Aficionado Suspended 22518 Posts user info edit post |
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YOMAMA Suspended 6218 Posts user info edit post |
No it was only the family talking about her - no other questions - and when the press tried a few times the CPD stopped it. 7/17/2008 9:59:19 AM |
Gzusfrk All American 2988 Posts user info edit post |
WRAL just said that the girls have been switched from Brad's custody to Nancy's family for custody. They said it was not a police doing, but rather a civil matter that had nothing to do with the investigation. 7/17/2008 10:52:37 AM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
that guy doesn't look like a killer. i really really hope that he did not do it, so all the haters and bitches that has quite possibly sullied his name will look very stupid. but if he did do it, then obviously he should get was he has coming to him. 7/17/2008 10:54:29 AM |
clcluppe All American 2044 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Cary, N.C. — The family of a missing Cary woman whose body was found Monday in an undeveloped subdivision is seeking custody of her two young daughters from the husband.
In a petition filed in Wake County Wednesday afternoon, Nancy Cooper's parents, Garry and Donna Rentz, and sister, Krista Lister, claim Cooper's husband, Brad Cooper, has a history of emotional instability and that in the months prior to her death, he engaged "in a pattern of emotional abuse" at Cooper and the children.
They also claim he attempted suicide as a teenager, and threatened to commit suicide in the "winter of 2008."
"Because of the intense scrutiny he is currently facing in the ongoing criminal investigation, there is a substantial risk of bodily injury to the children while in the defendant's custody," they said in the claim.
Cary police Chief Pat Bazemore said at a news conference Wednesday morning that Cooper's family already has custody of the children, but it was unclear whether that is temporary or permanent. The filing indicates a July 25 hearing on the matter.
"I want to stress this custody issue is a private civil matter between Nancy's family and Brad," Bazemore said. "Any information that comes from this civil matter will be considered by our investigators as we move forward in this case."
Bazemore said they still have no suspects or persons of interest in the 34-year-old stay-at-home mom's death and that Brad Cooper is cooperating with investigators.
Brad Cooper told police his wife went out for a jog on the morning of July 12 but never returned. A concerned friend called 911 when she failed to show up for a meeting later that afternoon.
Rentz and Lister say in the filing that Brad Cooper never reported his wife missing and never contacted them to inform them of her disappearance. They say they do not believe based on the information they have received, that Cooper ever went jogging.
Brad Cooper told WRAL News the day after his wife disappeared that the couple had been having marital problems. Cary police also confirmed that during a news conference on Monday.
Wednesday's court filing claims Brad Cooper was having a sexual relationship with another woman prior to Cooper's death and that Nancy Cooper retained counsel in March to "resolve all pending issues, including child custody related to her impending separation form the defendant."
The Rentzes and Lister also claim Brad Cooper withheld fund and refused to provide adequate financial support to his wife and the children.
She was in "such desperate financial situation that she was forced to borrow funds from Plaintiffs to purchase groceries and necessaries for herself and the minor children," the petition reads.
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DivaBaby19 Davidbaby19 45208 Posts user info edit post |
I don't like how they put everyone's business out in the streets like that.
If this guy is innocent, his life is over anyways. 7/17/2008 11:29:13 AM |
ambrosia1231 eeeeeeeeeevil 76471 Posts user info edit post |
7/17/2008 11:30:01 AM |
se7entythree YOSHIYOSHI 17377 Posts user info edit post |
wtf 7/17/2008 11:33:40 AM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
^^^ no its not. its not like they found porn on his pc or something. if they find out who killed her and it was not him, he'll be ok, as far as having a work life and such.
even this guy is not fucked in essence, but is hard for him
http://www.techdirt.com/articles/20080618/0021291440.shtml 7/17/2008 11:40:48 AM |
Aficionado Suspended 22518 Posts user info edit post |
this guy isnt as fucked as those duke kids were 7/17/2008 11:42:31 AM |
DivaBaby19 Davidbaby19 45208 Posts user info edit post |
I'm just saying they are throwing his mental history out there when hopefully he has moved passed suicidal feelings/tendencies.
They have just told a lot more than they need to in this case. Back in the day, we wouldn't know all this shit. 7/17/2008 11:45:17 AM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
back in what day? as far as i know the police always have put your info out to the public. its probably has even gotten better over the years, compared to back in the day. 7/17/2008 11:46:36 AM |
Aficionado Suspended 22518 Posts user info edit post |
^^ who hasnt had depression? or sought help from a professional?
there is a big chunk of people that have gone through that
he will be fine 7/17/2008 11:49:03 AM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
i feel mildly depressed sometimes, but guess what i deal with it, because i know it will go away. i think it relatively normal is feel a little depressed sometimes.
Quote : | "Rentz and Lister also claim Brad Cooper withheld funds and refused to provide adequate financial support to his wife and the children.
She was in "such desperate financial situation that she was forced to borrow funds from Plaintiffs to purchase groceries and necessaries for herself and the minor children," the petition reads." |
hm, makes me wonder was she a good housewife as far as chores and such. i can't see this guy doing this without a reason. if he did, then oh well, but he might have felt like he did not have the respect that a father should have or something. who knows.7/17/2008 11:52:54 AM |
Gzusfrk All American 2988 Posts user info edit post |
That "withheld funds" thing is a load of bull. Nancy was the number 1 customer at our store. Never once did she come in there looking like she was on a budget. 7/17/2008 11:54:13 AM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "no its not. its not like they found porn on his pc or something. if they find out who killed her and it was not him, he'll be ok, as far as having a work life and such." |
Read it again retard. It's not the police that are saying this, his In-Laws are saying he is emotionally unstable, suicidal, and broke. You think CISCO will really let him come back to his job if he is cleared of any wrongdoing??? This dude is fucked.
Quote : | "Nancy Cooper's parents, Garry and Donna Rentz, and sister, Krista Lister, claim Cooper's husband, Brad Cooper, has a history of emotional instability and that in the months prior to her death, he engaged "in a pattern of emotional abuse" at Cooper and the children." |
Quote : | "They also claim he attempted suicide as a teenager, and threatened to commit suicide in the "winter of 2008."" |
Quote : | "The Rentzes and Lister also claim Brad Cooper withheld funds and refused to provide adequate financial support to his wife and the children.
She was in "such desperate financial situation that she was forced to borrow funds from Plaintiffs to purchase groceries and necessaries for herself and the minor children," the petition reads." |
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 11:58 AM. Reason : s]7/17/2008 11:55:12 AM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
yeah, thats why i said what i said. i dunno think thats a legit statement. why would you have a 300k+ home and make mad money and not provide for your family to the point were she borrows money from her parents and such. i call bs.
i know who said what man, i can read. the police don't say shit unless it pretty much true. anyone with a half of brain could tell you that.a
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 11:56 AM. Reason : asdf] 7/17/2008 11:55:44 AM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
God Damn you are a fucking retard 7/17/2008 11:57:29 AM |
Jader All American 2869 Posts user info edit post |
tell the in-laws to stfu
Quote : | "the police don't say shit unless it pretty much true. " |
BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 11:58 AM. Reason : bwahahahaha]7/17/2008 11:57:47 AM |
wut Suspended 977 Posts user info edit post |
^ prolly cause they bought the freggin house on a subprime loan and the bitch reset causing their mortgage to shoot through the roof.
very common these days. 7/17/2008 11:58:59 AM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
^^^ hahaha stop the name calling. if i made a mistake because you have the "^^" pointing at me by mistake i'll take the blame. i do all my hos like that so i can keep peace
^^ show me some statements that the police has asserted anywhere and they turned out false. it happens i know, but it not common.
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 12:00 PM. Reason : asdf] 7/17/2008 11:59:01 AM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
In this PARTICULAR release, the POLICE have not said shit, not one word.
Read it again.
The family petitioned the court.
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 12:01 PM. Reason : s] 7/17/2008 12:01:06 PM |
DivaBaby19 Davidbaby19 45208 Posts user info edit post |
sd2nc
7/17/2008 12:01:35 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
we know, how many times do you have to repeat yourself like an autistic bastard, lol
you are misreading my post shall i break it down for you?
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 12:02 PM. Reason : asdf] 7/17/2008 12:01:54 PM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
I did it for you
Quote : | "i know who said what man, i can read. the police don't say shit unless it pretty much true. anyone with a half of brain could tell you that.a" |
Quote : | "back in what day? as far as i know the police always have put your info out to the public. its probably has even gotten better over the years, compared to back in the day." |
The police have not said anything The police have not said anything The police have not said anything The police have not said anything The police have not said anything The police have not said anything The police have not said anything The police have not said anything
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 12:04 PM. Reason : s]7/17/2008 12:04:06 PM |
YOMAMA Suspended 6218 Posts user info edit post |
Ohh lawld!!!
Let the games begin - Nancy Grace is going to have a field day with this one.
This is just the type of fuel to feed the fire that will get the national media even more involved. 7/17/2008 12:04:08 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "the police don't say shit unless it pretty much true." |
this is saying that the police have not said shit about this guy. they only speak when something is true. those are lies about the money, so the police did not say it. do you get it now?7/17/2008 12:05:25 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "[quote]back in what day? as far as i know the police always have put your info out to the public. its probably has even gotten better over the years, compared to back in the day." |
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thats just a general statement about what me and diva where talking about thx you very much 7/17/2008 12:06:54 PM |
DivaBaby19 Davidbaby19 45208 Posts user info edit post |
that just confused me 7/17/2008 12:10:05 PM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I don't like how they put everyone's business out in the streets like that.
If this guy is innocent, his life is over anyways." |
Quote : | "^^^ no its not. its not like they found porn on his pc or something. if they find out who killed her and it was not him, he'll be ok, as far as having a work life and such." |
I am sure he will be welcomed back with open arms after this information was released by the court
He was likely a normal guy enjoying a six-figure salary as a CCIE. If he is cleared of the charges, and even if Cisco takes him back, he is forever labeled as a suicidal, depressed, emotionally abusive miser to his peers and subordinates.
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 12:14 PM. Reason : d]7/17/2008 12:12:59 PM |
Jader All American 2869 Posts user info edit post |
sometimes, it's what you DON'T say 7/17/2008 12:14:34 PM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "hm, makes me wonder was she a good housewife as far as chores and such." |
You made my point right there. You already believe what the petition and his in-laws say as truth. This is why he is fucked if he wasn't the killer.
Shit, OJ wasn't the killer (heehee) and the man can't even get a seat in a restaurant.7/17/2008 12:20:31 PM |
wut Suspended 977 Posts user info edit post |
See if she would have stayed in the kitchen making sammiches and folding laundry like a good wifey she wouldnt be dead right now. 7/17/2008 12:25:23 PM |
moron All American 34142 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "^^^ isn't that where the media typically goes first? Hell, people in this thread started saying he did something to her on the second page before a body was even found
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Statistically, it's usually a family member in cases like this with missing people, not random thugs. The police very likely were eyeing him from day 1.7/17/2008 12:26:28 PM |
joe_schmoe All American 18758 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "Statistically, it's usually a family member in cases like this with missing people, not random thugs. The police very likely were eyeing him from day 1." |
and that's what i've been hollerin.
let's look at what we know:
(1) husband was having sex with another woman (2) the wife hired an attorney for separation/custody proceedings, and planned to take the children (3) husband was already a borderline basket case, with history of suicide attempts and threats
...
(4) wife goes missing and turns up dead shortly before separation/custody battle is to take place
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(5) husband says "what? i ain't seen her"
come on, people. this is straight out of the FBI homicide investigation handbook. Chapter 1.7/17/2008 12:36:48 PM |
YOMAMA Suspended 6218 Posts user info edit post |
Nice find -
http://www.adventuresofbrad.com/joomla/ 7/17/2008 12:49:50 PM |
Jader All American 2869 Posts user info edit post |
well at least we all know there will be a job available at cisco pretty soon. time to polish up the old resume. 7/17/2008 12:51:44 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "that just confused me" |
anything should confuse you, lol7/17/2008 1:07:18 PM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
^^ He was a VoIP CCIE. There's like 600 in the world. 7/17/2008 1:39:25 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
is whatever he was specialized for cicso, or is that something universal? if its specialized for them, then there a reason why its only 600 in the world. 7/17/2008 1:40:49 PM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
Universal. I don't know a ton about that certification, but I'm guessing he would get about $150,000/year no matter where he worked. 7/17/2008 1:43:41 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
i am sure more than 600 people can do it. only 600 really means nothing. its harder to become a chess grandmaster than anything i know of. thats a real title to earn for anyone. no amount of training of education can make you a chess grandmaster. its helps however. 7/17/2008 1:45:54 PM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
There are less than 600 people who have that particular cert. in the world, that's all I know. There are more than 1,000 chess grandmasters. They are both highly specialized in their fields of expertise.
Having limited technical knowledge, it would be easier for me to become a chess grandmaster than a VoIP CCIE. It's two very different things.
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 1:52 PM. Reason : f] 7/17/2008 1:51:11 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
hahaha just about anyone (i mean smart-relatively) cold probably get that cert, i would be anything in my possession that you know of no one (except me maybe ) that has the ability to even make a 2000 rating in chess or more, which is not even close to being a gm. books and classes are shit when it comes to chess. they help low rated players, but after a certain level nothing can prepare you to be a gm except your geometry of the mind.
Quote : | "it would be easier for me to become a chess grandmaster than a VoIP CCI" |
hahahaha
[Edited on July 17, 2008 at 1:54 PM. Reason : asdf]7/17/2008 1:54:12 PM |
DivaBaby19 Davidbaby19 45208 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "anything should confuse you, lol" |
wtf ever. I get confused when you talk in circles like that.7/17/2008 1:55:45 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
ok i will talk in squares from now on^2 7/17/2008 1:56:34 PM |
sd2nc All American 9963 Posts user info edit post |
seedless ,you may very well be one the best Chess players in the U.S., I have no clue.
But I can declare without a shadow of doubt that you are one of the biggest dipshits on this board, and countless others would be in full agreement. 7/17/2008 2:03:43 PM |
seedless All American 27142 Posts user info edit post |
yeah, i know it. i just talk shit sometimes, but most of time i am cool. lets be friends. :hug and daps: 7/17/2008 2:04:39 PM |
Jader All American 2869 Posts user info edit post |
^ haha 7/17/2008 2:06:27 PM |
Skack All American 31140 Posts user info edit post |
The CCIE is considered to be the networking equivalent to a doctorate. People generally spend years working towards it, but you can pretty much guarantee a six figure salary when you have it. There are close to 20,000 CCIEs in the world iirc, but it the VoIP test is one of the less popular ones. 7/17/2008 2:13:29 PM |