Ok so every guy with half a libido has always dreamed of having one with two girls.

Well I have recently started talking to this girl who's fairly experimental in the bedroom. I don't really know where things are going but she's probably not someone i'll end up taking home to mom, lets call her Mel. Anyway, while discussing this situation with another female friend of mine, lets call her Elaine, Elaine lets loose the whopper of a detail that she finds Mel hot!! Ok i'll rewind, Elaine is a girl i originally went after a few years ago. I got shut down and ended up in what i considered the friend zone, though i've only hung out w/ her a handful of times. So fast forward back to present. Elaine is fairly flirtatious on and off, she's apparently bi. She says she needs more female friends and wants to meet Mel. So the other day I talk to Mel and begin to broach the subject by asking if she's ever kissed another girl. Well this is where I get a little nervous. The unusually long aim delay killed me. The response: hell yea, I kiss girls all the time. xxxx (a female friend of hers) and I make out all the time. I then show her Elaine's myspace profile and tell her that she's a friend of mine and she thinks your hot. Mel then says that she would definitely make out with Elaine. This is right at the point where i have to run to class.

Anyway so thats the story up to now, any advice on how to proceed in setting this up? Don't most girls wanna try it, esp if they aren't opposed to kissing girls in the first place? I've also heard that it's best to not look stages at all, so over discussion of the intentions adds unnecessary pressure. So if you think all the parties involved would be into it you should just get everyone drunk and just start making moves on both of them. Oh and I've also heard body shots were INVENTED for this sort of thing. Particularly the double body shot.

9/8/2006 11:43:02 PM

Had the chance back in high school. Didn't realize the opportunity before it was too late. Regret it every day.

9/8/2006 11:43:47 PM

so thats like a pretty good first post right?

9/8/2006 11:46:21 PM

got lube?

9/8/2006 11:58:49 PM

ok tog is an alias

9/9/2006 12:03:01 AM

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"so thats like a pretty good first post right?"

not really lounge worth material . . . so no

9/9/2006 12:09:48 AM

all you got to do is get yourself and your girlfriend a facebook account

9/9/2006 12:19:22 AM

i fail to see how that helps anything

9/9/2006 12:21:06 AM

9/9/2006 12:21:58 AM

Based on what you've said it doesn't seem like either girl is interested in you.... just in each other (potentially). If your sleeping with Mel or w/e then thats different.

[Edited on September 9, 2006 at 2:10 AM. Reason : ed]

9/9/2006 2:09:47 AM

9/9/2006 2:15:51 AM

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"Based on what you've said it doesn't seem like either girl is interested in you.... just in each other"

You'll be standing there with your dick in ya own hands.

But I'd just jump in right when it got juicy and they werent looking.

Worth a shot, worst is ya get a good show and 5 seconds of vag, best is the whole bread and butter.

9/9/2006 3:02:30 AM

Ok tonight I went out with "Elaine" and it went really well. For the longer term I'm actually considering her, we had a talk and i think there is actually some potential. I told her that the only real reason i still had "mel" around was b/c of the threesome potential. She responded with agreement that she was aware of said intentions.

Mel is kinda pissing me off, but she's hot, and thats a temptation thats hard to deny. Thats why it took me six tries to finally get rid of my last gf. So this thing could still happen if I can just hold everything together.

So you probably need more detail as to why Mel is pissing me off for me to legitimize this whole quagmire. Mel lives a town over, she goes out every night. Our situation is somewhere between fwb and ... seeing where things go, whatever that means. There is no way could keep up with her, its just not gonna happen with school ramping up and such. So either she slows down, which i don't know if she's willing to do, or i'm giving up. Its hot and cold with her. She's out of school and has some bullshit job with gobs of free time. Of course that's a conversation i need to have w/ her. This could only happen now since school is still ramping up.


[Edited on September 9, 2006 at 5:17 AM. Reason : various details added]

9/9/2006 5:06:05 AM

Dude, you're asking a bunch of strangers, which means you're just looking for validation, which means you're going to do it eventually anyway. Just go to town.

9/9/2006 5:26:00 AM

yea its almost 6 in the morning, i'm not exactly sober either

9/9/2006 5:48:53 AM

Do it man.

Otherwise I am going to take Mel and Elaine for myself, you dirty little jew.

9/9/2006 6:11:25 AM

i think the only solution here,

is to post their myspace pages

9/9/2006 8:24:31 AM

put it in both their asses

YAAAAAAAAH

9/9/2006 8:30:31 AM

Yeah, cram them turdcutters full of dick.

9/9/2006 8:43:10 AM

First, I agree that we should have links to their myspace pages to accurately help you. Your definition of hot and mine are likely different and I may advise you to abort the operation because of this.

Second, if you go through with this, realize that neither relationship has long-term potential. This is a one-time deal or if you're lucky a few times, but it'll end and end badly.

Third, if this is going to happen, you are going to need some alcohol. Just make sure you don't get whiskey dick or they pass out.

9/9/2006 9:14:09 AM

this thread is pointless without pictures of the girls

9/9/2006 9:28:22 AM

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"Mel is kinda pissing me off, but she's hot, and thats a temptation thats hard to deny. "

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"Ok tonight I went out with "Elaine" and it went really well. For the longer term I'm actually considering her, we had a talk and i think there is actually some potential."

ha ha potential for drama = extremely high!!!

but it might be worth it if you pull off your menage-a-trois. Oh and I read in Cosmo or the Internet or some other reliable source that the most common reason threesomes fail is because the participants have different tolerances for body hair! So if you're a bear-man you might be in trouble.

9/9/2006 10:12:30 AM

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"i fail to see how that helps anything"

i donno, it worked for this guy..

http://thewolfweb.com/message_topic.aspx?topic=431319

9/9/2006 12:20:21 PM

BEAR MANNNN

9/9/2006 3:12:40 PM

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" Anyway so thats the story up to now, any advice on how to proceed in setting this up? Don't most girls wanna try it, esp if they aren't opposed to kissing girls in the first place?"

Most girls are willing to do crazy stuff even if they have boyfriends, as long as (1) they don’t feel like they’re being judged, (2) no one finds out about it, and (3) the right guy will capably and gradually lead them into doing it. The last thing is important because a girl doesn’t want to feel responsible for anything.

Alcohol is really unnecessary. If girls want to do it, then they will do it with the right guy. The alcohol will simply provide an excuse for the girls: i.e., “I’m not a slut. I was just drunk, and it just happened.”

If you want to pursue a threesome:
*Get them into a private place under some pretense: “Come back for an after-party”, “Let’s watch Laguna Beach,” whatever.
*Encourage physical contact between them in a playful way (light massage, etc.)
*Kiss one then the other, then either suggest they kiss or let them do it on their own.
*Let them make out for a bit so they can get used to it. Massage one then the other. This is a big deal for a girl, just like it would be a big deal if you were kissing another guy. So stand back and let them enjoy it. For the first fifteen minutes or so, make it about them--not you.
*In all likelihood, they will escalate things by themselves. If not, then lead gradually by example.
*Don’t talk about it beforehand. Don’t say shit like “Hey, do you want to have a threesome?” Just do it without saying anything about it.

[Edited on September 9, 2006 at 4:16 PM. Reason : edit]

9/9/2006 4:16:17 PM

JUST DO IT.

9/9/2006 4:32:40 PM

i bet they are fat and ugly

9/9/2006 5:02:21 PM

Aah dude they're smoke'n. One is about 5'5" 120lbs (rough guess) with a firm little apple ass. The other girl is a little taller around 135 (guessing), with big bouncy boobies. :-)
Thats all i'll say about that.

Good advice Keynes

Also nerd chick, it doesn't seem right to me that most people having threesomes are bearish? I don't have any back hair to worry about but your stat doesn't seem right for the "norm". Or is there some other common cause like muff rug burn or something? If so would getting a bit of a trim alleviate that? I find that trimming to far causes much more irritation for me than is really worth the effort. Guess thats a good argument for generous amounts of lube.

[Edited on September 9, 2006 at 6:07 PM. Reason : ..]

9/9/2006 6:06:12 PM