pawprint All American 5203 Posts user info edit post |
I know there are a ton of sites online that explain how to write one...but I am preparing to deliver mine tomorrow and I'm not sure about the method of delivery.
I am transferring schools and school systems.
Which would be better... To hand my Principal the letter and sit there while he reads it.
To meet with him, explain I am transferring, then hand him the letter.
To meet with him, explain I am transferring, no letter.
Do I even need to write a letter?
Just background info...I'm transferring in the fall, I have to finish my year out at my current school, and we are leaving on good terms. The only reason I am telling him this early is because the job fair is Friday and he needs to know before then.
When should I tell my students also?
Help! 3/30/2008 11:28:30 AM |
drunknloaded Suspended 147487 Posts user info edit post |
meet, explain, hand letter 3/30/2008 11:29:54 AM |
Drovkin All American 8438 Posts user info edit post |
wait till a friday, email letter at 3:15ish, then leave early for the weekend 3/30/2008 11:31:15 AM |
AxlBonBach All American 45550 Posts user info edit post |
sit down with him and discuss it
get his blessing, etc.
then deliver the notice. 3/30/2008 11:32:14 AM |
pawprint All American 5203 Posts user info edit post |
So meet and then give him the letter at a later date?
I hate to say it..but I don't need his blessing... I already got the job at the other school...Interviewed Monday, found out Wednesday.
I'm transferring to a school that is closer to home. I am not unhappy where I currently teacher but I think I could be happier....esp. driving 35 minutes each way being cut to 15. 3/30/2008 11:37:52 AM |
markgoal All American 15996 Posts user info edit post |
When I did this I met and explained, then discussed transition/end date/etc. The written notice should be more or less a formality, just indicating formal notice of the last day. 3/30/2008 11:39:41 AM |
nacstate All American 3785 Posts user info edit post |
as far as explaining it, do they really have the right to know details?
and I don't see why you'd need their blessing. They wouldn't need your blessing to fire you. 3/30/2008 12:18:59 PM |
SandSanta All American 22435 Posts user info edit post |
Actually if you're meeting him you tell him to his face. 3/30/2008 12:25:24 PM |
jackleg All American 170957 Posts user info edit post |
isnt that gonna be bad for the kids?
i thought teachers were in it for the children and not for themselves. why not just wait till summer? 3/30/2008 12:40:37 PM |
Malagoat All American 7117 Posts user info edit post |
she said she was finishing the year and transferring in the fall.... 3/30/2008 12:51:20 PM |
Str8BacardiL ************ 41754 Posts user info edit post |
Do like the guy on half baked did when he quite the pizza place. 3/30/2008 12:58:26 PM |
AxlBonBach All American 45550 Posts user info edit post |
you don't NEED their blessing, of course. However, there's a level of formality and respect that you should show them, as they've given you the opportunity that you've enjoyed at your current place of work.
the lesson here is simple: don't burn that bridge unless you absolutely must do so.
you can leave WITHOUT pissing them off.
[Edited on March 30, 2008 at 1:08 PM. Reason : and don't pull that "YOU DON'T NEED MY REASONS" bullshit. ] 3/30/2008 1:06:45 PM |
roddy All American 25834 Posts user info edit post |
i transfered within the same agency...
I just wrote that was what I was doing...gave them two weeks(they said it was ok to just do a week because I had to move to the east coast) I left on VERY good terms and they fully supported my decision(much better opportunity for career growth).....you never know when that can come in handy in the future....
[Edited on March 30, 2008 at 1:42 PM. Reason : w] 3/30/2008 1:37:05 PM |
BrookeRuff Meredith "Angel" 7599 Posts user info edit post |
When I moved schools I just talked to my principal about it so she could find someone to take over for the next school year. She had me fill out a form saying I wasn't coming back, but I didn't write a letter.
I didn't tell my students until the last day of school. It worked best that way for the kids- they didn't have to worry or be upset. And when I told them, I explained how important it was for me to move closer to home. 3/30/2008 1:49:26 PM |
ncsurcombs Veteran 383 Posts user info edit post |
meet with him and discuss your intentions then hand him the letter after you are finished for documentation purposes 3/30/2008 2:02:03 PM |
pawprint All American 5203 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "isnt that gonna be bad for the kids?
i thought teachers were in it for the children and not for themselves. why not just wait till summer?" |
I am transferring in the fall. I wouldn't transfer in the middle of the year. That is tough on the kids and on me.
And as far as me being in it for the kids...I think being well rested and happy makes you a much better teacher so we have to keep ourselves happy. I am moving to a better school where I can teach other subjects and have some room to grow professionally.
And yeah, I think I will tell them the last day. It's going to be hard to keep it a secret though. My students just did their schedules and a lot of them were like, "LOOK!! I'm going to have your class in the Fall!!"
3/30/2008 2:19:29 PM |
appamali All American 4479 Posts user info edit post |
I don't think the kids will really care for more then a day.... 3/30/2008 3:31:33 PM |
philihp All American 8349 Posts user info edit post |
When you do your formal meeting discussing why you're leaving, don't say anything bad about your employer. It's easy to, because you can let out all the things you've kept to yourself, but don't be tempted, it will come back to haunt you when you need a reference. 3/30/2008 4:18:08 PM |
skokiaan All American 26447 Posts user info edit post |
I don't think the kids will really care for more than a day.... 3/30/2008 11:07:49 PM |
nacstate All American 3785 Posts user info edit post |
when I leave my current job, which will hopefuly be soon, I plan on just saying an opportunity I can't pass up was offered to me.
I definitely won't mention why I didn't want to work there anymore and was open to new jobs. I don't plan on needing a good reference from them in the future. 3/30/2008 11:44:54 PM |
optmusprimer All American 30318 Posts user info edit post |
3/31/2008 12:42:14 AM |
hooksaw All American 16500 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "you don't NEED their blessing, of course. However, there's a level of formality and respect that you should show them, as they've given you the opportunity that you've enjoyed at your current place of work.
the lesson here is simple: don't burn that bridge unless you absolutely must do so.
you can leave WITHOUT pissing them off." |
http://jobsearch.about.com/od/resignationletters/qt/resign.htm3/31/2008 3:56:40 AM |
swoakley All American 1725 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "I don't think the kids will really care for more then a day...." |
If pawprint is a good teacher then that is an absolutely not true. When I set my schedules, I planned it around teachers more than classes.
And if at all possible leave on good terms.
Meet, discuss, letter. At the same time.
[Edited on March 31, 2008 at 5:42 AM. Reason : .]3/31/2008 5:40:17 AM |
richthofen All American 15758 Posts user info edit post |
+1 to meet, explain, then letter.
Quote : | "as far as explaining it, do they really have the right to know details?
and I don't see why you'd need their blessing. They wouldn't need your blessing to fire you." |
While they may not have the "right" to know details, if you're leaving on good terms, no reason not to tell them why (in a manner highlighting the positive aspects of the new job and omitting the negative aspects of the current one). It's going to be taken a lot better to have an actual conversation with the principal than to just hand over a brief letter.3/31/2008 9:07:58 AM |
Agent 0 All American 5677 Posts user info edit post |
think of it this way
youre supporting the cottage industry of substitute teachers by creating jobs 3/31/2008 9:21:49 AM |
markgoal All American 15996 Posts user info edit post |
Even if you don't particularly in depth in the details, you should give them a face to face conversation. For example, your reason for leaving could simply be that it seems like a better fit personally, for professional development, etc. I wouldn't take it as an opportunity to list all the negatives about your current job. 3/31/2008 9:30:49 AM |
baonest All American 47902 Posts user info edit post |
so, 2 weeks notice.
is that 14 days (work days)
or 2 work weeks, 10 days.
[Edited on March 31, 2008 at 9:46 PM. Reason : ] 3/31/2008 9:43:07 PM |
Aficionado Suspended 22518 Posts user info edit post |
10 business days
always use business days 3/31/2008 9:50:23 PM |
jackleg All American 170957 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "she said she was finishing the year and transferring in the fall...." |
i apologize, pawprint
i totally missed that. i think i misread and thought it said you were leaving on friday. it makes a lot more sense now, i couldn't see another school encouraging that kind of behavior and pulling a teacher.3/31/2008 10:17:40 PM |
baonest All American 47902 Posts user info edit post |
^^thanks 3/31/2008 10:19:44 PM |
Str8BacardiL ************ 41754 Posts user info edit post |
4/5/2008 3:50:45 PM |
pawprint All American 5203 Posts user info edit post |
It went surprisingly well. I met with him and just explained and then peaced out at the end of lunch....So now, June 13th and I'm OUT! 4/5/2008 9:04:36 PM |
moonman All American 8685 Posts user info edit post |
Principals are used to losing teachers every year for any number of reasons. They're not gonna be offended. 4/6/2008 11:27:27 AM |
ncsukat All American 1896 Posts user info edit post |
Quote : | "i couldn't see another school encouraging that kind of behavior and pulling a teacher." |
Wake Cty allowed my little sister's teacher to leave mid-year to dedicate herself full-time to opening a new charter school slated to open in the Fall. The kids didn't find out until about a week before, and she just disappeared. All of the kids were devastated for weeks, and the new teacher completely changed their environment. I thought it was very distasteful of her teacher.
Anyway! Meet with the principal, discuss... and if you know an official end date, then present the letter at the end of the meeting. If you don't, wait until you do-- that way it will be officially in writing, not just a verbal agreement.4/6/2008 9:49:11 PM |
nacstate All American 3785 Posts user info edit post |
So I got official confirmation from the new job that I can start whenever I like. I have to give two weeks notice here, so should I do that tomorrow making it effective monday, or will first thing monday be ok?
I'm sort of nervous about it...I always have that sense of loyalty that leaving them will put them in a bad spot...especially after only being here 10 months. 6/19/2008 11:02:39 AM |
myerlyn All American 1319 Posts user info edit post |
Do it ASAP. If it will help them out and if you can manage it give them a 3-4 week notice. Give them a little more time to fill your spot. 6/19/2008 11:08:07 AM |
nacstate All American 3785 Posts user info edit post |
they're getting two weeks. Thats all thats required, and I need to go ahead and get into the new position for financial reasons. 6/19/2008 11:56:29 AM |
David0603 All American 12764 Posts user info edit post |
Do it tomorrow. They'll bee in a better mood anyway since it is Friday and you won't have to worry about it all weekend long. 6/19/2008 1:39:21 PM |
CassTheSass cupid 35382 Posts user info edit post |
you want to give him the letter to keep in your files so it doesn't look like you just up and quit without notice. it basically looks good on your part to say you gave notice.
i would meet with him, explain to him your reasons for leaving, thank him for the opportunity to work at the school and the experience you've gained, and then give him the letter for him to keep in your files.
when i turned in my resignation last fall, my boss wasn't the office then (he came in late) so i left the letter on his desk. he ended up not talking to me for the last 2 weeks i worked there. it made things very difficult. 6/19/2008 4:59:20 PM |
nacstate All American 3785 Posts user info edit post |
I hope there's no hard feelings and they're like "don't worry about your two weeks, you can just go."
I need that paycheck! 6/19/2008 10:51:31 PM |
nacstate All American 3785 Posts user info edit post |
now the question is do I give it to them at the beginning of the day or as I'm out the door.
HAVE A NICE WEEKEND GUYS, OH YEAH I QUIT. 6/20/2008 8:59:31 AM |
BigDave41 All American 1301 Posts user info edit post |
shortly after lunch 6/20/2008 9:24:51 AM |
nacstate All American 3785 Posts user info edit post |
well that went well, my supervisor seemed happy for me.
I don't think the assistant dean of the department will be as thrilled though. They're already hiring for a programmer, and now they'll need a new web editor as well. He wanted someone who could commit at least 2 years when they hired me. I had no intention of leaving after 9 months, but I couldn't pass up the opportunity.
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