Ok this is NOT for me, no way shape or form am I this girl. I am posting for a twwer to protect his identity...but he wants to know:

If a guy, who is fun to be with and attractive, asks you to be his girl on the side - when you know he is in a committed relationship... would you do it? What would make you say yes, what would be no

ps. he is hung

but if u seriously have a friend that you think it could work with..its better than a stranger, ya know

he's looking for a mutual thing like the girl has a bf also etc.

[Edited on January 27, 2009 at 5:16 PM. Reason : k]

1/27/2009 5:12:12 PM

are you asking for permission to be a slut?

1/27/2009 5:13:02 PM

lol at this


i support you goldengirl, and your 'friend'

1/27/2009 5:13:02 PM

i didn't realize that people gave formal invitations to be their "girl on the side".

1/27/2009 5:13:34 PM

haha nice - this screams success

1/27/2009 5:14:03 PM

nobody fucking cares

1/27/2009 5:14:13 PM

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"ps. he is hung "

1/27/2009 5:14:29 PM

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay

1/27/2009 5:14:43 PM

being a side piece is nothing even remotely close to being friends with benefits


that being said...


he's a pussy

1/27/2009 5:14:53 PM

I know I said to protect my identity, but I don't care anymore

p.s., thanks for making this thread for me GoldenGirl

1/27/2009 5:14:58 PM

he's looking for a mutual thing like the girl has a bf also etc.

1/27/2009 5:14:59 PM

Quote :

"ps. he is hung"

1/27/2009 5:15:08 PM

1/27/2009 5:15:18 PM

Quote :

"ps. he is hung "

lol

I'm Big Business and i approved this message.

1/27/2009 5:15:25 PM

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"asks you to be his girl on the side - when you know he is in a committed relationship"

1/27/2009 5:15:25 PM

the guy in question is a douche bag and the girl would be a huge slut

to me, this is unacceptable any way you look at it.

if you are in a relationship and are not named Hugh Hefner then you do the right thing.

cheaters fucking suck

1/27/2009 5:15:48 PM

Yeah, to me, someone who says they are in a "committed relationship" and then looks for some 'tang on the side is an asshole.

nice friends you have there.

1/27/2009 5:15:52 PM

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" but if u seriously have a friend that you think it could work with..its better than a stranger, ya know "

i'm gonna need an explanation for that one.

I'm Big Business and i approved this message.

1/27/2009 5:16:52 PM

this thread has way more views than it should

1/27/2009 5:17:09 PM

haha

I have done this before, granted I didn't know about the other girl for a long while. I didn't stop hooking up after finding out for about 4 months , then I broke it off.

1/27/2009 5:17:10 PM

I know i tell him this all the time. BUT i can't stop him.

1/27/2009 5:17:57 PM

i used to be of the opinion "if he's gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat...so it may as well be with me so i can get something out of it...."


yeah....i took that too far once and learned my lesson


both of them suck of they do it

1/27/2009 5:17:58 PM

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"if he's gonna cheat, he's gonna cheat...so it may as well be with me so i can get something out of it...."

holy crap

lol

and people say women are never funny

I'm Big Business and i approved this message.

1/27/2009 5:18:50 PM

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"I know i tell him this all the time. BUT i can't stop him."

AND they guy is a huge pussy for not posting this himself

you can always tell his GF that hes a cheating bastard. i know that i would want to know if my sig other was banging someone else

1/27/2009 5:19:48 PM

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"Yeah, to me, someone who says they are in a "committed relationship" and then looks for some 'tang on the side is an asshole."

1/27/2009 5:20:18 PM

It's tricky to pull it off for an extended period of time. I worked that angle with a girl for about 2 years. She was engaged, I had a girlfriend. Both of us could keep a secret. It was pretty harmless.

1/27/2009 5:20:46 PM

i like you and all goldgengirl but you had to know this wouldnt end well

1/27/2009 5:21:52 PM

She's a slut.

Quote :

"I am posting for a twwer to protect his identity...but he wants to know: .... he is hung"

I think some guy is just trying to convince you that he's a player with a fat cock.

1/27/2009 5:22:06 PM

If your friend is this uneasy about the situation, I don't see him having the confidence and the moves to pull this off.

You said he is hung. Is he also good-looking, sexy, an excellent lover? Is he an interesting person with good conversational skills and an easy-going nature?

Those qualities plus a little bit of patience (to handle the drama smoothly) make him a prime candidate for doing it with two women.

1/27/2009 5:22:15 PM

do whatever makes you happy

Unless you're 35+, the rules of Monogamy don't apply

1/27/2009 5:22:16 PM

^^^ haha

and ^^ niiiice

1/27/2009 5:24:07 PM

A woman's thought process on being the bang buddy while a guy is in a committed relationship:

1) I am banging him to gain his favor and/or love
2) I don't mind that I don't get the attention and time I would get from him in a relationship because:
3) Soon he'll leave the other girl for me and:
4) He won't cheat on me despite the fact that that's how this thing started.

If it weren't for women the Tyra Banks show wouldn't have guests

1/27/2009 5:24:11 PM

the he is hung part was a joke! he's reading this thread right now!

I really think he's gay. I tell him that all the time.

& I dunno if his sig. other is on tww or not. so don't want her to get mad at me.

[Edited on January 27, 2009 at 5:25 PM. Reason : d]

1/27/2009 5:24:17 PM

^^there might not have ever been more truth in a post

1/27/2009 5:25:25 PM

ive done this with success on multiple times...it aint hard fellas

1/27/2009 5:26:15 PM

I guess there are just some chicks who get moist thinking about the promiscuities of their lover.

1/27/2009 5:27:25 PM

my cocks probably longer and thicker and more turgid that 99 percent of you fucks

and even for me, its hard to juggle more than 3 or more girls at once without things getting confusing

Thats why you color code them by mixing up the races too...you won't call your white girl Tamika by mistake

1/27/2009 5:28:58 PM

Girls like thinking that they can inspire people to change.

Also, girls are stupid.

1/27/2009 5:29:01 PM

Quote :

"i didn't realize that people gave formal invitations to be their "girl on the side"."

1/27/2009 5:29:31 PM

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"so don't want her to get mad at me. "

why would she get mad at you...she should be happy for you outing that cheating bastard

no one is saying its hard .... we are saying that its fucked up if you are in a committed relationship.

if you dont want to fuck the same piece then dont commit to the girl and lead her on.

1/27/2009 5:29:32 PM

Quote :

"FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS"

1/27/2009 5:29:55 PM

perhaps he should send it on a nice letterhead or something

maybe some caligraphy

i dont know

1/27/2009 5:31:45 PM

He has had someone him approach him but then i think he chickened.

1/27/2009 5:32:54 PM

people who cheat on their girlfriends or cheat with someone they know is in a relationship are setting a precedent that will be hard for them to control when they get older...meaning married.

and then you got a little thing called alienation of affection and alimony to worry about. $$$

1/27/2009 5:35:46 PM

im ashamed of you guys. you're all supposed to post nicely and pretend you agree with what he's doing that. That way when he sees everyone thinks it is ok, he will come out of hiding.. then we can figure out who the douchebag is.

1/27/2009 5:39:33 PM

Quote :

"the guy in question is a douche bag and the girl would be a huge slut to me, this is unacceptable any way you look at it. if you are in a relationship and are not named Hugh Hefner then you do the right thing. cheaters fucking suck"

1/27/2009 5:40:09 PM

maybe seeing this thread and everyone's responses will reiterate what I have been telling him all along and cheating is not right.

1/27/2009 5:42:36 PM

or maybe he'll continue to be a dumbass.

1/27/2009 5:43:26 PM

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"If it weren't for women the Tyra Banks show wouldn't have guests"

10/10

1/27/2009 5:47:59 PM

set up the FWB

1/27/2009 5:50:07 PM