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TenaciousC
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wear a piece of lingerie an ex gave you when entertaining a new guy, if the new guy doesn't know the origins of said lingerie?

12/27/2008 7:48:23 PM

BigMan157
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sure

next question.

12/27/2008 7:48:39 PM

Yodajammies
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ref calls it fair game.

12/27/2008 7:49:39 PM

vonjordan3
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as long as you do him

12/27/2008 7:50:13 PM

dweedle
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same thing as using condoms you bought during the tenure of an ex-gf, but on the new girl

12/27/2008 7:51:07 PM

ncsuapex
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Add to my topics

12/27/2008 7:51:26 PM

TenaciousC
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^^ not quite the same...

12/27/2008 7:51:56 PM

pttyndal
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as long as it's on the floor before the night is over

12/27/2008 7:53:22 PM

cddweller
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I mean, condoms come pre-wrapped in a box with a price sticker on them, and are used once, whereas lingerie has an association... so long as you're comfortable, I guess that's all that matters as long as he doesn't find out.

12/27/2008 7:53:57 PM

dweedle
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meh

same in the guy's eyes...point is that it's no big deal

12/27/2008 7:54:01 PM

Smath74
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slut.

12/27/2008 7:54:33 PM

TenaciousC
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[Edited on December 27, 2008 at 7:56 PM. Reason : nevermind]

12/27/2008 7:55:44 PM

vonjordan3
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does this mean you are not going to do him?

12/27/2008 7:56:40 PM

Smath74
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^^you don't have to have sex to act like a slut.

[Edited on December 27, 2008 at 7:57 PM. Reason : ]

12/27/2008 7:56:46 PM

ncsuapex
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tease

12/27/2008 7:56:47 PM

ndmetcal
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the general rule of thumb is, if you have to ask whether something is right or wrong, then that's typically a sign that it's not the right thing to do

12/27/2008 7:58:08 PM

TenaciousC
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so let me get this straight...

if a girl sleeps with a guy, she's a slut
but if she doesn't sleep with a guy, she's a tease.


You all make lots of sense

[Edited on December 27, 2008 at 8:00 PM. Reason : and this isn't even my lingerie we're talking about]

12/27/2008 7:58:26 PM

vonjordan3
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If you are wearing some panties from another guy you sure as hell better give some up

12/27/2008 7:59:43 PM

ndmetcal
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also, obligatory 'pics or didn't happen' post

12/27/2008 8:00:44 PM

GGMon
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Your only a whore if you let him spunk on your face.

12/27/2008 8:01:04 PM

ncsuapex
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If you wear lingerie and don't fuck him then yes you are a tease

12/27/2008 8:01:20 PM

NCSUWolfy
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yes

lingere is always ok, no matter where it came from or who has seen it before

12/27/2008 9:33:41 PM

Kurtis636
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Of course it's okay.

12/27/2008 9:34:20 PM

drunknloaded
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Quote :
"you don't have to have sex to act like a slut."


agreed...i know a few virgins that are slutty as fuck(just because you are a virgin doesnt mean i'm talking about you...)

12/27/2008 9:36:39 PM

iphotou
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"sure

next question."

12/27/2008 9:40:50 PM

sarijoul
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as long as there are no cum stains on said lingerie.

12/27/2008 9:42:35 PM

scud
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wow apparently I'm in the minority here:

If I gave something special to somebody I cared about - I'd like to think it was put into retirement or something

12/27/2008 9:52:30 PM

sarijoul
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obviously if you broke up with someone, you don't care about them all that much anymore. that or they don't care about you. or they're dead. if they're dead, you should probably retire it.

12/27/2008 9:55:44 PM

iphotou
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^ think of it as regifting

12/27/2008 9:56:22 PM

RSXTypeS
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"^^ not quite the same..."


you're right. Using condoms from a box you bought with another girl shouldn't even be a question. Lingerie on the other hand is questionable.

12/27/2008 10:44:20 PM

Queef Sweat
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i consider it a slap in the face to the ex. if it were my girl, i'd be all like.. yeah ho, i'm fucking you now and that motherfucker bought you that shit thinkin only he'd get to see it. yeahhhh bitch.

and then she'd suck me off ya herd?

12/27/2008 10:51:37 PM

Kiwi
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That's why you don't let SO's buy you lingerie.

12/27/2008 10:52:06 PM

Big Business
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i guarantee you the guy won't give a fuck. if he does, i'll give you my number.

I'm Big Business and i approved this message.

12/27/2008 10:53:11 PM

pawprint
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That shit is expensive...I say if you bought it yourself, do as you please but if it was a gift from an ex, throw it away. I have lingerie that ex's have seen that I wear for my current SO but I purchased it myself. I'd feel weird wearing something for him that another guy bought for me.

12/28/2008 1:00:24 AM

Queef Sweat
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what? fuck that noise. seriously, i wouldn't give a shit.

1. don't ask don't tell no homo
2. who cares, he's not getting to see it anymore and you still got the goods, win win for me

12/28/2008 1:02:54 AM

Shadowrunner
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It makes no sense to throw it away; that's so wasteful.

No sense being all sentimental, we're talking about fucking.

12/28/2008 1:06:32 AM

pawprint
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I didn't say I cared what the guy thought...and I didn't say I would throw it away because my current SO would care or that I would get all sentimental over it.

I personally would choose to throw it away because I wouldn't want to wear it for him if it were bought by an ex. If I'm wearing lingerie, I want to feel sexy...and nothing about my ex's makes me go wild. I would rather my current guy get me something he wants to see me in instead of what my ex liked anyhow.

And in general, lingerie is wasteful...just a string or two and wham, you just spent $40-$80 bucks.. If you cared so much about waste, you would say don't buy it to begin with.

[Edited on December 28, 2008 at 1:15 AM. Reason : ..]

12/28/2008 1:14:14 AM

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new question:

what about toys, fair game for new partners? give them back when you break up? throw them out? whats the rule?

12/28/2008 1:15:50 AM

Jaybee1200
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STOP USING "SAID"

12/28/2008 1:16:18 AM

drunknloaded
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what if your current one was like "yeah i think you'd look pretty good in this, please wear it?"

12/28/2008 1:16:36 AM

pawprint
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hahahaha...
Good question. Can new boyfriend wear old boyfriend's cockrings? Or would throwing them out be wasteful?

[Edited on December 28, 2008 at 1:20 AM. Reason : ..]

12/28/2008 1:16:49 AM

drunknloaded
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damn

12/28/2008 1:17:46 AM

pooljobs
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this shit is a lot more expensive than it looks, i think re-gifting toys should be allowed

12/28/2008 1:17:57 AM

pawprint
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I think giving back a used toy would just be too strange. I mean, here's the break up box...pictures, dried flowers, ticket stubs, jewelry...a blue jelly dong with a rotating head...?

12/28/2008 1:22:33 AM

Shadowrunner
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Quote :
"I personally would choose to throw it away because I wouldn't want to wear it for him if it were bought by an ex. If I'm wearing lingerie, I want to feel sexy...and nothing about my ex's makes me go wild. I would rather my current guy get me something he wants to see me in instead of what my ex liked anyhow."


And see, this is you being sentimental. If the outfit would make you feel sexy if your current bf gave it to you, but not your ex, then you're being sentimental about its origins. It is a garment; it should make you feel sexy if you look sexy wearing it.

[Edited on December 28, 2008 at 1:23 AM. Reason : ]

12/28/2008 1:23:06 AM

Fermat
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i always space on the fact that tenacious is a chick

so i was like "what"

12/28/2008 1:27:04 AM

pawprint
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Not if that garment reminded me of the night that we did it on the sheepskin rug in front of the fireplace in the mountain cabin. That last thing I want to or should be thinking about while with my boyfriend is my ex.

To me, sentimental means mushy gushy emotion laden thoughts of the past...

And I don't get sentimental thinking about sex with exes.

I have this shirt I wore on a first date and whenever I wear it, I am reminded of that first date. It just HAPPENS.

[Edited on December 28, 2008 at 1:32 AM. Reason : ...]

12/28/2008 1:30:36 AM

Shadowrunner
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Whatever word you want to call it, you're attaching more meaning to the garment than the garment itself. I would say that's being sentimental whether it's in a good way or a bad way, but maybe it was confusing since most people think of "sentimental" as a good sense of nostalgia.

If you can't help but be reminded of those kinds of things, then do what you want with it, I guess. Maybe it's just my baser caveman instincts talking here, but I don't even remember what particular piece of lingerie my wife wore on any night of our honeymoon.

12/28/2008 1:35:58 AM

pawprint
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haha but if you ask her, I bet she will remember. If she had you wearing some ridiculous piece of lace up your ass crack, you might be a little more aware of what you wore and when.

I can't remember every sexual episode I had in every piece of lingerie, but I am definitely reminded of certain things while wearing certain outfits, lingerie or not.

I agree with scud's post above. Just get some more. You can never have too much lingerie!

12/28/2008 1:39:26 AM

drunknloaded
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set em up

12/28/2008 1:41:34 AM

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