for about 4 years, and we've both dated only other people in the meantime. every now and then we'll get the urge to call each other, and we'll hang out and go do some stuff together. this will last a couple of weeks and we'll part. then a few months later, sometimes when either or both of us are single, and sometimes even when we're not, we'll get together and spend some harmless time together.

yesterday i called her out of the blue after almost a year and we went to this show. i have been with a few other girls since, and she's since broken up with her boyfriend, partly since they went to separate med schools. she said she tried to call me a week or so ago, but my number has since changed and she only now has it. after we parted last night, i felt like i should've made a move when we were talking outside of the auditorium. i just called her and made some plans.

i'm streaky as to how much luck i have with the ladies, but i am never ever nervous, and always have the nothing to lose killer instinct. obviously its different with her. i don't know who's more scared to take the first leap, but i know i'm the one that needs to make it happen.

2/24/2007 9:54:25 PM

well if you are just now hanging out again after not having seen her for a year and yall havent been anything in the past, itd prob be best for you to calm down for a while

sure a relationship could start or you may get some ass...but this isnt a movie, you would more likely come off as way too forward...which could blow the possibility for anything in the future

id say chill for a while, start to talk to her more frequently and just go with the flow

2/24/2007 11:00:49 PM

fuck that bitch in her ass

2/24/2007 11:54:46 PM

TWW is a blg

2/25/2007 12:03:25 AM

Interesting.
I have an uncanny ability to be terrific friends with a guy, and there is a very fine line (when I was single) between my friend and being my boyfriend. I treat the guys in my life a lot alike. I flirt and laugh and have fun with all of them. So I am wondering if the same thing is going on with this girl.

If you are really interested in her, you should use words to figure out what your mind can't process right now. Sometimes one word or phrase a guy says sticks in my head long after he is gone. I suggest trying something along the lines of "missing her". It could be taken as friendly or she could read into it. If she is anything like most girls, she'll read a hell of a lot into it and might then make the first move herself.

Plz to keep us posted

2/25/2007 12:18:40 AM

So are you just saying shit or are you wanting advice here?

2/25/2007 2:13:00 AM

don't give advice if you don't even know how to run your own love life

[Edited on February 25, 2007 at 2:15 AM. Reason : a]

2/25/2007 2:14:42 AM

who are you talking to?

2/25/2007 2:16:30 AM

Quote :

" Dom: Alright I think you're all set. So just go clean the pipes and lets go. Ted: Huh? Dom: You know clean the pipes. Ted: What do you mean clean the pipes? Dom: You choke the chicken before any big date don't you? Tell me you spank the monkey before any big date. Oh my God he doesn't flog the dolphin before a big date. Are you crazy? That's like going out there with a loaded gun! Of course that's why you're nervous. ... Dom: Look, after you've had sex with a girl and you're lying in bed with her, are you nervous? Ted: No Dom: No no you're not. Why? Ted: Because I'm tired. Dom: Wrong! It's cause you ain't got the baby batter in the brain anymore. That stuff will fuck your head up! Ted: Holly shit! I've been going out with a loaded gun. Dom: People get hurt that way. "

2/25/2007 3:23:06 AM

^ its true

i saw it in the movies man

2/25/2007 3:49:30 AM

it is so cute when boys worry about stuff like this.

2/25/2007 4:24:25 PM

Are you wanting it to be something more serious than hook-up buddies? If so, you need to make it clear, because if you keep hooking up and want something more, you're going to be hurt more if she says no than if she says no now. Good luck.

2/25/2007 6:48:47 PM

hmmmm, didnt get the impression they had hookup sex.

2/25/2007 7:50:56 PM

this is like one of those movies where young lovers get separated by wartime tragedy, go on to live their separate lives, have families, kids, etc... then when they meet again at some old folks bingo parlor in West Lauderdale, they fall in love all over again and reminisce about the good times they had in that English pub so many years ago....

but not really.

2/26/2007 12:58:56 AM

since this belongs in shit chat, i'll give it the proper response

"yo holmes, to bel air!"

[Edited on February 26, 2007 at 2:26 PM. Reason : .]

2/26/2007 2:26:46 PM

both of you get drunk and go back to your place saturday night...if "harmless" time continues then maybe that's where it should stay. at least then you'll know.

2/26/2007 4:10:32 PM

if you havent seen her in a while, I would go ahead and make a move before you become ""too good" of friends again...

2/27/2007 6:51:22 AM

Apply booze liberally and you'll find out what both of you are too afraid to say/do.

Get both of you drunk, at night, and on a couch.

2/27/2007 10:44:07 AM

Got to make some type of move...nothin overt but at least relay the message in some form that you feeling what is going on and interested in where things might go.

Wait to long....just friends zone
Too Emotional...desparate
Touch the ass too early...just looking for some ass


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2/27/2007 7:41:25 PM

^he is exactly right

2/27/2007 8:21:07 PM

< would have touched the ass already and found out either way...

2/28/2007 5:48:27 PM

^Nothing wrong with that...at some point and time we all just need some ass....I like touching the ass early too, u be suprised at the results...


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3/1/2007 2:44:19 PM