6/18/2013 4:07:44 PM

Are you serious right now?

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6/18/2013 4:24:32 PM

i couldn't believe what this girl said to me the other day:

Quote :

"and hello, i just made this account like a day ago and congratulations on being the least creepy message i've received so far!"

and jaymcnasty swoops in with the proof

and he doesn't know how to upload a screenshot to the internet in 2013

6/18/2013 4:48:54 PM

and then you were like "Congratulations on making me want to make a map of hawaii on your back"

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6/18/2013 4:54:05 PM

doubt he sent it.

6/18/2013 4:55:53 PM

good one, catamount311

6/18/2013 4:56:07 PM

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"Do you think homosexuality is a sin? Yes"

Quote :

"Would the world be a better place if people with low IQs were not allowed to reproduce? Yes"

6/18/2013 5:00:56 PM

ok nvm. i don't doubt he sent it.

6/18/2013 5:02:32 PM

in other news said girl seems cool as fuck. i think i've figured out that most of the good ones get driven off the site pretty quickly.

6/18/2013 5:05:56 PM

i'm 9% match and 53% enemy with her

6/18/2013 5:07:54 PM

^^and then come right the fuck back 2 months later


I know all the questions and matching % are semi bullshit (poorly worded questions, confusing projections, etc) but I don't think i'd even bother messaging someone who is less than 80%

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6/18/2013 5:19:23 PM

i mean i'd message into the 60 or 70 match %'s probably but 50% enemies tends to be dealbreakers galore regarding religion etc.

[Edited on June 18, 2013 at 5:27 PM. Reason : .]

6/18/2013 5:27:12 PM

Do you live in like bumfuck? theres like 40-50 different chicks withinin 80% for me every time I log in. Most of them are probably 200+ lbs but still

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[Edited on June 18, 2013 at 5:32 PM. Reason : bitches always b on on sunday evening]

6/18/2013 5:29:23 PM

Yeah Miami's pretty bumfuck

There are like 30 or more active 90%+'s around me. I dated one for months and it was rad.

I'm just saying, why would I rule out a 75% based on a "semi bullshit" system(a 75 could result from a girl saying she would somewhat prefer to date a vegetarian among other non-dealbreakers)?

[Edited on June 18, 2013 at 5:39 PM. Reason : .]

6/18/2013 5:37:00 PM

Look, I can only pretend to argue with you in one thread at a time. Are we doing this one or the reddit one?

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6/18/2013 5:45:42 PM

whichever you prefer babycakes

6/18/2013 5:48:46 PM

Quote :

"i'm 9% match and 53% enemy with her"

i meant this one:

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"i couldn't believe what this girl said to me the other day:"

we're 94% and it seems the most promising out of all the womens i've talked to

6/18/2013 5:52:29 PM

ohhhhhh, missed that.

neat.

6/18/2013 5:54:57 PM

Haha honestly I didnt send that and a buddy sent me that screenshot. I spend my days on Tinder

6/19/2013 1:05:03 AM

i think my drama ship has sailed. text a few times saturday and sunday while i was in Omaha. Just felt really forced from both sides. Last text was at like 9pm sunday and haven't spoken since. Don't really have any interest in reaching out now that i'm back nor any real interest to see where things went wrong. So yeah, moving on..

6/19/2013 1:26:31 PM

POST

THE

CONVO

6/19/2013 2:00:14 PM

lemme get them digits

6/19/2013 3:07:33 PM

^^this

6/19/2013 5:49:51 PM

^^^

6/19/2013 6:06:41 PM

^,^^

see

^^^

6/19/2013 7:04:46 PM

812-320-1441



NOW POST CONVO

[Edited on June 19, 2013 at 7:07 PM. Reason : ..]

6/19/2013 7:07:37 PM

and then i'll transcribe it for the rest of tww lol

6/19/2013 7:14:16 PM

ok, i'll condense this the best I can. just a recap..this goes back to last Thursday the 13th. as i said, we had spent the Saturday before that together and gone out Monday as well and had a great time. then she went dark Wednesday and I got this text around 6pm Thursday


Hey - I know i've been a little distant the past couple of days but I've just been thinking a lot about things. I just don't feel we are a good match, Not because of anything you've done. You've been yourself but it's been hard for me to be truly myself. I know that if this got more serious I would need a lot more than I think you'd be able to give emotionally. I just want to end things now and save us both from any hard feelings down the road. I think you're great and have so much to offer but I have to listen to my heart and be honest with myself. I hope you can understand and i'm sorry if this seems suden. I wish you well and I know that whoever you end up with will be lucky to have a guy like you.

so yeah, you can see my confusion and a bit of anger i had a couple pages back after reading that. i sat on it for awhile and then sent her something back that basically said

well i have to admit i wasn't expecting that. sorry to hear you feel this way because i thought things were really going well between us and i was excited about what was to come next. Not sure what made you change your mind so suddenly. Maybe you think taking things too casual between us means I'm not looking for a serious relationship. But I thought we were on the same page about our relationship. But i guess I assumed wrong. You are following your heart and i'm not going to try and convince you to change your mind.

I just left it at that. figured she'd read it, either say OK or start thinking about it harder and maybe she'll realize she rushed to judgement.

6/19/2013 7:22:35 PM

well that sounds exactly like what you said. you were taking it slow and she wanted it faster. seems like she thought by sending that text she could play a game and get you to be more serious. she sounds needy as shit. i think it goes without saying, but i'll say it anyway, that you are better off.

6/19/2013 7:26:53 PM

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"seems like she thought by sending that text she could play a game and get you to be more serious."

. . .

OR, she really does feel they are on different pages and is uncomfortable with her involuntary inability to "be truly [her]self" around him.

6/19/2013 7:28:54 PM

so that was Thursday. Friday around 4pm out of nowhere i get.


So, if I can ask...what did you mean about keeping things too casual

so i told her what i basically posted in this thread. thought we were on the same page. hadn't had a DTR talk, but were only seeing each other, it had only been 2 months, but thought we both were really into it.

she agreed, but said she tried to bring it up the past couple dates (which i do not recall) and took me not wanting to spend Sunday with her when she had the day off as a sign I didn't want to be serious. This was the Sunday NC State went 17 innings with Rice and I was glued to my TV from 4pm-midnight. so we kept texting, working out where the communication breakdown happened and she said..

i guess i should have come to you to talk but i just didn't want to be too pushy. I want to spend so much time with you but I didn't think that's what you were looking for.

well no shit you should have come to talk instead of copping out through text. at this point i basically said "look, i'm out of town the next few days but I want to get together when i get back and make this work. if you think there is a chance for that to happen let me know. if not i'll take a hint." so we agreed to do that, she seemed really into it I thought things were somewhat back on track. we were talking freely, joking, sending smilies (bitches love smilies). this was Friday night. I wake up Saturday, don't hear anything, notice she's removed me on facebook and don't get a returned call or text until around 6pm that night.

from that point they were just awkward casualties, like neither of us really cared what the other person had to say, were just texting because you felt you owed it to the other.

and as i typed this i just got my first text since Sunday evening. "Are you still in Omaha?"

6/19/2013 7:37:53 PM

^^if she wasn't herself for those 2 months and what i'm seeing out of this whole charade is closer to her true personality....i think i'll run for the hills.

6/19/2013 7:40:30 PM

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"OR, she really does feel they are on different pages and is uncomfortable with her involuntary inability to "be truly [her]self" around him."

true. i was just passing judgment (of someone i don't even know, lol) based on what i've experienced personally or through my silly girl friends


also, if she's texting you now - maybe yall should just hook up and be FWBs



[Edited on June 19, 2013 at 7:58 PM. Reason : actually, no, that sounds like a bad idea. she'll just want a relationship.]

6/19/2013 7:56:49 PM

OKC is goddamn complicated.

6/21/2013 12:05:00 PM

deleted my account not enough latinas on this shit

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6/21/2013 12:14:21 PM

bttt

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6/21/2013 5:29:28 PM

are you kidding it's probably at least 50% latinas

6/21/2013 9:14:57 PM

I don't live in shitsboro

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6/21/2013 9:23:59 PM

Jeep just so you know..she's been fucking other guys while you were away.

6/21/2013 9:43:09 PM

miami is shitsboro now ok

6/21/2013 9:58:47 PM

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"in other news said girl seems cool as fuck."

confirmed. meeting girls on the internet is legit y'all

6/23/2013 2:20:17 AM

When a woman replies,

"I'm seeing someone, but I'd still like to meet up...I think we could be great friends,"

does she ever really mean it? I'm curious.

6/23/2013 9:48:41 PM

No, she's considering the possibility of trading up.

Have you ever met a girl before?

6/23/2013 9:51:30 PM

I'v met a few, but I still have a romanticized view of their thoughts and motives

still, I don't think your degree of cynicism is quite justified, in general

6/23/2013 9:54:10 PM

Well, okay.

If you are superior to who she's currently seeing he will be discarded.

If not, you will be discarded.

I'll give it to her she's being honest, but her opinion of "being friends" is probably limited to saying "Happy Birthday!" once a year on your FB page.

6/23/2013 9:55:49 PM

lol

I invariably say "No" when a chick makes this offer to me

but I'm tempted to say "Yes" here, just to see if your conclusions hold

6/23/2013 9:58:00 PM

She wouldn't have said it at all if her current boo wasn't marginal, to say the least.

[Edited on June 23, 2013 at 9:59 PM. Reason : go for it]

6/23/2013 9:59:02 PM

You're plan B.

6/23/2013 9:59:23 PM

my statement that OKC is confusing as fuck still stands. % match, % friend, irrelevant questions, question importance, etc etc. i think i'm doing this wrong

6/24/2013 12:09:49 PM

Its all bullshit just read their profile and message them if they're not too fat

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6/24/2013 12:11:59 PM