AtomicPoops Veteran 141 Posts user info edit post |
with someone you are interested in...
good or bad? would you be able to still look at them the same way or as a fuck buddy?
give me answers tww 10/3/2007 2:44:47 PM |
GraniteBalls Aging fast 12262 Posts user info edit post |
it's fine.
unless you're some sort of self-conscious fag. 10/3/2007 2:45:29 PM |
pwrstrkdf250 Suspended 60006 Posts user info edit post |
depends
probably not a good idea if you like them
then again, it doesn't matter too much... isn't the reason you're "dating" in the first place the fact that you find them attractive in some manner?
[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 2:51 PM. Reason : tmi lol] 10/3/2007 2:46:48 PM |
datman All American 4812 Posts user info edit post |
just dont make the relationship about sex
make it a good relationship and it doesnt matter 10/3/2007 2:47:31 PM |
terpball All American 22489 Posts user info edit post |
You really think about shit like this? Are you a girl? 10/3/2007 2:47:41 PM |
AtomicPoops Veteran 141 Posts user info edit post |
i dont want this girl thinkin im some sort of manwhore. i dont know how this shit works 10/3/2007 2:49:18 PM |
pwrstrkdf250 Suspended 60006 Posts user info edit post |
haha whatever
most girls are dirtier than guys when it comes to that shit 10/3/2007 2:49:53 PM |
pilgrimshoes Suspended 63151 Posts user info edit post |
look it wasnt 3 hours
and how can she think that about you, when she did it too.
50/50 10/3/2007 2:50:19 PM |
GraniteBalls Aging fast 12262 Posts user info edit post |
You mean you don't want to walk around thinking she's a whore.
AMIRIGHT? 10/3/2007 2:50:27 PM |
sparky Garage Mod 12301 Posts user info edit post |
not a good idea if you like here. at the very minimum stick to the three date rule. 10/3/2007 3:01:24 PM |
BobbyDigital Thots and Prayers 41777 Posts user info edit post |
Any girl who makes a guy she likes wait more than one she doesn't is a whore. She has fucked a lot of guys. There are NO EXCEPTIONS to this.
[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:03 PM. Reason : EDIT: I just realized the original poster is a dude. I assumed it was a female based on the content] 10/3/2007 3:02:53 PM |
Aficionado Suspended 22518 Posts user info edit post |
^ what? 10/3/2007 3:03:47 PM |
terpball All American 22489 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I just realized the original poster is a dude. I assumed it was a female based on the content" |
Quote : | "You really think about shit like this? Are you a girl?
" |
Stop acting and thinking like a girl unless you're a homo, then it would be okay10/3/2007 3:05:59 PM |
AtomicPoops Veteran 141 Posts user info edit post |
please rephrase that first part bobbydigital
so basically im fucked by fuckin her 10/3/2007 3:06:16 PM |
terpball All American 22489 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "so basically im fucked by fuckin her" |
STOP
YOU ARE A MALE
SEX WITH WOMEN IS A GOOD THING10/3/2007 3:07:43 PM |
ncsuapex SpaceForRent 37776 Posts user info edit post |
dude, she fucked you after 3 days. She's a slut, get over it.
And give me her #. 10/3/2007 3:09:51 PM |
StillFuchsia All American 18941 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "just dont make the relationship about sex
make it a good relationship and it doesnt matter" |
though if you're fucking after three days, it has more of a tendency to develop into the former rather than the latter
you probably should've waited, but she's not going to think you're a whore ('cause you're a guy)
though she's probably not going to think of you as "relationship material" either, to be fair
[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:15 PM. Reason : .]10/3/2007 3:11:00 PM |
BobbyDigital Thots and Prayers 41777 Posts user info edit post |
^^^^
Let me put it this way:
Why would you withhold sex from a girl that you LIKE whereas you would not withhold sex from a girl that you DIDN'T LIKE.
This tells me that you have a very skewed perception of sex.
Or that you're dishonest and want to hide it. Which is much worse than being a slut.
[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:13 PM. Reason : af] 10/3/2007 3:11:01 PM |
AtomicPoops Veteran 141 Posts user info edit post |
i dont have sex that often as it is. But if i dont like the bitch then i dont care if i talk to her again. If i do like her, however, then i want it to be more than just sex with her. 10/3/2007 3:15:47 PM |
ssclark Black and Proud 14179 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | " This tells me that you have a very skewed perception of sex.
Or that you're dishonest and want to hide it. Which is much worse than being a slut. " |
/thread10/3/2007 3:15:47 PM |
Squirt All American 5656 Posts user info edit post |
It depends on the type of person she is... If she is a flakey girl, then you're fucked! If she likes you and is mature, you may not have anything to worry about... Then she might have only wanted sex.. if thats the case you have yourself a fuckbuddy
Either way you're in the good... Either 1) you find out she's flakey (and you dont want that in a girl) 2) you find out that you both like sex (plus 10!) but are mature enough to not make it all about that 3) you have a fuckbuddy, which can eventually turn into something more... 10/3/2007 3:15:56 PM |
Jeepin4x4 #Pack9 35771 Posts user info edit post |
just tell her you dont want to make it a habit yet. you like her, would like to have a relationship with her and let the sex fit into the pieces of that puzzle.
its not that hard as long as you talk to someone and not be a complete mope about it. 10/3/2007 3:18:36 PM |
BobbyDigital Thots and Prayers 41777 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "But if i dont like the bitch then i dont care if i talk to her again. If i do like her, however, then i want it to be more than just sex with her." |
If this isn't something that you feel that you can be up front about to a girl that you do like, then maybe you should re-think your strategy.
That would also eliminate the conundrum that inspired this thread.10/3/2007 3:18:53 PM |
TheBullDoza All American 7117 Posts user info edit post |
AtomicPoops
LOL...nice handle
and your missing the point....you got laid....deal with it
[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:39 PM. Reason : d] 10/3/2007 3:38:25 PM |
pwrstrkdf250 Suspended 60006 Posts user info edit post |
I firmly believe that there are more girls that put out on the first or second date than there are those that wait...
or maybe I'm just a likable guy with a great personality
honestly, I'm to the point that if I like her I don't care
if I don't like her, I'm not gonna be "dating" her nor will I be trying to have sex with her
[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 3:39 PM. Reason : ...] 10/3/2007 3:39:22 PM |
QTPie All American 7496 Posts user info edit post |
While I personally wouldn't choose to have sex with someone after 3 days, it really just depends on how it happened and what your intentions are now.
If you had a drunk hook up and plan to be friends and nothing else, ooopsie... prob not going to happen.
Since you're interested, lets remember she did it too - which again, we aren't going to judge.
I know people who waited a year to have sex - I know people who waited until marriage to have sex - I know people who had sex after a week, and others 2 dates. All of those specifics mentioned are now married to each other, so there's definitely a way to make it work in any circumstance.... just how you proceed that matters.
Just live, be happy, call the girl, and don't treat her like a schmuck... you'll be just fine.
[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 4:06 PM. Reason : ] 10/3/2007 4:06:24 PM |
Str8BacardiL ************ 41737 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I just realized the original poster is a dude. I assumed it was a female based on the content" |
Quote : | "You really think about shit like this? Are you a girl?
" |
Stop acting and thinking like a girl10/3/2007 4:06:42 PM |
Str8BacardiL ************ 41737 Posts user info edit post |
At first when I read the thread title I thought you had been having sex for three days and had already gotten bored with it, this is the gayest thread ever. 10/3/2007 4:08:27 PM |
TheBullDoza All American 7117 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "you'll be just fine." |
10/3/2007 4:10:06 PM |
Snewf All American 63296 Posts user info edit post |
what's a good relationship? 10/3/2007 4:24:18 PM |
sjfreema All American 928 Posts user info edit post |
just keep hittin it. if you enjoy the persons company, things may work out. at least you'll be gettin some play in the mean time. 10/3/2007 4:28:03 PM |
ambrosia1231 eeeeeeeeeevil 76471 Posts user info edit post |
If she sees it as problematic, she's more trouble than she's worth. 10/3/2007 4:30:56 PM |
gunzz IS NÚMERO UNO 68205 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "though she's probably not going to think of you as "relationship material" either, to be fair" |
well, i wouldnt think any girl that would let me hit it after 3 days wouldnt be any type of relationship material except for just fucking10/3/2007 4:31:54 PM |
pwrstrkdf250 Suspended 60006 Posts user info edit post |
can't make a ho a housewife 10/3/2007 4:32:37 PM |
FykalJpn All American 17209 Posts user info edit post |
wrap it up b. 10/3/2007 4:32:58 PM |
ambrosia1231 eeeeeeeeeevil 76471 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "well, i wouldnt think any girl that would let me hit it after 3 days wouldnt be any type of relationship material except for just fucking" |
Where's that line, then?
IMO, it's less about time, and more about attraction.
I think for my bf and I it was only 4 or 5 days
I'm sure there are folks who would call that slutty, but I don't give a damn. Sluttiness and "relationship material" aren't mutually exclusive.10/3/2007 4:36:40 PM |
gunzz IS NÚMERO UNO 68205 Posts user info edit post |
to your point, christine...it goes both ways if both parties are ready for it and it "works" then go for it
[Edited on October 3, 2007 at 4:38 PM. Reason : i was just replying to what Stillfarvra said] 10/3/2007 4:38:06 PM |
datman All American 4812 Posts user info edit post |
yea, see it all depends.
hey if people can fuck around behind their wife or husband....
there are plenty of people out there that its ok to do that 10/3/2007 4:40:13 PM |
josephlava21 All American 2613 Posts user info edit post |
i have done it on the first night and had a long term relationship but she was married and took her rings off before we had sex and that didn't bother me so maybe i am from a different mold. 10/3/2007 4:41:59 PM |
PrufrockNCSU All American 24415 Posts user info edit post |
I'm comfortably jaded to the point that this thread is merely humorous. 10/3/2007 4:47:00 PM |
datman All American 4812 Posts user info edit post |
yea, i guess i put too much into relationships.
like i actually make sex something that i share with someone i really really like and maybe even love
its funny how its just like people get in relationships to fuck and hopefully it works out
this world is fucking crazy 10/3/2007 4:51:35 PM |
pwrstrkdf250 Suspended 60006 Posts user info edit post |
lol I dated a girl for over three years that started that way 10/3/2007 4:54:41 PM |
gunzz IS NÚMERO UNO 68205 Posts user info edit post |
yeah, ive dated a few girls for an extended period of time from just fucking the first few nights we hung out
i've also had sluts that fucked me on the first night that turned out to be tramps that tried to also fuck my friends after i thought we had an understanding
dont get me wrong...its no fun unless your homies get some but still wait a few weeks 10/3/2007 4:58:54 PM |
pwrstrkdf250 Suspended 60006 Posts user info edit post |
haha inorite 10/3/2007 4:59:57 PM |
terpball All American 22489 Posts user info edit post |
10/3/2007 5:01:31 PM |
Wraith All American 27193 Posts user info edit post |
^^^If you wait a few weeks then you don't get to all go on Maury! 10/3/2007 5:05:23 PM |
SymeGuy69 All American 11036 Posts user info edit post |
I'm with you, datman. [no homo] 10/3/2007 5:06:28 PM |
pwrstrkdf250 Suspended 60006 Posts user info edit post |
Well, if Kurupt gave a fuck about a bitch I'd always be broke 10/3/2007 5:08:43 PM |
gunzz IS NÚMERO UNO 68205 Posts user info edit post |
i'd neva have no muthafucking endo to smoke 10/3/2007 5:10:28 PM |
Str8BacardiL ************ 41737 Posts user info edit post |
ID NEVER HAVE NO MOTHAFUCKING INDO TO SMOKE! 10/3/2007 5:10:30 PM |