But I can't end the relationship. The prospect of causing her that much pain makes me okay with sacrificing my own chance for happiness to save hers.

Oh, TWW, what to do?



On a side note, I hate cats and the NFL post season really blows ass this year.


I don't really hate cats, they're cute sometimes.

1/11/2009 6:07:53 AM

nah I think you were right the first time with the hating cats thing. They are useless.

and clearly you need to dump the chick. I'll do it if you want. Ill take her out to a nice dinner, do it real classylike. She won't know what hit her

1/11/2009 6:22:54 AM

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"She won't know what hit her"

that's what he said...

1/11/2009 6:25:11 AM

1/11/2009 7:04:20 AM

man up and dump her
you both deserve to be happy....and she's not going to be truly happy with someone that isn't in love her either.

1/11/2009 8:45:15 AM

don't forget to hit it one last time.

1/11/2009 8:55:02 AM

You can do what I do and just make her break up with you. Find some minor flaw with her and obsess over it until it causes so many problems in the relationship that she grows to resent you and then breaks up with you. Then, after you break up you can realize that you made a mistake and try to apologize and get her back only to learn that your plan worked too well thus breaking your heart.

Actually, that really doesn't sound as good when you see it typed out in words. Maybe you should just tell her how you feel.

1/11/2009 8:55:32 AM

Lol, holy shit, whatever happened to being honest? lolol

1/11/2009 9:35:12 AM

^^ dead on and so true. That has been my way of breaking up - and its backfired the F back at me in that same way...

Ask if yourself if you can learn to love her in time....what's wrong with her that you don't love her, but she loves you? It's taken me longer to fall in love with one girl than another.

There's not much "getting back together" after you break up....the trust is already gone and its never the same -- besides after people date others the "getting back together" is just about jealous and doomed to fail in a month or two.

1/11/2009 9:55:18 AM

1/11/2009 9:58:54 AM

paging Zerrah


you guys could rub each other all day

1/11/2009 10:00:31 AM

Best game of the NFL Post Season starts in about 2.5 hours

1/11/2009 10:19:34 AM

i just hope the one that starts in 6.5 hours isnt as shitty as week 11

1/11/2009 10:21:03 AM

Body massage

1/11/2009 11:16:26 AM

Uh, what did he just say to us???

1/11/2009 11:18:11 AM

do whaat saps did

1/11/2009 11:18:46 AM

fleetwud wins.

1/11/2009 11:19:33 AM

after you do it point her here: message_topic.aspx?topic=553935

1/11/2009 11:19:57 AM

so your thinking of sacrificing happiness? how many years do you think you can pull this off for?

1/11/2009 11:28:38 AM

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"man up and dump her you both deserve to be happy....and she's not going to be truly happy with someone that isn't in love her either."

cheers, breaking up sucks, but putting it off makes it even worse.

Break up now and give her some time to mope and lose a little weight before skirt season so she can go out and find someone better suited to her.

1/11/2009 11:46:54 AM

i have a hard time believing men do anything because they don't want a girl to hurt

1/11/2009 11:47:22 AM

Keep her around until you find someone else. Then dumping her will be easy.

1/11/2009 11:48:57 AM

such is why half the relationships now a days are failures because of this.

1/11/2009 11:51:43 AM

1/11/2009 11:54:09 AM

Start making ridiculous demands, such as blowjobs 5x a day, 3sums with her friends, her paying the rent, etc.

At least get something before you ditch the bitch.

1/11/2009 12:26:46 PM

not a bad idea

[Edited on January 11, 2009 at 12:38 PM. Reason : unless of course you're eyeing one of her friends]

1/11/2009 12:38:05 PM

You could start continue publishing a web comic on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.

[Edited on January 11, 2009 at 12:40 PM. Reason : .]

1/11/2009 12:39:53 PM

don't forget to hit it one last time.

1/11/2009 12:48:29 PM

no IDB no care

1/11/2009 12:50:24 PM

in dis bitch?

1/11/2009 12:51:08 PM

Sounds like my life right now. Been battling this shit for 6 months, but it will end Tuesday, Best of luck!

1/11/2009 8:45:08 PM

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"i have a hard time believing men do anything because they don't want a girl to hurt"

i hope you're not this bitter in public



but anyway I know what you're all saying, this is really just me coping with the fact that I'll miss the fuck out of her when I finally do end it. Oh well, such is life. Thanks for the attention, everyone!


go steelers, my sincere condolences to mr. rivers

[Edited on January 12, 2009 at 4:12 AM. Reason : ^ best to you as well]

1/12/2009 4:12:07 AM