is breastfeeding past walking age but I do plan to stop shortly after.

5/13/2011 9:35:00 AM

I'm all for public breastfeeding, but I'd like to see the line drawn at eating establishments. Nothing kills an appetite quite like a close up shot of AK nipples.

5/13/2011 9:38:51 AM

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"That is just a ridiculous and immature comment. I hope you teach your children to honor and respect other people's wishes as well and life is not all about "you" all the time. If you want someone to breastfeed, why is it so hard for you to compromise and put a blanket over you. You, too, live in this western society, I assume. "

You can't make everyone happy. Some people are offended by cursing--doesn't mean i'm going to change my manner of speech to please them. Some people are offended by gay people--doesn't mean gay people should have to hide their feelings in public. Personally, I think breastfeeding is MUCH less gross than watching babies drool liquified peas and carrots from their mouth

5/13/2011 9:53:34 AM

Breast feed all you want. Just don't call me a perv if you have some pretty tits and I'm looking.

5/13/2011 9:58:23 AM

^^I agree. I was just saying that breastfeeding in public is a situation where a compromise is feasible. You def can't make everyone happy.

5/13/2011 10:13:20 AM

I've never had a problem with breastfeeding in public. Sometimes its a nice day and you just want to be outside. You shouldn't be punished cause you've got a baby.

Let them get their nom on

5/13/2011 10:15:05 AM

I like to be outside when I take a dump, people who don't respect that can suck my nuts.

5/13/2011 10:17:19 AM

I think another reason for me not breast feeding past a certain point is the biting factor.

5/13/2011 10:24:12 AM

Okay. Do I have children? Nope. However I do have an opinion about the rabid mothers out there that insist on making a scene about this issue.

My SIL had one of those shirts, or covers (the name of it escapes me), where she could just lift a small flap and feed the baby. To any observer, it pretty much looked as if she was just holding the kid to her chest. She even had a blanket she would use sometimes. This is fine! This is grand and wonderful! The baby gets fed, you get your 'bond', and no one really cares because they're not being forced to watch. This isn't humility, this is respectful to those around you. If you want respect, you must give some as well. And this, I respect. I may have the sneaking suspicion you're feeding your kid, but I really don't care because you aren't shoving the whole act in my face and trying to FORCE me to respect it and appreciate it because "MAH BABY NEEDS TO FEED!" Besides, it sounds like the baby is some sort of mutant when you use the term "feed" but that's a minor pet peeve

5/13/2011 10:30:37 AM

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"I will try to keep my milk supply up enough this time that Orion"

You named your kid Orion?? Breast feeding in public should be low on the list of your concerns IMO...

5/13/2011 10:31:01 AM

^
Orion is a fucking awesome name.

5/13/2011 10:32:35 AM

^agree

5/13/2011 10:34:50 AM

Why are you shocked by us naming our daughter Orion, jbrick83?

^,^^ w00t!!

5/13/2011 10:35:34 AM

because he's a jackass

5/13/2011 10:35:50 AM

Honestly I've never seen a mom anywhere in public that lifts her shirt like she's at Mardi Gras to feed her kid. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but don't act like that is every mom out there who is breastfeeding in public. Most moms I know / have seen are very modest in public and usually oversensitive about the matter.

Full disclosure here: my wife is a birth doula, chairs a natural birth advocacy group and is pursuing a career in midwifery. Therefore I have become fairly opinionated on matters surrounding babies. Not trying to come off as a jerk here, just easy to get worked up over it. Actually I can't take credit for the "put the blanket over your own head" quote, I think remember 0EPII saying that in another breastfeeding thread and stole the line from him just for trolling purposes.

5/13/2011 11:38:56 AM

since we're talking about a mother's milky-love
http://stfuparents.tumblr.com/post/5441053589/normally-after-posting-a-horrific-submission-like

5/13/2011 12:08:48 PM

Can you imagine how different the world would be if babies had to dickfeed?


Guys be pulling out their wangs in public

5/13/2011 1:06:19 PM

OK, you know what? I feel like a separate breastfeeding thread would be adequate for all this bullshit.

Thing that shocks me: Guys who are blatantly homophobic. Now, I'm guilty of the occasional gay joke. I'm talking about the meathead who says shit like, "What are you, some kind of fucking faggot?" with a look of disgust mixed with fear. As though, if the person were gay, he were going to have to try to rape you.

5/13/2011 1:28:03 PM

^ yea that's kinda shitty imho

5/13/2011 1:49:10 PM

I know this has been mentioned.

Naked locker room guy. Must of been at least 10 of these idiots in the gym today.

Are there any naked locker room women. I never hear women complain about this.

[Edited on May 13, 2011 at 1:51 PM. Reason : ]

5/13/2011 1:49:21 PM

OH! speaking of locker room behavior. women who don't wear flip flops in communal shower areas... EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW

5/13/2011 1:51:21 PM

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"Are there any naked locker room women. I never hear women complain about this. "

why would anyone complain about FDTs?

5/13/2011 1:53:24 PM

apparently you've never seen a naked eighty year old woman with no inhibitions.

5/13/2011 1:56:31 PM

^^ yea there are and it's usually old women

just as nasty as old dudes.

5/13/2011 1:57:59 PM

I like to be outside when I take a dump, people who don't respect that can suck my nuts.

5/13/2011 1:58:16 PM

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"Girls who hate you for no other reason than you are friends with their bf or husband. This includes those who you were friends with before they entered the pic. Even if you go out of your way to make sure you are not interest in the guy and are JUST friends."

5/13/2011 2:19:23 PM

i'm not homophobic, i just don't like the gays that try so hard to show they are gay.

5/13/2011 2:24:10 PM

i just don't like the x that try so hard to show they are x.

5/13/2011 2:26:26 PM

homophobes who try to show they are not homophobes.

5/13/2011 2:27:57 PM

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"I like to be outside when I take a dump, people who don't respect that can suck my nuts."

This is actually a valid point. If the argument is, "...but it's natural," then taking a dump and breastfeeding are equally appropriate in public.

5/13/2011 5:00:10 PM

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"Wasting money on cars. Sorry guys, it's worth buying a car that's efficient and reliable, but if you were investing money instead of throwing it away on a rapidly depreciating asset, you'd be better off. To each his own, though. "

That might hold true if you aren't putting money away, but I am to the point where I have made a conscious decision that I am saving more than enough, and that any extra cash I end up with will be spent on having a good time, and that I won't feel the least bit guilty about it.

I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I submit that, while this is a much less common problem than people being financially irresponsible and not saving enough, one should not strive to live like a pauper for a lifetime, only to die with millions of dollars in the bank.

I mean, I enjoy my toys, to include all sorts of cars that are, by any metric, beyond unnecessary. Again, though, it's no more of a stupid waste than most any other hobby, and if it was, I still wouldn't give a shit.

5/13/2011 5:29:56 PM

Women who are not women hahha.

5/13/2011 5:32:22 PM

^^ I plan to live like a baller and die broke. You can't take it with you. The Egyptians tried and we see how that turned out.

5/13/2011 9:56:23 PM

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"I plan to live like a baller and die broke."

I would rather have a wife, couple of kids and an comfortable retirement.

5/13/2011 10:54:10 PM

^^ really? you can see into the afterlife and therefore you've witnessed the egyptians with their eternal life and all of their treasured belongings??

i didn't think so

[Edited on May 13, 2011 at 10:55 PM. Reason : but seriously though.]

5/13/2011 10:55:04 PM

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"I mean, I enjoy my toys, to include all sorts of cars that are, by any metric, beyond unnecessary."

Let me clarify some more here. I get that there are people who, like you, have adequate money, and who, like you, work on their cars in no small part because doing so is gratifying to them. I understand that, and like you say, it's not any more pointless than golf or something.

I was referring to what I feel is the larger share of people who spend a bunch of money on cars, who either don't have the money or who do it (particularly when they pay others to do it, but not necessarily) for what they perceive as status purposes. As long as you aren't bankrupting yourself or expecting me to be impressed about the things your car could do in an alternate universe where you are allowed to do them, I am not so shocked or disgusted.

5/13/2011 10:59:33 PM

My name ain't Jesus for nothing. And I will be married baller, 1 kid, and still retire. But I won't live like scrooge to get it done.

Seriously if you believe in eternal life, afterlife, or religion. money is the least of your concerns. FYI

^ You can look at my oversized monster rims and shake your head and throw-up wouldn't bother me at all

[Edited on May 14, 2011 at 12:21 AM. Reason : ]

5/14/2011 12:19:13 AM

i get pissed when friends have silent fart(s) in the car without the decency to crack a motherfuckin window

5/14/2011 11:16:14 AM