Ok, so here's the story... This girl that I went to high school with and I both went to State for freshmen year 2 years ago. We were kind of friends in high school, but didn't really talk a lot. When we got to school we started hanging out A LOT. She had a boyfriend at the time so I never really tried to make a serious move but they broke up after not too long. I really really liked her a lot (i refuse to use "the word") and we messed around a little bit but nothing ever really happened. She always knew what I wanted but she was basically just using me because she couldn't be with this other guy so it never really materialized into anything legit.

Anyway, a little after half way through the year she flipped out like the psycho bitch that she is and I just completely stopped hanging out with her for awhile. Eventually she somehow climbed her way back into my life and I occasionally hung out with her some more, but not nearly as much. She went back home and didn't go here last year and I only saw her twice all last year and I wasn't trying to do shit with her because she's a crazy bitch.

It took me all last year to really start getting over her and I just recently got around to deleting her out of Facebook/AIM/phone and all that shit when she didn't reply to a message that I put a lot of thought into one day. But the other day she texts me and tells me that she's coming back this year and that she wants to hang out with me when she gets here. I tell her, "We'll see" and she says she didn't think it would be a big deal and I tell her it isn't, but it's going to be when she realizes I deleted her off Facebook and shit. But yeah, that's the situation.

Some random info about the situation:
I really, really enjoyed just spending time with her.
I don't know first-hand, but all signs point to her being pretty fucking good in bed.
She's bi.
I've heard she has gotten an STD in the past year or so but I don't know for sure and I don't even know what it was so it could be gone.
She has perfect tits. I mean they are literally perfect.

I don't know what I should do though. I certainly would love to try to have a relationship with her if she wants to also, but I don't know if that's what she wants. I'm bound to see her at some point during the year because of mutual friends and such. But why would she send me those texts letting me know she was coming back when she didn't respond to my messages a couple weeks earlier? I'm 100% sure she misses me as a friend but I don't want to put myself through her bullshit again if she doesn't feel the same way I do.

I am far too naive to understand her motives so someone tell me what her fucking deal is.

7/28/2008 11:34:53 AM

Anyone got the Cliffs Notes?

7/28/2008 11:35:46 AM

women are crazy, yes?

7/28/2008 11:36:35 AM

pics or it didn't happen

7/28/2008 11:37:00 AM

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"she didn't think it would be a big deal and I tell her it isn't, but it's going to be when she realizes I deleted her off Facebook and shit."

OH GOD YOU'RE IN TROUBLE NOW

7/28/2008 11:37:20 AM

all I had to do was read this part:

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"I've heard she has gotten an STD in the past year or so but I don't know for sure"

not worth it dude

7/28/2008 11:38:00 AM

Dude... more trouble than its worth unless you like drama... RUN!

7/28/2008 11:38:02 AM

dude, if you have an inkling that she's crazy stay far far away, because that inkling is only the tip of the iceberg.

7/28/2008 11:38:29 AM

Inorite? Because if you're not friends on Facebook it's the end of the world.

7/28/2008 11:39:18 AM

the hidden crazy is the problem

7/28/2008 11:39:19 AM

my guess is he's certain she's crazy just needs to get a lil action and is asking if its worth it...

No, no it is not, Move on.

7/28/2008 11:39:34 AM

what the fuck is this?

you're worried about a girl finding out that you took her off of facebook?

7/28/2008 11:39:49 AM

here, I will post this again in case you missed it

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"I've heard she has gotten an STD in the past year or so but I don't know for sure "

7/28/2008 11:40:13 AM

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"Inorite? Because if you're not friends on Facebook it's the end of the world."

That's gonna be her opinion. I couldn't give a fuck less.

7/28/2008 11:40:14 AM

oh crap! i missed the facebook bit!

this is seriousness!

7/28/2008 11:40:25 AM

The Facebook thing is a relatively minor issue in the grand scheme of this thing.

7/28/2008 11:40:58 AM

Third time's a charm:

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"I've heard she has gotten an STD in the past year or so but I don't know for sure "

7/28/2008 11:41:22 AM

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"I don't know first-hand, but all signs point to her being pretty fucking good in bed. She's bi. I've heard she has gotten an STD in the past year or so but I don't know for sure and I don't even know what it was so it could be gone. She has perfect tits. I mean they are literally perfect."

Dude, really? Chicks like this will make you miserable. If you think you need a girl that has a perfect body or is wild in the sack, go ahead and catch yourself an std. Make sure it's a curable one. Then, after you've learned your lesson about crazy women, find somebody fun.

7/28/2008 11:42:04 AM

I get that and that's the thing that's pushing me farthest away from this too, but I also don't know for sure that she had anything or if it was one you can get rid of.

And she was fun as shit. Honestly, it didn't seem like her craziness was incurable (as much as you can cure a woman from being crazy), but she was definitely going through a hard time herself and I feel like a year and a half of maturing might have been very beneficial for her. If she's still fucking nuts then there's no question to be honest, but I don't know if she is or not.

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 11:45 AM. Reason : ]

7/28/2008 11:42:40 AM

why is it even worth the risk? there are plenty of clean chicks that are good in bed

not to mention she is a mental case to boot

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 11:43 AM. Reason : a]

7/28/2008 11:43:31 AM

DATING IS NOT THIS HARD

7/28/2008 11:43:44 AM

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"my stupid whore problem"

you answered your own question

7/28/2008 11:44:33 AM

just get the fuck rid of her

she's going to make you miserable, period

i've been there

7/28/2008 11:44:39 AM

blood tests FTW

7/28/2008 11:45:40 AM

not only will she make him miserable, but she might give him a disease in the process. talk about a double whammy

7/28/2008 11:45:42 AM

No, STD is definitely a dealbreaker. I feel like that's one of the best things I've got going for me (being disease free)

7/28/2008 11:46:19 AM

i agree with the other posters in this thread. if she is already a "stupid whore" in your mind, then why even consider it?

7/28/2008 11:47:15 AM

I don't see this turning into anything better for you. sorry yo.

7/28/2008 11:47:20 AM

are you high? b/c you're saying some pretty dumb shit and i wanted to know if there was an outside reason behind it.

so you like her, she doesn't like you. she will sleep with anyone BUT you. this is getting good.

7/28/2008 11:47:59 AM

Guys nver seem to understand this part:

JUST ASK HER WHAT YOU'RE ASKING US!!! ASK HER "Why did you not reply to that message I sent you [however long] ago?" AND YOU'LL GET THE ANSWER YOU'RE LOOKING FOR.

Oh yeah, depending on how you sent the message could mean that she never got it.

7/28/2008 11:48:49 AM

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"I really really liked her a lot (i refuse to use "the word") and we messed around a little bit but nothing ever really happened."

Dude, if you're flipping out in such a way over this chick that you didn't even fuck, what're you going to do when you finally get some? And I'm not being shitty--have you been laid?

Oh, and the whole/hole STD thing.

Forget her.

7/28/2008 11:49:17 AM

I use that terminology very loosely. It's kinda like multiplying by -1. If you really really like someone then let's say you like them +100. But if they do something that pisses you off really bad it's like multiplying by -1 and now you like them -100. I still have very strong feelings for her and another negative flip would probably put her back in good standing with me.

Small line between love and hate kinda thing...

^ Man, I liked her a lot and that's all I can say. They can make you do some crazy shit and that's all I can answer you on that with. And yes I have had sex.

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 11:52 AM. Reason : ]

7/28/2008 11:49:40 AM

^ Boy, I done told you to forget her. When you bust that nut--not in her questionable vag, I hope--you're going to go crazier than a shithouse rat!

Grab the reins! Don't let your wagon go in her ditch!

7/28/2008 11:56:09 AM

I was already heavily leaning towards not trying to do anything with her but I felt like I was too weak on my own. I just needed everyone to tell me how much of a dumbass I am to bolster me in my fight. Thank you TWW, you have served your purpose well.

7/28/2008 11:58:30 AM

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"I've heard she has gotten an STD in the past year or so but I don't know for sure "

My last actually g/f had one of these a year before we dated whatever the fuck she had resulted in PID. Of course she was bi and I was young. She didn't tell me she had had an STD before until after we did got to the point in the relationship where i was hittin' it bareback.

Needless to say, she was crazy and I had lots of blood tests since. I'm clean, but I'm going to make that question a priority when I think about sticking it to a chick bareback again.

7/28/2008 12:39:06 PM

I think I speak on behalf of all of us when I ask, are you two still friends on MySpace??

7/28/2008 12:41:34 PM

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"Anyway, a little after half way through the year she flipped out like the psycho bitch that she is and I just completely stopped hanging out with her for awhile. Eventually she somehow climbed her way back into my life"

sounds like you left out half the story...

7/28/2008 12:42:36 PM

rule #1

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"pics or it didn't happen"

7/28/2008 12:43:27 PM

move in with me... introduce me to her... and i'll bang it out so you dont have to. You can be her friends and not do anything sexual with her.



PROFIT

[Edited on July 28, 2008 at 12:47 PM. Reason : x ]

7/28/2008 12:46:54 PM

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"She always knew what I wanted but she was basically just using me because she couldn't be with this other guy so it never really materialized into anything legit."

This is the key part of the story IMO

I'd bwn her, but she definitely doesn't sound like relationship material.

7/28/2008 1:50:57 PM

i wouldn't do anything with her. she sounds crazy and even if you just slept with her you'd probably get attached or want something more (since you've wanted that in the past, i'm sure sex would only fuel that feeling) and she'll still be crazy and it won't work and you'll get screwed (not in a good way) in the end.

find someone else. lots of fish in the sea.

7/28/2008 1:54:28 PM

at best you screw her and get an STD

at worst you screw her and get AIDS

7/28/2008 1:55:16 PM

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" She's bi. She has perfect tits. I mean they are literally perfect. "

Wife the bitch

7/28/2008 1:56:56 PM

wtf are you talking about? did you read? ^^

7/28/2008 3:17:35 PM

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7/28/2008 3:19:22 PM

OMG I am so in love with this girl. She gave me a ride home and she was totally cool as hell. I wanted to ask her to come in and sleep over right on the spot, but thankfully I wasn't quite drunk enough for that. I don't know what to do...

8/22/2008 12:14:50 AM

perfect tits? MARRY HER. that shit is permanent, g.

8/22/2008 12:19:03 AM

cue Iron Maiden "Run to the Hills"

8/22/2008 12:19:26 AM

I fucking hate myself for it, but I can't stop thinking about her, B.

8/22/2008 12:20:46 AM