...a picky eater?

A female writer says:

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"Dining out, like sex, should be a sensual, indulgent experience. Get too fussy at the table (dressing on the side) and they think you're high-maintenance in the bedroom. It's no wonder, then, that when men get a glimpse of my extensive food rule book — nothing spicy, no condiments, no red meat or seafood, no mixing of sauces — they flee."

http://lifestyle.msn.com/relationships/articlemcmatch.aspx?cp-documentid=14163225

Does it turn you off when a woman has an "extensive food rule book"?

12/14/2008 9:43:23 PM

bahaha. i guess this is why DNL thinks vegetarians are turn-offs...

12/14/2008 9:44:12 PM

i really don't care. i'd still bwn

12/14/2008 9:44:26 PM

i could care less as long as she's suckin' at the end of the night

12/14/2008 9:44:47 PM

it can be frustrating but hardly a deal breaker

12/14/2008 9:44:50 PM

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"i could care less "

12/14/2008 9:46:00 PM

ha

ok this actually pisses me off because i was raised to be opportunistic and take what i get and be thankful and i both agree with and live that philosophy


so i mean i put up with it, but im put off by it tremendously

thats why i have a severe dislike for so-called dining connoisseurs on here and people who wont eat at a place if it has less than a 97 rating

its not cuz it makes me feel like they are high maintenance, i just simply dislike that attitude

12/14/2008 9:46:13 PM

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"DNL thinks vegetarians are turn-offs..."

12/14/2008 9:46:29 PM

as long as she doesn't order a $20 meal and only take 3 bites, I can deal with it

12/14/2008 9:46:52 PM

It's very annoying when you go to a restaraunt, and she can't find anything on the menu except a house salad.
And then, even with the salad, it's always "light dressing on the side, no cheese, whole wheat croutons"

yes - men like it when women are able to eat and drink just like they do. Not that every man is a stereotypical red-meat fanatic, but it really is easier when women can eat burgers and fries, or don't mind getting wings occasionally, or are willing to try middle eastern or Indian food, etc

12/14/2008 9:46:54 PM

hahahah...I use on the side a lot when I am ordering stuff. I have often been compared to Sally...When Harry Met Sally

12/14/2008 9:46:58 PM

i dont care bout vegetarians either way, there are many reasons to be vegetarians and only a few of those reasons are bullshit to me

i just hate outspokeness about it

12/14/2008 9:47:38 PM

i think it's a turn-off when anyone is a picky eater

12/14/2008 9:47:40 PM

it can be really frustrating when you are living with someone. I hate the inconvenience of always trying to pander to a gf's finicky tastes - especially when I'm the one that always cooks.

12/14/2008 9:48:07 PM

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"It's very annoying when you go to a restaraunt, and she can't find anything on the menu except a house salad. And then, even with the salad, it's always "light dressing on the side, no cheese, whole wheat croutons""

Awww, she probably just doesn't want to be a fatty.

12/14/2008 9:48:25 PM

if the food comes out slightly wrong but isn't completely ruined and still manageable and a hissy fit is started because things were not fixed as ordered...

that's really annoying and a complete turn-off

12/14/2008 9:49:15 PM

its hard to enjoy a date when you feel like some girl is sittin there pickin at a salad wishin she were somewhere else

that part of it is annoying also

12/14/2008 9:49:24 PM

^x4 my ex was always really good at finding meals we could both eat. Pizzas, pastas, sandwiches...it's not really that different. I don't even eat tofu or anything "weird".

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 9:50 PM. Reason : a]

12/14/2008 9:50:31 PM

once we were at a restaurant and i ordered something and ended up not liking it. i asked for a box so i could take it home and the bf could eat it and ordered something else instead. i didn't make a big deal out of it but everyone else did, like i was being such a bitch because i wouldn't eat it. that pissed me off

12/14/2008 9:51:00 PM

^^im sure your tastes are reflected in everyone that he may be talking about

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 9:51 PM. Reason : f]

12/14/2008 9:51:34 PM

She got some dressing on the side alright.

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12/14/2008 9:51:46 PM

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"Does it turn you off when a woman has an "extensive food rule book"?"

Yes, it does.

12/14/2008 9:52:05 PM

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"once we were at a restaurant and i ordered something and ended up not liking it. i asked for a box so i could take it home and the bf could eat it and ordered something else instead. i didn't make a big deal out of it but everyone else did, like i was being such a bitch because i wouldn't eat it. that pissed me off"

did you say you didn't like but still wanted to take it home?

or did you just say you wanted a box?

because those are 2 completely different things

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 9:53 PM. Reason : asdfgh]

12/14/2008 9:52:11 PM

I am currently on a high protein low carb diet so I guess I could be viewed as a picky eater. If it were up to me, I would just go to Golden Corral every night and eat as much meat from the buffet that I can stuff in my face. Chicks tend to not be into that.

12/14/2008 9:52:25 PM

If a person is picky and they like you that should be taken as a compliment.

12/14/2008 9:52:35 PM

twoozles, i think that's a good move. i mean, you could have complained and asked for the manager and then refused to tip the server....that would merit you being called a bitch. but i think you handled that situation well

and ^ is a neat way of thinking.

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 9:54 PM. Reason : .]

12/14/2008 9:52:35 PM

I didn't think I'd mind this...

until I dated this one girl that was a picky eater

that shit was annoying to see her pick through every meal for the things that she actually wanted to eat...


she wasn't stingy in the bedroom, but....


goddamn, I would take her to a nice restaurant....and she would order a caesar salad....and then pick out every piece of chicken and tomato....and leave everything else....looking at me with a pissed off look


fuck that ho

12/14/2008 9:53:11 PM

^^^^ha ive come to accept that girls dont like buffets


or brazilian steakhouses...thats ok

im sure EMCE feels me, haha i hate picking

and they get mad if you finish the plate off for em

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 9:54 PM. Reason : d]

12/14/2008 9:53:34 PM

i asked for a box to take it home because it wasn't what i was expecting

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 9:54 PM. Reason : ]

12/14/2008 9:53:37 PM

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"If it were up to me, I would just go to Golden Corral every night and eat as much meat from the buffet that I can stuff in my face. Chicks tend to not be into that."

I <3 the GC.

12/14/2008 9:54:19 PM

Yeah, Brazillian steak houses are my shit. Too bad I can't afford that shit but once a week, MAX

12/14/2008 9:54:51 PM

my gf always eats more than me... but my metabolism is slowing.


often, she has seconds at supper


few times, she has seconds in bed

12/14/2008 9:54:52 PM

^^^you should go more often beanpole

^^ill be damned if im payin for some girl to eat cold squid on a salad for 2 hours at a steakhouse

tell that ho to flip that card to green or shes walkin home

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 9:56 PM. Reason : f]

12/14/2008 9:55:12 PM

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"im sure your tastes are reflected in everyone that he may be talking about "

lol

12/14/2008 9:55:25 PM

unadventurous eaters are an incredible turn off

it just seems so childish

12/14/2008 9:55:51 PM

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"you should go more often beanpole"

I know. I need to try out a Brazilian steakhouse and see if I'd like that too.

12/14/2008 9:56:29 PM

Yes.


It certainly does mean you're high-maintenance, male or female

12/14/2008 9:57:44 PM

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"tell that ho to flip that card to green or shes walkin home"

and that is my LOL for the night. GG

12/14/2008 9:57:58 PM

being picky is not a turnoff... hell, i date a vegan and its

however people who arent open minded to try new things, that is a definite turnoff.

12/14/2008 10:00:02 PM

on an unrelated note...

I was at a bar last night and there was a girl at a table next to me that licked her fingers every time she took a bite of her burger or fries. And i mean down to the second and third knuckles, full on tongue action.

12/14/2008 10:01:43 PM

now thats a woman that interests me

she enjoys her food


i also hate when women "eat " chicken wings and leave a plate full of "dumbbells"

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 10:03 PM. Reason : d]

12/14/2008 10:02:48 PM

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"and they get mad if you finish the plate off for em"

I don't mind that.

12/14/2008 10:04:03 PM

i went to dinner last night and one of my friends seriously killed like 3 trees with the amount of napkins she used. we were eating pizza @ mellow mushroom, and she didn't use a fork/knife, and so she'd wipe her hands and mouth ONCE per napkin. The waitress had to come by THREE TIMES to remove the pile of napkins that was starting to take over our table...

i would think something like that is more of a turn-off.

12/14/2008 10:04:19 PM

ha...i use alot of napkins when i eat

i cant say anything bout that one

12/14/2008 10:05:24 PM

To OP: YES.

12/14/2008 10:05:45 PM

^5 my brother does that shit.

Luckily, I'll scavenge the fuck out of a wing as long as I know who was eating on it first.

[Edited on December 14, 2008 at 10:06 PM. Reason : f]

12/14/2008 10:06:08 PM

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"being picky is not a turnoff... hell, i date a vegan and its however people who arent open minded to try new things, that is a definite turnoff. "

what if they refuse to try eating new animals because of the vegan thing?

12/14/2008 10:06:32 PM

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"I was at a bar last night and there was a girl at a table next to me that licked her fingers every time she took a bite of her burger or fries. And i mean down to the second and third knuckles, full on tongue action."

I dated a guy who did this to ALL FIVE FINGERS after almost every bite. And slurped loudly with each finger-sucking.

That's more of a turn-off than a picky eater is to me.

12/14/2008 10:06:47 PM

yeah, I always have to "finish" chicks' chicken wings when we get them. They leave all kinds of meat on that shit. When you eat wings you better just leave bones.

12/14/2008 10:07:19 PM

^^^ Deal. Breaker.

12/14/2008 10:07:24 PM